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Title: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: lindatucker on November 20, 2011, 08:02:42 pm
 :dontknow:I think people who are a diet should stay home. Why come to dinner on Thanksgiving Day if they are going to be picky about what food they can and can not eat. Why should they come and to spoil Thanksgiving Dinner for the people who are not on a diet and make those who should feel uncomfortable?
Title: Re: Should Go To Family Gatherings On ThanksGiving If They Are On A Diet?
Post by: cloudsoup on November 20, 2011, 08:07:47 pm
i somewhat agree with you, but i also don't think
just because someone on a diet should be made to
feel awkward by a "food pusher" who tries to get them
to eat a little bit of everything. we all know one, whether
it be our grandmothers, mothers, aunts. they have the
best intentions, but they are notorious pushers.
they shouldn't take a dieter's choices personal at all.

now a dieter who constantly talks about their diet and makes
others feel bad for not being on one, however, should
definitely stay home on thanksgiving! more for me, i say  ;D
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: articx on November 21, 2011, 08:12:57 am
Yes, they should if they choose to. People on diets, also those who are not, should not feel they have to eat a large amount of food.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: girlswin2 on November 21, 2011, 09:00:28 am
No just b/c someone is on a diet they shouldn't stay home from a Thanksgiving dinner.  If they eat sensibly and just take it slow like they would at home there would be no problem.  If anyone suggests they eat more and this and that they should reply thank you but I can't eat that much anymore.  Maybe later or I'll take some home with me.  Don't let it stop them from going to be with family trust me life is to short to start doing like that.  Enjoy family and friends and live life to fullest within goals and paramaters you have set.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!! :wave: 
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: oldbuddy on November 21, 2011, 05:55:14 pm
I am on a diet, but I certainly won't let that keep me from spending quality time with my family and enjoying it completely. What difference does it make if I fill up on turkey and veggies instead of all the sweet stuff?
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: gaylasue on November 22, 2011, 05:51:44 am
Thanksgiving isn't just about eating.  It's a time to be thankful for what you have been blessed.  Family is one of the greatest blessings.  Count blessings where you can, you can have the extra piece of pie that they turn down! 
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: bretay on November 22, 2011, 07:22:28 am
I think they should come to dinner and find something that can eat or consider that day a splurge and enjoy the food and family
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: franlee46 on November 22, 2011, 09:39:41 am
I am on a diet, but I certainly won't let that keep me from spending quality time with my family and enjoying it completely. What difference does it make if I fill up on turkey and veggies instead of all the sweet stuff?

You can always go and just have fun catch up with family and friends happenings and just make food secondary I am always watching what I eat because of health issues I agree with you old buddy Happy Thanksgiving
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: ajann1983 on November 22, 2011, 10:51:27 am
everyone should be together on Thanksgiving; diet or no diet.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: derrick12480 on November 22, 2011, 11:45:08 am
Just watch what you eat no matter what the place or time is.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: shepherdchik on November 22, 2011, 12:35:51 pm
I think you can still eat sensibly even on a holiday..but if you're that strict on yourself about your diet then don't complain that you can't eat anything :/ just do what you want and let everyone else enjoy themselves.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: eman27 on November 22, 2011, 12:36:46 pm
Ofcourse they should.  Heck, this is the one time when they have an excuse to divert from the strenuous diet regimen they've been sticking to lol.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: africanclaudie on November 22, 2011, 12:54:33 pm
I agree with Gaylasue - Thanksgiving is not just about eating (although that's a huge part). It's time to catch up with those pesky aunts and cousins (just joking) and family at least once a year!
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: remediagirl on November 22, 2011, 03:22:37 pm
Nobody should be on a diet. People just need to change their eating habits and lifestyles and then stay with it. The results of taking care of yourself is soooo worth it. Holiday meals are a great challenge for one to make a change in the amount of food they eat and amount of exercise they get. Don't let the holidays be an excuse to over eat and be lazy.   :heart:
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: MudValley on November 22, 2011, 03:59:11 pm
My mom is on a strict diet and she always makes thanksgiving supper. Yes, she does have to pick what she can eat, but she does it so that all of us can be together for at least one day a year. What we eat isn't the main thing. If I were dieting, I would definitely still go for supper. Proper dieting, unless its for a medical reason(diabetes, etc), is all about moderation. I truly believe that I burn more calories at family get togethers anyways, with all the games being played and the laughter.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: mynevaeh on November 22, 2011, 05:12:33 pm
I don't think that just because someone is on a diet they should stay home.  Thanksgiving is about giving thanks not about the Food or the diet.  If they feel uncomfortable about the food that is there I would just take small portions.  After all it's just 1 day out of the year.  On a day like that you would not want to miss the family dinner just because of a diet.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: lucky382001 on November 22, 2011, 05:19:29 pm
I would think the non dieters would be more understanding than uncomfortable. I say let the dieters come to dinner.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: jski107 on November 23, 2011, 06:01:45 am
I would just advise those individuals who are on a diet during Thanksgiving to stop!  It is one of the hardest times of the year to start a diet and why waste all that delicious food and family time for "cutting calories".
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: samiole32 on November 23, 2011, 06:14:49 am
I think they should go because its very good to be together as a family this doesn't happen every day But when they go they should know that they are not going just to eat its they are going to share special event and they can eat whatever they feel they are OK with without giving comments about diet and what they are eating when they eat no body looks at their plate. but when they talk about it they made it clear and obvious which they shouldn't do
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: lvstephanie on November 23, 2011, 07:00:27 am
I try to watch what I eat, but that doesn't stop me from enjoying Thanksgiving with the family. 'Course it helps that diabetes runs in the family, and my sis is a dietician. But seriously, Thanksgiving should be a time to get together with those you love; food is secondary in importance.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: acarswell on November 23, 2011, 07:08:56 am
I think that thanksgiving should be more about spending time with loved ones and appriciating what you have. Its all about being thankful.  Even if someone is on a diet they should still be able to enjoy family and friends.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: mynevaeh on November 23, 2011, 09:17:39 am
Very well put people it's about the family and getting together not the food!  ;)
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: Skyisbluetoday on November 23, 2011, 10:21:45 am
I think that Thanksgiving's not only about the food. Thanksgiving's about family and friends. If someone choose's a diet during the holiday's it's ok. You can still eat as much as you want too!
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: bowrunner on November 23, 2011, 10:53:57 am
One day off of the diet is not going to hurt anything.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: sdecaro558 on November 24, 2011, 09:12:50 am
Either take a day off from your diet or eat the Thanksgiving meal in moderation.  Just requires more self control than most times.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: bigfoot951 on November 25, 2011, 08:06:39 am
I don't think there is anything wrong with letting lose for one meal a year.  If it is a mental thing where they eat like that for this meal and they have trouble staying on their diet after thanksgiving then that seems like a personal problem that doesn't have anything to do with thanksgiving dinner.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: Sunshine4372 on November 25, 2011, 08:13:55 am
I think it is a holiday and they should enjoy themselves.  If it such a big deal then do a little extra cardio for the extra they eat.  I don't think one day every once in a while will break them, if they are doing exercise to work it off.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: acurtsinger2 on November 25, 2011, 08:21:14 am
YES.....THEY SHOULDNT BE PUNNISHED BECAUSE THEY ARE DIETING OR OVERWEIGHT.  IF THE HOST OF THE PARTY KNOWS SOMEONE IS DIETING THEY SHOULD HAVE A FEW HEALTHY ITEMS ON THE MENU FOR THE DAY.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: tzs on November 25, 2011, 08:54:03 am
THat really depends on the person. If they have the will power to resist all of that good food , then yes. :heart:
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: MsHoUlDeRs on November 25, 2011, 09:00:38 am
they should certainly go.. thanksgiving is not only about the food and if your diet keeps from enjoying even the smallest portions of the food everyone else is eating.. you can always bring your own and still enjoy the family :)
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: monnee on November 25, 2011, 10:03:22 am
Yes, being with family is part of the holiday too.
Title: Re: Should People On A Diets Go To Family Dinners For Thanksgiving?
Post by: Getinonthis on November 25, 2011, 10:10:36 am
I think that one should go unless the thanksgiving dinner is about all you can eat.
But in terms of a family gathering yeah sure, also do you eat for others or for yourself.

Simple truth though.
One can diet and still eat, dieting is about controlled eating which is beneficial if you stay away from
not all but too much starch. Which leaves room for one to have a full plate or even seconds,
Grab some white meats, vegetables, beans, a little cranberry sauce, as little stuffing depending on what it's made with,
a scoop of ice cream to go with that "small" piece of pie. Some fruit juice and water
           and that'll  leave everyone else questioning who's actually on a diet.

Be sure to do a covered but loud burp afterwards, just to silence the naysayers. lol