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Title: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: sherieann_glino08 on July 08, 2010, 12:02:02 pm

i just happen to see the websites visited by my husband and its about finding some escort grls or hookers to meet here in our town..i got so mad that i haven't talked to him since yesterday..i know he'll ask me to understand him again just like what he asked me about his other dating websites..i don't know what to do..he just won't stop..and it's breaking me apart..

Title: Re: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: sandiegosurfer on July 08, 2010, 12:32:52 pm

oh no!  I mean is he just looking or he is actually physically engaging in acts? I mean men look at women and *bleep* but it doesn't mean they are hooking up with *bleep* people or screwing other women. What was his response to you? Can you trust him? Has he ever been unfaithful or lied to you before?

Title: Re: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: GoGoKokiGo on July 08, 2010, 12:34:11 pm

I have given a chance to someone after I caught them talking to another girl and not in a "friend" way on the internet. It went well and never happened again. Luckily seeing as the days after I found out were hell and a half. I couldn't sleep, forgot to eat and was pissed through out the day and got nothing done. If it did happen again however, that would be it. Over. Done. No mas. First time shame on you second time shame on me. I feel for you and what you're going through but you shouldn't have to take this. I'm sure you're doing all you can and being faithful but if your partner isn't putting in the same effort...what's the point? Also seeing as this is I'm thinking the second time you've caught this, there should be no more chances. Are you willing to forgive again? What will it be like if it happens again? You shouldn't have to be hurt by someone you love.

Title: Re: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: sherieann_glino08 on July 08, 2010, 12:51:15 pm

well..all he's telling me is he enjoy flirting with girls and i should understand that..we have a two year old dughter..he was always like that..checking his emails everyday to see if some of his chatmates are online..then look at dating websites again..i haven't talked to him yet..since yesterday..i think now his mad at me for looking in the computer,,well its his fault he didn't erase the history..its just driving me crazy..and he knows i never ever join things like that or chat with someone else..really heart breaking

Title: Re: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: tigerlilly01 on July 09, 2010, 05:26:41 pm

D I V O R C E   :sad1: :sad1: :sad1: THAT IS WHAT I DID TWICE TO MY CHEATING HUSBANDS.....
I now finally have a great one! :peace:

Title: Re: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: dkanofsky on July 13, 2010, 12:28:27 pm

I don't, I've been happily married for years!

Title: Re: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: Cheryldawn on July 13, 2010, 01:44:43 pm

I kicked my husband out when I found out that he was cheating.He told me to understand.I said yea,I understand that you just lost your home,me an our kids.Good bye!!!.
I hate cheaters.

Title: Re: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: Elizabethar on July 13, 2010, 02:15:36 pm

I would tell him hit the road Jake don't you come back here no more. I just hope there no kids . I Know It's hard for the kids. Good luck.

Title: Re: how do you handle cheating partners
Post by: brittanywhite1 on July 13, 2010, 05:29:43 pm

i dont.lol i just get rid of them. Theres more fish out n the sea