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Title: Is this rude or what?
Post by: BK_Adores_Chase on July 20, 2012, 09:22:28 am
Okay, so I'm glad people are donating their things, but I go to the local baby pantry in my town twice a month and some of the things people donate aren't washed, they have like food stuck to them...it's like, HELLO, can you at least wash it before you donate?  You might as well save yourself a trip and toss it in the garbage because I don't want to take it home in that condition!
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: Skyisbluetoday on July 20, 2012, 10:09:28 am
I do think they should wash items before they donate or try to have someone else give or resale it to someone else! Would be nicer if they did!  :wave:
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: LenoraMinogue on July 20, 2012, 10:18:50 am
It would be nice if they washed items before donating them, but at least they took the time to donate them. I think just throwing things away is worse.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: frozenimage on July 21, 2012, 11:25:28 am
Yes and no; well, I think as long as they are donating, it won't be as bad as not donating anything at all. I agree that the food parts stuck in clothing is rude, people should have it cleaned at least.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: tashamjoy on July 21, 2012, 09:14:28 pm
Oh wow that is I know my mom washes before she donates the other day she did 4 loads of laundry to donate thats just crazy !!!
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: marcar1008 on July 21, 2012, 09:44:59 pm
I think whoever is in charge to distribute the donations should be in charge that items are in good condition. Rich people will not take the time to wash them before donating. They will wash only if they keep and use again.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: clickers on July 21, 2012, 09:53:20 pm
Giving things away that you don't want anymore should not be in dirty condition. Think about yourself would you like to receive something that's dirty.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: CharmedPhoenix on July 22, 2012, 01:14:57 am
Where I live the places that take donations only take them if they are clean.   :thumbsup:

I had a neighbor that would throw out perfectly good clothes and household items.  I reclaimed some, cleaned them up and passed them on.  I can't stand waste.  The landfills take up enough space we need to think of future generations.   :peace:
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: Screwedupclick4life337 on July 22, 2012, 02:55:47 am
That just  goes to show you everyone  isn't  clean  no disrespect  but that is disgusting
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: sdenimandlace1 on July 22, 2012, 06:33:58 am
That why you always wash things you bring home from different place, you can never be sure they are real clean.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: diala84 on July 22, 2012, 08:46:57 am
It is better to donate than to throw clothes in the trash even if they can't or won't wash them. Hopefully someone is willing to clean them and bring use to an otherwise thrown away product.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: blondie71 on July 22, 2012, 10:30:45 am
I always wash before I donate! That is just lazziness.  I made ok money so my son was with new close until he was 4T and I quit working and I had to shop at thrift stores and I would not buy anything that would look like that and that was years ago.  But I have noticed some mothers are lazy my sister in law didn't want to hold her children to feed so they didn't get breast feed but a creak in there necks to keep sucking that bottle where ever she would propted it up at.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: Hurricanekiz on July 22, 2012, 01:25:39 pm
At least they made the attempt to donate it. They probably didn;t have the money to wash it!
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: sherryfan on July 22, 2012, 01:57:13 pm
You guys are right, at least they donate it. Even they clean it before they donate it, I think it is good habits still clean it, before using it.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: reiddb on July 22, 2012, 02:00:43 pm
Most of the time it is just laziness.  I don't know....If it has stains, I pretty much throw them away.  I hear ya!
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: madeara on July 22, 2012, 03:23:39 pm
Hello,
I agree with you.  People need to wash the clothes before donating them.  Remember the Golden Rule and treat others the way you want to be treated.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: goofysw2002 on July 22, 2012, 03:30:04 pm
I don't think this is rude, I would want to get clothing that is washed not dirty that is quit nasty getting dirty clothes that r donated. U should wash them before u donate them just saying.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: dyano on July 22, 2012, 03:55:46 pm
i think alot of the people donating are usually buying new stuff and since they are getting rid of the old by donating they figure why wash it, im getting rid of it. they probably never had to wear donated clothes :peace:
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: vickysue on July 22, 2012, 04:59:37 pm
I believe you should always was them. If they are not clean who would want to buy them. I know that i wouldn't want too. I even wash the clothes i buy at the store before wearing them. You never know who tried them on.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: 95langy on July 24, 2012, 08:17:19 am
I believe some people would think of donations as slightly more optimistic ways to dispose of unwanted clothes. Of course, like everyone else says, it'd be quite nice to wash them before donating. I think it's rather disrespectful to donate dirty clothes
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: patrick122068 on July 29, 2012, 07:56:29 pm
If anyone truly cares about the people that they are donating to, yes they should wash them first. It is disrespectful and lazy.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: ninajay on July 29, 2012, 09:02:48 pm
That's gross... I worked at a Goodwill temporarily and I recall the manager said to always wear gloves when going through the bags of clothing. After working there for a couple days I found out why. You wouldn't believe the stuff people would donate without washing. Sometimes it was so bad we would just throw the whole bag away.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: txmar922 on July 29, 2012, 11:00:41 pm
they should wash items before donating
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: jnjmolly on July 29, 2012, 11:33:37 pm
I agree that it is a great thing to donate items but someone should be responsible of washing them out before them give them to others!
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: tdecet on July 29, 2012, 11:37:55 pm
Yes that is very rude.  At least they could wash items before donating them.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: champak97 on July 30, 2012, 12:56:52 am
Yes and no. Atleast they took the time to donate, and did not throw stuff away. The place which resells needs to make sure that stuff is clean before putting it up for sale.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: plennis on July 30, 2012, 07:12:49 am
I think you should stop and think.  Would you want something that was dirty or stained or did not work any more?  I cannot believe how many people take things that are broken in to donate.  If it doesn't work anymore throw it away, if it is badly stained, throw it away.  Don't give it to a charity and act like it is a good thing,it is NOT.  A large part of the sorting they do is spent throwing away items that should not have been brought to them in the first place.   Do unto others as you wish they would do unto you!
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: sak4kat on July 30, 2012, 08:45:49 am
That just show's how lazy and gross people are.  I've donated and purchased from places like Goodwill and would never think in a million years to drop off something that had food ground into or stuck on.  I know the staff there works hard and organizing and putting out what they can so I can only imagine some of the things they come across.  Thank goodness I've never run into anything disgusting like that there or I may just be turned away from frequenting.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: inkfection on July 30, 2012, 10:03:25 am
I guess I fall under the category of most people that it's better than throwing it away. Donating an item that is ruined due to it, now that's ridiculous. However, it's better to give something to those in need if it's not in the best condition. I just keep reminding myself that there are those worse off than me that could use stuff I don't think isn't important. Still a bit rude, but bless them for donating.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: feelewis on July 30, 2012, 02:23:01 pm
certain things should be washed like baby clothes but also aren't you gonna wash it over before you wear it anyways??? hello its donated not bandnew other ppls body was all up in threw it.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: ttix67 on July 30, 2012, 03:39:08 pm
It does seem fairly rude and almost disrespectful in a sense but at the same, they are donating.  Then again, donating something that is dirty is more degrading if anything and that's not very charitable in my opinion.  I feel that people should have some degree of mutual respect for each other regardless of whether you're in need of something or the person giving it away.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: constance312003 on July 30, 2012, 05:08:08 pm
I think it is very rude.  They need to think of how they would feel if someone gave them those items.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: tantricia44 on July 30, 2012, 11:20:07 pm
My Big sis & I are opposite in this area. Big sis just says throw it the donation box even if it's really gross.She reasons that I don't have time to be nice. My thing is, it's really shameful to donate something that could help people but don't take the effort to clean it & make it presentable. I too think that if you don't have time to clean up stuff to donate; then trash it! :thumbsup: :wave:
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: raepadilla123 on July 30, 2012, 11:31:34 pm
True i agree. Some people just have no shame  they really see it as giving.. lol yuck
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: ptfunds on July 30, 2012, 11:32:13 pm
I do hear you and can imagine that was really disappointing!  I, too, am familiar with the policy of our shops here only taking items that are clean and not stained.  It's hard to imagine that the clerk who put the clothing out didn't notice.  Food particles on clothing is a little hard to miss if your looking to be sure something is in nice shape.  I think, in general, most people wash things they get in thrift stores before wearing them, but I certainly wouldn't want to buy something that still had food stuck to it!  
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: davidh121 on July 30, 2012, 11:38:26 pm
People should have the courtesy of cleaning the products or making the item at least presentable. However, I'm not sure there is any particular rules set in stone on the condition of items donated as long as they're not hazardous.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: raven1114 on July 31, 2012, 12:21:25 am
I agree a little soap and water will clean most things.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: kewl4reals on July 31, 2012, 01:58:07 am
Okay, so I'm glad people are donating their things, but I go to the local baby pantry in my town twice a month and some of the things people donate aren't washed, they have like food stuck to them...it's like, HELLO, can you at least wash it before you donate?  You might as well save yourself a trip and toss it in the garbage because I don't want to take it home in that condition!

I would say that is lazy, yes; but rude, not really.  I mean the person is doing a good deed by donating their item- and I agree, they should wash it. no questions asked on that.  But would not call that rude, more like lazy.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: elysee24 on July 31, 2012, 07:10:23 am
The thought was nice but the action was pretty mean.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: SherylsShado on July 31, 2012, 07:17:03 pm
  The item(s) really should be re-washed before using anyway, to not re-wash even if the item "looks" clean is gross. 
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: trucktina on July 31, 2012, 07:46:32 pm
It's possible that the clothes were donated by someone kicking a roommate (or a relative) out. It also could have been the clothing of a deceased love one. They wouldn't check to see if there were dirty clothes in there, you know?
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: javadog597 on July 31, 2012, 08:18:19 pm
I think it's rude that they don't wash up their items before they donate because it seems like they're using this charity program as a glorified garbage can. It's also up to the pantry to clean up the items before they give them out though so it's kind of a double-sided sword. Of course, if the pantry told the contributors to not donate until everything is clean, they probably would stop donating all together.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: mrisha on August 02, 2012, 09:37:07 am
Why people would donate something in that condition tells you how they feel about cleanliness.  They don't care-I would hate to see their homes.  Just plain filthy.
Title: Re: Is this rude or what?
Post by: kingreyam24 on August 02, 2012, 09:48:56 am
I don't think these people care whether it's getting donated or not. They probably could not find a trash can big enough for the stuff. I've noticed a lot of times around here the donation bins will have stuff piled up around it. The stuff will be old and junky and not in a useable condition. It's like they think that is a legitimate dumping spot for their trash. It is very rude.