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POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies, girls, maddams, and etc. this is a slightly odd thread but seeing how I haven't made one in quite a while...
So I was in a small situation over a month ago when I was walking near a library. About 40-50 ft from me was this lone middle-aged woman who had a blouse on and she apparently forgot to button 1 or 2 of the top buttons. That, and her bra must have been awkwardly fit because one of her *bleep* was exposed.
Now there were a few people walking around the area, but I didn't want to either shout to her or run up to her lightening fast to let her know. I just hope she felt a temp change when she entered thru the door, but needless to say I still felt really bad for not helping her out of a possibly embarrassing situation.
I talked to my friend about it and he said he actually did help a woman in a similar situation, and she actually got angry at him and stomped off. He told me I made a decent choice out of the situation, but I still disagree to an extent.
Serious or funny, the point of this thread is to just hear your opinion on the matter-- do woman usually appreciate this type of a "heads up" or do they get mad most of the time? And no, it's not just for ladies to answer if you have a story of your own. I just noticed there are more woman than men on this part of the forum.
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I don't know because I don't dress like that in the first place. I am always completely covered and I don't wear tight fitting stuff. I don't wear shorts or tank tops. I don't like to wear bathing suits in public. I don't wear shirts or dresses that show cleavage. In fact I don't wear skirts or dresses period. I wear Jeans and T-shirts.
I wear a belt and the only problem I have is sometimes my jeans will expose my butt. I don't know why but I always pull them up and try to not bend over or anything.
This is just how I dress in public. I have a lot of modesty but people think I have a bad body image. It's like whatever, I can dress how I want.
So sorry can't relate. I think drawing attention to it would embarrass them unless they do it on purpose. When they finally catch their wardrobe malfunction they want to believe no one noticed.
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Maybe the girl your friend helped wanted to show her *bleep* off. and maybe she felt insulted that he wanted her to cover it up instead of complimenting her breast. lol I dunno. Or she could have just been very embarrassed by the whole situation and wanted a quick way out of it, so she got mad and ran off..??
I personally would have been very appreciative if someone told me rather than let me walk around like that. That would be so embarrassing.
POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies
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hahaha! There are forums where that line would work. Not on me, but others. Just sayin
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I am a guy and I have told a few ladies about things like that before. I have been slapped in the face before for it. I was thanked that I told the person as they turned around real fast to button up. Been asked if I liked them. Then there was one time I was asked if I wanted to touch them. To me it is very much a person to person thing. I did have only one lady that slapped me to come back and thank me latter that she said that she at first was just thinking I was looking to get a nice view but then she relized how much was exposed and said that if she knew that it came un buttoned that much she should feel more like she was trying to show off.
Also I have found depending how it is said helps too. Just going up and saying hey your *bleep* are hanging out you would probly get the slap. If you go up and say something like "Excuse me but did you know your blouse is unbuttoned" would be better.
Last thing for my throughts on this is depends also on how they are dressed and the location they are in. In the library for areas would have a higher chance that she is not showing off but there might be other locations where it would be. But also if it is person walking around in somthing like fish net stokings, min skirt then that would the type that might want everyone to see all the goods.
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I would be embarrassed! I would be grateful for the heads up, but I probably wouldn't show that in my response. I've actually told someone before that they were hanging out of their top when I was in high school in the marching band, and I was accused of staring and being a lesbian, so I tend to keep my mouth shut anymore.
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That is one other problem with the hole thing. By telling even nicly you cna be given lables. I am sure that some that slaped me just thinking I was a prevert trying to get a look. I will not denie if they are hanging out I will take a look after all I am a guy. There is a difference in it. How I think a respectable woman would not want to be hanging out but show what she has in a desent way that she is comfortable with. I do like to see breast but at the same time if I do not know the person I would rather see them in a way they a comfortable to be seen in public and if the relationship gets to that level to see each other. Public should always be clean sexy not slutty.
Of course right now the only ones I want to see always and touch is my wonderful and sex wife. ;D
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My own opinion is if a man comes up to aide a women who's breast is hanging out or buttons are unbuttoned, He should get the heck away .Or have a female tell her.
Your asking for trouble I think if you approach and say your @#$% are hanging out
your going to get nailed
A women telling another women is not so bad (the sisterhood thing), yah know...
It would be the same senerio IF a Mans Fly is down and open-
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It would not be me to tell any guy his fly is open.
There are people called exabisionest , "flashers"(cant spell it)they like to expose themselves who knows :dontknow:
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Good point. But it is hard to tell a nother woman to tell the person. Unless you know that other woman to ask her to do that. I have done that one time but the one I asked was a class mate that her and I knew each other pretty well she it was not that bad to ask her. But she even made the coment to me that if I would asked her to tell the person and we did not know each other that she would probly tell the other woman and then tell sercurity.
The "flashers" on the other hand most of the time for guys it's easy to see the flashers if you were to look in that area. You would see thier member hanging out more then likly. The women what are flashers is a little harder depending on how much of a flasher that they are. If they just have it all hanging out then they know and they are showing. If it is being done where it is just a few buttons then it might be harder to know if they are trying to flash or if somthing else is going on.
I also work in an office full of woman and asked a few of thier opions and about a 50/50 on if they would want to be told by a male or not that they did not know. All of them said that it would also depend on how the person (being male or female) said it to them. The worst way this local check to tell them is hey your *bleep* are hanging out or somthing to that manner. Best way is "hey X did you know your top came unbuttoned" not saying anything about the breast at all.
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That is one other problem with the hole thing. By telling even nicly you cna be given lables. I am sure that some that slaped me just thinking I was a prevert trying to get a look. I will not denie if they are hanging out I will take a look after all I am a guy. There is a difference in it. How I think a respectable woman would not want to be hanging out but show what she has in a desent way that she is comfortable with. I do like to see breast but at the same time if I do not know the person I would rather see them in a way they a comfortable to be seen in public and if the relationship gets to that level to see each other. Public should always be clean sexy not slutty.
Of course right now the only ones I want to see always and touch is my wonderful and sex wife. ;D
Your sex wife? Hahaha that's a good one.
Opps mis type should have been sexy wife.
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;D I personally would want to know I would be so mortified if this happened..I do not wear alot of low cut shirts but I often do thankfully I do a breast check before leaving house LMAO..So if a person got mad I feel they wanted the attention..I would be embrassed but thankful someone let me know my boobie was hanging in the breeze for all to eyeball..LMAO..And I am sure my hubby would be thankful I was told LMAO>> :P
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I even check it with my wife she said she would be embrased but would want to know if one did come unbuttoned and was showing, thankful that was told not everyone was see her's
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I know I would definitely appreciate the heads up. I would be very embarassed, but it would be much better than walking around like that for a long time. I would think it would be like if your pants were ripped in the butt or if you had a piece of toilet paper on your shoe. I know there would be people who would get mad, but I would think that if you don't notice that your boob is hanging out, you would appreciate it if someone told you. Now if a person was purposefully wearing revealing clothing, then I wouldn't say anything. I would just be a little disgusted by the person. I just don't understand how you can not feel that your hanging out like that. :dontknow:
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Wearing the revealing clothing is one thing but if your wearing a blouse that you remember buttoning all the way up and it come unbuttoned is another. The revealing clothing to me means that you dont mind showing cleavage or some leg. But it's show hole breast complete bottoms or anything that is fully personnal. There are people out there that still like the clear shirt with a colored bra for some reason. That would be a person to me that if the clear top has buttons and it came unbuttoned some they really would not care due to the shirt shows it anyway.
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I dont think i will ever be in that situation. I prefer t-shirts and jeans, so as far as not having a button done..... I would be embarassed but at the same time I would be grateful that the person said something. that way it would only be for a little while as opposed to all day. anyway if it is a stranger, you will never see that person again. also I would hope that most people check thereselves before venturing out in the "real" world. Didnt the lady have a mirror or some "friends" to tell her????? :dontknow:
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maybe she did it on purpose, :P
and if your a guy you shouldnt tell a lady their boob is exposed, they may get angry or embrassed thinking you didnt like seeing their *bleep* out, or get mad because they think you were looking at their *bleep*
women are crazzzzyyyy
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That is the thing if I was walking down the street and my fly was open and a woman told me it would be fine with me. Short term verses long term exposure. But also depending on what underwear I am wearing, if your were really looking, is if you could see my member or not.
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Boobies are a blessed gift given from god, was eve born with leaves on her breast no! Without boobies non formula tolerant children would starve. :notworthy:
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Boobies are a blessed gift given from god, was eve born with leaves on her breast no! Without boobies non formula tolerant children would starve. :notworthy:
Then you have some women that have the problem like my wife had with both of our children that could not produce breast milk.
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Boobies are a blessed gift given from god, was eve born with leaves on her breast no! Without boobies non formula tolerant children would starve. :notworthy:
Amen.
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If I was wearing a button up shirt (like a collared one that you put under a business suit) and a button had come undone, I would appreciate anyone telling me, man, woman, gay, straight.
Now a purposefully low shirt, she knew what she was doing. Women look at themselves before they leave the house, some change a million times over. If I am wearing a lower cut shirt, it's my responsibility to make sure my tata's aren't sticking out. There is a time and a place to wear stuff like that, kids orchestra concert - NO, going out dancing - YES. :wave:
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If I had a nip slip I would appreciate someone telling me, be they male or female. Then again, I notice some women wear low cut tops and get angry when men stare at their *bleep*. Which makes zero sense to me. It depends on the woman I guess.
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If this woman is me, I hope I can goes into the floor. however if sb tell me in a manner way which I can accept and I will cover it as nothing happen. Anyway, this will never happen to me. cos I always cover myself well everywhere, I do not wear even short sleeve shirt.
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I think I would appreciate a heads up in that situation. But you have to consider the wide spectrum of the way women dress. She could be deliberately leaving those buttons undone. Some women show off a lot of cleavage in a very obvious way, some try to be "act" more subtle by "forgetting" to button top buttons.
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I agree with it depends on how it is worded. BUT I would appreciate a heads up in that department, especially since my son is always climbing on me to get a piggy back ride so I could have a wardrobe malfunction and not be aware of it for awhile. LOL Hopefully not out in public but a quick excuse me I don't quite know how to tell you this but your shirt is unbuttoned would be greatly appreciated. The only time I would get mad would be a hey nice *@#& comment.
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POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies, girls, maddams, and etc. this is a slightly odd thread but seeing how I haven't made one in quite a while...
So I was in a small situation over a month ago when I was walking near a library. About 40-50 ft from me was this lone middle-aged woman who had a blouse on and she apparently forgot to button 1 or 2 of the top buttons. That, and her bra must have been awkwardly fit because one of her *bleep* was exposed.
Now there were a few people walking around the area, but I didn't want to either shout to her or run up to her lightening fast to let her know. I just hope she felt a temp change when she entered thru the door, but needless to say I still felt really bad for not helping her out of a possibly embarrassing situation.
I talked to my friend about it and he said he actually did help a woman in a similar situation, and she actually got angry at him and stomped off. He told me I made a decent choice out of the situation, but I still disagree to an extent.
Serious or funny, the point of this thread is to just hear your opinion on the matter-- do woman usually appreciate this type of a "heads up" or do they get mad most of the time? And no, it's not just for ladies to answer if you have a story of your own. I just noticed there are more woman than men on this part of the forum.
Well put it this way, would you like a woman to tell you that your fly is down? Just letting you know it's happened to me before. I was at work and one of my buttons was loose and a male co-worker told me. I got red in the face but I was glad he told me because then I would have had all the male customers at the store staring at me. It's a natural thing that people do. They eye people up and down for a few seconds then look away. If you saw that, then I think you should have told her. If that woman was me, I would have been pissed thinking that someone saw me like that and didn't tell me. That's just my opinion.
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It'd be totally embarassing, no doubt. However, I'd really appreciate it if someone told me as long as it was done in a nice way. For example, "lady your boob's hanging out" would probably not help the situation.
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Sorry....Wrong place. I thought their would be pics! My bad :wave:
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Personally if something like that ever happened to
me, I would rather you have said something. I look at
it like this, you saved my butt from any more embarrassment
and more than probable I would never see you again!
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I got mislead. I though this had to do with the uploading of photographic renderings of female mammory glands. Oops! lol :icon_rr:
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I got mislead. I though this had to do with the uploading of photographic renderings of female mammory glands. Oops
Sorry to disappoint. I should have made that mandatory in the original post.
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POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies, girls, maddams, and etc. this is a slightly odd thread but seeing how I haven't made one in quite a while...
Falconer02, I would be really pissed off if, you saw one of the twins peeking out & didn't let me know! I think you should have told the lady about it & if you were afraid to approach her, ask one of the other ladies in the area to tell her about it. Then you would've done a good deed & not get slapped for it. Next time this happens, help out the lady. :wave:
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I agree that it depends on the circumstances, but if it looked like it was an innocent accident (and since you mentioned middle-aged woman outside a library, I'm thinking it was accidental) then I think it'd be nice to give her a kind heads-up. Same thing as if I come out of a bathroom and my fly was down; I'd hope someone would let me know rather than spend the day showing my junk to total strangers.
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Serious or funny, the point of this thread is to just hear your opinion on the matter-- do woman usually appreciate this type of a "heads up" or do they get mad most of the time?
I would be so embarrassed, I do not even know what my reaction would be. I think it would depend on the surroundings. Hopefully, I would be told in a secretive kind of way and that would be easier to take. I would probably just mumble a thank you, turn beat red, and walk away. If I was told in a really awkward, loud way in which the guy was trying to get attention, then I would get mad and react differently.
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Some people just won't accept the fact that they don't look good like that anymore. The "in" fashion style of today leaves a lot to be desired.
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Falconer02, I would be really pissed off if, you saw one of the twins peeking out & didn't let me know! I think you should have told the lady about it & if you were afraid to approach her, ask one of the other ladies in the area to tell her about it. Then you would've done a good deed & not get slapped for it. Next time this happens, help out the lady.
Good advice. I will make a mental note of that.
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POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies, girls, maddams, and etc. this is a slightly odd thread but seeing how I haven't made one in quite a while...
So I was in a small situation over a month ago when I was walking near a library. About 40-50 ft from me was this lone middle-aged woman who had a blouse on and she apparently forgot to button 1 or 2 of the top buttons. That, and her bra must have been awkwardly fit because one of her *bleep* was exposed.
Now there were a few people walking around the area, but I didn't want to either shout to her or run up to her lightening fast to let her know. I just hope she felt a temp change when she entered thru the door, but needless to say I still felt really bad for not helping her out of a possibly embarrassing situation.
I talked to my friend about it and he said he actually did help a woman in a similar situation, and she actually got angry at him and stomped off. He told me I made a decent choice out of the situation, but I still disagree to an extent.
Serious or funny, the point of this thread is to just hear your opinion on the matter-- do woman usually appreciate this type of a "heads up" or do they get mad most of the time? And no, it's not just for ladies to answer if you have a story of your own. I just noticed there are more woman than men on this part of the forum.
i have to say that i would e greatful, however i would be slightly imbarrced at well too
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I WOULD BE TOTALLY EMBARRASSED ABOUT THE SITUATION.
BUT BE RESPECTFUL AND LET ME KNOW SOMETHING IS WRONG
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POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies, girls, maddams, and etc. this is a slightly odd thread but seeing how I haven't made one in quite a while...
So I was in a small situation over a month ago when I was walking near a library. About 40-50 ft from me was this lone middle-aged woman who had a blouse on and she apparently forgot to button 1 or 2 of the top buttons. That, and her bra must have been awkwardly fit because one of her *bleep* was exposed.
Now there were a few people walking around the area, but I didn't want to either shout to her or run up to her lightening fast to let her know. I just hope she felt a temp change when she entered thru the door, but needless to say I still felt really bad for not helping her out of a possibly embarrassing situation.
I talked to my friend about it and he said he actually did help a woman in a similar situation, and she actually got angry at him and stomped off. He told me I made a decent choice out of the situation, but I still disagree to an extent.
Serious or funny, the point of this thread is to just hear your opinion on the matter-- do woman usually appreciate this type of a "heads up" or do they get mad most of the time? And no, it's not just for ladies to answer if you have a story of your own. I just noticed there are more woman than men on this part of the forum.
...please tell me you checked and made sure it wasn't Johnny Knoxville from Jackass? They do drag pretty good you know!
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if i was in that situation, someone better tell me lol
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well first of all i think its our job as women to be a little more aware of our bodies and ake sure that nothing like that happens.. some women really either dont care if they are exposed or they do it on purpose for the attention. but in the case that something like that DOES happen, cuz im sure it will happen to the best of us soometime in our lives, i would say that it is wrong for a man to be the one that gives the heads up! th women would feel very uncomfortable and violated no matter how good the man's intentions were. if a women were to tell another women then she would feel so violated and she would be less defensive and more appreciative. but that is my opinion. every woman is different.
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*GRAB*
jkjkjkjkjk :angel12:
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Someone please tell me if one of my cha chas was ever hanging loose for the world to see :( This happened to me before at the beach when I got tumbled by a huge wave; my friend stopped me before I stood up in front of the crowd without my top!
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I would be totally embarrassed. I AVOID this situation by wearing a fitted bra, and shirt/jeans.
But heads up would be fine, girl/guy or whoever. As long as you don't be pervy about it or something.
(maybe the woman if your friend's scenario was just really embarrassed more than angry...)
The only thing I'm concerned with is the crack. :bootyshake: LOL
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If there's a female around, ask her to tell the woman. Otherwise, you might say, "You might not be aware of this, but some buttons on your blouse have come undone." No need to add, "And your $#%* are showing." Then walk away before she can say anything.
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I feel that i wouldnt get mad if a guy told me in a polite way, that one of my breast was exposed.
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POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies, girls, maddams, and etc. this is a slightly odd thread but seeing how I haven't made one in quite a while...
So I was in a small situation over a month ago when I was walking near a library. About 40-50 ft from me was this lone middle-aged woman who had a blouse on and she apparently forgot to button 1 or 2 of the top buttons. That, and her bra must have been awkwardly fit because one of her *bleep* was exposed.
Now there were a few people walking around the area, but I didn't want to either shout to her or run up to her lightening fast to let her know. I just hope she felt a temp change when she entered thru the door, but needless to say I still felt really bad for not helping her out of a possibly embarrassing situation.
I talked to my friend about it and he said he actually did help a woman in a similar situation, and she actually got angry at him and stomped off. He told me I made a decent choice out of the situation, but I still disagree to an extent.
Serious or funny, the point of this thread is to just hear your opinion on the matter-- do woman usually appreciate this type of a "heads up" or do they get mad most of the time? And no, it's not just for ladies to answer if you have a story of your own. I just noticed there are more woman than men on this part of the forum.
[I'm so sorry for you that you had to experience that moment of confusion and I'm sure it was very uncomfortable. You were in a situation that would make it appear to a less enlightened woman that you were leering at her. I'm saying that based on your description. Here is a good way to handle it without being viewed as a lecherous creep. Tell her you are very sorry, but you are exposed and whatever you do don't point, don't look at her *bleep* just gently tap your chest not hers and you may escape with your manhood intact. This is a very touchy situation requiring perhaps the skill of a secret agent or a navy seal do not enter without your self esteem intact (warning) this is dangerous terrain. Good luck Grasshopper! :wave: /quote]
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Well if it was me, I would want to know. I wouldn't want to unknowingly expose myself. I have guy friends that I can trust to tell me something like that and I would not get offended. I think it depends on how you let her know. If you say something like, I don't mean to be rude or disrespectful but...If she wanted you to see it, then she will probably blush and say thank you. If on the off chance you tell it to a real freak, she might throw you down and... I'm just kidding. :) But I believe that most women would want to know.
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If one of mine's were hanging out I think that I would much rather have a friend tell me than a stranger. But no matter who tells me (a friend or a stranger) I do not see myself getting mad at that person.
After all, they are just trying to help me.
Now if they do it in a mean or loud way, then that is a different story.
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If I were in that sittuation then I would deffentally want someone to tell me! Yes, it would be really embrassing but it's better than having my *bleep* out for the world to see!
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I know I'd wat someone to tell me.
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Depends on what kind of lady she is. If she is dressing like that to get attention then she might not like it if you say something,but if she doesn't know that she is showing off the goods then she might be very thankful that you let her know she was showing all she's got
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i would certainly want someone to tell me if something like this happened to me.
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I think I would have told her her breast was out. I know I would appreciate someone letting me know if something of mine was out of place. :) That's just like having something hanging out of your nose. Would you let the person know, or would you just ignore it?
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I don't think that the women are necessarily mad at the person who pointed it out, just embarrassed and freak out. :female:
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I had a similar thing happen. I was at a male friend's house who was sitting on the floor working on something. He had a hole in in pants, and his unmentionable was hanging out. I was too embarrassed to say anything, so I decided to just go home and not say anything about it.