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Title: help with grieving for my mom
Post by: aggie49 on September 25, 2011, 07:43:49 pm

i thought it would be bad but i feel like i lost my best friend also and i thought i would miss my dad and my brother but it wasn't that bad with them but mom i am having a really hard time with this one i can't stop crying does anyone have suggestions that mite help

Title: Re: help with grieving for my mom
Post by: robin1128 on September 25, 2011, 07:58:35 pm

Just pray alot, right now it want be easy, just take one day at a time and cry all you want because you did lose your best friend. If you can go out with family and friends and just talk I'm sure they want mine  I am sorry for your lost and one day things will be better. Hang in there and God bless.

Title: Re: help with grieving for my mom
Post by: aggie49 on September 25, 2011, 09:16:05 pm

thanks robin i know it will get better as time passes i do pray all the time i come from a strong background but i do apprecitate all of my friends on fc

Title: Re: help with grieving for my mom
Post by: kapeh12 on September 25, 2011, 09:29:07 pm

I remember it was rough when I lost my mom.  I was 19 at the time.  We were not even that close, but her loss hit me way harder than I expected.  You just have to give youself time to grieve.  Expect to run the gambit of emotions and know that it's normal and okay.  Eventually as time moves on, the pain will lessen and you'll be able to remember the good times and feel the pain as intensely.  It's been over 20 years and every so once in a while I still feel a twinge from the loss of my mom, but it quickly passes now.  I'll keep you in my prayers tonight.