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Title: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 16, 2013, 10:08:18 am
I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.

With the massive influx of prayer-related threads as of late, I thought it would be most prudent to just make a thread to cover my overall dissenting viewpoint.

Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. You could argue its because god deems it so, (which is a very popular scapegoat used) but this argument is one that hurts prayer the most.

If god (assuming such a deity exist, and is in fact the god of the christian bible) is going to do whatever he/she/it wants too regardless of prayer, then what is the point of prayer exactly? I suppose you could say the whole point is just to "connect" to god (I wont get into the specifics of that argument as I'll just be going back to my previous statement that god isn't real). Just remember, though, if you believe that prayer is only used to connect to your god, then you must also be insulted by the influx of threads, posts, and the general ideology that's telling others that they can pray their problems away.

If you want to pray in your own house to make yourself feel better, that's fine. I don't support this action, but I'll leave you alone to do as you wish. When you start to tell others to pray instead of (or when they can be doing) doing something actually useful, then it becomes a problem and it needs to stop.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Sciolaro on March 16, 2013, 11:07:02 am
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Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sigmapi1501 on March 16, 2013, 11:39:49 am
I'll pray for you  :angel11:
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 16, 2013, 12:28:57 pm
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I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.

OMG U CANT PROOF THAT SO U CANT SAY THAT

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Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. You could argue its because god deems it so, (which is a very popular scapegoat used) but this argument is one that hurts prayer the most.

I wholeheartedly agree with this. I forget who said this- "A thousand people can pray for something to be fixed, but it only takes 1 to get up off of their knees and fix it." The only thing I think you've left out here is that praying can make people feel good. It can act as a placebo effect and get them in high spirits when everything else in or around them is in bad condition. And who knows? Maybe in the future we'll find some quantum force that binds us all together (I hold no belief in this-- just a speculative idea)! I really have no problem with those situations if it's truly helping the person personally. It's when faith healers try to cash in on this idea or when people arrogantly speak of it as truth and are condescending of their apparent god-talking super-power. Y'know. Religion.

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If god (assuming such a deity exist, and is in fact the god of the christian bible) is going to do whatever he/she/it wants too regardless of prayer, then what is the point of prayer exactly? I suppose you could say the whole point is just to "connect" to god (I wont get into the specifics of that argument as I'll just be going back to my previous statement that god isn't real). Just remember, though, if you believe that prayer is only used to connect to your god, then you must also be insulted by the influx of threads, posts, and the general ideology that's telling others that they can pray their problems away.

The whole concept of praying to the Abrahamic god presents numerous logical problems. On one hand, praying and asking the god to make bad things go away would interfere with there being a "divine plan" because the believer is asking god to change something in the plan. If it's that simple and everyone's praying for this god to change things in their favor, there can't be a set plan. In that sense, praying is pointless if one believes there is a divine plan. If one believes god tilts things in their favor, there is no set course and thus the whole concept of a divine plan contradicts the religions teachings. However if one prays after bad things happen ("it's part of god's plan") thanking god for sparing them or opening their eyes to something after a bad experience, they're just praising the god's malevolence. Anyone (believer or not) has life-altering experiences. Good or bad, it's silly (and sometimes dangerous) to equate the experiences to a defined god.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: tangiechan on March 16, 2013, 07:18:22 pm
You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc.
I agree that people probably pray to make themselves feel better, to connect with god, gain hope, and so on. But, what's wrong with having hope? Even if it's false hope, it can actually help some people improve their lives.
I'm not very religious, I'm actually quite agnostic, but I don't think praying a bad or silly thing for people to do.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 16, 2013, 08:05:30 pm
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You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc

True, but generally the person believing in such things has no proof of the god(s) existing. It's a logical fallacy-- it's like me saying I have the power to fly like Superman and when you say you don't believe me, I say it's up to you to prove I don't. The burden of proof is always on the person claiming they have something.

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But, what's wrong with having hope?

Research faith healers. They're snake-oil salesmen.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sanglee on March 16, 2013, 08:09:55 pm
its the same old age old discussion of religion, is there a God? Of course people will say that preying is useless if they don't believe. It just isn't fun, preyer and religion is just to give hope and promise to people, something to believe in. don't take it that seriously. But doing the right thing never hurts.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: tangiechan on March 16, 2013, 09:00:34 pm
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You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc

True, but generally the person believing in such things has no proof of the god(s) existing. It's a logical fallacy-- it's like me saying I have the power to fly like Superman and when you say you don't believe me, I say it's up to you to prove I don't. The burden of proof is always on the person claiming they have something.

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But, what's wrong with having hope?

Research faith healers. They're snake-oil salesmen.

Okay. Neither side can really prove it. They're both saying the other is wrong, but neither can offer valid, solid proof for their statements/opinions/beliefs.
Nothing is wrong with hope as long as that person doesn't allow themselves to get scammed by people like faith healers (I don't see why you pay someone for something you could probably do yourself, since faith healing involves prayer). It is just the placebo effect. If that makes people feel better, then why not? You'd probably have to be pretty desperate to go to a faith healer though.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: dragonxnp on March 16, 2013, 09:04:32 pm
 :crybaby2:  :crybaby2:  :crybaby2:  :fish: :fish: Im sorry you feel this way. There are many things on this earth that prove God is VERY REAL. I pitty you and hope you one day come to the true light.You will certainly find out the minute you die..
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 17, 2013, 09:50:37 am
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Okay. Neither side can really prove it. They're both saying the other is wrong, but neither can offer valid, solid proof for their statements/opinions/beliefs.
Nothing is wrong with hope as long as that person doesn't allow themselves to get scammed by people like faith healers (I don't see why you pay someone for something you could probably do yourself, since faith healing involves prayer). It is just the placebo effect. If that makes people feel better, then why not? You'd probably have to be pretty desperate to go to a faith healer though.

I'm glad we're pretty much on the same page. Though I do not leave out the concept of a god/gods/metaphysical entities/etc. in the grand scheme of things, I find the defined-ideas of gods ridiculous. When people say that their god created time and the universe but he hates you eating meat on certain days of the week and demands animal sacrifice, it's a bit ludicrous to introduce that into a rational argument. Though something I forgot to mention is stuff like this--

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Im sorry you feel this way. There are many things on this earth that prove God is VERY REAL. I pitty you and hope you one day come to the true light.You will certainly find out the minute you die..

This is another example of prayer (or practiced belief if you will) that's just plain wrong. She states no proof even though she claims to have it. Then she brings up the notion that those that don't have the same opinion/belief as her need pity. "Don't believe in the same myths I do? Well I pity you and hope you figure out I'm right before you die!". It's practically cursing someone. They think it's a loving attitude when in reality it's just self-righteousness/arrogance. There have been many times on this forum where I've argued to the point where the believer is put in a corner and has pretty much stated the same thing to me- "I don't have any answer, so I pity you and I'll pray for you." Cheap.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 17, 2013, 09:51:36 am
You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc.
I agree that people probably pray to make themselves feel better, to connect with god, gain hope, and so on. But, what's wrong with having hope? Even if it's false hope, it can actually help some people improve their lives.
I'm not very religious, I'm actually quite agnostic, but I don't think praying a bad or silly thing for people to do.

I can defiantly prove the god of the Bible not only doesn't exist, but cannot possibly exist. Setting aside all the logical fallacies the christian bible presents, it's pretty obvious it was written by humans who where not divinely inspired. All historical evidence points to a long line of writers and editors of the bible. If god was so perfect, why does his book need 100's of revised editions?

I would argue that telling someone they should pray instead of giving them real-world advice that would actually improve their situation is damaging. Pray, in its totality, harms society as a whole rather than helps society. We need to learn to stop relying on false hope, and start relying on ourselves. Science is our attempt to become more self reliant, and it has done a lot so far. Prayer has no place in our modern society, it's a ritual that dates back to the stone age and it should be only remembered as a historical fact rather than a modern day practice.

Again, though, if someone wishes to practice prayer then they should be allowed to if they wish. I don't think is should be made illegal anything like that (I am an avid supporter of freedom of speech, and am frivolously against any form of censorship.), but if someone begins to reach to others and tell them that prayer is the only way to achieve happiness (and this is what I see a lot of) then that's where my line has to be drawn and where my criticisms really begin.

:crybaby2:  :crybaby2:  :crybaby2:  :fish: :fish: Im sorry you feel this way. There are many things on this earth that prove God is VERY REAL. I pitty you and hope you one day come to the true light.You will certainly find out the minute you die..

I guess it would be too much to ask for specifics?
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 17, 2013, 10:03:11 am
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I can defiantly prove the god of the Bible not only doesn't exist, but cannot possibly exist. Setting aside all the logical fallacies the christian bible presents, it's pretty obvious it was written by humans who where not divinely inspired. All historical evidence points to a long line of writers and editors of the bible. If god was so perfect, why does his book need 100's of revised editions?

I assure you the answer you will get is "It is not as revised as you think. You just don't know enough about it to know it hasn't changed that much through time."
But of course this is false claim. One example- http://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apocrypha

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Again, though, if someone wishes to practice prayer then they should be allowed to if they wish. I don't think is should be made illegal anything like that (I am an avid supporter of freedom of speech, and am frivolously against any form of censorship.), but if someone begins to reach to others and tell them that prayer is the only way to achieve happiness (and this is what I see a lot of) then that's where my line has to be drawn and where my criticisms really begin.

Well said.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 17, 2013, 10:05:20 am
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I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.

OMG U CANT PROOF THAT SO U CANT SAY THAT

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Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. You could argue its because god deems it so, (which is a very popular scapegoat used) but this argument is one that hurts prayer the most.

I wholeheartedly agree with this. I forget who said this- "A thousand people can pray for something to be fixed, but it only takes 1 to get up off of their knees and fix it." The only thing I think you've left out here is that praying can make people feel good. It can act as a placebo effect and get them in high spirits when everything else in or around them is in bad condition. And who knows? Maybe in the future we'll find some quantum force that binds us all together (I hold no belief in this-- just a speculative idea)! I really have no problem with those situations if it's truly helping the person personally. It's when faith healers try to cash in on this idea or when people arrogantly speak of it as truth and are condescending of their apparent god-talking super-power. Y'know. Religion.

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If god (assuming such a deity exist, and is in fact the god of the christian bible) is going to do whatever he/she/it wants too regardless of prayer, then what is the point of prayer exactly? I suppose you could say the whole point is just to "connect" to god (I wont get into the specifics of that argument as I'll just be going back to my previous statement that god isn't real). Just remember, though, if you believe that prayer is only used to connect to your god, then you must also be insulted by the influx of threads, posts, and the general ideology that's telling others that they can pray their problems away.

The whole concept of praying to the Abrahamic god presents numerous logical problems. On one hand, praying and asking the god to make bad things go away would interfere with there being a "divine plan" because the believer is asking god to change something in the plan. If it's that simple and everyone's praying for this god to change things in their favor, there can't be a set plan. In that sense, praying is pointless if one believes there is a divine plan. If one believes god tilts things in their favor, there is no set course and thus the whole concept of a divine plan contradicts the religions teachings. However if one prays after bad things happen ("it's part of god's plan") thanking god for sparing them or opening their eyes to something after a bad experience, they're just praising the god's malevolence. Anyone (believer or not) has life-altering experiences. Good or bad, it's silly (and sometimes dangerous) to equate the experiences to a defined god.

I realize that prayer can make others feel better, and I usually support anything that does this. I just think there is more effective means to achieve happiness (like actually doing something). If someone wishes to partake in prayer, that's their decision and they should have a right to do so. But I am still going to criticize them, especially if they get on a forum and start to tell others the key to happiness is through prayer.

Overall, though, you're effectively stating what I tried to state but you did it more clearly than I could.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: tangiechan on March 17, 2013, 02:22:53 pm
You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc.
I agree that people probably pray to make themselves feel better, to connect with god, gain hope, and so on. But, what's wrong with having hope? Even if it's false hope, it can actually help some people improve their lives.
I'm not very religious, I'm actually quite agnostic, but I don't think praying a bad or silly thing for people to do.

I can defiantly prove the god of the Bible not only doesn't exist, but cannot possibly exist. Setting aside all the logical fallacies the christian bible presents, it's pretty obvious it was written by humans who where not divinely inspired. All historical evidence points to a long line of writers and editors of the bible. If god was so perfect, why does his book need 100's of revised editions?

I would argue that telling someone they should pray instead of giving them real-world advice that would actually improve their situation is damaging. Pray, in its totality, harms society as a whole rather than helps society. We need to learn to stop relying on false hope, and start relying on ourselves. Science is our attempt to become more self reliant, and it has done a lot so far. Prayer has no place in our modern society, it's a ritual that dates back to the stone age and it should be only remembered as a historical fact rather than a modern day practice.

Again, though, if someone wishes to practice prayer then they should be allowed to if they wish. I don't think is should be made illegal anything like that (I am an avid supporter of freedom of speech, and am frivolously against any form of censorship.), but if someone begins to reach to others and tell them that prayer is the only way to achieve happiness (and this is what I see a lot of) then that's where my line has to be drawn and where my criticisms really begin.


While it's true that the Bible has been revised many times and things have been taken out, that still isn't enough evidence to conclude that the god of the Bible doesn't exist. You still can't prove if the actions in the Bible happened or not (unless you can time travel or something). Even though it was written by humans, you can't say that they lied/made it all up just because they were not divinely inspired. I agree with your statements about science. Honestly, if we hadn't pursued science we'd all be stuck in the stone age and there probably wouldn't be any advancements.
Yes, I totally understand what you mean. People who follow a certain religion/belief system tend to believe that their way is right and everything else isn't. It's offensive to others, but they're taught that their way is the right way and that it's their duty to tell others that it is.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: diala84 on March 17, 2013, 02:44:20 pm
If a person believes in something that makes them feel better and doesn't hurt others why does it matter if it isn't true. Sometimes our experience of the world can be improved by our beliefs. If I really thought about all the terrible things that are happening every day all over the world so many of which are out of our control it would cause even the most sane person to go insane or worse. If some people feel that prayer improves their life and the life of others then why stop or persuade them otherwise. 
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 17, 2013, 02:55:43 pm
You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc.
I agree that people probably pray to make themselves feel better, to connect with god, gain hope, and so on. But, what's wrong with having hope? Even if it's false hope, it can actually help some people improve their lives.
I'm not very religious, I'm actually quite agnostic, but I don't think praying a bad or silly thing for people to do.

I can defiantly prove the god of the Bible not only doesn't exist, but cannot possibly exist. Setting aside all the logical fallacies the christian bible presents, it's pretty obvious it was written by humans who where not divinely inspired. All historical evidence points to a long line of writers and editors of the bible. If god was so perfect, why does his book need 100's of revised editions?

I would argue that telling someone they should pray instead of giving them real-world advice that would actually improve their situation is damaging. Pray, in its totality, harms society as a whole rather than helps society. We need to learn to stop relying on false hope, and start relying on ourselves. Science is our attempt to become more self reliant, and it has done a lot so far. Prayer has no place in our modern society, it's a ritual that dates back to the stone age and it should be only remembered as a historical fact rather than a modern day practice.

Again, though, if someone wishes to practice prayer then they should be allowed to if they wish. I don't think is should be made illegal anything like that (I am an avid supporter of freedom of speech, and am frivolously against any form of censorship.), but if someone begins to reach to others and tell them that prayer is the only way to achieve happiness (and this is what I see a lot of) then that's where my line has to be drawn and where my criticisms really begin.


While it's true that the Bible has been revised many times and things have been taken out, that still isn't enough evidence to conclude that the god of the Bible doesn't exist. You still can't prove if the actions in the Bible happened or not (unless you can time travel or something). Even though it was written by humans, you can't say that they lied/made it all up just because they were not divinely inspired. I agree with your statements about science. Honestly, if we hadn't pursued science we'd all be stuck in the stone age and there probably wouldn't be any advancements.
Yes, I totally understand what you mean. People who follow a certain religion/belief system tend to believe that their way is right and everything else isn't. It's offensive to others, but they're taught that their way is the right way and that it's their duty to tell others that it is.

Although I cannot get physical evidence (like a picture), we can investigate what evidence human beings left behind and make connections. We can use the evidence of different historians to determine the truth, for example. If a good enough number of historians left any indication that the miracles of Jesus happened (which wouldn't be out of the question to ask of said historians) outside of the bible then that's something to go on. No such indication exist. Therefore, why should we believe the miracles in the bible actually happened? Although I cannot disprove these things didn't happen, I also cannot disprove magical rainbow colored flying unicorns destroyed Atlantis and created all of humanity. The reason it isn't logically sound to ask someone to disprove something someone else is saying is real (other than being an inherent fallacy) has to do with prudence. If we are expected to disprove non-reality then we'll be here until the end of time.

Also, if those in the bible where not divinely inspired then how can the bible be the "word of god?" that is so often attributed too.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcalexis on March 17, 2013, 03:35:12 pm
praying works only for those who believe.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 17, 2013, 03:36:33 pm
praying works only for those who believe.

Prayer doesn't work for anyone. Just because youou believe it doesn't make it true. That's now how reality works. Are you saying that those who believe refused to pray to god to heal amputees?
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: tangiechan on March 17, 2013, 03:39:27 pm

Although I cannot get physical evidence (like a picture), we can investigate what evidence human beings left behind and make connections. We can use the evidence of different historians to determine the truth, for example. If a good enough number of historians left any indication that the miracles of Jesus happened (which wouldn't be out of the question to ask of said historians) outside of the bible then that's something to go on. No such indication exist. Therefore, why should we believe the miracles in the bible actually happened? Although I cannot disprove these things didn't happen, I also cannot disprove magical rainbow colored flying unicorns destroyed Atlantis and created all of humanity. The reason it isn't logically sound to ask someone to disprove something someone else is saying is real (other than being an inherent fallacy) has to do with prudence. If we are expected to disprove non-reality then we'll be here until the end of time.

Also, if those in the bible where not divinely inspired then how can the bible be the "word of god?" that is so often attributed too.


My whole point is, no one can prove anything about this topic. It will just keep going in circles and nothing will be solved unless someone finds physical, legit evidence supporting their views.
I think people are generally uninformed/misinformed about who wrote the Bible and etc. Some are misled and think it is the exact word of god and it actually isn't. The Bible is basically a collection of writings by different authors to convey the message of god (not words that said god literally spoke). It contains writings by people who were recalling an event (if it's true), heard the content from someone else/word of mouth, and etc.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 17, 2013, 04:54:48 pm

Although I cannot get physical evidence (like a picture), we can investigate what evidence human beings left behind and make connections. We can use the evidence of different historians to determine the truth, for example. If a good enough number of historians left any indication that the miracles of Jesus happened (which wouldn't be out of the question to ask of said historians) outside of the bible then that's something to go on. No such indication exist. Therefore, why should we believe the miracles in the bible actually happened? Although I cannot disprove these things didn't happen, I also cannot disprove magical rainbow colored flying unicorns destroyed Atlantis and created all of humanity. The reason it isn't logically sound to ask someone to disprove something someone else is saying is real (other than being an inherent fallacy) has to do with prudence. If we are expected to disprove non-reality then we'll be here until the end of time.

Also, if those in the bible where not divinely inspired then how can the bible be the "word of god?" that is so often attributed too.


My whole point is, no one can prove anything about this topic. It will just keep going in circles and nothing will be solved unless someone finds physical, legit evidence supporting their views.
I think people are generally uninformed/misinformed about who wrote the Bible and etc. Some are misled and think it is the exact word of god and it actually isn't. The Bible is basically a collection of writings by different authors to convey the message of god (not words that said god literally spoke). It contains writings by people who were recalling an event (if it's true), heard the content from someone else/word of mouth, and etc.

My whole point is the burden of proof is put on the religious to prove the claims made by their religion. If they cannot do this, we must assume these claims are false until such evidence presents itself. This is how the scientific method works. We don't just assume something can be true (or even possibly true) just because someone may say so and that evidence might exist. The scientific method doesn't even deal with absolutes at all, since evidence can present itself contrary to prior conclusions.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 17, 2013, 05:56:05 pm
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While it's true that the Bible has been revised many times and things have been taken out, that still isn't enough evidence to conclude that the god of the Bible doesn't exist. You still can't prove if the actions in the Bible happened or not

Of course you can. Rationally atleast. The flood myth? Every single shred of evidence in history says it did not happen. The amount of co2 being rained upon the earth would have killed every mammal within minutes. Every creationist argument has been refuted by basic science. Societies (such as ancient asian and indian cultures) existed w/o any mention of a flood destroying everything (though there are random flood myths throughout many cultures, they all seem to have been created at separate times-- same with earthquake myths, tornados, etc.). I know this example is a bit harsh, but I consider this Santa Clause logic. You can say it's likely Santa exists and that kids get their toys from him, but-

1.) I can show you the parents saying they bought them.
2.) I can show you the receipts for the toys.
3.) We can go to the store and I can show you where the shelf where the items were purchased.
4.) We can check the security tapes and see the parents buying the toys.
5.) We can travel to Japan/China and I can have you meet with the marketing director, factory workers, and shipping detail to indicate they were made there and shipped to the US.

If you still believe that Santa Clause delivered them in one night (and you have every right to, but...), that is delusional thinking and faulty reasoning. The same can be said with all supernatural claims in the bible. There is no evidence for these things (besides fallible creationists who have a long history of lying), and the proof lies in reality. And since the bible is fallible, it's not a reliable source for truth.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 18, 2013, 09:29:53 am
If a person believes in something that makes them feel better and doesn't hurt others why does it matter if it isn't true. Sometimes our experience of the world can be improved by our beliefs. If I really thought about all the terrible things that are happening every day all over the world so many of which are out of our control it would cause even the most sane person to go insane or worse. If some people feel that prayer improves their life and the life of others then why stop or persuade them otherwise. 
Because prayer isn't a substitute for the real thing. Tricking yourself into feeling better by making you think you're making a difference by praying can never replaced actually doing something helpful and feeling good for it. Not only is real accomplishment hard to replaced, it also helps society a lot more than prayer does. For example:

Scenario 1:
Person A wants to cure cancer.
Person A pursues this dream, and becomes a doctor.
Person B wants to cure cancer.
Person B pursues this dream, and starts to pray.
Person A cures cancer.

Scenario 2:
Person A is on the verge of curing cancer, but reaches a roadblock.
Person B convinces person A that their methods are wrong and that they should start praying.
Person A starts to pray instead of actually attempting to cure cancer.
Neither Person A nor Person B cures anyone of cancer.

Which Scenario would you support?

This may be a extreme example, but those who seek to spread the message of prayer do seek out (whether intentional or not) those who are at a point in their life that they are most vulnerable to any solution for a problem they may have. The fact remains, the world is not better of with prayer. Real accomplishment can not only make a person feel good, but actually can benefit those around you. Prayer may make the people praying feel good, but we're all better off without it if it means instead of praying these same people substitute the effort for something constructive.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: tangiechan on March 18, 2013, 03:06:39 pm
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While it's true that the Bible has been revised many times and things have been taken out, that still isn't enough evidence to conclude that the god of the Bible doesn't exist. You still can't prove if the actions in the Bible happened or not

Of course you can. Rationally atleast. The flood myth? Every single shred of evidence in history says it did not happen. The amount of co2 being rained upon the earth would have killed every mammal within minutes. Every creationist argument has been refuted by basic science. Societies (such as ancient asian and indian cultures) existed w/o any mention of a flood destroying everything (though there are random flood myths throughout many cultures, they all seem to have been created at separate times-- same with earthquake myths, tornados, etc.).
In that case, okay.

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My whole point is the burden of proof is put on the religious to prove the claims made by their religion. If they cannot do this, we must assume these claims are false until such evidence presents itself. This is how the scientific method works. We don't just assume something can be true (or even possibly true) just because someone may say so and that evidence might exist. The scientific method doesn't even deal with absolutes at all, since evidence can present itself contrary to prior conclusions.
Point understood. Then, your claims can also be assumed as false until proven. The religious don't have proof because some of their claims are hard to prove to be false or true. Your claims are the same. Most is just assumed.

I'm aware that the Bible includes myths. They're pretty similar to myths from others (Greek mythology, Sumerian creation myth, & etc). Just wondering, but have either of you even read at least some of the Bible?
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 18, 2013, 06:02:30 pm
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While it's true that the Bible has been revised many times and things have been taken out, that still isn't enough evidence to conclude that the god of the Bible doesn't exist. You still can't prove if the actions in the Bible happened or not

Of course you can. Rationally atleast. The flood myth? Every single shred of evidence in history says it did not happen. The amount of co2 being rained upon the earth would have killed every mammal within minutes. Every creationist argument has been refuted by basic science. Societies (such as ancient asian and indian cultures) existed w/o any mention of a flood destroying everything (though there are random flood myths throughout many cultures, they all seem to have been created at separate times-- same with earthquake myths, tornados, etc.).
In that case, okay.

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My whole point is the burden of proof is put on the religious to prove the claims made by their religion. If (they cannot do this, we must assume these claims are false until such evidence presents itself. This is how the scientific method works. We don't just assume something can be true (or even possibly true) just because someone may say so and that evidence might exist. The scientific method doesn't even deal with absolutes at all, since evidence can present itself contrary to prior conclusions.
Point understood. Then, your claims can also be assumed as false until proven. The religious don't have proof because some of their claims are hard to prove to be false or true. Your claims are the same. Most is just assumed.

I'm aware that the Bible includes myths. They're pretty similar to myths from others (Greek mythology, Sumerian creation myth, & etc). Just wondering, but have either of you even read at least some of the Bible?

My claim that prayer doesn't have an effect isn't that hard to conceive. There has been studies done on prayer (both scientific and anecdotal) showing that prayer has little to no effect on a given outcome. Here's one I was able to find: http://timlightfoot.com/Focus/Intercessory_prayer_study.pdf

Also, my claims are no where near as unbelievable as the claim that prayer works. In order for prayer to be an effective means of solving problems, we would first have to assume a god exist. The claim that god exist has no proof, thus we cannot assume god exits. I make no such claim, only that prayer is false because those who say prayer works cannot provide evidence. Or at least, if they could, they haven't yet.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 18, 2013, 08:40:59 pm
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Im aware that the Bible includes myths. They're pretty similar to myths from others (Greek mythology, Sumerian creation myth, & etc). Just wondering, but have either of you even read at least some of the Bible?

A have read the majority of the OT and a little of the "feel-good parts" of the NT (Matt, Mark, Luke, John). Beyond that, I've peppered my knowledge with random studies on specific chapters and such. I do not consider myself a guru on it, but reading it was a major influence on me realizing it was bogus and steering away from the belief system. Why do you ask?
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: tangiechan on March 19, 2013, 12:22:24 pm
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Im aware that the Bible includes myths. They're pretty similar to myths from others (Greek mythology, Sumerian creation myth, & etc). Just wondering, but have either of you even read at least some of the Bible?

A have read the majority of the OT and a little of the "feel-good parts" of the NT (Matt, Mark, Luke, John). Beyond that, I've peppered my knowledge with random studies on specific chapters and such. I do not consider myself a guru on it, but reading it was a major influence on me realizing it was bogus and steering away from the belief system. Why do you ask?
To make sure you aren't just judging something you don't know anything about.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 19, 2013, 07:30:03 pm
Don't be sorry for giving your own opinion.  God isn't real for you - that's pretty obvious.  So much so that you make a thread speaking of God not being real. 

My God is real, whether you say so or not.  Just because you say my God is not real, does not make your opinion the law of the land. 

If it makes you feel comforted and better to shout to the forum that God is not real, then I hope this thread has made you feel that way.  But it does not prove my God is not real to me.  Your post was most interesting, though.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 20, 2013, 01:14:02 am
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To make sure you aren't just judging something you don't know anything about

Fair enough.

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My God is real, whether you say so or not.  Just because you say my God is not real, does not make your opinion the law of the land. 

Believe what you want to believe! Flackle and I never stated that people MUST think the way we do. We're just stating the obvious. The logical and rational conclusion will continue to say that this god and the practices are both fake.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 20, 2013, 10:25:58 am
Don't be sorry for giving your own opinion.  God isn't real for you - that's pretty obvious.  So much so that you make a thread speaking of God not being real.  

My God is real, whether you say so or not.  Just because you say my God is not real, does not make your opinion the law of the land.  

If it makes you feel comforted and better to shout to the forum that God is not real, then I hope this thread has made you feel that way.  But it does not prove my God is not real to me.  Your post was most interesting, though.

I find it quite humorous to think that when an atheist shares his or her opinion to the religious, they automatically assume this person is yelling at them. I'm not implying you're the only one doing this, I have had it come across to me on several occasions. I'm not "shouting' to the the forum, I'm simply expressing my viewpoint in one collectible thread so that I'm not responding to 5 different threads on this very topic.

I also find it strange that you perceive my opinion as an attempt to change the "law of the land" when religion was the law of the land for a long time. The law of the land in modern times is that we are allowed to have varying opinions on the matter of religion. Nothing I said implied I wanted to change that.

I don't want to use the law to change people's view on religion because I don't believe in force and coercion. If someone willingly reads my post and comes to the logical conclusion that religion is made up, then that's great and no force need to be applied. In fact, when I "covert" someone in this manner I am being a lot less forceful than when a christian (or other such similar religion) converts a non-believer because the tactic that is usually applied is coercion ie: "You're going to Hell if you don't believe what I say."
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 20, 2013, 05:02:57 pm
Don't be sorry for giving your own opinion.  God isn't real for you - that's pretty obvious.  So much so that you make a thread speaking of God not being real.  

My God is real, whether you say so or not.  Just because you say my God is not real, does not make your opinion the law of the land.  

If it makes you feel comforted and better to shout to the forum that God is not real, then I hope this thread has made you feel that way.  But it does not prove my God is not real to me.  Your post was most interesting, though.

I find it quite humorous to think that when an atheist shares his or her opinion to the religious, they automatically assume this person is yelling at them. I'm not implying you're the only one doing this, I have had it come across to me on several occasions. I'm not "shouting' to the the forum, I'm simply expressing my viewpoint in one collectible thread so that I'm not responding to 5 different threads on this very topic.

I also find it strange that you perceive my opinion as an attempt to change the "law of the land" when religion was the law of the land for a long time. The law of the land in modern times is that we are allowed to have varying opinions on the matter of religion. Nothing I said implied I wanted to change that.

I don't want to use the law to change people's view on religion because I don't believe in force and coercion. If someone willingly reads my post and comes to the logical conclusion that religion is made up, then that's great and no force need to be applied. In fact, when I "covert" someone in this manner I am being a lot less forceful than when a christian (or other such similar religion) converts a non-believer because the tactic that is usually applied is coercion ie: "You're going to Hell if you don't believe what I say."
1.  I did not say you were "yelling" at me.  You do this quite frequently when it's obvious no one is yelling.  "Shouting" to the forum is a figure of speech - sorry you didn't realize or chose to not realize the difference.

2.  You commented that you were sorry, God is not real.  Your opinion.  I'm saying back there is no need to apologize for your "opinion," but that to me, God is real.  My opinion and belief on the matter, based on things evidenced in my own personal life, others' lives, testimonies, God's Word, amongst other things.  You don't have to believe that - I'm not coercing anyone to do so, especially you, at this point and time.

3.  You do "appear" to contradict yourself.  You say you "don't want to use the law to change people's view on religion because I don't believe in force and coercion. If someone willingly reads my post and comes to the logical conclusion that religion is made up, then that's great and no force need to be applied."  Yet - you also say, "I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.;  Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. "
 
  A. You "seem" to be trying to "coerce" someone away from making their own personal research and decision with stating your opinion as "implied fact."  You have no proof of what you were saying to be true, anyway, since you do not claim to know God personally, so you therefore have no "conversation/answers" within your "no prayer" personal life. 

  B. Those who do pray, have been provided answers, whether a direct "no," a "yes," or a maybe not/maybe later.  Usually, with any of these, a believer can determine, if not now, then later, why the answers came to what they were at the time.

  C. Regarding your example of prayer as opposed to fund raising efforts/charities to help find a cure for cancer: Believers can, do, and will pray for the cancer victims, families, friends, doctors, nurses - everyone involved, including the scientists working on trying to find a cure.  However, while that's all some people may feel they can do to help in whatever way they can, there are many, believers or not, who also get out there and donate time and money, and help raise funds for the hopeful cures, food, clothing, hospital stays, meds, and/or whatever they can do to help.  We have at least 3 young children just in our small town who are struggling even now with cancer.  It's wonderful and amazing how much support, monetary, prayer, and comfort - are being given and offered by most of the citizens of our town - both believers and disbelievers.  The point is, they are all working together to help try and do something; anything at all, to give support, care, concern, and love. 

  D. My point, is that just because some people pray for needs like cancer, does not mean they sit on their duffs and do nothing.  Some may - but most do not; blame for doing "nothing" can actually be applied towards anyone, believer or not, doing nothing to help - yet vocally demanding everyone else needs to be helping. 

  E.  Prayer is powerful - for believers who know this to be true - and becomes a great and personal way of a believer's life.  And most believers I know do not and will not try and "coerce" others to pray when it's something others do not wish to do.  That point can be made for both sides - everyone willingly chooses what to or what not to believe in their lives, and should not be chided or belittled for doing so.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 20, 2013, 05:07:06 pm
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To make sure you aren't just judging something you don't know anything about

Fair enough.

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My God is real, whether you say so or not.  Just because you say my God is not real, does not make your opinion the law of the land. 

Believe what you want to believe! Flackle and I never stated that people MUST think the way we do. We're just stating the obvious. The logical and rational conclusion will continue to say that this god and the practices are both fake.

That's fine - your "obvious" is what you go by and with.  That is not my "obvious" that I go by.  While yours is logical and rational to you, mine is to me.  It doesn't matter whether you agree with my "illogical/irrational" way of your seeing my belief - it's not your choice to make for me.  You apparently live by your choice just fine; as do I by mine.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 20, 2013, 06:42:36 pm
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That's fine - your "obvious" is what you go by and with.  That is not my "obvious" that I go by.

We do not have a similar frame of reference due to me understanding and accepting the reality of this specific issue and you clinging to ancient/superstitious/outdated reasonings and stating them as reality. I'd like to recall the santa clause example for reference.

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While yours is logical and rational to you, mine is to me.

The pathways you use within this subject are illogical and go against the actual terminology of the words "logical" and "rational" here. To say otherwise would be inventing new terms for individual use.

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It doesn't matter whether you agree with my "illogical/irrational" way of your seeing my belief - it's not your choice to make for me.  You apparently live by your choice just fine; as do I by mine.

Again, I already stated this. If you wish to set your reality within fallacious reasonings, go ahead!
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Nancy5 on March 20, 2013, 06:52:34 pm
This just goes to show what a great country this is.  We can discuss/fight/argue over whether there is a God or not.  We are allowed to believe or not.  I believe in God, not because I'm forced to, but because I choose to.  I look around and see all the wonderful things He has created, the trees, the flowers, the animals, and yes, you and me.  In my heart I know there is a God and he loves ALL of us (even you, you who have rejected him).  It is your right to not believe and I respect your beliefs, all I ask is you respect my beliefs also.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sigmapi1501 on March 20, 2013, 07:01:20 pm
You are entitled to your own opinion but NOT your own facts.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: showard60 on March 20, 2013, 09:04:37 pm
I beleive in God and prayer! God is Real and I love Him.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 21, 2013, 02:20:49 am
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You are entitled to your own opinion but NOT your own facts.

Thank you for summing up my previous overly-worded post!

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This just goes to show what a great country this is.  We can discuss/fight/argue over whether there is a God or not.  We are allowed to believe or not.

Agreed.

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It is your right to not believe and I respect your beliefs, all I ask is you respect my beliefs also.

Asking people to respecting things that are not worthy of respect is what gets this country in trouble. That god you say you know in your heart exists and he loves us all? He condones slavery and human sacrifice. He has committed genocide. If you're christian, I highly recommend looking in to the atrocities and the crimes against humanity created by your beliefs. The word "tolerate" makes a whole lot more sense than the word "respect" here.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Nancy5 on March 21, 2013, 03:57:25 am
We can discuss this until the end of time.  You have your beliefs and I have mine.  I will RESPECT (not tolerate) yours, and I ask the same of you. 
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: march1971 on March 21, 2013, 05:42:48 am
I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.

With the massive influx of prayer-related threads as of late, I thought it would be most prudent to just make a thread to cover my overall dissenting viewpoint.

Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. You could argue its because god deems it so, (which is a very popular scapegoat used) but this argument is one that hurts prayer the most.

If god (assuming such a deity exist, and is in fact the god of the christian bible) is going to do whatever he/she/it wants too regardless of prayer, then what is the point of prayer exactly? I suppose you could say the whole point is just to "connect" to god (I wont get into the specifics of that argument as I'll just be going back to my previous statement that god isn't real). Just remember, though, if you believe that prayer is only used to connect to your god, then you must also be insulted by the influx of threads, posts, and the general ideology that's telling others that they can pray their problems away.

If you want to pray in your own house to make yourself feel better, that's fine. I don't support this action, but I'll leave you alone to do as you wish. When you start to tell others to pray instead of (or when they can be doing) doing something actually useful, then it becomes a problem and it needs to stop.
I have one word that pretty much says what it means: whatever! case closed!
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: msmoneybags48 on March 21, 2013, 05:53:47 am
You really believe that hogwash you just got through spewing?  If it weren't for God, you wouldn't be here.  While you are perfectly entitled to your opinion, I believe if anyone needs prayer, you do.  My question is, what did God do for you to put that out?  I know that God is an ever-loving presence in my life, and maybe He didn't answer your prayer in a timely fashion, but He is right on time. :o ??? :o ???
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 21, 2013, 06:28:09 am
This just goes to show what a great country this is.  We can discuss/fight/argue over whether there is a God or not.  We are allowed to believe or not.  I believe in God, not because I'm forced to, but because I choose to.  I look around and see all the wonderful things He has created, the trees, the flowers, the animals, and yes, you and me.  In my heart I know there is a God and he loves ALL of us (even you, you who have rejected him).  It is your right to not believe and I respect your beliefs, all I ask is you respect my beliefs also.
Thank you for saying that so well.  Some give respect back and forth, and that's what it's all about.  It's sad when some claim to give respect, but really don't, by the comments implied towards irrationality and being illogical, when claiming to know the Lord.  Our decisions in our personal lives do not affect others' choices in here, yet there seems to be great concern to point out irrationality - thereby showing a bit of their own irrationality in being overly-concerned about what someone chooses to believe (in their own personal lives.)
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 21, 2013, 06:39:06 am
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You are entitled to your own opinion but NOT your own facts.

Thank you for summing up my previous overly-worded post!

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This just goes to show what a great country this is.  We can discuss/fight/argue over whether there is a God or not.  We are allowed to believe or not.

Agreed.

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It is your right to not believe and I respect your beliefs, all I ask is you respect my beliefs also.

Asking people to respecting things that are not worthy of respect is what gets this country in trouble. That god you say you know in your heart exists and he loves us all? He condones slavery and human sacrifice. He has committed genocide. If you're christian, I highly recommend looking in to the atrocities and the crimes against humanity created by your beliefs. The word "tolerate" makes a whole lot more sense than the word "respect" here.
Once again, throwing out there misleading information, without including the facts of the situations at hand, including the reasons, background of, events leading up to and beyond, disobedience/obedience of others, etc. 

If you believe there is no God, then you do not believe any of the spouted mistruths you are putting out here.  This means, in actuality, lies are being spread about something you don't believe in or about, which mean those "lies" never took place, according to your interpretation of thinking. 

Researching the history of the events, understanding the facts and information, what happened, and why it happened, is preferable to just spouting half-lies and half-truths about something you know nothing about and claim to disbelieve.  Contradicting yourself gets you nowhere.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 21, 2013, 06:47:45 am
We can discuss this until the end of time.  You have your beliefs and I have mine.  I will RESPECT (not tolerate) yours, and I ask the same of you. 

Exactly!  Some have a difficult time understanding that concept, though.  Yet, many times, believers are the ones being accused of coercing or pushing their beliefs, when actually, it's not but a few over-zealous people who do so.  Just as there are over-zealous disbelievers and/or atheists who have a hard time understanding that everyone, believers or not, has the freedom of religion or no religion, and do not have to answer for what and why they believe.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 21, 2013, 11:56:02 am
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You really believe that hogwash you just got through spewing?  If it weren't for God, you wouldn't be here.  While you are perfectly entitled to your opinion, I believe if anyone needs prayer, you do.  My question is, what did God do for you to put that out?  I know that God is an ever-loving presence in my life, and maybe He didn't answer your prayer in a timely fashion, but He is right on time. Shocked Huh? Shocked Huh?

And yet you post nothing to refute his argument. Just more negative ancient nonsense.

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We can discuss this until the end of time.  You have your beliefs and I have mine.  I will RESPECT (not tolerate) yours, and I ask the same of you.  

Well I apologize but I cannot respect something that has had needless blood on it's hands throughout the ages and is still held up on a pedestal. Respect is earned, and religion and blind faith have earned themselves a negative history. You may feel differently personally, but in the grand scheme of things it has been pretty bad. I appreciate the gesture of respect though.

http://youtu.be/9YLzlIsrU4o?t=1m47s
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 21, 2013, 12:19:23 pm
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If you believe there is no God, then you do not believe any of the spouted mistruths you are putting out here.

You have failed to show why my logic is false, and therefore have no reason or right to call the reasonings false. Unless you can explain it through realistic means, you are showing the very definition of delusional thinking. I have the right to make examples of why something is fallacious without believing in the supernatural claims I'm speaking against. If you want to call them mistruths, that's your call. But it makes absolutely no sense and shows a very narrow sense of intelligence.

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this means, in actuality, lies are being spread about something you don't believe in or about, which mean those "lies" never took place, according to your interpretation of thinking.  

Incorrect. I can make examples of something to better explain why they're false. Just because I don't believe in Santa Claus does not mean I can't make examples of why his existence is implausible.

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Researching the history of the events, understanding the facts and information, what happened, and why it happened, is preferable to just spouting half-lies and half-truths about something you know nothing about and claim to disbelieve.  Contradicting yourself gets you nowhere.

Contradicting? Are you serious? If you have a very large equation finished, but find errors anywhere in it after going over it, the whole equation is damaged. Your beliefs and ancient book, as I have proven countless times in the past, is just this. The fact that your beliefs have never been able to withstand any basic skepticism says an overwhelming amount about them. I'm not the one spreading lies. I'm the one explaining why religious 'facts' are fallible and should not be taken seriously. Now before you go and start copy/pasting 10 pages of text from well-known creationist liars to show your 'research' on the subject, I recommend you stop yourself and realize how intellectually dishonest you're being and have been in the past.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: BMaston12 on March 21, 2013, 12:55:56 pm
I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.

With the massive influx of prayer-related threads as of late, I thought it would be most prudent to just make a thread to cover my overall dissenting viewpoint.

Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. You could argue its because god deems it so, (which is a very popular scapegoat used) but this argument is one that hurts prayer the most.

If god (assuming such a deity exist, and is in fact the god of the christian bible) is going to do whatever he/she/it wants too regardless of prayer, then what is the point of prayer exactly? I suppose you could say the whole point is just to "connect" to god (I wont get into the specifics of that argument as I'll just be going back to my previous statement that god isn't real). Just remember, though, if you believe that prayer is only used to connect to your god, then you must also be insulted by the influx of threads, posts, and the general ideology that's telling others that they can pray their problems away.

If you want to pray in your own house to make yourself feel better, that's fine. I don't support this action, but I'll leave you alone to do as you wish. When you start to tell others to pray instead of (or when they can be doing) doing something actually useful, then it becomes a problem and it needs to stop.
I am glad that you are not going to force your feelings about prayer on anyone. It has been a proven fact that doctors see changes in patients who do pray and their loved ones who pray for them while they are in comas. Modern medicine is not to have cured these patients and the doctors will say It was not anything I did. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and you have yours. Believers also have their rights to express their convictions, so I am sure that God will sort it all out in the end.
BMaston12
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 21, 2013, 02:42:16 pm
1.  I did not say you were "yelling" at me.  You do this quite frequently when it's obvious no one is yelling.  "Shouting" to the forum is a figure of speech - sorry you didn't realize or chose to not realize the difference.
I never yell at anyone. Rarely do I use all caps, and only use them in points of emphasis. Sorry I read your words literally, I suppose that's just a bad habit of mine. From now on I'll try harder to differentiate when you're being literal or being figurative.
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2.  You commented that you were sorry, God is not real.  Your opinion.  I'm saying back there is no need to apologize for your "opinion," but that to me, God is real.  My opinion and belief on the matter, based on things evidenced in my own personal life, others' lives, testimonies, God's Word, amongst other things.  You don't have to believe that - I'm not coercing anyone to do so, especially you, at this point and time.
I will state this as clearly as I possibly can: "Personal experience does not provide sufficient evidence for us to actually believe a divine being actually exist." Its perfectly reasonable to ask for better evidence when faced with something as extraordinary as a divine being. Plus, I never in any of my post suggesting that you coerce people. My qualm with religion isn't based just on you, it's based on the entirety of the faith and it's people. My personal experience is that I have been subjected to coercion on many occasions by Christians in the past. In this case, personal experience is adequate evidence because what I claim is not extraordinary.
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3.  You do "appear" to contradict yourself.  You say you "don't want to use the law to change people's view on religion because I don't believe in force and coercion. If someone willingly reads my post and comes to the logical conclusion that religion is made up, then that's great and no force need to be applied."  Yet - you also say, "I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.;  Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. "
 
Those two statements do not contradict one another. I can see why you think my post is an attack against religion, but I am specifically targeting prayer. In fact, if you have any ability to reason you'd realize that the intention of your religion isn't to be-able to solve all your problems by praying to god and hope he fixes everything, but that seems to be the general consensus of many of its followers.

I'm not going to word my post in a way that doesn't assume anything and tries to use politically correct language so that I don't offend anyone. I have to assume that my view point is the right one, otherwise I cannot argue for or against anything. This is basic logical debate 101. In order to argue your own opinion, you have to assume that its right and only change it once you are convinced otherwise. If you spend your time assuming everyone is right in their own way, you can't debate.

Just because I put a post of sharing my view does not mean I am going to use the police to try and arrest someone, or take a gun or other such weapon and threaten someone's life if the don't believe what I do.  You seem to think that force and coercion can be achieved through words, and unless I threaten someone specifically or use my freedom of speech to slander someone specifically then I cannot coerce anyone with a thread.
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 A. You "seem" to be trying to "coerce" someone away from making their own personal research and decision with stating your opinion as "implied fact."  You have no proof of what you were saying to be true, anyway, since you do not claim to know God personally, so you therefore have no "conversation/answers" within your "no prayer" personal life.  
I don't think you understand what coercion is. Coercion is using force and intimidation (which is normally done by threatening others). Coercion cannot happen accidentally, as coercion has to do with intent as much as it does with the result of that intent. Again, in order to properly debate you have to state your opinion as "implied fact".
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 B. Those who do pray, have been provided answers, whether a direct "no," a "yes," or a maybe not/maybe later.  Usually, with any of these, a believer can determine, if not now, then later, why the answers came to what they were at the time.
Actually, they think they are provided answers. They don't realize these people are finding answers in things that happen as a result of just them happening. Also, just because some people think they are provided answers doesn't qualify as strong enough evidence to point to the existence of god and the effectiveness of prayer.
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 C. Regarding your example of prayer as opposed to fund raising efforts/charities to help find a cure for cancer: Believers can, do, and will pray for the cancer victims, families, friends, doctors, nurses - everyone involved, including the scientists working on trying to find a cure.  However, while that's all some people may feel they can do to help in whatever way they can, there are many, believers or not, who also get out there and donate time and money, and help raise funds for the hopeful cures, food, clothing, hospital stays, meds, and/or whatever they can do to help.  We have at least 3 young children just in our small town who are struggling even now with cancer.  It's wonderful and amazing how much support, monetary, prayer, and comfort - are being given and offered by most of the citizens of our town - both believers and disbelievers.  The point is, they are all working together to help try and do something; anything at all, to give support, care, concern, and love.  
So at best prayer has little to no effect on whether someone donates or gives to charity (someone who is unable to actually donate time or money will be unable to do so regardless of prayer). At worse it is used as a substitute (someone prays instead of actually helping because they think prayer is enough). Each person is different, but from what I can tell the overall affects of prayer do little to help and may in fact cause harm.
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 D. My point, is that just because some people pray for needs like cancer, does not mean they sit on their duffs and do nothing.  Some may - but most do not; blame for doing "nothing" can actually be applied towards anyone, believer or not, doing nothing to help - yet vocally demanding everyone else needs to be helping.
Exactly, some may. Even if only 1% of all those who pray instead of actually helping someone, then decides to help someone because they no longer pray is reason enough to get rid of the idea of prayer. Also remember, prayer is not an effective means of obtaining happiness, so I don't use that in the equation in determining the usefulness of prayer.
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 E.  Prayer is powerful - for believers who know this to be true - and becomes a great and personal way of a believer's life.  And most believers I know do not and will not try and "coerce" others to pray when it's something others do not wish to do.  That point can be made for both sides - everyone willingly chooses what to or what not to believe in their lives, and should not be chided or belittled for doing so.
So... The truth doesn't matter as long as everyone is happy? Sorry, I don't subscribe to the notion of blissful ignorance. I'd rather live in a world where we actually solve problems with practical and logical solutions.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 21, 2013, 02:45:55 pm
This just goes to show what a great country this is.  We can discuss/fight/argue over whether there is a God or not.  We are allowed to believe or not.  I believe in God, not because I'm forced to, but because I choose to.  I look around and see all the wonderful things He has created, the trees, the flowers, the animals, and yes, you and me.  In my heart I know there is a God and he loves ALL of us (even you, you who have rejected him).  It is your right to not believe and I respect your beliefs, all I ask is you respect my beliefs also.
Thank you for saying that so well.  Some give respect back and forth, and that's what it's all about.  It's sad when some claim to give respect, but really don't, by the comments implied towards irrationality and being illogical, when claiming to know the Lord.  Our decisions in our personal lives do not affect others' choices in here, yet there seems to be great concern to point out irrationality - thereby showing a bit of their own irrationality in being overly-concerned about what someone chooses to believe (in their own personal lives.)

Pointing out someone's irrationality isn't an attack, it's actually expressing a dissenting viewpoint. Disagreeing with someone isn't a sign of disrepute. I respect your opinion enough to actually take the time want to disagree with it.

Once again, throwing out there misleading information, without including the facts of the situations at hand, including the reasons, background of, events leading up to and beyond, disobedience/obedience of others, etc.  

If you believe there is no God, then you do not believe any of the spouted mistruths you are putting out here.  This means, in actuality, lies are being spread about something you don't believe in or about, which mean those "lies" never took place, according to your interpretation of thinking.  

Researching the history of the events, understanding the facts and information, what happened, and why it happened, is preferable to just spouting half-lies and half-truths about something you know nothing about and claim to disbelieve.  Contradicting yourself gets you nowhere.
Can you be a bit more specific? It's obvious you don't have the same idea of history that we do.

We can discuss this until the end of time.  You have your beliefs and I have mine.  I will RESPECT (not tolerate) yours, and I ask the same of you. 

Exactly!  Some have a difficult time understanding that concept, though.  Yet, many times, believers are the ones being accused of coercing or pushing their beliefs, when actually, it's not but a few over-zealous people who do so.  Just as there are over-zealous disbelievers and/or atheists who have a hard time understanding that everyone, believers or not, has the freedom of religion or no religion, and do not have to answer for what and why they believe.

So... It's okay to not tolerate atheism but its not okay to not tolerate religion? No one has to answer for their religion. I'm not forcing anyone too. No one has to post against me. I am not forcing anyone in any way by means of physical or mental violence. I simply stated my dissenting viewpoint and if someone wants to debate against me they can do so willingly.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: msmoneybags48 on March 21, 2013, 02:49:50 pm
You don't choose to believe in prayer for whatever reason you may have.  I believe that praying to God and His son, Jesus Christ, shows that you are thankful to them for whatever you are blessed with.  Apparently, Satan must be the guidance in your life for you to believe that praying is not helpful.  I pray because it gives me hope that better things are in my grasp.  While it is true that some luck may be up to you, I believe if it weren't for Him, you wouldn't have what you have right now.  Good luck to you and I hope that whatever He gave you, He don't see you as being ungrateful and take it away. ??? :o ???  
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 21, 2013, 03:00:50 pm
I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.

With the massive influx of prayer-related threads as of late, I thought it would be most prudent to just make a thread to cover my overall dissenting viewpoint.

Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. You could argue its because god deems it so, (which is a very popular scapegoat used) but this argument is one that hurts prayer the most.

If god (assuming such a deity exist, and is in fact the god of the christian bible) is going to do whatever he/she/it wants too regardless of prayer, then what is the point of prayer exactly? I suppose you could say the whole point is just to "connect" to god (I wont get into the specifics of that argument as I'll just be going back to my previous statement that god isn't real). Just remember, though, if you believe that prayer is only used to connect to your god, then you must also be insulted by the influx of threads, posts, and the general ideology that's telling others that they can pray their problems away.

If you want to pray in your own house to make yourself feel better, that's fine. I don't support this action, but I'll leave you alone to do as you wish. When you start to tell others to pray instead of (or when they can be doing) doing something actually useful, then it becomes a problem and it needs to stop.
I am glad that you are not going to force your feelings about prayer on anyone. It has been a proven fact that doctors see changes in patients who do pray and their loved ones who pray for them while they are in comas. Modern medicine is not to have cured these patients and the doctors will say It was not anything I did. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and you have yours. Believers also have their rights to express their convictions, so I am sure that God will sort it all out in the end.
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I'm glad you don't think I'm forcing my feelings about prayer on anyone, but don't go throwing words like proven fact around like they have no meaning. First of all, there hasn't been a recorded well-sourced correlation between prayer and curing the sick. Let alone it being the cause. I actually cited a study in an earlier post (http://timlightfoot.com/Focus/Intercessory_prayer_study.pdf) that found this correctional doesn't exist.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 21, 2013, 03:34:02 pm
You don't choose to believe in prayer for whatever reason you may have.  I believe that praying to God and His son, Jesus Christ, shows that you are thankful to them for whatever you are blessed with.  Apparently, Satan must be the guidance in your life for you to believe that praying is not helpful.  I pray because it gives me hope that better things are in my grasp.  While it is true that some luck may be up to you, I believe if it weren't for Him, you wouldn't have what you have right now.  Good luck to you and I hope that whatever He gave you, He don't see you as being ungrateful and take it away. ??? :o ???  

Your attempt to exploit my guilt has failed. That's alright, I'm sure if you try again it may succeed.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 22, 2013, 12:50:12 am
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Apparently, Satan must be the guidance in your life for you to believe that praying is not helpful.

All I read is "I cannot defend my beliefs at all, therefore any opposition I get is from EVIL DEMONS!". In the awesome time we live in, it's occasionally sad to spot a witch-burning mindset.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 22, 2013, 02:31:56 pm
1.  I did not say you were "yelling" at me.  You do this quite frequently when it's obvious no one is yelling.  "Shouting" to the forum is a figure of speech - sorry you didn't realize or chose to not realize the difference.
I never yell at anyone. Rarely do I use all caps, and only use them in points of emphasis. Sorry I read your words literally, I suppose that's just a bad habit of mine. From now on I'll try harder to differentiate when you're being literal or being figurative.
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2.  You commented that you were sorry, God is not real.  Your opinion.  I'm saying back there is no need to apologize for your "opinion," but that to me, God is real.  My opinion and belief on the matter, based on things evidenced in my own personal life, others' lives, testimonies, God's Word, amongst other things.  You don't have to believe that - I'm not coercing anyone to do so, especially you, at this point and time.
I will state this as clearly as I possibly can: "Personal experience does not provide sufficient evidence for us to actually believe a divine being actually exist." Its perfectly reasonable to ask for better evidence when faced with something as extraordinary as a divine being. Plus, I never in any of my post suggesting that you coerce people. My qualm with religion isn't based just on you, it's based on the entirety of the faith and it's people. My personal experience is that I have been subjected to coercion on many occasions by Christians in the past. In this case, personal experience is adequate evidence because what I claim is not extraordinary.
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3.  You do "appear" to contradict yourself.  You say you "don't want to use the law to change people's view on religion because I don't believe in force and coercion. If someone willingly reads my post and comes to the logical conclusion that religion is made up, then that's great and no force need to be applied."  Yet - you also say, "I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.;  Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. "
 
Those two statements do not contradict one another. I can see why you think my post is an attack against religion, but I am specifically targeting prayer. In fact, if you have any ability to reason you'd realize that the intention of your religion isn't to be-able to solve all your problems by praying to god and hope he fixes everything, but that seems to be the general consensus of many of its followers.

I'm not going to word my post in a way that doesn't assume anything and tries to use politically correct language so that I don't offend anyone. I have to assume that my view point is the right one, otherwise I cannot argue for or against anything. This is basic logical debate 101. In order to argue your own opinion, you have to assume that its right and only change it once you are convinced otherwise. If you spend your time assuming everyone is right in their own way, you can't debate.

Just because I put a post of sharing my view does not mean I am going to use the police to try and arrest someone, or take a gun or other such weapon and threaten someone's life if the don't believe what I do.  You seem to think that force and coercion can be achieved through words, and unless I threaten someone specifically or use my freedom of speech to slander someone specifically then I cannot coerce anyone with a thread.
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 A. You "seem" to be trying to "coerce" someone away from making their own personal research and decision with stating your opinion as "implied fact."  You have no proof of what you were saying to be true, anyway, since you do not claim to know God personally, so you therefore have no "conversation/answers" within your "no prayer" personal life.  
I don't think you understand what coercion is. Coercion is using force and intimidation (which is normally done by threatening others). Coercion cannot happen accidentally, as coercion has to do with intent as much as it does with the result of that intent. Again, in order to properly debate you have to state your opinion as "implied fact".
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 B. Those who do pray, have been provided answers, whether a direct "no," a "yes," or a maybe not/maybe later.  Usually, with any of these, a believer can determine, if not now, then later, why the answers came to what they were at the time.
Actually, they think they are provided answers. They don't realize these people are finding answers in things that happen as a result of just them happening. Also, just because some people think they are provided answers doesn't qualify as strong enough evidence to point to the existence of god and the effectiveness of prayer.
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 C. Regarding your example of prayer as opposed to fund raising efforts/charities to help find a cure for cancer: Believers can, do, and will pray for the cancer victims, families, friends, doctors, nurses - everyone involved, including the scientists working on trying to find a cure.  However, while that's all some people may feel they can do to help in whatever way they can, there are many, believers or not, who also get out there and donate time and money, and help raise funds for the hopeful cures, food, clothing, hospital stays, meds, and/or whatever they can do to help.  We have at least 3 young children just in our small town who are struggling even now with cancer.  It's wonderful and amazing how much support, monetary, prayer, and comfort - are being given and offered by most of the citizens of our town - both believers and disbelievers.  The point is, they are all working together to help try and do something; anything at all, to give support, care, concern, and love.  
So at best prayer has little to no effect on whether someone donates or gives to charity (someone who is unable to actually donate time or money will be unable to do so regardless of prayer). At worse it is used as a substitute (someone prays instead of actually helping because they think prayer is enough). Each person is different, but from what I can tell the overall affects of prayer do little to help and may in fact cause harm.
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 D. My point, is that just because some people pray for needs like cancer, does not mean they sit on their duffs and do nothing.  Some may - but most do not; blame for doing "nothing" can actually be applied towards anyone, believer or not, doing nothing to help - yet vocally demanding everyone else needs to be helping.
Exactly, some may. Even if only 1% of all those who pray instead of actually helping someone, then decides to help someone because they no longer pray is reason enough to get rid of the idea of prayer. Also remember, prayer is not an effective means of obtaining happiness, so I don't use that in the equation in determining the usefulness of prayer.
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 E.  Prayer is powerful - for believers who know this to be true - and becomes a great and personal way of a believer's life.  And most believers I know do not and will not try and "coerce" others to pray when it's something others do not wish to do.  That point can be made for both sides - everyone willingly chooses what to or what not to believe in their lives, and should not be chided or belittled for doing so.
So... The truth doesn't matter as long as everyone is happy? Sorry, I don't subscribe to the notion of blissful ignorance. I'd rather live in a world where we actually solve problems with practical and logical solutions.

You don't have to subscribe, nor are you subscribing to the notion of "blissful ignorance."  Nor am I.  I live in a world of reality, trying to solve problems with practical and logical solutions, as well, and I also include God in my life, priorities, actions, and guidance with practical and logical solutions.  No one is going to be 100% happy, whether they pray or not pray, and whether they are a believer or a disbeliever.  Your subscribing does not interfere with nor change mine, and vice versa. 

I'm saying, as a believer, prayer does indeed work, and can be powerful in its results to situations.  You, as a disbeliever, do not have to subscribe or have anything to do with it.  I, as a believer, do.  Individual choices made personal, with not having to explain themselves to anyone for their decisions in life, with regards to God or not God.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 22, 2013, 02:45:21 pm
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If you believe there is no God, then you do not believe any of the spouted mistruths you are putting out here.

You have failed to show why my logic is false, and therefore have no reason or right to call the reasonings false. Unless you can explain it through realistic means, you are showing the very definition of delusional thinking. I have the right to make examples of why something is fallacious without believing in the supernatural claims I'm speaking against. If you want to call them mistruths, that's your call. But it makes absolutely no sense and shows a very narrow sense of intelligence.

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this means, in actuality, lies are being spread about something you don't believe in or about, which mean those "lies" never took place, according to your interpretation of thinking.  

Incorrect. I can make examples of something to better explain why they're false. Just because I don't believe in Santa Claus does not mean I can't make examples of why his existence is implausible.

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Researching the history of the events, understanding the facts and information, what happened, and why it happened, is preferable to just spouting half-lies and half-truths about something you know nothing about and claim to disbelieve.  Contradicting yourself gets you nowhere.

Contradicting? Are you serious? If you have a very large equation finished, but find errors anywhere in it after going over it, the whole equation is damaged. Your beliefs and ancient book, as I have proven countless times in the past, is just this. The fact that your beliefs have never been able to withstand any basic skepticism says an overwhelming amount about them. I'm not the one spreading lies. I'm the one explaining why religious 'facts' are fallible and should not be taken seriously. Now before you go and start copy/pasting 10 pages of text from well-known creationist liars to show your 'research' on the subject, I recommend you stop yourself and realize how intellectually dishonest you're being and have been in the past.

You are just one person, behind a screen I might add (as I am also behind a screen), who disagrees with the existence of God.  So naturally, anything regarding God is rejected, including His Word - that is expected.  Fortunately for me and for other believers, your views don't affect my views, your interpretations are simply your interpretations from the outside looking in, thinking you are being plausible, when instead, you are missing the core of understanding, the heart dedicated to God, and misrepresenting truths, leaving out the full points, and attempting in every way to make God look "evil" and "bad." 

You have your personal free will and choice to do so.  It does not change the truth for me and for other believers, who actually experience God's love, comfort, will, guidance, etc., and can see some of the "bigger picture" of everything that has happened from Creation, foretelling of Jesus's birth, death, burial, and resurrection, the free gift of salvation because of His sacrifice on that cross, and of the things that have happened, are happening, and will happen, including the end of time as we know it. 

Speak on, as everyone is free to do so.  Your views do not change nor disprove my views and beliefs.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 22, 2013, 10:11:28 pm
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You are just one person, behind a screen I might add (as I am also behind a screen), who disagrees with the existence of God.  So naturally, anything regarding God is rejected, including His Word - that is expected.  Fortunately for me and for other believers, your views don't affect my views

Then you and the others being in debate and discuss is fairly pointless. I'll be the level headed one here and say yours and others viewpoints can affect my viewpoint, but when you and the others cannot provide sufficient evidence of anything involving your beliefs, there's really no point in debating or discussing any truth claims you believe you have.

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your interpretations are simply your interpretations from the outside looking in

So I guess the bible is right because the bible says so? That's the problem with not seeing it from the inside looking out. I recall showing you numerous times why your biblical opinions are false and you failing to show why I'm wrong in these justifications. Slavery, the argument of free will, false prophecies, Noah's Ark, etc.  Each time you failed to disprove why this god is not malevolent or how the bible is not fallacious.

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thinking you are being plausible, when instead, you are missing the core of understanding, the heart dedicated to God, and misrepresenting truths, leaving out the full points, and attempting in every way to make God look "evil" and "bad."  

And, oddly enough, you've failed the vast majority of the time in making a counter-point when I present the fallacies of your beliefs.

"Believe those who seek the truth. Doubt those who say they have it."
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sigmapi1501 on March 23, 2013, 02:26:42 pm
Guys c'mon!

We all know the Bible is to be taken literally. UNLESS it condones something negative at which point the words must be interpreted to fit current day culture. Why is that so hard to comprehend???
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 23, 2013, 02:44:35 pm
You don't have to subscribe, nor are you subscribing to the notion of "blissful ignorance."  Nor am I.  I live in a world of reality, trying to solve problems with practical and logical solutions, as well, and I also include God in my life, priorities, actions, and guidance with practical and logical solutions.  No one is going to be 100% happy, whether they pray or not pray, and whether they are a believer or a disbeliever.  Your subscribing does not interfere with nor change mine, and vice versa.  

I'm saying, as a believer, prayer does indeed work, and can be powerful in its results to situations.  You, as a disbeliever, do not have to subscribe or have anything to do with it.  I, as a believer, do.  Individual choices made personal, with not having to explain themselves to anyone for their decisions in life, with regards to God or not God.

If you had even an ounce of logical reasoning, you wouldn't include god. It doesn't matter if prayer is powerful, what matters is whether or not it actually does any good. You said nothing in response to my statement that prayer is harmful to society as a whole, and haven't given me any more evidence to support the claim that prayer works. You don't have too, but my stance still stands as it was. If people don't want to explain themselves, that's fine. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't be allowed to ask for said explanation. One's silence can speak more than one's words.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: msmoneybags48 on March 23, 2013, 02:47:35 pm
If you feel no guilt, it is a clear indication that you feel no wrong. I feel justified because I do not agree with you and your one-sided beliefs.   I see nobody else agree with you either. :angel12: :angel12:
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 23, 2013, 02:50:24 pm
If you feel no guilt, it is a clear indication that you feel no wrong. I feel justified because I do not agree with you and your one-sided beliefs.   I see nobody else agree with you either. :angel12: :angel12:

Then you obviously haven't read anyone else's post on this thread.

Also, we don't have one-sided beliefs. Our beliefs are open to reality, however it happens to presents itself. The scientific method is the best method to understand reality not because it is one-sided but because its open to change as new information is gathered. You're still stuck to a 2000 year old belief system and those who follow said belief systems do everything in their power to defend that belief system regardless of the amount of evidence gathered that contradict that belief system.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: msmoneybags48 on March 23, 2013, 05:29:52 pm
I have my beliefs and you have yours.  Yet in the Ten Commandments he said not to honor false gods.  I honor Him.   I was raised up believing that there is a God and nobody knows when he's returning.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 23, 2013, 11:06:42 pm
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I have my beliefs and you have yours.  Yet in the Ten Commandments he said not to honor false gods.  I honor Him.   I was raised up believing that there is a God and nobody knows when he's returning.

Your god is as real as every other god through history. Do you think all the others are false? Talk about a one-sided belief system! You contradict yourself, maddam.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: msmoneybags48 on March 24, 2013, 02:20:39 pm
God said to not put any gods before Him.  You are a pagan worshipper.  You are supposed to worship the only God there is.  I am not contradicting myself.  You began this controversy by telling people their god is not real; that is like telling the Devil that you signed on a new breed of worshippers for him.  You had to have known this was going to start a problem.  You didn't care. ??? :o :o :o :o
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 24, 2013, 03:30:50 pm
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God said to not put any gods before Him.  You are a pagan worshipper. 

Incorrect. I do not worship any gods (including yours).

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You are supposed to worship the only God there is.

Says who? Your god? Through what? Your bible? That's circular reasoning and is a logical fallacy.

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I am not contradicting myself.  You began this controversy by telling people their god is not real; that is like telling the Devil that you signed on a new breed of worshippers for him.

You did contradict yourself. Even a young child could spot the contradiction within your 2 posts. Ignorance is bliss I suppose. And I'm not telling you your god is not real. You're doing that by yourself with the lack of evidence you present. I'm simply pointing out the fallacy when it has already been presented. I could tell you that there's a blue dragon monster living in my freezer, but without showing evidence of it, I would be labelled delusional for constantly insisting it exists. You're doing the exact same thing (aside from having an ancient story book full of similar supernatural tales in it).

But I imagine since I'm speaking realistically and using casual logic, I'm teaming up with Satan, right?
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 24, 2013, 03:43:21 pm
God said to not put any gods before Him.  You are a pagan worshipper.  You are supposed to worship the only God there is.  I am not contradicting myself.  You began this controversy by telling people their god is not real; that is like telling the Devil that you signed on a new breed of worshippers for him.  You had to have known this was going to start a problem.  You didn't care. ??? :o :o :o :o

God isn't real, therefore Satan gets more followers. Forgive me if I'm wrong but...

Either:

P1. God created everything (including Satan.)
P2. God isn't real.
C1: Satan cannot be real.

Or:
P1. God created everything (including Satan.)
P2. God is real.
C1: Satan is real, and all atheist are secretly devil worshipers.

As you can see the argument (regardless of what you believe) will always boil down to whether or not god is real. This is because the question of god existing or not is more important than discussing whether or not Satan is real, only because in order for Satan to exist so must god. To accuse atheist of devil worshiping makes no real sense. Saying atheist worship Satan can only hold any validity if and only if God exist. Would it not then be more prudent to just discuss the basis of god existing instead of accusing people for things that is also no evidence for?
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: msmoneybags48 on March 25, 2013, 06:11:27 am
Did you tell your parents that?  Because I still assert that God created you and He is your true Father.  I refuse to play this back-and-forth game with you because you are a fool.  You don't see it now, but God will show you when you die why He is the boss.  I would rather believe in Him than Satan; his home is the fiery hell he lives in.  You are going to need ice water to chill the heat in your body. :angel12: :angel11:
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: home2013 on March 25, 2013, 06:34:51 am
I for one appreciate the fact that you are kind enough to allow me to pray in my own house thank you. While I am praying in my own house I will assume it is ok to pray for whatever or whomever I choose to pray for. You my friend will be at the top of the list. Hope you :peace: have a great week.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 25, 2013, 11:25:06 am
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Did you tell your parents that?  Because I still assert that God created you and He is your true Father

No proof to back this up? Delusional statement.

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I refuse to play this back-and-forth game with you because you are a fool.

Failure to back up your beliefs and then calling the opposition foolish? Arrogant and ignorant statement.

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You don't see it now, but God will show you when you die why He is the boss.

Believing in an authority figure without proof? Delusional and authoritative statement.

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I would rather believe in Him than Satan; his home is the fiery hell he lives in.  You are going to need ice water to chill the heat in your body.

Aaaaand we have a very bad human being here. It really saddens me to see that people like this still exist. Cursing anyone to some grim afterlife? That's not only the sign of a rude and uneducated individual, but also the sign of an immature one. It's almost the equivalent of going "Don't believe what I believe? Well F you!". Not only have you lost the debate, but you've made your belief system look foolish and out-of-touch. Bravo. I really hope this thread gets more views just so people can read your last post.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 25, 2013, 11:28:11 am
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You my friend will be at the top of the list. Hope you  have a great week.

"There are none more ignorant and useless, than they that seek answers on their knees, with their eyes closed."
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: msmoneybags48 on March 25, 2013, 01:11:11 pm
I am not ignorant.  I pray, and so does my husband.  He recognizes God for who He is.  Your timing is off considerably.  I will ask God for guidance because for a man, you are so ignorant you wouldn't know God if he came up literally and slapped the mess out of you.  I could go your route and say F***u, but I am a lady and stooping to your level wouldn't do a thing for me.  I've got style.  Do you? :angry7:
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 25, 2013, 01:26:07 pm
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I am not ignorant.

And yet I've already given you an pure example of your ignorance. You haven't counter-argued it. Therefore you are ignorant.

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Your timing is off considerably.  I will ask God for guidance because for a man, you are so ignorant you wouldn't know God if he came up literally and slapped the mess out of you.

How loving and christian of you to say such a thing. You wish harm to me through your ancient desert god. Thanks.

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I could go your route and say F***u

You misinterpreted how your condemning people to hell is just an ancient way of saying "F u". You've failed to counter-argue that too and instead you're just putting words in my mouth. It was obvious I never meant it that way, but you're skewing it to make you look like the victim of personal attacks. Such mind games are that of cult-mentalities. But, please, do continue. You damaging the merit of your belief system interests the free thinkers here.

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I've got style.

Yes you do. It's called religious fundamental-extremism.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 25, 2013, 08:48:28 pm
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You are just one person, behind a screen I might add (as I am also behind a screen), who disagrees with the existence of God.  So naturally, anything regarding God is rejected, including His Word - that is expected.  Fortunately for me and for other believers, your views don't affect my views

Then you and the others being in debate and discuss is fairly pointless. I'll be the level headed one here and say yours and others viewpoints can affect my viewpoint, but when you and the others cannot provide sufficient evidence of anything involving your beliefs, there's really no point in debating or discussing any truth claims you believe you have.

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your interpretations are simply your interpretations from the outside looking in

So I guess the bible is right because the bible says so? That's the problem with not seeing it from the inside looking out. I recall showing you numerous times why your biblical opinions are false and you failing to show why I'm wrong in these justifications. Slavery, the argument of free will, false prophecies, Noah's Ark, etc.  Each time you failed to disprove why this god is not malevolent or how the bible is not fallacious.

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thinking you are being plausible, when instead, you are missing the core of understanding, the heart dedicated to God, and misrepresenting truths, leaving out the full points, and attempting in every way to make God look "evil" and "bad."  

And, oddly enough, you've failed the vast majority of the time in making a counter-point when I present the fallacies of your beliefs.

"Believe those who seek the truth. Doubt those who say they have it."
The only reason you think it is pointless is because I won't budge from my belief in Christ.  Why does it matter so much to you anyway?  I'm not trying to coerce you from your choice of disbelief.  It's my life and my business, and nothing to do with yours, nor yours with mine.

Many believers have attempted to give or provide answers, whether personal, testimonies, events, c/p articles, etc., and some of you disbelievers ignore them, knock them, refuse to consider them - as is your choice.  It matters not what believers put, nothing has ever appeased some of your questions on the matter.  That is a condition of the heart being hardened against God, and it is the personal free will and choice to ignore answers and/or make them look false or unanswered.  So, since it is your choice to disbelieve, and my choice to believe, there really is nothing more to add on, except to constantly go in circles. :)
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 25, 2013, 08:53:23 pm
You don't have to subscribe, nor are you subscribing to the notion of "blissful ignorance."  Nor am I.  I live in a world of reality, trying to solve problems with practical and logical solutions, as well, and I also include God in my life, priorities, actions, and guidance with practical and logical solutions.  No one is going to be 100% happy, whether they pray or not pray, and whether they are a believer or a disbeliever.  Your subscribing does not interfere with nor change mine, and vice versa.  

I'm saying, as a believer, prayer does indeed work, and can be powerful in its results to situations.  You, as a disbeliever, do not have to subscribe or have anything to do with it.  I, as a believer, do.  Individual choices made personal, with not having to explain themselves to anyone for their decisions in life, with regards to God or not God.

If you had even an ounce of logical reasoning, you wouldn't include god. It doesn't matter if prayer is powerful, what matters is whether or not it actually does any good. You said nothing in response to my statement that prayer is harmful to society as a whole, and haven't given me any more evidence to support the claim that prayer works. You don't have too, but my stance still stands as it was. If people don't want to explain themselves, that's fine. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't be allowed to ask for said explanation. One's silence can speak more than one's words.
Mind your own "logical/illogical" reasoning, and I'll mind mine.  Just because my thoughts, views, and beliefs don't agree with yours, does not make my reasoning illogical.  And vice versa, I might add - but, I am not the one cutting down someone's reasoning as you are.

It matters not what I reply to you regarding prayer being harmful or not being harmful to society - you do not accept and/or pay attention to what I have said many times already.  I don't really expect you to accept something that you do not know personally nor have experienced - if you did, then there would be an understanding and peace regarding prayer, what it does, how it helps and comforts, through relying on Christ. 
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 26, 2013, 12:41:46 am
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The only reason you think it is pointless is because I won't budge from my belief in Christ.

The point of a debate is to present two opposing viewpoints and then have each side be educated on the others viewpoint. When one isn't willing to budge or ignores the glaring problems within their own side, then it's pointless. When I've presented realistic/logical problems with your reasonings and proofs and then later on you regurgitate the same nonsense, it's ridiculous.

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Why does it matter so much to you anyway?  I'm not trying to coerce you from your choice of disbelief.  It's my life and my business, and nothing to do with yours, nor yours with mine.

Well I appreciate the lack of personal attacks (unlike SOME of the christians on this forum...), but if you're going to share your POV in a debate and discuss forum, it does matter and you can't play the victim card if you comment or create a thread about it. However I'm just talking from a discussion level and not some deep personal/psychological level. Even though I use terms like 'delusional' a lot, it only pertains to the subject matter. You are not a (fully) delusional person, but your beliefs in the supernatural are a delusional quality.

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That is a condition of the heart being hardened against God, and it is the personal free will and choice to ignore answers and/or make them look false or unanswered

But I don't ignore answers. I know for a fact that you've posted fallible material many times. I point out the problems of those fallible answers. I notice this trend when I point out a problem-

1. The believers here will try to answer it
2. The answer is fallible on an elementary level and I point that out
3. The believers say I won't understand because of (insert random emotion here) or (insert some not-part-of-the-club dribble here)
4. I point out how that's a logical fallacy and emotion has nothing/very little to do with it
5. Original believers discussing the matter abandon the post without counter-arguing their fallacies

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So, since it is your choice to disbelieve, and my choice to believe, there really is nothing more to add on, except to constantly go in circles.

Humanity gains knowledge and evolves through understanding its surroundings. The problem with religious beliefs is most are against this concept. Clinging to ancient writings from people who thought the world was flat is odd and peculiar when we know so much about the universe just through something like modern-day astrophysics. You can believe what you wish, but thinking you can share it as truth here will get you that pesky 'logical flak'. Expect more circles I suppose.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 26, 2013, 08:35:01 am
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The only reason you think it is pointless is because I won't budge from my belief in Christ.

The point of a debate is to present two opposing viewpoints and then have each side be educated on the others viewpoint. When one isn't willing to budge or ignores the glaring problems within their own side, then it's pointless. When I've presented realistic/logical problems with your reasonings and proofs and then later on you regurgitate the same nonsense, it's ridiculous.

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Why does it matter so much to you anyway?  I'm not trying to coerce you from your choice of disbelief.  It's my life and my business, and nothing to do with yours, nor yours with mine.

Well I appreciate the lack of personal attacks (unlike SOME of the christians on this forum...), but if you're going to share your POV in a debate and discuss forum, it does matter and you can't play the victim card if you comment or create a thread about it. However I'm just talking from a discussion level and not some deep personal/psychological level. Even though I use terms like 'delusional' a lot, it only pertains to the subject matter. You are not a (fully) delusional person, but your beliefs in the supernatural are a delusional quality.

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That is a condition of the heart being hardened against God, and it is the personal free will and choice to ignore answers and/or make them look false or unanswered

But I don't ignore answers. I know for a fact that you've posted fallible material many times. I point out the problems of those fallible answers. I notice this trend when I point out a problem-

1. The believers here will try to answer it
2. The answer is fallible on an elementary level and I point that out
3. The believers say I won't understand because of (insert random emotion here) or (insert some not-part-of-the-club dribble here)
4. I point out how that's a logical fallacy and emotion has nothing/very little to do with it
5. Original believers discussing the matter abandon the post without counter-arguing their fallacies

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So, since it is your choice to disbelieve, and my choice to believe, there really is nothing more to add on, except to constantly go in circles.

Humanity gains knowledge and evolves through understanding its surroundings. The problem with religious beliefs is most are against this concept. Clinging to ancient writings from people who thought the world was flat is odd and peculiar when we know so much about the universe just through something like modern-day astrophysics. You can believe what you wish, but thinking you can share it as truth here will get you that pesky 'logical flak'. Expect more circles I suppose.

I personally believe that much of this boils down to the concept of "faith" and "trust."  Romans 10:17 says, “Faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ."  Hebrews 11:6 says, "And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him."  In other words, faith is trusting in someone or something - in this scenario, Christ - acting on God's Word, and not acting on our personal perceptions on the matter.

As you know yourself, there is a difference between believing what we know to be true, and what we perceive to be true.  Many people can't perceive the truth about God, because they don't experience the trust and faith in God that believers do.  It also takes time to build the trust and faith in someone or something.  It would be difficult to believe in or trust a stranger.  With a believer, the trust has been slowly gained, over time, through experiences, through answers to prayer or situations, to the point of the believer knowing deep down, with confidence and trust, that their faith is indeed real and Christ is indeed real. 

There are many gods.  God does say in His Word, that we (believers, that is) are to worship Him, and that He is a jealous God.  There are many religions.  Believers don't worship a religion - they worship God.  In my case, personally, I am a Christian, a believer in Christ, and Christianity is a "faith-based" religion.  As a believer, I have God's Word, the Bible, as a testimony for the grounding of my faith in God.  Then there is the fulfilling of the prophecy of Christ's birth, death, burial, and resurrection, and through Him and His sacrifice, a believer, such as myself, places faith and trust in Christ, for God's gift of salvation. 

Back to the perception of truth and/or reality - because some people cannot "see" God or Christ, literally, the struggle with faith/trust enters the picture.  There again, as already mentioned above, it's understandable the struggle with faith/trust when the someone/something can't be seen literally.  Also, again, that's where spending time with the someone/something, researching, asking questions, answering, studying, praying, having prayers answered, situations helped or changed, and so many other evidences of truth happening in the believer's life, then faith is established and built more concretely. 

It's kind of like stepping out of our comfort zone or outside of the box to go beyond just "seeing" the literal truth, but also being able to perceive and know the truth, through faith, confidence, and trust.  And once again, as we both know, the circle starts all over again, because of the conflict between faith and seeing/not seeing.  And we carry on...   



Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 26, 2013, 11:37:34 am
You don't have to subscribe, nor are you subscribing to the notion of "blissful ignorance."  Nor am I.  I live in a world of reality, trying to solve problems with practical and logical solutions, as well, and I also include God in my life, priorities, actions, and guidance with practical and logical solutions.  No one is going to be 100% happy, whether they pray or not pray, and whether they are a believer or a disbeliever.  Your subscribing does not interfere with nor change mine, and vice versa.  

I'm saying, as a believer, prayer does indeed work, and can be powerful in its results to situations.  You, as a disbeliever, do not have to subscribe or have anything to do with it.  I, as a believer, do.  Individual choices made personal, with not having to explain themselves to anyone for their decisions in life, with regards to God or not God.

If you had even an ounce of logical reasoning, you wouldn't include god. It doesn't matter if prayer is powerful, what matters is whether or not it actually does any good. You said nothing in response to my statement that prayer is harmful to society as a whole, and haven't given me any more evidence to support the claim that prayer works. You don't have too, but my stance still stands as it was. If people don't want to explain themselves, that's fine. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't be allowed to ask for said explanation. One's silence can speak more than one's words.
Mind your own "logical/illogical" reasoning, and I'll mind mine. Just because my thoughts, views, and beliefs don't agree with yours, does not make my reasoning illogical.  And vice versa, I might add - but, I am not the one cutting down someone's reasoning as you are.

It matters not what I reply to you regarding prayer being harmful or not being harmful to society - you do not accept and/or pay attention to what I have said many times already.  I don't really expect you to accept something that you do not know personally nor have experienced - if you did, then there would be an understanding and peace regarding prayer, what it does, how it helps and comforts, through relying on Christ.  

I'm not going to "mind my own logical/illogical reasoning" because you may have noticed we are on a forum dedicated to debate, on a thread I opened for the use of debating. If you no longer wish to debate then no one is forcing you to respond. Also, please don't tell others to stop replying and mind their own business. Otherwise, if you wish to continue to defend your position, I would highly recommend focusing on your position rather than claiming victim to being attacked because someone posted a different opinion from yours. This is getting rather annoying and I have ignored it up to this point.

The reason your ideology is illogical isn't just because I disagree with it. You're ignoring all of the reasons I (as well as others) gave that show's religion is illogical (ie: Blatant contradictions in the bible, no real evidence and no real scientific backing, no evidence outside of the bible that can be used as proof of the events the bible describes, the fact that other religions hold just as much (or as should say as little) validity as yours, the fact that prayer has been shown to have little or no real effect, and I could go on.)

Also, my personal experience has little to do with what I base my reality on. If I see something that looks like Bigfoot, I'm not going to go out on a limb and assume Bigfoot is real. At the same time, If I experience the affects of prayer then I'm noting to assume those effects happened as a result of that prayer. There's plenty of reasons why I experience what I experience so experiences alone may have little to do with actual reality. That's why we have the scientific method. Its also why, even though its the best method, it isn't perfect and we can never state actual fact from it (the reason why "theories are just theories"). It simply hold more validity than personal experiences.

So forgive me if I take other people's personal experiences with even less validity. Especially when claiming something as important as a divine being.
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: dbenjamin on March 26, 2013, 11:41:07 am
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I'd like to start off by saying that your god isn't real. Sorry.

OMG U CANT PROOF THAT SO U CANT SAY THAT

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Praying doesn't solve anything. Praying is simply giving yourself false hope when you should in fact have real hope as a result of actually doing something to help a given situation. Don't pray that we may find a cure for cancer when you can take that same effort and fund raise for charity. Prayer has been shown to cause no affect to the outcome of an event. Prayer's effects, no matter how massive the number of people are involved, has never been scientifically shown to make a significant differences in the outcome of an event. You could argue its because god deems it so, (which is a very popular scapegoat used) but this argument is one that hurts prayer the most.

I wholeheartedly agree with this. I forget who said this- "A thousand people can pray for something to be fixed, but it only takes 1 to get up off of their knees and fix it." The only thing I think you've left out here is that praying can make people feel good. It can act as a placebo effect and get them in high spirits when everything else in or around them is in bad condition. And who knows? Maybe in the future we'll find some quantum force that binds us all together (I hold no belief in this-- just a speculative idea)! I really have no problem with those situations if it's truly helping the person personally. It's when faith healers try to cash in on this idea or when people arrogantly speak of it as truth and are condescending of their apparent god-talking super-power. Y'know. Religion.

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If god (assuming such a deity exist, and is in fact the god of the christian bible) is going to do whatever he/she/it wants too regardless of prayer, then what is the point of prayer exactly? I suppose you could say the whole point is just to "connect" to god (I wont get into the specifics of that argument as I'll just be going back to my previous statement that god isn't real). Just remember, though, if you believe that prayer is only used to connect to your god, then you must also be insulted by the influx of threads, posts, and the general ideology that's telling others that they can pray their problems away.

The whole concept of praying to the Abrahamic god presents numerous logical problems. On one hand, praying and asking the god to make bad things go away would interfere with there being a "divine plan" because the believer is asking god to change something in the plan. If it's that simple and everyone's praying for this god to change things in their favor, there can't be a set plan. In that sense, praying is pointless if one believes there is a divine plan. If one believes god tilts things in their favor, there is no set course and thus the whole concept of a divine plan contradicts the religions teachings. However if one prays after bad things happen ("it's part of god's plan") thanking god for sparing them or opening their eyes to something after a bad experience, they're just praising the god's malevolence. Anyone (believer or not) has life-altering experiences. Good or bad, it's silly (and sometimes dangerous) to equate the experiences to a defined god.
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Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sigmapi1501 on March 26, 2013, 06:11:39 pm
You can believe in Jesus all you want. That is YOUR business. But when you want to govern the law of they land in which I live based on your fairy tale, then it becomes MY business.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Ittai on March 26, 2013, 06:49:38 pm
lol...I have a had to much happen in my life to say I know there is a God...!! :wave:
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 26, 2013, 08:21:32 pm
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I personally believe that much of this boils down to the concept of "faith" and "trust."  Romans 10:17 says, “Faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ."  Hebrews 11:6 says, "And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him."  In other words, faith is trusting in someone or something - in this scenario, Christ - acting on God's Word, and not acting on our personal perceptions on the matter.

I see, but if this were true, everyone who ever wholeheartedly prayed to your god for help/guidance/etc. would have received a 'reward'. This is not the case though since there are faith-oriented people out there that have died praying or are in horrible pain or simply aren't getting what they want/deserve. Therefore any success story is based on personal perception since the 'success stories' are cherry picked. This is not my personal take on the matter since the evidence shows nothing happens.

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As you know yourself, there is a difference between believing what we know to be true, and what we perceive to be true.  Many people can't perceive the truth about God, because they don't experience the trust and faith in God that believers do.  It also takes time to build the trust and faith in someone or something.  It would be difficult to believe in or trust a stranger.  With a believer, the trust has been slowly gained, over time, through experiences, through answers to prayer or situations, to the point of the believer knowing deep down, with confidence and trust, that their faith is indeed real and Christ is indeed real.  

Again, personal interpretations of a matter are not proofs. Saying one is slowly gaining answers and building up trust in a stranger nobody has ever seen is delusional (and possible schizophrenic) behavior.

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There are many gods.  God does say in His Word, that we (believers, that is) are to worship Him, and that He is a jealous God.  There are many religions.  Believers don't worship a religion - they worship God.  In my case, personally, I am a Christian, a believer in Christ, and Christianity is a "faith-based" religion.  As a believer, I have God's Word, the Bible, as a testimony for the grounding of my faith in God.  Then there is the fulfilling of the prophecy of Christ's birth, death, burial, and resurrection, and through Him and His sacrifice, a believer, such as myself, places faith and trust in Christ, for God's gift of salvation.  

So you admit that other gods exist besides your own?

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Back to the perception of truth and/or reality - because some people cannot "see" God or Christ, literally, the struggle with faith/trust enters the picture.  There again, as already mentioned above, it's understandable the struggle with faith/trust when the someone/something can't be seen literally.  Also, again, that's where spending time with the someone/something, researching, asking questions, answering, studying, praying, having prayers answered, situations helped or changed, and so many other evidences of truth happening in the believer's life, then faith is established and built more concretely.  

Again, if it were true and one did all these things, that would consitute as empirical proof that praying to your god works. However it's the contrary because you can do all of the things you listed to ...lets say... Super Mario and get the same results if you're a fan of his. It's not the prayer being answered by some mystical supernatural force. It's the person's own will power that sparks change.

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t's kind of like stepping out of our comfort zone or outside of the box to go beyond just "seeing" the literal truth, but also being able to perceive and know the truth, through faith, confidence, and trust.  And once again, as we both know, the circle starts all over again, because of the conflict between faith and seeing/not seeing.  And we carry on...  

You can say this exact thing about The Matrix existing, but w/o any evidence besides "you must become blind", you don't have an argument to hold up.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 26, 2013, 09:03:03 pm
I think you've mixed up my ideology with Jscribb's. I've never defended any ancient belief system.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 26, 2013, 09:38:51 pm
Oh wow no wonder I had difficulty understanding that quoted sentence. Jc's post seemed to be going all over the place until I realized I had quoted yours by accident. Fixed thanks!
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: furby33716 on March 27, 2013, 07:17:57 am
wow! so how can you be so sure God doesn't exist.  Science hasn't ever proven there is no soul and what happens to it.  What's the purpose of this thing called life, existents. We all might as well kill each other and end human existence.  I am an Agnostic, but we just don't know until were dead do we!
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Nancy5 on March 27, 2013, 10:18:02 am
I have a question for Falconer2.  I am quite serious when I ask this and am trying to understand your point of view (even if I don't agree with it).  If there is no God how were we created?  If you say we came from monkeys, who created the monkeys? 
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: dmahoney on March 27, 2013, 10:30:39 am
Im sorry for you and your soul.  :sad1:
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 27, 2013, 11:41:13 am
I have a question for Falconer2.  I am quite serious when I ask this and am trying to understand your point of view (even if I don't agree with it).  If there is no God how were we created?  If you say we came from monkeys, who created the monkeys?  

Although you asked Falconer2, I'll go ahead and give you my answer as well. This isn't an easy question to answer in one post. There is a huge amount of information science has available to explain the process by which human's and everything else in existence came to be. Although our understanding is still quite restricted, we exponentially learning more as time goes on. The further in the past we go the harder it becomes for science to explain exactly what happened. We can only conjecture the origins of the universe (though the current theories are pretty convincing), but things like evolution are a lot more set in stone (we have more evidence to study, and have the ability to study such evidence pretty effectively.)

If we continue the path of who created what (although I would say it's more what caused what), we'll eventually just reach the question of the origins of everything. There are many ideas science presents to explain the origin of the universe, and they're all a lot more convincing then a divine being. If you think god created everything, then what created god? If you think god is eternal, then why can't we just say the same thing for the universe and assume the universe doesn't need a creator because it has always been?
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Nancy5 on March 27, 2013, 12:53:28 pm
Flackle, thank you for your comments and thank you for not "putting down my question".  You do make some interesting points, but I still have to believe in God.  Have to is a bad choice of words, want to is what I really mean.  You can and do have your beliefs and I have mine, but in this country we can both say what we believe without any fear.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 27, 2013, 03:38:08 pm
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so how can you be so sure God doesn't exist.  Science hasn't ever proven there is no soul and what happens to it.  What's the purpose of this thing called life, existents. We all might as well kill each other and end human existence.  I am an Agnostic, but we just don't know until were dead do we!

You can be certain defined gods don't exist due to the inconsistencies and bogus claims made by the ancient people who created them. If a perfect being shows major childish flaws, right then and there the whole concept crumbles. I gave an example of the simple reasoning that's needed to disprove earlier in this thread. Disproving the idea of a god/gods/metaphysical entities is a whole different argument though. Though there still is no proof of these things, it's got some credibility (through speculation). Even militant atheists know that the concept of there being a god cannot be disproven rationally. Unfortunately there's no real foundation to really argue on either side of the issue. You being an agnostic probably knew this already though.

The major problem is the people saying "I know my god(s) exists!". They don't.

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I am quite serious when I ask this and am trying to understand your point of view (even if I don't agree with it).  If there is no God how were we created?  If you say we came from monkeys, who created the monkeys?  

I'm impressed that you asked! The majority of religious individuals here adamantly refuse to hear anything but what they already know.  Well first off (I hate to correct you) we didn't come from monkeys. We came from earlier primates who have been extinct for a long time now. Monkeys are just our distant cousins in a vast biological sense. To answer your original q- There are a few theories that I steer towards, but I know that they could be completely wrong. We could have originally been life from a different planet or an asteroid. We know that there are organisms that can survive the vacuum of space. Perhaps at one point life sprung from one planet and fell to earth as it was being formed? Perhaps our species is just an early version of the universe attempting to become self-aware? I obviously don't know and I don't claim to have the answers (mainly because humans brains are hot-wired on how to survive day-to-day rather than cope with the vastness of time and space), but there are some legitimate theories about how life came to be on our planet.

As far as the concept of a myterious god (or gods/aliens) goes, I'm not against them. The problem is is that there is no proof and I'm aware of that. Flackle brought up some good points and ultimately life is a mystery! It's our duty to try to unravel this mystery, but some people lie and say they already have all the answers. I guess to better understand my POV, I'll have to ask you this question-- would you rather trust modern-day astrophysicists who dedicate their lives to finding realistic explanations for the cosmos (while stating they could be wrong and don't claim to have all the answers) or would you trust some ancient barbaric gullible desert-dwellers who thought the world was flat/snow-globe shaped, the sun revolved around the earth, demons and witches were the reason for sickness, etc. who claimed to have all the answers?
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 27, 2013, 08:06:26 pm
You don't have to subscribe, nor are you subscribing to the notion of "blissful ignorance."  Nor am I.  I live in a world of reality, trying to solve problems with practical and logical solutions, as well, and I also include God in my life, priorities, actions, and guidance with practical and logical solutions.  No one is going to be 100% happy, whether they pray or not pray, and whether they are a believer or a disbeliever.  Your subscribing does not interfere with nor change mine, and vice versa.  

I'm saying, as a believer, prayer does indeed work, and can be powerful in its results to situations.  You, as a disbeliever, do not have to subscribe or have anything to do with it.  I, as a believer, do.  Individual choices made personal, with not having to explain themselves to anyone for their decisions in life, with regards to God or not God.

If you had even an ounce of logical reasoning, you wouldn't include god. It doesn't matter if prayer is powerful, what matters is whether or not it actually does any good. You said nothing in response to my statement that prayer is harmful to society as a whole, and haven't given me any more evidence to support the claim that prayer works. You don't have too, but my stance still stands as it was. If people don't want to explain themselves, that's fine. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't be allowed to ask for said explanation. One's silence can speak more than one's words.
Mind your own "logical/illogical" reasoning, and I'll mind mine. Just because my thoughts, views, and beliefs don't agree with yours, does not make my reasoning illogical.  And vice versa, I might add - but, I am not the one cutting down someone's reasoning as you are.

It matters not what I reply to you regarding prayer being harmful or not being harmful to society - you do not accept and/or pay attention to what I have said many times already.  I don't really expect you to accept something that you do not know personally nor have experienced - if you did, then there would be an understanding and peace regarding prayer, what it does, how it helps and comforts, through relying on Christ.  

I'm not going to "mind my own logical/illogical reasoning" because you may have noticed we are on a forum dedicated to debate, on a thread I opened for the use of debating. If you no longer wish to debate then no one is forcing you to respond. Also, please don't tell others to stop replying and mind their own business. Otherwise, if you wish to continue to defend your position, I would highly recommend focusing on your position rather than claiming victim to being attacked because someone posted a different opinion from yours. This is getting rather annoying and I have ignored it up to this point.

The reason your ideology is illogical isn't just because I disagree with it. You're ignoring all of the reasons I (as well as others) gave that show's religion is illogical (ie: Blatant contradictions in the bible, no real evidence and no real scientific backing, no evidence outside of the bible that can be used as proof of the events the bible describes, the fact that other religions hold just as much (or as should say as little) validity as yours, the fact that prayer has been shown to have little or no real effect, and I could go on.)

Also, my personal experience has little to do with what I base my reality on. If I see something that looks like Bigfoot, I'm not going to go out on a limb and assume Bigfoot is real. At the same time, If I experience the affects of prayer then I'm noting to assume those effects happened as a result of that prayer. There's plenty of reasons why I experience what I experience so experiences alone may have little to do with actual reality. That's why we have the scientific method. Its also why, even though its the best method, it isn't perfect and we can never state actual fact from it (the reason why "theories are just theories"). It simply hold more validity than personal experiences.

So forgive me if I take other people's personal experiences with even less validity. Especially when claiming something as important as a divine being.

This is one reason I don't care to debate much with you - you take words out of context and twist them.  You said if "I had any logical reasoning, I wouldn't include God."  So, I told you to mind your own logical/illogical reasoning, because I do reason logically and can and will include God, since He is a part of my life and reasoning.  I'm not trying to mind your business and am not telling you to mind your business, but not to determine my logical/illogical reasoning skills - it's your opinion, not fact, and you do not know me enough to make a factual comment about my reasoning; nor do I with yours. 

With that said, I see no need to discuss God/no God with you, unless you leave the personal aim towards my mental abilities out of it and instead, speak on the topic itself. 
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 27, 2013, 08:09:34 pm
You can believe in Jesus all you want. That is YOUR business. But when you want to govern the law of they land in which I live based on your fairy tale, then it becomes MY business.

I'm not quite sure to whom you are speaking, but be reassured on my behalf, that it is not my intention for my faith in God, with my "religion," to govern the law of the land.  I just want the Constitution upheld so that believers can worship freely, and those who do not choose or have religion, will have their freedom, too. 
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 27, 2013, 08:55:43 pm
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I personally believe that much of this boils down to the concept of "faith" and "trust."  Romans 10:17 says, “Faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ."  Hebrews 11:6 says, "And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him."  In other words, faith is trusting in someone or something - in this scenario, Christ - acting on God's Word, and not acting on our personal perceptions on the matter.

I see, but if this were true, everyone who ever wholeheartedly prayed to your god for help/guidance/etc. would have received a 'reward'. This is not the case though since there are faith-oriented people out there that have died praying or are in horrible pain or simply aren't getting what they want/deserve. Therefore any success story is based on personal perception since the 'success stories' are cherry picked. This is not my personal take on the matter since the evidence shows nothing happens.

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As you know yourself, there is a difference between believing what we know to be true, and what we perceive to be true.  Many people can't perceive the truth about God, because they don't experience the trust and faith in God that believers do.  It also takes time to build the trust and faith in someone or something.  It would be difficult to believe in or trust a stranger.  With a believer, the trust has been slowly gained, over time, through experiences, through answers to prayer or situations, to the point of the believer knowing deep down, with confidence and trust, that their faith is indeed real and Christ is indeed real.  

Again, personal interpretations of a matter are not proofs. Saying one is slowly gaining answers and building up trust in a stranger nobody has ever seen is delusional (and possible schizophrenic) behavior.

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There are many gods.  God does say in His Word, that we (believers, that is) are to worship Him, and that He is a jealous God.  There are many religions.  Believers don't worship a religion - they worship God.  In my case, personally, I am a Christian, a believer in Christ, and Christianity is a "faith-based" religion.  As a believer, I have God's Word, the Bible, as a testimony for the grounding of my faith in God.  Then there is the fulfilling of the prophecy of Christ's birth, death, burial, and resurrection, and through Him and His sacrifice, a believer, such as myself, places faith and trust in Christ, for God's gift of salvation.  

So you admit that other gods exist besides your own?

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Back to the perception of truth and/or reality - because some people cannot "see" God or Christ, literally, the struggle with faith/trust enters the picture.  There again, as already mentioned above, it's understandable the struggle with faith/trust when the someone/something can't be seen literally.  Also, again, that's where spending time with the someone/something, researching, asking questions, answering, studying, praying, having prayers answered, situations helped or changed, and so many other evidences of truth happening in the believer's life, then faith is established and built more concretely.  

Again, if it were true and one did all these things, that would consitute as empirical proof that praying to your god works. However it's the contrary because you can do all of the things you listed to ...lets say... Super Mario and get the same results if you're a fan of his. It's not the prayer being answered by some mystical supernatural force. It's the person's own will power that sparks change.

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t's kind of like stepping out of our comfort zone or outside of the box to go beyond just "seeing" the literal truth, but also being able to perceive and know the truth, through faith, confidence, and trust.  And once again, as we both know, the circle starts all over again, because of the conflict between faith and seeing/not seeing.  And we carry on...  

You can say this exact thing about The Matrix existing, but w/o any evidence besides "you must become blind", you don't have an argument to hold up.

No one receives a "reward" for every situation they pray for and about.  I don't know where that comes from nor why you would think that. 

You bring up Mario and The Matrix, however, those 2 aren't up for debate on being "God" and being worshiped, and have no comparison with God.  Neither do Santa Claus and The Easter Bunny, etc.  Some children are encouraged to believe in them as children, and when older, are either told the truth or they figure it out.  It's sort of like a "magical" part of childhood, including fun and excitement of certain holidays.

On the other hand, God is who is up for the debate with being real or not.  I've already mentioned there are reasons, testimonies, situations that happened, God's Word, historical situations, and more, that prove to some people that God is real and so they place their faith in Him.  No one else has to believe them or agree with them, but they shouldn't be intimidated or belittled for believing something they know or perceive to be the truth for them.  There are others who do not agree with that, and choose to ignore or disbelieve any idea of God or accepting God.  Again, no one else has to agree with their disbelief.  What's wonderful in our country, is that both sides  are guaranteed the freedom to worship or not worship God, or whatever/whoever they choose to believe in, under our Constitution.

The biggest problem people have is that on one side, some feel that some believers want to force everyone to believe as them.  While a few are over-zealous with that, most just follow what God's Word says to do - introduce Christ, and then it's up to the other person or not to accept or not accept Christ.  And when anything bad happens, then believers, as a whole, are looked down on and held accountable for the over-zealous ones and/or the ones who commit wrong against others.

Then there's the other side.  Some disbelievers tend to get over-zealous, as well, and attempt to coerce believers to give up believing in God, or some try to make believers appear schizo, delusional, or otherwise, for believing in God.  Yet, the Constitution protects both sides, and some people on both sides tend to forget this when coming down on others for their personal choice.

Whatever happens when death takes someone is a matter of debate.  Those who have passed on are the only definite ones who know exactly what happens after death; or for some, there are others who say no one knows exactly what happens after death.  Why the big concern for others if they believe there is heaven or hell after death?  If some want nothing to do with God or the idea of God, then that's their personal choice.  They will either find out or never know what happens after death.  For those who believe in God, and have learned from God's Word, from past situations (during Biblical times; those who suffered through the plagues and/or died; those who experienced the 'presence' of God, through the burning bush, angels, etc.) and evidences they may have experienced or seen for themselves, then who is anyone else to try and tell them otherwise that there is nothing after death? 

Believers shouldn't have to cower in fear and intimidation from others who don't agree with their choice of worshiping God.  And likewise, others who deny God exists, shouldn't have to cower because believers don't agree with their choice.  It comes down to personal choice, free will, freedom (under the Constitution,) and the concept of faith, trust, confidence, and hope.  In today's society, more people, on both sides of the issue, are tending to mind other peoples' business when it comes to an individual's personal choice of believing or disbelieving.  Everyone is personally responsible and accountable for their own decisions and choices - period.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sigmapi1501 on March 27, 2013, 09:30:42 pm
You can believe in Jesus all you want. That is YOUR business. But when you want to govern the law of they land in which I live based on your fairy tale, then it becomes MY business.

I'm not quite sure to whom you are speaking, but be reassured on my behalf, that it is not my intention for my faith in God, with my "religion," to govern the law of the land.  I just want the Constitution upheld so that believers can worship freely, and those who do not choose or have religion, will have their freedom, too. 

False.  When you deny a woman the right to choose, or a couple from being married based solely on a book that also says a man lived to be 900 years old, then you are not keeping church and state separate.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 27, 2013, 10:20:40 pm
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No one receives a "reward" for every situation they pray for and about.  I don't know where that comes from nor why you would think that. 

You brought it up with your bible verse- "And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him." . Perhaps I just misread what you meant.

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You bring up Mario and The Matrix, however, those 2 aren't up for debate on being "God" and being worshiped, and have no comparison with God. Neither do Santa Claus and The Easter Bunny, etc.

Sure they do. They're all fictional. The Matrix even has some religious elements and god-like characters in it. When you can draw simple parallels from these things, they are alike.

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Some children are encouraged to believe in them as children, and when older, are either told the truth or they figure it out.  It's sort of like a "magical" part of childhood, including fun and excitement of certain holidays.

You don't find it peculiar at all that parents dont do this with religious tales? "Santa Clause going around the world in 1 night? Ha! Proposterous! My god flooding the entire world? A talking serpent? Totally legit."

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On the other hand, God is who is up for the debate with being real or not.  I've already mentioned there are reasons, testimonies, situations that happened, God's Word, historical situations, and more, that prove to some people that God is real and so they place their faith in Him.

But I've proven before that these are either flat-out false, inconclusive, anecdotal, cherry-picked, romanticized, or lies. Personally I don't care, but when people push them as truths and suddenly they're teaching creationism in science classes, the line has been breached.

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but they shouldn't be intimidated or belittled for believing something they know or perceive to be the truth for them.

Except when they force it upon a free society as Sigimap has pointed out. Let's not forget (historically) the blood spilled in the name of your god either.

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Some disbelievers tend to get over-zealous, as well, and attempt to coerce believers to give up believing in God, or some try to make believers appear schizo, delusional, or otherwise, for believing in God.  Yet, the Constitution protects both sides, and some people on both sides tend to forget this when coming down on others for their personal choice.

The fact is that it is delusional and sometime schizophrenic behavior. Heck, we've had schizo's on this forum before who believed in god and heard voices! This is a friendly debate. I'm not trying to take down the first amendment or anything-- that's ridiculous.

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Why the big concern for others if they believe there is heaven or hell after death?

It's not a major concern. Ancient afterlife concepts are silly though. If it comforts them on their deathbed, I'm sure nobody has any issues with it. Besides, everyone goes to heaven besides those rotten serial killers. Or maybe it was those people who didn't accept Jesus? Or perhaps they needed to take more action with their beliefs to get to heaven? Etc. etc. etc.

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then who is anyone else to try and tell them otherwise that there is nothing after death?

Who's saying that? Nobody knows what happens. Anyone who claims to know is ridiculously arrogant.

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Believers shouldn't have to cower in fear and intimidation from others who don't agree with their choice of worshiping God.  And likewise, others who deny God exists, shouldn't have to cower because believers don't agree with their choice.

Correct, though it's unfortunate your beliefs have claimed so many lives and chained so many people for just those reasons.

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In today's society, more people, on both sides of the issue, are tending to mind other peoples' business when it comes to an individual's personal choice of believing or disbelieving.

Yes, though I find it interesting that religion is slowly disappearing in 1st-world countries while this concept you speak of has been promoted in all of them.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 28, 2013, 04:35:47 am
You can believe in Jesus all you want. That is YOUR business. But when you want to govern the law of they land in which I live based on your fairy tale, then it becomes MY business.

I'm not quite sure to whom you are speaking, but be reassured on my behalf, that it is not my intention for my faith in God, with my "religion," to govern the law of the land.  I just want the Constitution upheld so that believers can worship freely, and those who do not choose or have religion, will have their freedom, too. 

False.  When you deny a woman the right to choose, or a couple from being married based solely on a book that also says a man lived to be 900 years old, then you are not keeping church and state separate.
I've not done anything of the kind, sir.  Not everyone does what you seem to think they do. 

Another thing, those issues are not all encompassed strictly through the "God" thing.  And people are free to feel about those issues whichever way they want - some may agree with you and some may not - it's personal preference and beliefs that people feel strongly about, whether for or against those social issues. 
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: jcribb16 on March 28, 2013, 04:58:24 am
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No one receives a "reward" for every situation they pray for and about.  I don't know where that comes from nor why you would think that. 

You brought it up with your bible verse- "And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him." . Perhaps I just misread what you meant.

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You bring up Mario and The Matrix, however, those 2 aren't up for debate on being "God" and being worshiped, and have no comparison with God. Neither do Santa Claus and The Easter Bunny, etc.

Sure they do. They're all fictional. The Matrix even has some religious elements and god-like characters in it. When you can draw simple parallels from these things, they are alike.

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Some children are encouraged to believe in them as children, and when older, are either told the truth or they figure it out.  It's sort of like a "magical" part of childhood, including fun and excitement of certain holidays.

You don't find it peculiar at all that parents dont do this with religious tales? "Santa Clause going around the world in 1 night? Ha! Proposterous! My god flooding the entire world? A talking serpent? Totally legit."

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On the other hand, God is who is up for the debate with being real or not.  I've already mentioned there are reasons, testimonies, situations that happened, God's Word, historical situations, and more, that prove to some people that God is real and so they place their faith in Him.

But I've proven before that these are either flat-out false, inconclusive, anecdotal, cherry-picked, romanticized, or lies. Personally I don't care, but when people push them as truths and suddenly they're teaching creationism in science classes, the line has been breached.

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but they shouldn't be intimidated or belittled for believing something they know or perceive to be the truth for them.

Except when they force it upon a free society as Sigimap has pointed out. Let's not forget (historically) the blood spilled in the name of your god either.

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Some disbelievers tend to get over-zealous, as well, and attempt to coerce believers to give up believing in God, or some try to make believers appear schizo, delusional, or otherwise, for believing in God.  Yet, the Constitution protects both sides, and some people on both sides tend to forget this when coming down on others for their personal choice.

The fact is that it is delusional and sometime schizophrenic behavior. Heck, we've had schizo's on this forum before who believed in god and heard voices! This is a friendly debate. I'm not trying to take down the first amendment or anything-- that's ridiculous.

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Why the big concern for others if they believe there is heaven or hell after death?

It's not a major concern. Ancient afterlife concepts are silly though. If it comforts them on their deathbed, I'm sure nobody has any issues with it. Besides, everyone goes to heaven besides those rotten serial killers. Or maybe it was those people who didn't accept Jesus? Or perhaps they needed to take more action with their beliefs to get to heaven? Etc. etc. etc.

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then who is anyone else to try and tell them otherwise that there is nothing after death?

Who's saying that? Nobody knows what happens. Anyone who claims to know is ridiculously arrogant.

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Believers shouldn't have to cower in fear and intimidation from others who don't agree with their choice of worshiping God.  And likewise, others who deny God exists, shouldn't have to cower because believers don't agree with their choice.

Correct, though it's unfortunate your beliefs have claimed so many lives and chained so many people for just those reasons.

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In today's society, more people, on both sides of the issue, are tending to mind other peoples' business when it comes to an individual's personal choice of believing or disbelieving.

Yes, though I find it interesting that religion is slowly disappearing in 1st-world countries while this concept you speak of has been promoted in all of them.

I'm speaking of rewards in heaven.  And one cannot enter heaven without "faith" in Christ.  That's a deeper issue than what is being discussed here.

Not all believers "push" as truth, at least not consistently.  Many introduce and after that, it's up to the other person what decision they choose to go with.  Not all disbelievers or atheists "push" God as a fairy tale, and it's up to the other person regarding their thoughts on that as well.  As I said, there are over-zealous people on both sides of the issue, who can carry things too far, and that is wrong.

My "beliefs" did not kill or burn others - people did.  (Just an add in here: guns don't kill people; people use the guns to kill people.)  Some were way over-zealous and seemed to have gone past doing what God wanted - to love everyone - and instead, played God.  They were wrong.  I will add, too, that believers and disbelievers, alike, are all capable of killing, burning, molesting, etc. - it's the people who do so and it doesn't matter who or what they are, they deserve to pay the consequences/penalties for their actions.

As far as what is taught in the schools, evolution and creation were taught side by side for many years.  Both should be included, in my opinion - the parents and students (teens) should be able to look at both and determine from there what they agree with or not agree with.  While some think creation is supernatural by a supernatural being, and therefore too weird to even consider, some feel evolution is too weird too even consider for the sudden "bang" out of nothing/nowhere and then everything just suddenly "knows" how to evolve into what everything is today, not to mention it is still just a theory, by "man," not 100% proven, either.  However, both are fantastic to look at, study, and do research on, even to the point of considering the possibility of the combination of both.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 28, 2013, 08:13:10 am
You don't have to subscribe, nor are you subscribing to the notion of "blissful ignorance."  Nor am I.  I live in a world of reality, trying to solve problems with practical and logical solutions, as well, and I also include God in my life, priorities, actions, and guidance with practical and logical solutions.  No one is going to be 100% happy, whether they pray or not pray, and whether they are a believer or a disbeliever.  Your subscribing does not interfere with nor change mine, and vice versa.  

I'm saying, as a believer, prayer does indeed work, and can be powerful in its results to situations.  You, as a disbeliever, do not have to subscribe or have anything to do with it.  I, as a believer, do.  Individual choices made personal, with not having to explain themselves to anyone for their decisions in life, with regards to God or not God.

If you had even an ounce of logical reasoning, you wouldn't include god. It doesn't matter if prayer is powerful, what matters is whether or not it actually does any good. You said nothing in response to my statement that prayer is harmful to society as a whole, and haven't given me any more evidence to support the claim that prayer works. You don't have too, but my stance still stands as it was. If people don't want to explain themselves, that's fine. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't be allowed to ask for said explanation. One's silence can speak more than one's words.
Mind your own "logical/illogical" reasoning, and I'll mind mine. Just because my thoughts, views, and beliefs don't agree with yours, does not make my reasoning illogical.  And vice versa, I might add - but, I am not the one cutting down someone's reasoning as you are.

It matters not what I reply to you regarding prayer being harmful or not being harmful to society - you do not accept and/or pay attention to what I have said many times already.  I don't really expect you to accept something that you do not know personally nor have experienced - if you did, then there would be an understanding and peace regarding prayer, what it does, how it helps and comforts, through relying on Christ.  

I'm not going to "mind my own logical/illogical reasoning" because you may have noticed we are on a forum dedicated to debate, on a thread I opened for the use of debating. If you no longer wish to debate then no one is forcing you to respond. Also, please don't tell others to stop replying and mind their own business. Otherwise, if you wish to continue to defend your position, I would highly recommend focusing on your position rather than claiming victim to being attacked because someone posted a different opinion from yours. This is getting rather annoying and I have ignored it up to this point.

The reason your ideology is illogical isn't just because I disagree with it. You're ignoring all of the reasons I (as well as others) gave that show's religion is illogical (ie: Blatant contradictions in the bible, no real evidence and no real scientific backing, no evidence outside of the bible that can be used as proof of the events the bible describes, the fact that other religions hold just as much (or as should say as little) validity as yours, the fact that prayer has been shown to have little or no real effect, and I could go on.)

Also, my personal experience has little to do with what I base my reality on. If I see something that looks like Bigfoot, I'm not going to go out on a limb and assume Bigfoot is real. At the same time, If I experience the affects of prayer then I'm noting to assume those effects happened as a result of that prayer. There's plenty of reasons why I experience what I experience so experiences alone may have little to do with actual reality. That's why we have the scientific method. Its also why, even though its the best method, it isn't perfect and we can never state actual fact from it (the reason why "theories are just theories"). It simply hold more validity than personal experiences.

So forgive me if I take other people's personal experiences with even less validity. Especially when claiming something as important as a divine being.

This is one reason I don't care to debate much with you - you take words out of context and twist them.  You said if "I had any logical reasoning, I wouldn't include God."  So, I told you to mind your own logical/illogical reasoning, because I do reason logically and can and will include God, since He is a part of my life and reasoning.  I'm not trying to mind your business and am not telling you to mind your business, but not to determine my logical/illogical reasoning skills - it's your opinion, not fact, and you do not know me enough to make a factual comment about my reasoning; nor do I with yours.  

With that said, I see no need to discuss God/no God with you, unless you leave the personal aim towards my mental abilities out of it and instead, speak on the topic itself.  

I didn't take your words out of context. If you had read my entire post, you would have realized I responded to most of your post. It is just not logical to believe in god. That's what this entire debate is about. When you tell me to mind my own logical/reasoning skills you are telling me to stop all together. It is my opinion that you haven't shown to possess basic skills in logic and reasoning. Instead of telling me I take your post out of context, you could have proven me wrong by actually refuting the points I make with logic and reasoning. When I make a statement, I'm going to state it as a fact. That's the proper way to debate. We cannot debate opinions (because they are opinions) so it isn't proper to respond by saying what the other person states is their opinion. Yes, the things I state are only my opinion. We all know this.

Although we can't disprove a divine being exist, we can show it's illogical to believe in the god of the bible. I am the one trying to actually debate the existence of god. No where in your last few post have you defended your beliefs. If you want me to respect your logic and reasoning skills then it would help to show me your logic/reasoning skills be dismantling my post and counter-argue each argument I make.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sigmapi1501 on March 28, 2013, 04:50:15 pm
You can believe in Jesus all you want. That is YOUR business. But when you want to govern the law of they land in which I live based on your fairy tale, then it becomes MY business.

I'm not quite sure to whom you are speaking, but be reassured on my behalf, that it is not my intention for my faith in God, with my "religion," to govern the law of the land.  I just want the Constitution upheld so that believers can worship freely, and those who do not choose or have religion, will have their freedom, too. 

Slavery and not allowing women to vote used to be personal preference. But hey, everyone's entitled to their own opinion.
False.  When you deny a woman the right to choose, or a couple from being married based solely on a book that also says a man lived to be 900 years old, then you are not keeping church and state separate.
I've not done anything of the kind, sir.  Not everyone does what you seem to think they do. 

Another thing, those issues are not all encompassed strictly through the "God" thing.  And people are free to feel about those issues whichever way they want - some may agree with you and some may not - it's personal preference and beliefs that people feel strongly about, whether for or against those social issues. 
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: queenofnines on March 29, 2013, 01:00:51 pm
Prayer? Did someone say prayer?

http://godisimaginary.com/i1.htm
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 30, 2013, 03:45:51 pm
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My "beliefs" did not kill or burn others - people did.  (Just an add in here: guns don't kill people; people use the guns to kill people.)  Some were way over-zealous and seemed to have gone past doing what God wanted - to love everyone - and instead, played God.  They were wrong.  I will add, too, that believers and disbelievers, alike, are all capable of killing, burning, molesting, etc. - it's the people who do so and it doesn't matter who or what they are, they deserve to pay the consequences/penalties for their actions.

Your beliefs did lead to the killing and burning of others because people took drastic action using the same beliefs you have (Guns don't kill people- bullets and bloodloss do! However the person pulling the trigger is morally responsible for it). The thing is is that the pick-and-choose-your-morals trend within religions today gives you a lot more leeway than it did in the past. Your beliefs have a history of sparking and continuing atrocious horrific events. Your religion's beliefs many times defended and still defend immoral behavior till this day. And yes- non-believers are also capable of terrible behavior. The thing is is that they don't have a cheap imaginary scapegoat they can blame it on.

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As far as what is taught in the schools, evolution and creation were taught side by side for many years.  Both should be included, in my opinion - the parents and students (teens) should be able to look at both and determine from there what they agree with or not agree with.

Oh I agree with this actually. Evolution should be taught in science classes and Creationism should be taught in mythology/literature classes. If you're suggesting that creationist parents who "don't believe 'dem scientists n' 'dey 'dint come from no monkeys" should dictate what should be taught in science classes, your logic is majorly corrupted. Kids need the truth. They need the facts. Not opinions based upon bronze-age desert teachings. Factually there is no science is creationism and saying otherwise is extremely dishonest. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHbYJfwFgOU

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some feel evolution is too weird too even consider for the sudden "bang" out of nothing/nowhere and then everything just suddenly "knows" how to evolve into what everything is today

Our planet's biological evolution has practically nothing to do with The Big Bang Theory.

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not to mention it is still just a theory, by "man," not 100% proven, either.

It has been proven though. Micro and macroevolution exist. They've been seen and there is a vast fossil record against any counter-point you could make. At this point in time saying evolution does not exist is on par with saying the world isn't round.

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However, both are fantastic to look at, study, and do research on, even to the point of considering the possibility of the combination of both.

Christians tried that. It was called the Intelligent Design movement. I'll save you some time and fill you in- it failed because the concept got cornered. It failed to be science because it moved away from potential rational answers rather than towards, and it could not uphold any faith-based belief because it sat on the point of saying "there could be a god" rather than "there is a god".
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sammywantsya on March 31, 2013, 03:51:53 pm
You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc.
I agree that people probably pray to make themselves feel better, to connect with god, gain hope, and so on. But, what's wrong with having hope? Even if it's false hope, it can actually help some people improve their lives.
I'm not very religious, I'm actually quite agnostic, but I don't think praying a bad or silly thing for people to do.

i couldnt agree way more.. this is a troll thread tho.. they like to have opinions as facts.. its just silly to me..
Title: Re: The real actual totally100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on March 31, 2013, 04:46:07 pm
You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc.
I agree that people probably pray to make themselves feel better, to connect with god, gain hope, and so on. But, what's wrong with having hope? Even if it's false hope, it can actually help some people improve their lives.
I'm not very religious, I'm actually quite agnostic, but I don't think praying a bad or silly thing for people to do.

i couldnt agree way more.. this is a troll thread tho.. they like to have opinions as facts.. its just silly to me..

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Exactly. The only reason I made this thread was to make religious adherents angry for the fun of it. It has absolutely nothing to do with the fact I have opinions, and I state those opinions as fact because I actually believe in those opinions. On the other hand, when someone who is religious tells me that god is real and state it as fact then that's perfectly acceptable and I should be ashamed for disagreeing with anyone. In fact, we should also discourage dissent in real life, and allow religion to have absolute power over everyone.
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Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on March 31, 2013, 04:48:20 pm
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they like to have opinions as facts.. its just silly to me..

Aren't you on the side that has a history of using ancient opinions as facts? Unless you can counter-argue this, it's obvious who the troll is here.  ;)
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sammywantsya on March 31, 2013, 06:03:53 pm
look who got buthurt in a bunch lol xD  so your saying the ones who started this usually gets trolled? :D my good grief..
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: sammywantsya on March 31, 2013, 06:08:02 pm
You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and etc.
I agree that people probably pray to make themselves feel better, to connect with god, gain hope, and so on. But, what's wrong with having hope? Even if it's false hope, it can actually help some people improve their lives.
I'm not very religious, I'm actually quite agnostic, but I don't think praying a bad or silly thing for people to do.

nuff said :D
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on April 04, 2013, 11:31:15 am
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You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything.

Speculatively you are correct. Rationally you are wrong- we can and we already have if you read the entire thread. The scientific evidence shows praying does nothing and the idea of defined gods is illogical as they usually succumb to silly reasonings.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: tangiechan on April 05, 2013, 11:35:54 am
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You can't prove that god doesn't exist and you also can't prove that prayer doesn't do anything.

Speculatively you are correct. Rationally you are wrong- we can and we already have if you read the entire thread. The scientific evidence shows praying does nothing and the idea of defined gods is illogical as they usually succumb to silly reasonings.
Hmm. But the only evidence that was provided against prayer is that it isn't effective against illness. This is what I basically think about that: http://www.cancer.org/treatment/treatmentsandsideeffects/complementaryandalternativemedicine/mindbodyandspirit/spirituality-and-prayer (http://www.cancer.org/treatment/treatmentsandsideeffects/complementaryandalternativemedicine/mindbodyandspirit/spirituality-and-prayer)

Prayer helps people spiritually. It gives them hope. For some people, religion and prayer are the only things that are keeping them going. Prayer does something. No, it can't cure or improve illness, but it still improves lives and helps people cope with/accept illness (and other problems that they can't control).
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on April 05, 2013, 01:41:40 pm
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Hmm. But the only evidence that was provided against prayer is that it isn't effective against illness.

Isn't that sort of the major one here? I understand keeping someone with an illness or injury in a good mindframe is important (same with animals), but knowing someone is praying for you or having the person pray to themselves is on par with bringing in/eating their favorite food. Placebo effects are also a major key here.

I should have stated there is 0 evidence showing that prayer leads to supernatural occurrences that help people.

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Prayer helps people spiritually. It gives them hope. For some people, religion and prayer are the only things that are keeping them going.

Well then more power to them! But if they go around stating they were saved by supernatural powers/entities (like the majority of the religious do), they should be expecting skepticism.

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No, it can't cure or improve illness, but it still improves lives and helps people cope with/accept illness (and other problems that they can't control).

If it can't improve or cure illnesses, then the religious shouldn't say it can as that is dishonest.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: tangiechan on April 05, 2013, 02:46:54 pm
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Hmm. But the only evidence that was provided against prayer is that it isn't effective against illness.

Isn't that sort of the major one here? I understand keeping someone with an illness or injury in a good mindframe is important (same with animals), but knowing someone is praying for you or having the person pray to themselves is on par with bringing in/eating their favorite food. Placebo effects are also a major key here.

I should have stated there is 0 evidence showing that prayer leads to supernatural occurrences that help people.

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Prayer helps people spiritually. It gives them hope. For some people, religion and prayer are the only things that are keeping them going.

Well then more power to them! But if they go around stating they were saved by supernatural powers/entities (like the majority of the religious do), they should be expecting skepticism.

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No, it can't cure or improve illness, but it still improves lives and helps people cope with/accept illness (and other problems that they can't control).

If it can't improve or cure illnesses, then the religious shouldn't say it can as that is dishonest.
Right. I'm not denying that it is quite delusional.

I've never heard a religious person say that prayer can improve/cure illnesses. I've been to church (Baptist and Catholic) quite a bit and I've never heard a priest/pastor say that it can/will heal illnesses. Praying is to strengthen hope, to reassure, and to "get closer to god".
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: JediJohnnie on April 05, 2013, 03:32:30 pm
Eh,I don't even bother much with these troll threads anymore. You'll find only the most insecure person creating such a thread-during Holy Week,yet. ::)
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Flackle on April 05, 2013, 10:58:11 pm
Eh,I don't even bother much with these troll threads anymore. You'll find only the most insecure person creating such a thread-during Holy Week,yet. ::)

Just because you read something you disagree with does not make it trolling. I would highly recommend you research the definition of the word, because it's obvious you don't know what it means.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: Falconer02 on April 05, 2013, 11:24:08 pm
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Right. I'm not denying that it is quite delusional.

We've had our fair share of weirdos on this forum who say such delusional things too. Once in a while you may see it. Very funny (if not sad).

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Just because you read something you disagree with does not make it trolling.

The real reason he avoids these threads is because he gets trampled with elementary logic every time he posts. It's fairly entertaining!
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: healthfreedom on April 30, 2013, 09:08:11 pm
IN ORDER TO KNOW THAT PRAYER WORKS, ONE HAS TO BELIEVE IN WHO HE'S PRAYING TO. AND SINCE THERE IS ONLY ONE TRUE GOD, THEN YOU HAVE TO SEEK HIM IN PRAYER. I KNOW THE TRUE GOD OF HEAVEN WHOSE SON IS JESUS CHRIST. I TALK TO/WITH GOD EVERY DAY.
Title: Re: The real actual totally 100% legitimate truth about prayer.
Post by: davidf938 on May 05, 2013, 11:48:56 am
I agree that most prayer is useless other than giving the person praying a false sense of hope that his or her will will be done