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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Topic started by: sherylkay35 on March 08, 2009, 06:05:33 am
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for all those out there who got a baby daddy who dont do for his children, dont get upset, just live with it, because they may owe thousands in child support payments, but why make yourself upset if your baby daddy cant step up to the plate like a man. pray and lean on Jesus because he is the one who we all in this world should be leaning on anyway. GOD is our provider, he is our savior, and when ever you need him he shows up right on time. but remember you have to believe and trust in him before he can move mountains within your life. have faith, and GOD BLESS YOU.
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i agree wit what you posted god is the one we need to lean on and look to for the wisdom and guidence in our lives but also if the man can make the baby he should at least put in the time to help raise the child and to mold the child into a young person who is a good person and that will contribute to this world
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i pledge, that all have the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness
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Most men just aren't worth it. My experience, even today is that MOST( don't get ticked if you are one of the good ones) men are lying, cheating dogs...At least the ones I always end up with. I would be happy if the one I was with now went back to his twisted ex, but he is trying to stay together to make up for cheating and knocking his ex while I was 6mo. preg. It is better to be alone. :thumbsup:
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:notworthy: i agree
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Men who don't take care of their kids OFFEND me..... :bs:
I believe that because I helped bring them (my kids) into the world, The I have a responsibility to give them ever chance to succeed and be happy,
more than once my WHOLE paycheck went to them (in child support and other stuff that they needed)
and i dont regret one penny..... :notworthy: :notworthy: I'm blessed to have them in my life.... :notworthy: :notworthy:
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wow...random topic much? lol :bootyshake:
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Men who don't take care of their kids OFFEND me..... :bs:
I believe that because I helped bring them (my kids) into the world, The I have a responsibility to give them ever chance to succeed and be happy,
more than once my WHOLE paycheck went to them (in child support and other stuff that they needed)
and i dont regret one penny..... :notworthy: :notworthy: I'm blessed to have them in my life.... :notworthy: :notworthy:
Look everyone it is the elusive GOOD MAN. They are very rare in these parts. Be very careful that you don't scare him off, they tend to be very skitish. Seriously though, it is nice to know that there are still decent men out there. :thumbsup:
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jester2dr is a great guy and men all around the world need to take lessons from him. I am honored to call him my friend. God bless you jester2dr! :thumbsup: :notworthy: :D
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I agree with jester2dr. My thoughts are that men who don't take care of their kids needs to be beaten. If they have enough time to make them they need to take care of them to. :angry7:
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I agree with jester2dr. My thoughts are that men who don't take care of their kids needs to be beaten. If they have enough time to make them they need to take care of them to. :angry7:
honey, sometimes the best thing the loser can do for the kids is stay the F##k out of their lives.
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I do agree with you on that.
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jester2dr is a great guy and men all around the world need to take lessons from him. I am honored to call him my friend. God bless you jester2dr! :thumbsup: :notworthy: :D
shhhhhh... dont tell anyone, but I have faults too...... :dontknow:
this will just be between us right??? ???
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i can't stand men who can lay down to make a baby but not take care of one! most of the men i know at least talk to their kids, but some act like they don't even know them. when i get pregnant someday, if my baby daddy leaves me and won't pay child support, i think i'd take them to court and get their pay checks sent to me.
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jester2dr is a great guy and men all around the world need to take lessons from him. I am honored to call him my friend. God bless you jester2dr! :thumbsup: :notworthy: :D
shhhhhh... dont tell anyone, but I have faults too...... :dontknow:
this will just be between us right??? ???
Yeah sure no problem. :angel12: ;D
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i can't stand men who can lay down to make a baby but not take care of one! most of the men i know at least talk to their kids, but some act like they don't even know them. when i get pregnant someday, if my baby daddy leaves me and won't pay child support, i think i'd take them to court and get their pay checks sent to me.
this may sound prudish,
but don't have sex before you know the person well enough to decide to marry them,
no sex = no kids
I already know that someone's gonna read this and say "what about birth control".....
Well my second son was conceived on birth control, (that was used correctly, and administered by a Dr.)
My wife at the time was nervous about telling me, but i was so excited and happy, and love my son indescribably!!!
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jester2dr is a great guy and men all around the world need to take lessons from him. I am honored to call him my friend. God bless you jester2dr! :thumbsup: :notworthy: :D
shhhhhh... dont tell anyone, but I have faults too...... :dontknow:
this will just be between us right??? ???
Hey Jester you may have faults but not where it counts. You take care of your kids.
There are so many men out there who aren't worth the breath they take when it comes to taking care of their babies.
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hey jester2dr i have one of the good guys now too. were not saying yall are perfect cause theres no such thing. i love my husband and he is a great father and stepfather. for reasons beyond his control, he is not able to see his daughter from his first marriage but i pay his child support every month on time. she is still his responsiblity, even though his ex is a royal *bleep*(seriously) my ex pays child support now. i dont agree that the man should be able to just walk away. fine if he dont want to see them, but they are his also. he should have to struggle just as much as the mother. i am a firm believer in child support and will take him to court to get it. why should kids do without when the dad is living large? :bs:
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hey jester2dr i have one of the good guys now too. were not saying yall are perfect cause theres no such thing. i love my husband and he is a great father and stepfather. for reasons beyond his control, he is not able to see his daughter from his first marriage but i pay his child support every month on time. she is still his responsiblity, even though his ex is a royal *bleep*(seriously) my ex pays child support now. i dont agree that the man should be able to just walk away. fine if he dont want to see them, but they are his also. he should have to struggle just as much as the mother. i am a firm believer in child support and will take him to court to get it. why should kids do without when the dad is living large? :bs:
i agree totally!!!!
even if i couldn't see my kids, I would still pay,
whether I see them or not, they still have needs that I can help meet by supporting them,
and before it comes up (What if she doesn't use the money for the kids?)
as far as i'm concerned, it doesn't matter to me if she uses the money i send to go out dancing,
if she does, then that mean she doesn't have to use other money to do it, which leaves more money to help my kids...
without it she (though it would be me causing it) would have to take away from the kids to do it..... :wave:
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That is so true i have a baby daddy . I told myself that i should not have to remind him to take care of his child . He knows he has one just like i do.
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These are not real men they are little boys. It disgusts me when a man just leaves and doesn't take care of his responsibility. Some women make it difficult for some men to see their children for no reason but to be spiteful. You can't make someone take responsibility so like the op said just do what you can and keep moving. It's frustrating but focus on taking care of your children the best way you can and don't wast precious time and energy on something you can't control.
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I agree with the last post why have sex with someone you don't really know well. No sex= No problem. When you have sex the wrong way it means you have this issue.
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These are not real men they are little boys. It disgusts me when a man just leaves and doesn't take care of his responsibility. Some women make it difficult for some men to see their children for no reason but to be spiteful. You can't make someone take responsibility so like the op said just do what you can and keep moving. It's frustrating but focus on taking care of your children the best way you can and don't wast precious time and energy on something you can't control.
I'm going through something like this now, my husband can't stop thinking about himself to realize that he has a family to take care of and his wife is tired of doing it all on her own. He's an ok father to his son but I know that he can be better, but hey I can't force him to change, but at the same time I need for him to do what he has to do as a man. I have stressed this so much that it feels as if I am talking to a brick wall.
I really like the last quote. My kids are my life and I am going to raise my son and daughter to be better than me.
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Its most interesting to me that most people say that MEN are the lying cheating dogs. Lol like women don't cheat? Girl power or not, I believe that just as many men cheat as women, females just know how to hide it better. Such a sexist stereotype.