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Title: Miscarriage
Post by: lher0277 on May 28, 2010, 03:18:21 pm

 :-[ I am so sad, I'm in the hospital today and I have delivered my 14 week old fetus. I left for my 16 week check up and there was no heartbeat. I had a little boy and he was as big as my hand just a tiny bit smaller. I already have kids and have had miscarriages before so I was prepared for this day but it doesn't make it any easier to lose a child even though he never had a chance to live in the outside. He was still a part of me and I will miss him so much. I just wanted to share my story and appreciate you taking the time to read it.  :-[

Title: Re: Miscarriage
Post by: jamie8788 on May 28, 2010, 03:27:21 pm

I am  so  sorry. Hope  you  fill  better  soon.

Title: Re: Miscarriage
Post by: lher0277 on May 28, 2010, 03:33:11 pm

Quote from: jamie8788 on May 28, 2010, 03:27:21 pm

I am  so  sorry. Hope  you  fill  better  soon.

Thanks

Title: Re: Miscarriage
Post by: candyterrius on May 28, 2010, 04:13:53 pm

So sorry to hear about your misfortunes. Your loss of your child and house being robbed.  :(  Hang in there and be strong. I personally feel whenever we have to go through such suffering in life, there's an opportunity for us to repent and grow as an individual. Just bear in mind there are other people who experience even greater pain than yours. You're not alone.

Title: Re: Miscarriage
Post by: jorhea on May 28, 2010, 04:33:39 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. I know the pain and the things people say, thinking they are making it better. (Like - at least the baby never was born so you did not get to know it) My youngest is now 11 and she was born with spina bifida. Before we had her, we had 3 miscarriages. One of them was twins, one was growing fine, the other stopped growing and had no heartbeat. The doctor kept saying that maybe the one that didn't make it would "slip" and the other baby would be ok, but that was not the case, we lost them both.  I don't care what anyone says, once you discover you are pregnant, that baby is a part of you whether it makes it the full 9 months or not. Unless you have been through it, you will never know the hurt and heartache that comes with a miscarriage.

Title: Re: Miscarriage
Post by: girlswin2 on May 28, 2010, 07:29:47 pm

I'm am so sorry.  Hope you get better real soon.  Will be praying for you.   :heart:

Title: Re: Miscarriage
Post by: dreamyxo on May 28, 2010, 07:52:28 pm

I'm sorry for your loss.

Title: Re: Miscarriage
Post by: lbeery on May 28, 2010, 09:50:38 pm

I am so, so, sorry for your and your family's loss.  It seems to me that this is always a very crushing blow.  May God  bless you and ease your pain.

Title: Re: Miscarriage
Post by: brl4790 on May 28, 2010, 10:11:49 pm

This always is tough to hear about. A co-worker of mine and his fiancee just lost their sixth baby.  :crybaby2: That's just not right.