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Title: Are you afraid of change?
Post by: dmitchn1 on July 23, 2013, 05:54:00 pm
Some people have it hard and don't try to better themselves and it's not like they aren't intelligent enough or don't have means to do so they just simply are afraid of change. I work with a girl who is one of those people and when she's asked to learn something new at work she is set in her ways and wants nothing to do with it. She's very smart but chooses to stay in the same position at her retail job instead of going to school or trying something new. I know I'm sometimes guilty of feeling that way as well, change is scary and sometimes you lose memories and people you care about along the way. So I was wondering who else was afraid of change and to what extent.
Title: Re: Are you afraid of change?
Post by: davidh121 on July 23, 2013, 11:34:20 pm
There is a slew of personalities out there regardless of their intelligence level. Some people are just more ambitious than others. Some of the influence can be traced from how the person was raised and how they might have been influenced by those the person hanged around with. Sometimes people like this need an extra nudge and encouragement to push forward, but then there are people who can also be satisifed with comformity and cannot be forced. I've been looking for change myself, but I worry I might be falling in this dead end cycle too. I like to make excuses about the economy, personal family restraints, etc., but I really should stop making excuses and accept a little more risk and be confident in moving forward.
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Post by: sharonpatri55 on July 24, 2013, 02:23:02 am
It is human nature to be resistant to change. People simply enjoy finding a routine in life that works for them and pretty much sticking to it. This does not mean that change is NOT good. It is necessary for all people at some point in their lives to seek new and exciting avenues. I found those times to be when I was younger; when going to college was somewhat affordable, when traveling was less expensive, when the world was a little bit safer to take a chance on things. It's a lot harder today, as opposed to 40 years ago, to make the changes we sometimes want or need to. So am I afraid of change? Probably more so today and much less when I was younger.
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Post by: samrhett2 on July 24, 2013, 02:59:09 am
Depends on what kind of change.  I don't usually like change at work, because my history is that change at work usually is code for more work for no more pay.  Call my cynical, but I can't think of very many changes at work that were in my favor.

Other change is good.  Like making behavioral changes.   Well at least sometimes they are.
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Post by: inertia4 on July 24, 2013, 03:01:41 am
I think it depends on the change. I like change from time to time. But I remember when I was working, sometimes the changes they instilled were not exactly good. And therefore things would not work out right. But, all in all, especially on a job we have to go with the flow and learn it. I have done my share of learning new things at work. It does work out in the long run. I am hesitant at first, I am one of those people that need to know how it all works before I commit to change.
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Post by: dkanofsky on July 24, 2013, 06:59:02 am
Not afraid, just reluctant.
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Post by: lgemini on July 24, 2013, 07:01:03 am
Yes, I am afraid of change....All I can do is to grin and bare it.
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Post by: mgint on July 24, 2013, 07:10:11 am
not afraid but like familar things.
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Post by: oldbuddy on July 24, 2013, 07:13:48 am
I EMBRACE change and seek it out, it opens the doors to more opportunity. I try to CREATE change for myself and others I care about every day of my life.
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Post by: bjohnson52 on July 24, 2013, 07:24:10 am
Some Times Changes Can Be Confusing.  I Like To Be Given A Chance
To Get Prepared For Changes.  First Of All, I Would Like To Be Informed And Have Someone Explain All
Of The Details Of The Changes.

If Change Involves Me Changing My Way Of Living, I More Then Anyone  Would Know Deep In My Heart That I
Must Change.  I Would Start Off Slow And Take One Step At A TimE.

But I Am Open To Changes And Learning New Things.
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Post by: drpybutt on July 24, 2013, 08:46:59 am
Change can be very scary. But, at this point in my life, if given the chance to change I definately change
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Post by: autumnsparklemom on July 25, 2013, 07:39:32 am
As a parent of an autistic child, change is very difficult for our family. We try to keeps things a smooth as possible.
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Post by: Oryon20 on July 25, 2013, 07:55:34 am
Not at all.  Change is a good thing, if you ask me.  You need to open up new doors in life to see what they have in store for you.  My wife, on the other hand, seems to abhor change.  Her company overworks her and pays her way below the going rate in our area for what she does, yet she's afraid of starting a new job and/or moving somewhere else if an opportunity arose there.
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Post by: countrygirl12 on July 25, 2013, 09:19:01 am
Some people have it hard and don't try to better themselves and it's not like they aren't intelligent enough or don't have means to do so they just simply are afraid of change. I work with a girl who is one of those people and when she's asked to learn something new at work she is set in her ways and wants nothing to do with it. She's very smart but chooses to stay in the same position at her retail job instead of going to school or trying something new. I know I'm sometimes guilty of feeling that way as well, change is scary and sometimes you lose memories and people you care about along the way. So I was wondering who else was afraid of change and to what extent.

Maybe it's not that she is afraid of change but maybe she likes not having any more responsibility than she has now.
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Post by: southernhorizons on July 25, 2013, 09:24:02 am
I don't like change, usually. I am looking for a new job, and a house in a different state, so I guess I don't mind change that I initiate. But I don't like changes that other people do, especially at work. Every time they change something at work, it make the job more inefficient. And the change pushed by Obama is even worse.
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Post by: gennjen on July 25, 2013, 11:15:00 am
No I'm not. Sometimes change can be beneficial.
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Post by: tashamjoy on July 26, 2013, 05:39:45 pm
Yes I am someone who does not like change as well my whole body gets affected throw up, rashes, cant sleep I just do not handle it well or ever will but i guess its something i just have to deal with
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Post by: gramev64 on July 26, 2013, 06:14:57 pm
I too am  a little afraid of changes, but I try to roll with the tide and learn what I can, and what I can't learn, well --------
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Post by: msmoneybags48 on July 26, 2013, 07:07:21 pm
There are times when change may be good.  I went back to school at the age of 50 because I wanted something better out of life.  I thank my late grandmother for instilling the importance of an education into me.  Because of her, I finally understand what she meant.  I am letting nothing stop me, and will acquire two degrees; a Bachelor's degree in Accounting and a minor degree in Information Systems from Ashford University Online.  Your friend wants nothing better out of life than what she is doing right now.  She has gotten accustomed to working like a slave.  I won't let naysayers stop me because none of them is giving me anything.  I am worth more than the naysayers would like to believe.  Good luck to you and your friend. :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :wave:
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Post by: kilophkadamas on July 31, 2013, 02:35:40 am
Well change is the only costant in life lol. I think everyone is afraid of not so much "change" but dealing with a new situation because of the feelings of anxiousness that always brings.
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Post by: kerseycarol on July 31, 2013, 07:35:16 am
coming up I would say yes I was afraid of change  but now all grown up no change has been good for me  try it you might like it
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Post by: twelton on July 31, 2013, 09:50:01 am
I used to be afraid of change but not anymore. I embrace it and enjoy it.
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Post by: 2getherwewin on July 31, 2013, 09:53:30 am
No I am not afraid of change because change is good.
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Post by: bhiett on July 31, 2013, 09:56:24 am
I don't know that I am "afraid" of change but I do not usually look forward to it.  In my job there are mountains of regulatory changes all the time, so I have become somewhat used to the climate of change.  Change seems to be the one constant of life whether we like it or not--quite an oxymoron.
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Post by: elysee24 on July 31, 2013, 10:36:12 am
It depends on what kind of changes. On certain things, I do afraid and avoid to have changes though I know changes can be good!! But it's me!! :(
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Post by: sdecaro558 on July 31, 2013, 05:22:30 pm
No, I don't fear change.  I don't generally like change, but I don't fear it.
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Post by: oldbuddy on July 31, 2013, 07:00:12 pm
I just changed my shorts a few minutes ago, does that count?  :thumbsup:
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Post by: meg0694 on July 31, 2013, 07:02:46 pm
I'm not afraid of change.  Sometimes change is a good thing.  Be open minded and hope for the best.
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Post by: SherylsShado on July 31, 2013, 09:17:37 pm
  I love change, I hate being in a rut and get bored when things are always the same.  I just don't like the change that happens when a death happens, that is a rough one to cope with.
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Post by: waterbearer94 on August 01, 2013, 09:41:55 am
i have heard before the saying if it isnt broke y fix it... i think some ppl r content wit wht they do mayb
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Post by: mrisha on August 01, 2013, 09:47:43 am
For the most part I am not afraid of change as long as it doesn't impact me in a way that causes a dramatic change.  Sometimes change is good depending on the occasion.
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Post by: 6265AT99 on August 01, 2013, 10:25:07 am
Some people have it hard and don't try to better themselves and it's not like they aren't intelligent enough or don't have means to do so they just simply are afraid of change. I work with a girl who is one of those people and when she's asked to learn something new at work she is set in her ways and wants nothing to do with it. She's very smart but chooses to stay in the same position at her retail job instead of going to school or trying something new. I know I'm sometimes guilty of feeling that way as well, change is scary and sometimes you lose memories and people you care about along the way. So I was wondering who else was afraid of change and to what extent.

I, personally, am not afraid of change but it does depend on the "change" we're talking about.  If it's to better yourself, I'm all for it and I think that anyone who doesn't "go for it" is missing out.
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Post by: dancer139 on August 01, 2013, 10:49:33 am
I'm terrible with change.  I would like all things in my life to just stay the same.  I know that can't happen,,,,,,,   But I can always HOPE !! :-\ :-\ :heart:
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Post by: ghunter on August 01, 2013, 10:59:25 am
I am not afraid of change, I just do not like change.  I am getting better at it and I am willing to except change and it is not bad you just have to go with the flow.
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Post by: cathy37 on August 03, 2013, 05:50:05 pm
I wouldn't say that I am afraid of change.  It is kind of scary.  I am suppose to move where my daughter lives.  I'm torn because I have lived here all my life and love my house.
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Post by: springsgardner on August 03, 2013, 06:59:22 pm
I don't consider myself afraid of change. But sometimes I think it is easier to keep things the same when they are working right. However, I am about to change the model I am using for financial aspects of my life. It's a huge risk and is taking a lot of faith on my part.
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Post by: jwallbank on August 03, 2013, 07:53:20 pm
I am not afraid of change but, I would not like change just for change sake. Change for the good is good, where change for bad is bad. So I guess I'm saying change can be good or change can be bad, it has to be thought out like anything else. I guess that is my 2 cents which is also change!! Ha Ha ::)
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Post by: 12amos on August 03, 2013, 08:11:41 pm
I have no problem with change, many times it can be a good thing and sometimes not so good you learn to roll with the punches. 

But for the most part forever learning helps to keep the mind sharp and puts one at a good advantage when it comes to job promotions.  It's good to learn as much as possible this could possibly be the different between you receiving a job promotion and someone else getting the position you want.  :peace:   
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Post by: smithjcsdfw on August 03, 2013, 09:17:30 pm
Absolutly not afraid of change.   Life is all about changes and how you deal with them.
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Post by: sgluckadoo on August 03, 2013, 09:44:31 pm
Truly depends on the situation. I like change under some circumstances and not others. Risky is not ideal for me, bc I have to be careful with my health. For example, I would love to find a different job, but cannot lose benefits/health insurance due to chronic severe illness, so i have to play it safe and stay in a job i dont care for.
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Post by: articx on August 04, 2013, 05:18:41 am
I am not afraid of change. It depends on what it is but sometimes I will accept it, and other times I do not want to.
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Post by: rghvac69 on August 04, 2013, 05:22:24 am
It depends on the situation. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
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Post by: alaskakaren on August 04, 2013, 05:42:30 am
change in inevitable...