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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Topic started by: lparker5 on November 29, 2012, 09:55:49 am
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I'm confused, officially running away from it all.
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well i'll follow you ok
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I'm confused, officially running away from it all.
Okay......I'm confused too, so I'm gonna run out of here! :bs:
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same here lol we all will run away :)
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I don't get what's going on this thread. Are y'all running away just to be running away? lol
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I'm confused, officially running away from it all.
Are you alright?
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I'd rather FIGHT than SWITCH. :D
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i need an adventure so im going too :thumbsup:
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what are we running from
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It's stuff like this that causes riots.
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If you run far enough you'll circle the globe and be right back where you started. :wave:
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My son-in-law is lost in Alaska, but i don't think he's run away, I just think he has gone to a safe place and we're praying for him... there is a lot of press about this if you look...
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I am confused too as this is very vague and we don't really know what you are confused about. If I ran everytime I was confused then I would have been long gone a long time ago. Life wouldn't be any fun if it was easy all of the time.
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I am confused by this thread and after this post, I think I will run away from this topic.
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I am confused about everything going on around here in my home. It's a really long story but hey if you all wanna run away with me that is great more the merrier right...I tell myself that every one needs a shoulder to lean on well I am every one's around here and get *bleep* on all the time but who is my shoulder when I need someone. If I am the mother then my opinion should matter whether she is my step daughter or not, if I am the girl friend then I should be respected, we've been together 7 years so hello what is the problem with him and her. It confuses me and I sure can't take it so being that their is much more to the subject I am running away. I will be ok I won't be alright but thanks for asking.
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I'm staying put.
I'd rather stand my ground and figure it out rather than run from it and never figure it out.
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How about running to something? It's always good to have a plan and a destination.
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Sorry dear. I sorta understand how you feel. I'm the person that every complains to around here and yet when I want to talk it seems like no one has the time or they want to solve it for me. I have no problem with people saying, "well, have you tried..." but a lot of the time it's "you should go do this..." It's really frustrating.
I don't know how old your step daughter or daughter is, but it could just be the age where they pull away from parents. My mom likes to try and force her views on me, where I would just prefer she listens and maybe asks what I plan to do instead of telling me (then again, I'm 23, so it's a bit different). Also, if her and her father are closer, perhaps she feels you are just intruding into her life when you offer advice. I don't really know personally, but I've had friends that felt their step parents were overstepping or ignoring the little things only to force their views on bigger things. I don't know if this is you or not, so I could be completely off base.
As for your boyfriend, I'm assuming, I would say to try talking to him. I've had my friends all complain to me about their boyfriends, yet they don't bring it up with them. My mom will complain about something my father does, yet she doesn't talk to him about it. I don't know you so I don't know if you talk to your boyfriend or not, but generally it helps either the relationship or it helps you both decided to go your separate ways. You could also try talking to him about the step daughter as well.
If you want to do something else, I'd highly recommend writing up what is going on. Get all the details out and one paper (or a computer screen) and then reread it. Sometimes you can see things that way and solve your own issues, and then you also got it out without sharing it with those on the internet. Maybe go find a friend and tell them all this to see if they will listen to you. Just saying it can make things better.
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I am confused about everything going on around here in my home. It's a really long story but hey if you all wanna run away with me that is great more the merrier right...I tell myself that every one needs a shoulder to lean on well I am every one's around here and get *bleep* on all the time but who is my shoulder when I need someone. If I am the mother then my opinion should matter whether she is my step daughter or not, if I am the girl friend then I should be respected, we've been together 7 years so hello what is the problem with him and her. It confuses me and I sure can't take it so being that their is much more to the subject I am running away. I will be ok I won't be alright but thanks for asking.
It sounds like a lot for you during this time. I hope everything calms down and gets better for you. Yes, you should definitely be respected - I agree with you about that. I hope you can talk with your boyfriend about this, too, since it involves his daughter. {{{Hugs}}} to you and hope things get straightened out.
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sounds like you need a breather take a minute to gather yourself then go again
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WOW!! Heavy stuff. Makes me want to run away, ok!?
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If you are running away make sure to change your name and number - then don't tell anyone the new ones.
I am not running away because it is sooooo close to Christmas. :star:
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Well that's just it, I have tried to figure this out and it never seems to come into full speed if you know what I mean. It's worse then crazy here.