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Title: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: TJB0000 on May 16, 2009, 09:14:55 pm

when a girl comes up to me and says hi im afraid to talk back bc my voice might sound wierd like it does sometimes but sometimes it sounds cool

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: J3S3G3 on May 17, 2009, 04:08:20 am

Less talk more rock! :thumbsup:

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: additional001 on May 17, 2009, 06:06:44 am

Girls/Women talk to you? you lucky *bleep* LOL  :icon_rr: :thumbsup: :BangHead:

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: cowgirlx on May 17, 2009, 06:29:40 am

Practice makes perfect. The first couple will be akward for you, but if they are talking to you, then you are already doing better than alot of guys.  Just R-E-L-A-X :bootyshake:

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: jester2dr on May 17, 2009, 09:36:30 am

most guys mess up because they over think..... if you just relax and be you.... either they'll like you or or they won't..... if you keep this in mind then you will find someone.....

remember "SW x 3"   =   "Some Will..... Some Won't.... So What....."

this sounds cynical.... but it's really not.... it just reminds you that not everyone's gonna like you and that's ok..... Just because one person doesn't like you does not mean that everyone doesn't like you.... Don't take it personal.... and have fun!!!! 

 

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Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: cowgirlx on May 17, 2009, 09:47:37 am

Quote from: jester2dr on May 17, 2009, 09:36:30 am

most guys mess up because they over think..... if you just relax and be you.... either they'll like you or or they won't..... if you keep this in mind then you will find someone.....

remember "SW x 3"   =   "Some Will..... Some Won't.... So What....."

this sounds cynical.... but it's really not.... it just reminds you that not everyone's gonna like you and that's ok..... Just because one person doesn't like you does not mean that everyone doesn't like you.... Don't take it personal.... and have fun!!!! 

 

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Listen to jester he is very wise in hi OLD age.... LMAO :wave:

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: mlainez on May 17, 2009, 10:30:56 am

you might be surprised to know that there are females out there that feel just like you when it comes to talking to a guy.

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: jester2dr on May 17, 2009, 09:42:51 pm

Quote from: cowgirlx on May 17, 2009, 09:47:37 am

Listen to jester he is very wise in hi OLD age.... LMAO :wave:

you're about my age too... given the age of your kids...... hmmmmm?????

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: Administrator on May 18, 2009, 01:20:26 am

Quote from: mlainez on May 17, 2009, 10:30:56 am

you might be surprised to know that there are females out there that feel just like you when it comes to talking to a guy.

I think it's just as common among women as men!

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: ftlwlove on July 09, 2009, 01:58:51 pm

 :angel12:  dont worry about it, if a girl come to talk to you she is all ready thinking she likes the way you look.  Use that as confidence and just be you.

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: theorangenight on July 09, 2009, 07:18:11 pm

hey its not only guys that have trouble talking to the opposite gender! im female who stutters so bad it aint funny! well it kinda is when i look back on it... HAHA

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Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: xkrystlex on July 09, 2009, 08:15:03 pm

Women definately get that way too. And dont worry about it if your voice messes up or something, the girl might think its cute! Just keep your confidence up and you will be  fine :thumbsup:

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: mc1962 on July 09, 2009, 08:16:28 pm

All those insecurities will subside with time as you get older and more confidence built up.....Just be yourself and hang in there, when the right one comes along you will know it and all will be well.....  :thumbsup:

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: x0kerbear on July 09, 2009, 10:10:25 pm

just dont worry about it she probably wont notice!

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: bschumacher on July 10, 2009, 12:34:08 am

She might be as nervous as you are. Relax. Just say "hi" and take it from there.

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: debraleesparks on July 10, 2009, 12:44:25 am

 :thumbsup:I'm a retired bartender, and I've seen, and heard a lot!! If a girl comes up to you, she's intersted in you, so it really dosen't matter what you say.Just say something like, ' What's your favorite t.v. show ? and then, let her talk.. just keep asking questions like that, and pretty soon you'll feel comfortable talking to her.  And if a girl comes up to you that you DON'T want to talk to.. ask her who her favorite dress designer is, and say that your just MAD about Versace.. and of course.. she'll leave you alone !!!{she'll think your gay}

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: j_salinas81 on July 10, 2009, 12:33:22 pm

Not true!!! Most guys don't know how to talk to women. If your single and trying to get a woman most guys have the most ridiculous p/u lines I have ever heard. Or they are just thinking they are so sexy & that any woman wants them. If your married...well guys are just idiots. My husband wouldn't know how to talk to me if his life depended on it.
If you want a girl you just need to be honest and relaxed when you speak to them. Keep it in your head that they are just another person on the street to make small talk with and let it develop from there. Unless they are one of those self centered girls then just give up.

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: jamiexwalker on July 29, 2009, 01:30:50 pm

Girls aren't honestly that hard to talk to when you know what they're interested in.  I think it's harder to approach a woman than to hold a conversation!  Find out a little bit of what the girl likes and approach her with something pertaining to her interests, then she'll know that you actually care enough to hold a conversation about something she enjoys!

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: vigoroso2009 on July 29, 2009, 02:30:25 pm

  Relax, take a deep breath and answer back nicely, without showing too much emotion.  pay compliments on her attire, her hairstyle and observe what she is doing while talking to you.  Does she have a cell phone with her? Ask about the features, be creative and use her body language to your advantage.

   Shyness will work on your favor, slowly let her know about it and soon enough she will be willing to help you improve your social skills.  Sound difficult?  No, its very simple.   Try, nothing to loose and something to gain.    Good luck.

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: salsaverde99 on July 31, 2009, 09:44:55 pm

dont stress it out. just be you.

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: lucy1991 on October 16, 2009, 11:56:40 pm

U should relax chill and Mayb don't b zoo nervous. Shy

Title: Re: am i the only one that doesnt understand how to talk to women??
Post by: debraleesparks on October 17, 2009, 01:58:11 am

ust let her know you are shy, but would eally like to get to know her.. SHE will do ALL the talking !!! hahahahahaha