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I started dating after 12 years of staying single. But any guy I went out with would want to sleep with me on the third or the fourth date. This is ridiculous. Whatever happened to waiting for a while - its completely turned me off and I am back to being single for now.
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What you did was stereotype men based on the experience you had with some.
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I'm 24yrs old and single as well. Women in my area and around my age seems to be too immature for me. I don't think I will have the opportunity to find someone to love and grow old together. Its all a dream that may never come true. Good luck in your search and I wish you the best :)
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Don't classify a whole gender like that, Just b/c you're mad at a few of the douchebags. What if they say "For women it's never love, but money"?? That is also incorrect. Also many of the women are just looking for a hookup too, so it's hard for guys to know who wants what. Give them a break.
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I've been with my fiancee for over two years. We've never had sex. There are a lot of virtuous guys out there.
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I started dating after 12 years of staying single. But any guy I went out with would want to sleep with me on the third or the fourth date. This is ridiculous. Whatever happened to waiting for a while - its completely turned me off and I am back to being single for now.
You suffer from being attracted to douchebags. I dunno where you're meeting them, but I see this with a lot of women. Granted men are lustful from the get-go, the 'professionals' have standards. Hunt for those ones.
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Thank goodness you respect yourself. Those guys just make it easy to weed out the a$$holes and find the real gentlemen. Don't worry, there are plenty of good guys out there, you just have to find the right one :) It's a matter of how you project yourself. Douches like easy girls, the good guys want girls that they have to work for. Respect yourself, and they will respect you back.
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As a member of the male species, I'd like to apologize to you for all of the "humping dogs" in the world. However, we men are only human and sometimes get our signals all confused with many women. Some are just looking to hookup with someone while others are looking for true love. It really all depends where you're meeting these guys which will determine the outcome. Don't let a few bad apples completely turn you away from finding true love.
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I agree it is true for a lot of men........BUT; there are some really great guys out there! Just hang on to your principles and he will come along! ;)
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its is always lust because their scared to commit
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I disagree. Some men have mastered the art of loving from the heart and giving the utmost respect to women.
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Douchebags exist in both sexes, among those who are not ready to settle or who have no desire to contain their hormones. I was a douchebag before I met my husband, and even in those early days. You can't judge a library based on a book or two on the shelves, and some books, though offensive on the outside, may be a great read.
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Douchebags exist in both sexes, among those who are not ready to settle or who have no desire to contain their hormones. I was a douchebag before I met my husband, and even in those early days. You can't judge a library based on a book or two on the shelves, and some books, though offensive on the outside, may be a great read.
Amen!
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Some men are just like that. You should continue to date because not all men are like that.
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you still are a douchebag amyrouse for saying $400 a week is like small fortune
She's furthest from being a dbag.
(http://www.gifbin.com/bin/032011/1300124817_deal-with-it-irl.gif)
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you still are a douchebag amyrouse for saying $400 a week is like small fortune
She's furthest from being a dbag.
(http://www.gifbin.com/bin/032011/1300124817_deal-with-it-irl.gif)
Thank you, Falc. :thumbsup:
trollz gotta troll, yo.
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The thing is if you found a man who was not interested in having sex with you after the first, second, third, fourth, ..............date. You would think there's a problem with him or with you. The stereotype is incarnated in you mind. That's what you see, but not all men would want sex from you.
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Yup, I hope I can find a woman who is full of constant self pity and self indulgance so I can support her every whim forever.
How do such women find guys who can even stomach being around them long enough to get laid?
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Not all men just want sex. I like to know if a woman is easy before I decide to get to know her. If she is, I dump her right away. Who needs that when you can get AIDS and die just from having sex?
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Yup, I hope I can find a woman who is full of constant self pity and self indulgance so I can support her every whim forever.
How do such women find guys who can even stomach being around them long enough to get laid?
Priceless, Walks! 8) Judging by all I have seen written by the OP (who IS a douchebag and who seems to be very prejudiced toward different groups) I highly doubt her bed is jumpin' much anyway. ;) There are great guys out there, just don't seem to be in my area.....sigh. ;D
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Yup, I hope I can find a woman who is full of constant self pity and self indulgance so I can support her every whim forever.
How do such women find guys who can even stomach being around them long enough to get laid?
Priceless, Walks! 8) Judging by all I have seen written by the OP (who IS a douchebag and who seems to be very prejudiced toward different groups) I highly doubt her bed is jumpin' much anyway. ;) There are great guys out there, just don't seem to be in my area.....sigh. ;D
C'mere.....;o)
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Yup, I hope I can find a woman who is full of constant self pity and self indulgance so I can support her every whim forever.
How do such women find guys who can even stomach being around them long enough to get laid?
Priceless, Walks! 8) Judging by all I have seen written by the OP (who IS a douchebag and who seems to be very prejudiced toward different groups) I highly doubt her bed is jumpin' much anyway. ;) There are great guys out there, just don't seem to be in my area.....sigh. ;D
C'mere.....;o)
Hehe! And just what would you do if I actually hunted you down and showed up on your doorstep? :angel12: I have lots of frequent flyer miles racked up too, hmmm.... 8)
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Yup, I hope I can find a woman who is full of constant self pity and self indulgance so I can support her every whim forever.
How do such women find guys who can even stomach being around them long enough to get laid?
Priceless, Walks! 8) Judging by all I have seen written by the OP (who IS a douchebag and who seems to be very prejudiced toward different groups) I highly doubt her bed is jumpin' much anyway. ;) There are great guys out there, just don't seem to be in my area.....sigh. ;D
C'mere.....;o)
Hehe! And just what would you do if I actually hunted you down and showed up on your doorstep? :angel12: I have lots of frequent flyer miles racked up too, hmmm.... 8)
You are welcome any time :o) Bring sunscreen and lots of rain if possible, before the whole state burns down :o/
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I started dating after 12 years of staying single. But any guy I went out with would want to sleep with me on the third or the fourth date. This is ridiculous. Whatever happened to waiting for a while - its completely turned me off and I am back to being single for now.
I think it really depends on what type of guy your dealing with because some guys really fall head over hills I know that may be hard to believe.
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YES! There are douche bags in both sexes, but for men, they are visual creatures. Women are more touchy, feely creatures. Men enjoy sex! It is visually stimulating to them, which in turn makes them physically simulated to crave sex. Don't for get the testosterone factors for both! Men have more testosterone than women, so what do you expect? Its the hormone that drives sexual desires, so HELLO! Some women and Men enjoy sex for the love, the romance, the leading up to the final act, the chase!!! Other Men and women just want a friend-girl, or a friend-boy, with no strings attatched. SOOO you cant really say that its always lust for men, its just a part of life. Most men will be thinking of sex constantly, and just because they pursue a relationship with you without having sex, it doesn't mean that they aren't thinking about it! If you don't like that about men, sorry, it's never going to go away!
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You got that right most men dont know what love is. nisha :thumbsup:
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YES! There are douche bags in both sexes, but for men, they are visual creatures. Women are more touchy, feely creatures. Men enjoy sex! It is visually stimulating to them, which in turn makes them physically simulated to crave sex. Don't for get the testosterone factors for both! Men have more testosterone than women, so what do you expect? Its the hormone that drives sexual desires, so HELLO! Some women and Men enjoy sex for the love, the romance, the leading up to the final act, the chase!!! Other Men and women just want a friend-girl, or a friend-boy, with no strings attatched. SOOO you cant really say that its always lust for men, its just a part of life. Most men will be thinking of sex constantly, and just because they pursue a relationship with you without having sex, it doesn't mean that they aren't thinking about it! If you don't like that about men, sorry, it's never going to go away!
You're a pro. Thanks for telling it how it is.
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The ones you are picking are like that (at least acting on that)... pick someone very different from your typical guy. Make a list of traits these guys had and look for the total opposite person (ex. different cliche, different lifestyle, introvert/extravert, quiet/loud, etc.. ).
Most men like sex and will try to have it as soon as possible but the right guy will wait and show restraint for your sake.
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yea i dont have nothing to say i just wanted to tell everyone i read what you wrote. :male:
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yea i dont have nothing to say i just wanted to tell everyone i read what you wrote. :male:
now I can sleep tonight.......
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yea i dont have nothing to say i just wanted to tell everyone i read what you wrote. :male:
now I can sleep tonight.......
why what did i say?
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yea i dont have nothing to say i just wanted to tell everyone i read what you wrote. :male:
now I can sleep tonight.......
i said that because i felt weird just reading everybody posts and not saying anything
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yOU GOT THAT RIGHT ITS ALWAYS LUST WITH GUYS.
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I am sorry to say but my husband is one of the few that are just wanting cuddles sex is just a bonus and we just celebrated our annivsary. I do agree though most MEN are just out for a sex. I just got lucky I guess
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For women it's never Love-it's always Lust...
See what I did there? It's certainly both ways.
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All men want sex and all women want money. ::)
lol not really. You can't just generalise.
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I started dating after 12 years of staying single. But any guy I went out with would want to sleep with me on the third or the fourth date. This is ridiculous. Whatever happened to waiting for a while - its completely turned me off and I am back to being single for now.
i don't know about that one because men who have and still is in a relationship still lust.
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I hope it isn't true...lol, but my dating experiences haven't exactly been great lately.
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You got that right most men dont know what love is. nisha :thumbsup:
Do you yourself know what love is???? Explain.