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I feel that people today do not respect relationships like in the past.
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I feel men or women cheat out of boredom. I feel either party cheat if they know they can get away with it. I feel either party cheat when they dont have repsect their partner. I feel men or women cheat when the spark in the relationship is gone. I feel men or women cheat in a relationship if either partner cheated first.
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???I don't have a clue on this one. But if anyone comes up with a definite answer it would be nice to know. I have been cheated on and I don't understand it. My ex couldn't give me a straight answer other than he didn't know. He said "It just happened and that he was sorry and wanted to work things out." I said "Good Bye and filed for a divorce." I do believe once a cheater always a cheater.
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???I don't have a clue on this one. But if anyone comes up with a definite answer it would be nice to know. I have been cheated on and I don't understand it. My ex couldn't give me a straight answer other than he didn't know. He said "It just happened and that he was sorry and wanted to work things out." I said "Good Bye and filed for a divorce." I do believe once a cheater always a cheater.
I asked him the same question, but he said he wasn't sure about me!! So that's all I need to know!!!
I am too would like to know why people cheat!!!
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First, because they are sinful and have lustful desires; secondly, they are truly in love with their spouse and have no conscience toward cheating.
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I think that people cheat for a few reasons. They may be under-appreciated and not getting what they need from the current relationship. When Hugh Downs cheated on his super-model girlfriend with a prostitute I can't help but think that he could be more candid with someone that he didn't respect and his girlfriend was constantly busy. Another reason is that people like variety and new adventures. I think that men cheat more because of their genetic pre-disposition to spread their seed and create a large tribe while women are looking for that one perfect soul mate with which to make the perfect child(and possible future protector).
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It's the thrill of doing something exciting/new and the possibility of getting caught.
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???I don't have a clue on this one. But if anyone comes up with a definite answer it would be nice to know. I have been cheated on and I don't understand it. My ex couldn't give me a straight answer other than he didn't know. He said "It just happened and that he was sorry and wanted to work things out." I said "Good Bye and filed for a divorce." I do believe once a cheater always a cheater.
you go girl! good 4 u.
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???I don't have a clue on this one. But if anyone comes up with a definite answer it would be nice to know. I have been cheated on and I don't understand it. My ex couldn't give me a straight answer other than he didn't know. He said "It just happened and that he was sorry and wanted to work things out." I said "Good Bye and filed for a divorce." I do believe once a cheater always a cheater.
im slapping you hi five through the computer ...you have a great head on your shoulders.
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Because they do not understand the meaning of love, there are many different ways to be in love with someone. You have to be committed all around to make a relationship work :dontknow:
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I'm not sure people lack respect for relationships today anymore than they did in the past. People cheated all the time in the past as well. The main difference today, in my opinion, is that marriage is no longer sacred as it used to be. It used to be that if you were married, that was for good, you were with that person. Now, more than 50% of marriages end in divorce.
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well if a woman cheast on a guy that would mean that the girl likes someone else and dosnt really like the guy. I am A proffecianal and know everything ;)
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when there is cheating in a relationship that just means one thing there is something wrong in the relationship, it can be a number of things thats why it is important to have lots of communication in the relationship, if the spouse keeps cheating over and over again that just means that he/she is a very insecure person,,,,,i been in a relationship where i was cheated on and i was a good wife now we arw divorce and i dont regret it one bit cause now i feel better dont need to worry everytime he walks out the door,,, ;D
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They both cheat because they need to look for something. It could be a rush for them to cheat. Maybe they need to have someone to love and spend time with them. There are so many reasons.
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I believe that men or women that cheat in a relationship because they are lacking something from the other partner and there is a lack in the communication between the two partners. With therapy, and working together, this can be overcome. If the behavior continues and the partner being cheated on let it continues, then that is insanity.
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The respect for each other are already gone.
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I agree with the bored part. You have to keep things interesting.
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Good people making bad decisions.
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My first boyfriend cheated on me with 10 girls. This was way back in high school. We were "kids" then. So, the next time I saw him, I broke up with him, and moved on. He then calls me to say sorry, and I just ignored him. And I am glad I did it. After that relationship, I didn't take those kind of relationships seriously. (on the top of that, I am glad I didn't lose it with him) I don't believe in high school relationships to last that long, but if they do last long for people, kudos to them! I hope they are supporting eachother. :thumbsup:
Then again, from my girlfriends, they say they get bored or they try to grab their attention by saying things like "I will die if you don't stay with me" and actually hurting themselves. And they have a "reason to cheat" because they are unhappy.
The whole post sounds high school-y, doesn't it? :dontknow:
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i am yet to understand why ppl cheat.....
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???? You know to me its easy to walk away from a cheater. I know some people say they love them to much to let the relationship go but Why.
Why is it so hard to let go. What they have done is just plain disrespectful and embarrasing. By continueing the relationship you put yourself in the position of feeling defensive, untrusting, and worring that he will do it again.
My friends were worried about me so they didn't tell me. I feel if theey had really cared they would have atleast said something, anything. They new me well enough toknow I wouldn't have gat madat them. In fact I thought I was pretty calm through it all. although I would like to have beat him near death.
To me they all should have felt sorry for him not me. There are to many good men that will respect and love you out there to settle with a cheater.
When I dumped my ex I didn't dump my friends but distanced my self from them and moved on, made new friends, and eventually dated. If I had not done this I wouldn't be with the wondeful man I am with now.
We respect, trust and love each other unconditionly. We have separete lives to some degree because of our jobs, children, and other responsibilities but we do not worry about each other. We talk on the phone when we are not together and see each other 3 to 5 days a week. He has a daughter from a previous marriage so I encouraged him to spend plenty of one on one time with her and not with all of us together all the time. Children need to know that just because their parents start a new relationship that they are still important to. We also do alot of things together as one big family. His daughter loves us and we love her.
Our relationship may not be ideal for some but it is perfect for us. Sorry got off track but you get my point.
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I believe they cheat because they give up to easily on relationships, it is hard work and life is now about instant gratification.
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Today's Men & Women cheat because they are a throw back to the caveman/woman era. Where they have to F--k everything around them. Being a part of this human species, this is the #1 behavior that I'm really ashamed & disappointed in. If a guy ever cheated on me once. They will never get another chance to do it again! 1 strike only & that's GAME OVER!!!!!
Because Humans have the larger brain, they are placed in the highest intellectual range among the species in the world. I don't think so, when you think with your dumber brain. (*bleep*/*bleep*), it's not what I call being smart.
I think the most intelligent animals are the wolves. They mate for life & none of the subordinate female wolves will ever cross the line & try to mate with the alpha male. If that happens, the female subordinate will be killed by the by the pack. Any pups from the subordinate female will be killed as well.
Too bad we don't have that genetic code in human genes. If we had a law like the wolves, divorce would be non-existing. All divorce lawyers would need to find another line of work. LOL
Dumb excuses for cheating, I'm bored, my spouse doesn't want to do it w/me anymore, She cheated on me 1st so...,Forced into an arranged marriage & we don't love each other, he fell out love me,,,,,
So, if you're sooooo horny that you need to grab anything off the street & your spouse is not there or you hate your spouse. Go buy sex toys to help you. It's affordable, cleaner,reusable, easy storage, easy to us instructions. Now a days, you can get a virus just by kissing someone on the mouth.
Mono has increased in the # of infections among teens. Teens think it's safe because, their not going all the way. Once u make that choice to cheat, we won't cry for you, if find yourself 6ft under. You'd be dead before you could wonder....just what a stupid thing you did, for cheating on your wife, for 10 seconds of unprotected sex, for picking a *bleep* off the street, for being a selfish *bleep* to think that you could get way with it. All I could say is HA-ha,ha,ha,ha,ha, ;D as I spit on you're nameless grave. LoL, I was poet & didn't know it!
Thank you for letting me vent! :wave:
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They cheat because they are not happy in their relationship and they step out of the relationship to try to find whatever it is they feel that they are not getting. Wheter it is attention,sex, or they are feeling emotionally detached from the person they are with. It is possible for someone to fall out of love for someone and start to cheat. Or they feel they are not getting enough love. They feel that they are going to hurt their significant other by breaking up when the reality is that finding out you been cheated on hurts just as bad as a break up.Its just plain wrong. I believe with proper communication you can achieve great goals in any relationship.