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Title: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: sgluckadoo on July 05, 2012, 02:41:14 pm
What's the worst thing a loved one ever said to you?

One that sticks out in my mind, is my father telling me not to get fat shortly before my wedding.
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: falcon9 on July 05, 2012, 02:49:29 pm
Hearing "jesus saves" one too many times, (though it's likely that one of the worst things someone who said that to me heard was my reply, 'if so, the only one who can "save" me from haysus is me').

If "jesus saves", he'd be losing equity by not having a more diversified investment portfolio.
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: natashaspy on July 05, 2012, 03:33:15 pm
with the parents i grew up with, there's too many to choose from....but i would probably have to say when i had pneumonia, my mom telling me to go ahead and die
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: falcon9 on July 05, 2012, 03:35:13 pm
with the parents i grew up with, there's too many to choose from....but i would probably have to say when i had pneumonia, my mom telling me to go ahead and die

Harsh.  I'm told I was sarcastic, (and nimble), even at a young age and would've replied "you first".
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: natashaspy on July 05, 2012, 03:37:08 pm
harsh yes...but i just lived to help make her miserable having me around instead :)
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: falcon9 on July 05, 2012, 03:39:30 pm
harsh yes...but i just lived to help make her miserable having me around instead :)

That was probably the best "revenge"; continued existence.
 :o
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: brum7814 on July 05, 2012, 03:53:24 pm
The worst thing anyone ever said to me was when I went to spatula city for the buy 5 get 1 free deal and they said they were OUT OF STOCK.  Nah, I don't know.  I deal with so many people on a weekly, monthly, yearly basis it all becomes fuzzy.  If someone says something halfway constructive I usually just reply I've been called worse by better.   =-P
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: Phx0808 on July 05, 2012, 03:54:37 pm
My dad to telling me I would never amount to a pile of shyte. I was 9 at the time.

Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 05, 2012, 04:08:00 pm
Hey Falcon9,I got one thing to say:Jesus Saves!  :D
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: falcon9 on July 05, 2012, 04:09:24 pm
Hey Falcon9:Jesus Saves!  :D

"He" hasn't 'saved' you from the ignorance of ignoring by not ignoring so, there is that.
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 05, 2012, 04:17:43 pm
Man,if that's the worst thing I could say to you,you're really a strange one........
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: falcon9 on July 05, 2012, 04:23:22 pm
Man,if that's the worst thing I could say to you,you're really a strange one........

That's a hoot, coming from a mind-blinded fundie like you.
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: natashaspy on July 05, 2012, 04:23:35 pm
Regardless of how harsh or mean loved ones (of course how loving are they if they're that mean to you?) can be...its all about how you deal with it.  You can choose to be bitter because of unfair treatment when you're young, or you can push it aside and vow to be a better person than the one you had treating you poorly. :)
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: ladavia89 on July 05, 2012, 06:46:06 pm
I don't have anything that stands out as particularly traumatic. I have plenty of family members and friends that have absolutely no filter so if it comes to them they're going to tell you so I've heard so pretty harsh things
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: dwilson2999 on July 05, 2012, 06:49:19 pm
I can't think of anything off the top of my head, but I heard this on TV:

"Ghetto Banchees B**ches"

I busted out laughing, that's what I get for watching Flavor of Love Charm School.
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: joyroos18 on July 05, 2012, 07:19:37 pm
natasha , should have let me tell her off, i did tell her to say the hell away from you, she got mad went to her room lol


i guess the worst thing was after my dad passed away my mom said , i hate him so much for what he did to her , my brother tommy ,  then added oh and you......... she knew what he did to me all these years then decided to add an oh and you on to it.  screw her. i wouldnt take care of her for anything and no clue why or how natasha does it.  the why part more than anything,
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Post by: virigarcia on July 05, 2012, 08:45:09 pm
I don't remember anything specific, but I have a outspoken family, so i have been told some harsh things.
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: preet5755 on July 05, 2012, 10:03:41 pm
For me
"Go to hell" is the worst thing someone has ever said to me
Title: Re: Worst thing ever said to you?
Post by: PGS28 on July 07, 2012, 01:47:58 am
When I caught my most recent ex in his philandering ways he had the nerve to try to justify his actions by saying he is "single until married".  It stung at the time (DEEPLY) but he did me a huge favor.  I have to admit it strokes my ego that he still tries to get me back after all these months, but in the words of Maya Angelou "when someone shows you who they are, believe them."