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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Topic started by: chavasarah on April 07, 2011, 06:57:49 pm
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Sometimes I stop doing things because of what my parents would think even if they don't say it to me.. Do you care about what they think of you?
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Well, I only have a mother and I don't mind what she thinks of me. I don't think she have anything negative about me. I also ask for her advice about anything before I make my final decision. Just like, I'm planning to get a puppy between now and May. So, I'm trying to do whats best for me and for the puppy if I decide to get one.
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Yes. I want everyone to think good of me. I try my best to give them good reasons to with the Lord's help!!
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i think it generally depends on how old you are, but i'm not one to care much about what other people think of me. i do my own thing, i'm my own person.
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If my adult children ask for my opinion, I will give it, otherwise, I keep my mouth shut.
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If my adult children ask for my opinion, I will give it, otherwise, I keep my mouth shut.
i try that but thay live with me that makes it hard
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Very important. They gave me life. Without my parents I wouldn't have been born.
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My mother's opinion is important to me I will ask her what I should do about a lot of things. She's older than me and has more experience so I would like to follow her advice.
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I care about what they think, and it helps me make choices since they want what is best for me
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I have always done things so other people will be happy even if it means I wont be including my parents, but I have finally got to a point of where my own happiness means more. I still value what my parents think of me, but if they can not be happy for me and proud of what I have accomplished then that is their fault. Even though I live states away from them they still want to try and control me. The thing is I am finally happy and love myself and being where I am has done that for me.
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My mom's opinion is very important to me. My dad tries to have opinions on everything even if he knows nothing about the subject. So I don't often care about his.
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Not anymore, since they are both dead.
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I only have a mother and I really don't care what she thinks of me or my decisions. I don't even talk to her more than once per month, usually less.
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It depends sometimes I want them to help and give their opinion but in the end it's all up to me and how I want to live my life
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Sometimes it's good to ask them certain things but as you get older you have to make decisions on your own too. They may not understand the situation fully so it's good to think things through on your own.
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my parents opinion is important to me sometimes ,like at one time I was going to buy a house that was affordable to me at the time ,told my dad about it and he told me DONOT buy anything in that neighbor hood because it was a bad neighborhood ,then a week later on the news it reported there were alot of break ins and gun shootings going on. so glad I took his advice and no buy the house
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Absolutely. It has taken years to break some of the hold my mother has had on my life. But I still make sure my house is orderly when she comes over. I have to be presentable anytime we go anywhere. Some things you can't shake that your parents have taught you. It is a part of your DNA. It is always a work in progress to be me. :angel11:
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Not much, because growing up , they're mostly wrong about pretty much everything. They are a prisoner of social norms or ethics. Esp. mom, anything the news says she'll believe it. As most kid do, when their parents tell them to do something or advise them about something. The kid will automatically, do the opposite thing that the parents wants. Some parents are dumb that way, the more they disagree or tell the kid is wrong, the more the kid will defy the parent. Smart parents would use reverse psychology. :thumbsup:
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Yes, I do care what my mom thinks. Since my dad passed away about 10 years ago she is my only parent left.
Her opinion does matter ... she does, however, understand that I am a grown up and will ultimately make my own
choice - whether it be what she agrees with or not. But... she is used to that .. I have always independent .. even
as a child and she respects the fact that in the end my decisions need to be mine.
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i respect other people opinion whether parents or friends opinion