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Title: Marriage
Post by: livefree03 on July 31, 2010, 08:09:41 pm

Will u marry a person who owes child support, been married 3xs, blames the opposite sex for every thing?  :P

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: Azanne07 on July 31, 2010, 08:12:40 pm

My boyfriend does not owe child support but I would be his 5th wife. He doesnt blame women for everything but he seems to think the world works around him. I love him with all my heart and can not wait to marry him but hes really full of himself. Hes getting a little better thou. I can see why he has been divorced so many times thou.

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: livefree03 on July 31, 2010, 08:20:52 pm

Well I hope it works out 4 ya, I can't see myself marrying a guy who has been married already unless he's widowed :'( but to each to own :-X

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: ULuvCeCe on July 31, 2010, 08:27:49 pm

I have dated previously married guys but baggage can be a pain.  None of them owed child support but if they did it would make me wonder if they would support me and/or any children we had in the future or if he'd do the same :wave:

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: livefree03 on July 31, 2010, 08:43:06 pm

yeah me 2, i'm on lock down wit child bearing no more 4 me!!! :bootyshake:

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: halokitty on July 31, 2010, 09:52:46 pm

If they cant support their children I would wonder how I could start a family with someone like that, plus being divorced that many times would make me have second thoughts

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: cakestripe on August 01, 2010, 06:20:19 am

Marriage is so archaic... What's the point anymore, especially with divorce being so simple??
I see something lovely in the contract - the idea of these two people coming together to merge their income, savings, debt, and everything else about everything, but it's become such a "show" now...

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: missijl on August 01, 2010, 08:00:37 am

If they blame the opposite sex for everything, that would put you on the losing end, correct? (Unless you're a same-sex couple.) I wouldn't want to live every day feeling as though I was the cause of my spouse's never-ending grief!

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: dreamyxo on August 01, 2010, 08:03:31 am

I won't even date a person with kids so heck no.  This person sounds like a real winner.  Run don't walk.

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: brendy1990 on August 01, 2010, 08:24:52 am

absoulutley NOT

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: mrisha on August 01, 2010, 08:46:05 am

With all this guys faults and you know he is an A** hole, and being married that many times, what makes you think he will not divorce you?  The guy is selfish and yet you want to marry him.  Truly amazing.  But to each his own and I hope you will be happy.

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: missijl on August 01, 2010, 12:44:12 pm

People who have been married a ton of times seem to be unwilling to work through problems as well as they should. I'm married, and let me tell you, we've had our share of battles (literally when he was deployed)! It HAS to be 50/50 compromise on everything and no other way. If both partners aren't willing to put in the effort, the marriage will fail.

Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: makedoughonline on August 01, 2010, 01:52:58 pm

No way. I love myself enough, and refuse to subject myself to such person.