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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Topic started by: angelabarnett90 on October 06, 2010, 01:39:35 pm
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I don't really have a answer for this one. It's a yes and no for me, depending on the situation.
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Yes... it's happened to many times in my life
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I would have to say yes to this one....unfortunately i've had it happent o me many times...
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Yes, I agree with that. Unfortunately.
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yep yep unless they've made major life changes
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Everyone cheats. If you don't cheat, it's cause you're a girl.
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No I don't. I did cheat on someone and I learned my lesson from it and I wouldn't do it again.
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No. Because I definitely learned my lesson. In my case, I cheated because my significant other wasn't paying attention to me at all. He wasn't showing that he cared. No matter how many times I communicated with him he just didn't listen to how I was feeling. So I took it upon myself to talk with someone else and when he found out about it he went ballistic. All of a sudden after that he finally started paying attention to me and showing me that he genuinely cares. Of course, the other guy understood and backed off and let us be. Now me and my husband have been together ever since. Of course, he knows to pay attention to me now and I know not to cheat again. We almost lost each other over something like that. So ladies and gentlemen, if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend treat them like you would want to be treated and don't have them hanging by a thread and don't have them guessing what your intentions are. Be real and truthful and everything will go much smoother. :heart:
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Yes, I believe that motto... some people just can't be monogamous or just don't want to be
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If a person, male or female, cheats once it doesn't mean they will cheat again. Some may do it, but not all of them will.
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Speaking from experience, yes.
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People can make mistakes and learn from them. Then again there are people like Tiger Woods. It depends on the person I think.
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Yes I do believe in that motto. Because after they get away with it the first time they learn better ways to keep it hidden. Especially if they feel they got away with it the first time why not have your cake and eat it too.
Although there is a very few amount of peope that actually learn their lesson most others do not care because if they did they would not be creeping in the first place. If you really want to mess around with other people then just be single.
So a little message to those considering cheating or are doing it just let the other person go and give them the opportunity to be happy with out that drama to have to deal with when it comes out into the light. It's too much heart ache and you really do not realize the damage that you actually cause. :sad1: :BangHead: :angry7:
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Yes, like my friend.. always cheat tsk
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People cheat for different reasons..but there are some that do not cheat at all. I do believe once a cheater always a cheater :angel12:
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Everyone cheats. If you don't cheat, it's cause you're a girl.
Sometimes girls cheat too, and not everyone cheats.
My boyfriend would never cheat on me and I know there are tons of other guys who wouldn't cheat on their girlfriends.
People saying dumb crap like that is just desensitizing people.
Cheating is not okay.
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I believe it. I wouldn't give a second chance because once it's done, there's always doubt getting in the way.
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I don't know if the word "always" applies always. People do learn and change. However, I can't afford to give such a person a second chance if I don't have to.
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Yes I do believe that statement. Unless the person makes a big change in their life it will continue to happen.
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Yes. I believe it is true. If they aren't faithful once...Why would they be later? :-
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Everyone cheats. If you don't cheat, it's cause you're a girl.
What a remark, and.....everyone does not cheat. I know many people that are fulfilled and happy in their marriage or relationship, and have no "need" to cheat. It's a sign of maturity to be loyal in a committed relationship.
I take it, you would not expect your girlfriend to cheat on you, but you would expect her to accept your cheating?
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I always agreed with the motto but I also think that everybody can chnage! I think that cheaters can have a really bad experience and then try and not repeat there dumb mistakes lol
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I don't believe that applies to everyone. Some people learn their lesson others attempt to prefect cheating to not get caught.
Others are tempted but resist. It's all based on the person and the situation.
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Some people can't stop themseleves from cheating on their S.O they don't know how to deal with the pressure of quititng sometimes its a "game" to them ..and some do quit me myself I never did so I mean to each is own but if a woman decided to cheat on me then ill just stop talking to her altogether
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nope. i have cheated but with my last boyfriend (now my fiance) 2 years is to long to waste. plus i love him and would never do that to him. i was stupid to do it before because i lost a good guy but everthing happens for a reason. huh?
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I have cheated on 3 bf's and I haven't done it in years now. So, some people it holds true for but not me. I have stopped. I love my man.
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Depends on the circumstance. I believe most people deserve a second chance, but more often than not, people do cheat again. My ex-boyfriend cheated on me, started dating the girl he cheated on me with (a few hours before he broke up with me), and he's cheated on her over 10 times. (yet, she's still with him...). But, for some people, it really is just a one time thing. I think that's rare, though.
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I used to think once a cheater always a cheater, but guys do change. They just have to come to the point in their life when they want to settle down and be with the one they love - and not want to screw the relationship up. I would know - I dated this guy once (gorgeous) who was a BIG TIME CHEATER! I never thought he would change, but now he has a girlfriend who he has been faithful to and is having a baby with her soon. You can't make the change happen - you have to wait for him to want to change.
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Unfortunately, yes. It's happened to me too many times too.
And I have serious trust issues because of it.
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Everyone cheats. If you don't cheat, it's cause you're a girl.
I suppose you fall under that category "Once a Cheater Always a Cheater". Sorry to break it to you, but not all guys cheat as well as not all girls are faithful. And the funny thing is, that one day you'll fall in love and that girl may just cheat on you. You will then learn from experience what it feels like. A little saying "What goes around comes around" which is payback! :angry7:
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Actually no I dont believe in the motto. People do change in life some for the best and other stay the same. Just put your self in their shoes and the reason behind there action. :wave:
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In general yes, but people mature with age.
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To me that is a difficult question because. It could depend on what the situation is,who is involved,why,How did this happen and so much more. Also it depends on if that person is willing to change,take accountability for their actions.
This is not a good place for no one to be in.
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I have found it to be true with several people i know including my ex (that is y he is now my ex!) >:( But i do have 1 or 2 friends who have changed & no longer cheat. :thumbsup: Some people can change, others cannot & will not ever change. :peace:
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SOME TIME I DO SOME people can change but most of the time they cant change.