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Title: which do you prefer
Post by: aggie49 on July 12, 2013, 01:50:28 pm
to have your own car or take the bus or cab or get a ride from some else i have a friend that all she does is *bleep* about the fact she doesn't have a car but she won't buy one or take the bus or cab i told her to get a car and stop her belly aching about it she was in a accident about 2 years ago and since then she won't  drive but she won't even try so i told her to either get a new car or find someone else to bother and i don't like being like that but i have had enough of it
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: bigfoot951 on July 13, 2013, 08:37:04 am
It's messed up how people like that think their behavior is acceptable while they burden other people constantly.  I have my own car and I wouldn't want it any other way.  I hate having to ask people for help and I would never intentionally put myself in a situation to do it all of the time.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: BATISTAGIRL663 on July 13, 2013, 09:02:22 am
i understand where your friend is coming from -i was in a wreck about 3 years ago and it took me a very long time to get in a vehicle let alone drive again! wrecks are very scary things--work with your friend slowly maybe just a small trip in a car down the street some and back-then a little farther as she feels more comfortable--she needs to feel safe again in a car and you need to support her --which i am sure you do --but wreck trauma is very real --good luck to both of you and i hope your friend finds peace
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: mjdoug03 on July 13, 2013, 09:38:23 am
I love having my own car.  I can't imagine not having one.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: yaayme on July 13, 2013, 11:20:48 am
Having your own car is a huge necessity. I can't imagine having to take the bus and waiting out in the hot sun, rain and snow for it to arrived and then having to deal with crazies. Nuh uh, no ma'am.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: jwallbank on July 13, 2013, 11:33:17 am
My daughter in law just got her license a few months back and she is 28 because she was in an accident with her friend driving. She had minor injuries but, her friend had went into a coma for a few months and luckily came out of his coma but, had pretty substantial injuries and that kept her from driving herself for about 9 years. My son got her back to driving again but, he did the same, took her out once in awhile after she got her permit and then in about 6 mos after her permit went and got her license. Now you can't keep her from driving!! It works it's way out in the end.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: BaudLight on July 31, 2013, 07:12:15 pm
I grew up having to depend on the city bus for most of my transportation, so I really appreciate having a car now.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: SherylsShado on July 31, 2013, 09:14:17 pm
 I love having a car, it's nice to go wherever, whenever I want.  It is so expensive though, alot of times I wish I lived closer to my job so I could walk there.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: kleenex40 on July 31, 2013, 09:25:10 pm
I have my own car so i dont need to depend on anyone else(but i do understand where your friend is coming from at the same time,i was in a car wreck when i was younger and didnt even want to get a car for 3-4yrs after the the car wreck,so be very pacnt with your friend shell come around)
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: maxinmotion on July 31, 2013, 09:44:53 pm
There is nothing like having your own car and being able to go when you get ready and not having to wait for a ride.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: ancmetro on July 31, 2013, 10:10:23 pm
    It is better to have your own car (to have reliable personal transportation) than to be stranded waiting for the bus.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: Mojoshog on July 31, 2013, 10:34:49 pm
If I could ever work out the timing I think I would really like public transportation but locations and schedules where I live are just not convenient.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: darkxtsuna on July 31, 2013, 10:39:54 pm
I have my own car but about 40 % of the time I take a bus to the place I wanna get to. The 60 % is with my car for work and if I have to be the designated driver.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: twol on July 31, 2013, 11:02:42 pm
I can't imagine not having a car. The bus system where I live is pretty much nonexistent.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: davidh121 on July 31, 2013, 11:35:05 pm
I use public transportation, but I also like the freedom a car offers as I can generally set my own terms on where I want to go. I don't see an exact need for an expensive luxury car as vehicles depreciate so much, but I find a car in general a necessity, especially where I live.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: nmsmith on August 01, 2013, 05:16:37 am
Having your own car is a huge responsibility. But if you are in an area where there is public transportation by all means take advantage! its much cheaper.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: articx on August 01, 2013, 05:20:14 am
I would prefer having my own vehicle. Having one means not having to depend and wait on other people.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: ljrjess69 on August 01, 2013, 05:28:24 am
defintly to have my own car!!!!! :icon_rr:
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: LenoraMinogue on August 01, 2013, 05:32:28 am
It's not right how some people think it's okay to take advantage of others like that. You made the right call.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: metsrock69 on August 01, 2013, 05:38:30 am
I Like To Have My Own Vehicle. I Don't Like Public Transportation. Used To Ride The Bus But Now I Drive Or Car Pool With Another At Work. Saves Gas Money But Its still  Better Than The Bus :peace:
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: dbsaus1 on August 01, 2013, 05:39:15 am
I much prefer to have my own car to drive. It is exspensive but nice to go where go want to go when you want
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: Timberlan127 on August 01, 2013, 05:43:57 am
I live in the country so i have no choice3 but ot own a car for transportation. I also have to admit that I like the independence a car gives you to come and go as you please.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: devideddi on August 01, 2013, 06:46:22 am
I have my own car and I thank God for it every day.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: mrisha on August 01, 2013, 09:54:43 am
Taking the bus and or cab can be a big hassle and expensive.  I prefer my own car. I can then go where I want and when I want without standing waiting for a bus or cab.
Title: Re: which do you prefer
Post by: dkanofsky on August 01, 2013, 10:00:34 am
I would rather take my car.  Hopefully, I'll never have to take public transportation.