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Title: do you get along with your inlaws
Post by: aggie49 on April 16, 2012, 11:30:33 am
i do i love them they are great
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Post by: Barbaralynne on April 16, 2012, 11:31:53 am
Back when they were alive I did, I loved them, it was my ex I could not stand.
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Post by: jwallbank on April 16, 2012, 11:47:04 am
I do, I was probably affected more by my Mother-in-law passing then my own Mom. Not that I didn't love my Mom but, I probably got to know my In-Laws quite well since we were around my Wife's parents more than Mine. My Father in law is still around at 81 and is a great guy!!
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Post by: faysweet on April 16, 2012, 12:27:14 pm
i do they help me a lot
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Post by: foxylady81 on April 16, 2012, 12:53:07 pm
as long as u dont go to them to talk about their child and i suggest never live with your inlaws if at al posible because it can put a reff in anything
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Post by: mintopewku on April 16, 2012, 02:27:46 pm
Well, I am getting married this coming Sunday...so 6 days!  But I've been around my future inlaws plenty.  I think the biggest change will be if I have kids with my husband.  Overall, my inlaws are great people.  I recognize we have some differences, nothing major.  Mainly I would say I was brought up a little more PC than their family.  But Im the girl, in the south the girl is often raised to follow the mannor conduct more so than the boy.  Considering some of my hesitations I only hope that if we do have kids, I get a girl.  I'm not willing to say that my boy is allowed to be rude or have less rules because of their sex LOL  Will avoid most of that drama by not having a boy.  Time will tell   :bunny:
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Post by: gettisbrooks on April 16, 2012, 02:29:00 pm
 :- Well they are not around to find out  :dontknow: ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: africanclaudie on April 16, 2012, 02:43:52 pm
I did when they were alive. I learned a lot from my mother-in-law - she was a wise old lady. I still miss her.
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Post by: mattc4000 on April 16, 2012, 05:52:06 pm
Most people complain about their in-laws but I have nothing but amazing things to say about mine.  I couldn't ask for a better set of 2nd parents than mine.  They have been unbelievable kind and generous to me.
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Post by: fc2 on April 16, 2012, 05:56:44 pm
as long as u dont go to them to talk about their child and i suggest never live with your inlaws if at al posible because it can put a reff in anything

agreed. if evuhboddy's narcissistic. living with in-laws is a waste of time
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Post by: PMZ908 on April 16, 2012, 07:31:32 pm
i have no reason not to like them
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Post by: smithjcsdfw on April 16, 2012, 09:51:58 pm
I get along with them a lot better than outlaws.  We are all pretty much focused on doing what is best for the grandchildren and we communicate well and often.
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Post by: springsgardner on April 16, 2012, 10:03:30 pm
Well, I am getting married this coming Sunday...so 6 days!  But I've been around my future inlaws plenty.  I think the biggest change will be if I have kids with my husband.  Overall, my inlaws are great people.  I recognize we have some differences, nothing major.  Mainly I would say I was brought up a little more PC than their family.  But Im the girl, in the south the girl is often raised to follow the mannor conduct more so than the boy.  Considering some of my hesitations I only hope that if we do have kids, I get a girl.  I'm not willing to say that my boy is allowed to be rude or have less rules because of their sex LOL  Will avoid most of that drama by not having a boy.  Time will tell   :bunny:

Congrats!

When I first married, we got a long great. However, it seems that no matter what I do, my MIL thinks I'm not so great. Instead of worrying about it, I just do what is best for my family.
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Post by: CHANEYLAKEGIRL on April 17, 2012, 03:15:26 am
Its a strained relationship. I try to keep it positive.
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Post by: ljrjess69 on April 17, 2012, 04:39:16 am
been married 25 years and yes i do,,mother in law has altimers and is in a nursing home home,dosent remeber who anyone is,,so sad,,sure do miss the good old days  ,she was a gread lady  :cat:
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Post by: amstewart on April 17, 2012, 06:00:01 am
I get along with my inlaws, like most people I interact with.
I do feel like they are distant and spend more time with other grandkids, instead of my kids.
They live close by and could see my kids more.  I guess you enjoy the times you do have, instead of dwelling on what you don't! :heart:
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Post by: 2getherwewin on April 18, 2012, 12:05:04 am
YES VERY MUCH SO THEY LOVE ME LIKE THEIR OWN AND I LOVE THEM AS MY OWN.