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Are women in todays world always walking around with their hands out for what u can do? Do they seem needy? Asking for money or wanting to see you othen then eventually moving in only to lose their job and now becoming a chronic mucher do u hear can u get me this ....or can I have that?
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Honestly I think that goes both ways...I know there are women out there who most definately act that way however I am sure there are just as many men looking for someone to take over where mommy left off...I know people of both sexes that act that way so I don't think it's a matter of "needy women" I do however think there are "needy people"...I am a single mother of 4 daughters and have raised these girls on my own without a man around for many years...I don't need a man to pay my bills or to wait on me hand and foot when I am perfectly capable of doing it myself and actually I feel really good about myself for standing on my own two feet...unfortunately there are many people out there who just want to live off of others but as far as it being "needy women"...I have to disagree...it goes both ways.
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Mouching goes both ways. There are many men out there who wants a woman to take care of them. Look at the many gigolos out there who have their hands out asking for money, cars etc. There are many men out there who sees the type of job a women has, her salary, her car, her clothes, and guess what, the man wants the same thing, but do not want to work for them. Some will go so far as to ask the woman to marry them to get it. The sad part about it-some women actually fall for it thinking the man loves them.
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women r weird
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Honestly I think that goes both ways...I know there are women out there who most definately act that way however I am sure there are just as many men looking for someone to take over where mommy left off...I know people of both sexes that act that way so I don't think it's a matter of "needy women" I do however think there are "needy people"...I am a single mother of 4 daughters and have raised these girls on my own without a man around for many years...I don't need a man to pay my bills or to wait on me hand and foot when I am perfectly capable of doing it myself and actually I feel really good about myself for standing on my own two feet...unfortunately there are many people out there who just want to live off of others but as far as it being "needy women"...I have to disagree...it goes both ways.
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YES! Avsolutely SO..I Agree withyou.
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Mouching goes both ways. There are many men out there who wants a woman to take care of them. Look at the many gigolos out there who have their hands out asking for money, cars etc. There are many men out there who sees the type of job a women has, her salary, her car, her clothes, and guess what, the man wants the same thing, but do not want to work for them. Some will go so far as to ask the woman to marry them to get it. The sad part about it-some women actually fall for it thinking the man loves them.
Oh yeah, I have met a few of those....there are plenty of them out there.
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Women are not more needy than men. Women just need the security, especially when she has to raise children.
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i once dated a guy that literally would pluck my paycheck from my hand and say he was gonna "go cash it for me"....i got ciggs from my checks but that was IT, he bought himself cell phones, and clothes anything else he "needed"...so NO it goes BOTH ways
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:bootyshake: I am 53 years old, and NEVER asked a man for a thing!!! I own my own home, and have my own income. If a woman asks a man for money, she is just a sleeze !!!!
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I have been a mom since 18, I can honestly say I have never asked anyone to get me anything..and have been employed at 2 jobs up until my youngest had medical issues. We make the best of what we have even if it's not a lot. Please don't generalize women like this..I know plenty men who are just the same!
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i pretty much agree with what everyone else is saying.
that sort of thing can go one way just as easily as the other. :thumbsup:
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yep a two-way street! it's gotta be even more embarassing to be a man and be douchey like that tho!
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i think there is nothing as needy women, women that act needy just need some assurance that their men wiill be there for them, and most women like that have had a bad relationship in the past, so they are just holding on to the one they have
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Needy women need to get therapy, then get a life.
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As do needy men...
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WELL I CAN FOR MYSELF IN THIS SITUATION. I AM VERY INDEPENDENT, AND NOT LIKE DETINY'S CHILD AND BEYONCE. I DO FOR MYSELF, SO THAT I DON'T HAVE TO ASK ANYBODY FOR ANYTHING. I HATE GOLD DIGGERS, AND I HATE PEOPLE WHO STEREOTYPE OTHERS WITHOUT EVEN GETTING TO KNOW THEM FIRST. I HATE TO HAVE TO ASK ANYBODY FOR ANYTHING BECAUSE THEN THEY LIKE TO THROW IT BACK UP IN YOUR FACE AS IF THEY'VE DONE SO MUCH!!! I HONESTLY BELIEVE SOME MEN ARE MORENEEDY THAN THE FEMALES YOUR TALKNG ABOUT. I WOULD CREATE A SURVEY IF I WERE YU!!
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Are women in todays world always walking around with their hands out for what u can do? Do they seem needy? Asking for money or wanting to see you othen then eventually moving in only to lose their job and now becoming a chronic mucher do u hear can u get me this ....or can I have that?
i think men and woman are pretty much the same in the needy point of view, however its susposed to be like that in my book... men is susposed to take care of the woman while she stays home and takes care of the kids and house. men are susposed to work and pay the bills and so on.
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Needy women need to get therapy, then get a life.
lol :D I agree.
But these are the type of women known as gold diggers.And I never really had patience for people like that.Always out to use somebody and then moving on to the next person.
A real woman handles her own. :thumbsup:
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Needy goes both ways because you have some needy man to just as some needy woman its both ways not just one way.
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As much as it sux, that is just how some people are. My brother and I both have ended up with total leaches. I don't think therapy will work. People like that, just move onto the next person when you kick them to the curb. Their sole purpose in life is to waste space. Oh and your money too.
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my brother still lives at home with our mom, and hes 31, and he started to date some girl and with in 2 weeks she moved into my moms house. looks like my brother and his girlfriend are both needy. oh and by the way his girlfriend is also 31. i feel bad for my mom and that she has to put up with that *bleep*. i mean what kinda girl moves in with a guy and only knows him for 2 weeks? well moves into my moms house in other words. oh and by the way i moved out of my parents house when i was 19
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I think there's a big difference between emotionally needy vs. financially needy... I can be a paranoid/overemotional girlfriend, but when it comes to money and material things, I definitely try to be independent.
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I'm sorry but it goes for both men and women. Women are more needy cuz their guy ain't doing their job correctly. Some need assurrance that someday someone would b there for them. They're needy and clingy cuz they're afraid to lose someone r something. Sometimes it's d guys fault if u know the girls needy r wants u to buy stuff for her all d tym, y do u allow it? And why did u date her? Just because she's Hot!! Am I not correct LOL mayb I'm wrong but it's just my point of view
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there is a difference between a girlfriend being needy and asking her boyfriend for help in hard times or maybe not. I'm not sure what you are trying to get across but when you are in a relationship and can't help each other out then how the hell are you going to ever be married ???
100% agree with that comment. I know both myself and my husband NEED each other in different types of situations. If were needy people because we depend on each other then so be it.
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:) It is not needy women...they are desperate housewives! Many men are beggars, homeless panhandlers...yes! desperate husbands...think about it!
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Sounds like you might be going through something right now ::)a There is a great website called stinkingthinking.com with Mark Gunger. He is hilarious, but he
really discusses relationships. Check it out. You would really enjoy it and be able to relate to what he's saying. One thing I do remember is that two empty people cannot fulfill each other or give to each other. If you are expecting someone to "complete you" and make you happy. It is never goiing to work. Two individuals should be happy before coming together and with a purpose in life.