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Title: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: aggie49 on October 22, 2013, 02:34:21 pm
i would have to say that was my mom we was very close did everything together i miss her so much when seh passed away it was like a piece of my heart and soul went with her i would do anything to have just 10 minutes more with her to tell her i love and miss her so much
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Post by: vickysue on October 22, 2013, 04:27:29 pm
I would say my husband since my parents and children have passed on before me. But i spent so much time alone, that i can get by without relying on any one.
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Post by: Sendmicheck on October 22, 2013, 05:26:55 pm
My mother I am always blessed to have her with me.  Every day I give thanks for having her close to me.
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Post by: luvh8tragedy87 on October 22, 2013, 05:29:31 pm
For me it would be my mom as well. We're very similar and we've just always gotten along and done a lot of stuff together.
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Post by: davidh121 on October 22, 2013, 05:44:26 pm
My mother would be the person I relied a lot on when I was younger for comfort and advice. I'm not sure who I can say nowadays would be the person as a lot of people I deal with on a day to day I don't have much trust to keep their promises.
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Post by: nmbrown863 on October 22, 2013, 10:25:25 pm
For me it would have to be my mom. I can talk to her about absolutely anything. We have always been very close and she always gives the best advice.
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Post by: tikihut5 on October 23, 2013, 04:04:23 am
My mother. We are close and she gives me advice.
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Post by: gaylasue on October 23, 2013, 04:59:36 am
The person I rely on most is the Lord Jesus Christ.  He is the only one that I can count on to be by my side 24/7.
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Post by: Timberlan127 on October 23, 2013, 05:52:08 am
The one person I have always relied on the most is my dad. He has always been there with the best advice, help and support all my life.
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Post by: dkanofsky on October 23, 2013, 06:00:59 am
My wife.
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Post by: devideddi on October 23, 2013, 06:46:25 am
I have found that all people will let us down sooner or later, one way or another.  Only God never lets us down.
Title: Re: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: oldbuddy on October 23, 2013, 08:23:46 am
I know this may sound arrogant, but for me it's MYSELF. There is no other person on this earth better equipped  or more interested in solving my own issues than I am.

That being said, I am not saying I don't bring other people into the picture to solve particular problems that are beyond my expertise, but I run my own ship and pick the crew and take responsibility for the destinations I reach.
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Post by: greenthumbjan on October 23, 2013, 10:52:04 am
Will not passed away yet...it was me I relied on me most of my life. 
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Post by: nguzman1 on October 23, 2013, 11:17:12 am
I  would also say my mom is also the person I most rely on. I go to her for everything.
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Post by: heypeg on October 23, 2013, 11:20:17 am
I would have to say my husband. We have had some difficult times lately and he has been a rock.
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Post by: acurtsinger2 on October 23, 2013, 12:35:26 pm
no matter what i could always count on my pappaw.  he was the greatest man who ever lived.  he's gone now, and i have to rely on my boyfriend and son and needless to say, sometimes i'm disappointed, because he was a tough act to follow. :angel11:
Title: Re: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: debidoo on October 23, 2013, 04:15:26 pm
My mom and my husband both who have passed away over the last 3 years so now its just my sons and I and God. God is who I rely on now as for who I loved and enjoyed to have in my life that was my mom, my husband and now my sons.
Title: Re: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: hotcocoa on October 23, 2013, 04:31:19 pm
I totally agree with you aggee49.  I too lost my best friend when my mother died in 1994.  It's been so many years, and time hasn't seemed to help much.  I talked to her every day, as well as my dad, and I miss these connections tremendously. :crybaby2:
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Post by: jcalexis on October 23, 2013, 05:18:41 pm
 ;D I have to say Jesus Christ is the #1 person I rely on. Then my wife.
Title: Re: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: hvnlydevil on October 23, 2013, 05:29:31 pm
I rely on myself the most. At least that way, I know that my life is based on my choices, trusts and mistakes. My mom would be a close second.
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Post by: loulizlee on October 23, 2013, 06:10:24 pm
The person I rely on most is my husband.  After 50 years of marriage, he has been my rock and has been there for me through good times and bad.  I really, really love him!
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Post by: nmsmith on October 23, 2013, 11:52:59 pm
Other than myself.... My MOMMIE of course (I'm an only child, love my mommie)
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Post by: Forp on October 24, 2013, 04:27:54 am
my parents
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Post by: mjdoug03 on October 24, 2013, 09:48:19 am
My husband and my sister.  My husband is awesome.  He's my rock.  He's my baby.
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Post by: Shandara09 on October 24, 2013, 10:23:23 am
I relied on both my parents, but I would have to say my mom, since I could talk to her more than my dad.
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Post by: sak4kat on October 24, 2013, 12:26:08 pm
There is one person and one person alone I can rely on most and that's ME.  I am the only person who can and will do things the way I expect things to be done and if things are done wrong I am the only one I can come down on legitimately than.  Other than God - it's all up to me.  Sure there are people in my past and present who have had there part in my life where I have relied on but when it comes right down to it.  Reliability is all on my shoulders.
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Post by: gramev64 on October 24, 2013, 12:43:41 pm
My wonderful Christian father, who taught me to love the Lord above all other things.
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Post by: akee318 on October 24, 2013, 12:57:20 pm
i would have to say that was my mom we was very close did everything together i miss her so much when seh passed away it was like a piece of my heart and soul went with her i would do anything to have just 10 minutes more with her to tell her i love and miss her so much
My Mom. She is my best friend too.
Title: Re: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: ShadeTree on October 30, 2013, 07:48:15 pm
I have never really had anyone I could count on or rely on. I've pretty much always had to turn to myself. There used to be one person I could go to occasionally for some things, but I can't honestly say that I relied on them or could count on them. I'm usually the one people turn to. It's hard not having anyone, but it's okay because I've done all right so far.
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Post by: tashamjoy on November 07, 2013, 11:57:45 pm
Mom she is the only one in the world thats gonna care about you no matter what or at least thats what a mom should be !!! Even if my mom is not the best she is always there for me !!!
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Post by: Adroden2010 on November 08, 2013, 03:38:01 am
I rely on myself. Its hard to trust people now a days so i only rely on me, myself, and I. I get what I need, I do what I gotta do, and I do it by myself.
Title: Re: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: jenniferhoder on November 08, 2013, 06:34:20 am
My Best Friend has literally been thru THICK AND THIN with me... I have had others I talk to, but by far, her and I have carried each other thru life.... I have been best friends with her for 24 years and I cannot imagine a single day without her.
Title: Re: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: alice44 on November 08, 2013, 07:39:25 am
I rely on my husband but try to be more self reliant.  I will probably not have him someday  :'(
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Post by: vp44 on November 12, 2013, 09:35:23 pm
It would have to be my dad, he raised me since I was 2 and he was the one person who always believed in me and taught me how to survive. I miss him so much, it has been 2 years since he passed and I still feel sad at times but I am glad I have my son who thinks I am the best mom ever. lol :heart:
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Post by: crazib on November 13, 2013, 06:18:34 am
MY DADDY
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Post by: msmoneybags48 on November 13, 2013, 06:57:02 am
My late grandmother was my supporter, and I relied on her a lot.  She has been gone for 24 years and I miss her.  If she was here, I would have to suffer for anything.  But there are times that you have to rely on yourself.  It shows you that you are a survivor.  You will never know what you can do unless you try. :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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Post by: soloam1 on November 13, 2013, 07:30:26 am
my husband would be the one i rely on the most he always has my back and looks out for me
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Post by: yaayme on November 13, 2013, 12:01:44 pm
The only other person I relied on (growing up) besides my Mom was my oldest sister. Maybe even more than my Mom at a certain point in my life. :heart:
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Post by: kqa on November 13, 2013, 12:48:33 pm
Absolutely my mother. She has always been there for me, going above and beyond. But that's what mothers do. I feel the same way about my kids. :)
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Post by: bhiett on November 13, 2013, 01:30:14 pm
I relied on my husband for so much and was devastated when he passed away.  He had been in great health until a sudden and unexpected diagnosis of Cancer, treatment, and subsequent system failure.  There was really no time to prepare.  Everyone should make sure to have a written list of whom to call (& phone numbers) for home maintenance/repair functions and replacement items and to keep them updated as new appliances & vehicles are purchased.  A special file for warranties and equipment instructions also will be helpful.
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Post by: bud1 on November 13, 2013, 01:36:25 pm
It  was  a  close  race  between  my grand dad  and  my mom.  If  I wanted  the pro and cons, I would  go  with  my grand dad  but  if  I wanted  the pros  went with mom.  I miss them  every day lost both  of  them  4 years  ago  one  in  Jan  and one  the day after Thanksgiving.
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Post by: hitch0403 on November 13, 2013, 03:25:36 pm
Its gonna be 35 years i am married to my wonderful wife.I have gotten to appreciate her more getting older.We are so stupid when we are younger.I can see where the expression "old and wise"comes from.
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Post by: sgluckadoo on November 13, 2013, 04:56:32 pm
Honestly, myself. I have very little family (they are abusive) and have the entire burden of my household on me since my husband became disabled shortly after we married 8 years ago. I have no one but myself to turn to and so far am ok, just hope it stays that way.
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Post by: davidh121 on November 13, 2013, 07:28:43 pm
I would say my mother has been my voice of reason and my biggest cheerleader in life when I didn't believe in myself.  I have some very supportive friends too, but they're often "yes" people sometimes too.  Wait a minute.  My mother is like that too...
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Post by: marciaenglish on November 13, 2013, 08:31:25 pm
My husband is the one I rely on.  He is a rock!   :in-love:
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Post by: akee318 on November 14, 2013, 10:43:23 am
My Mom.  She is my best friend too.
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Post by: 6265AT99 on November 14, 2013, 10:54:59 am
Well, that would have been my dad.  We did lots together and to this day I still miss him even though he's been gone over 25 yrs.
Title: Re: who is the 1 person who you relied on the most
Post by: moon29 on November 14, 2013, 11:04:26 am
I would have to say that right now it is my husband.  being a stay at home mom my income is very limited by what i can make via the internet and what i can sell via the internet so i depend on him for not only his love and respect but also as a means to paying our bills.  however i think that the feelings are mutual in the respect that he relies on me for love and nurturing of our child and our home.
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Post by: ilovepatrick on November 15, 2013, 02:43:28 am
my girlfriend jill she stands by me
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Post by: bigedshult on November 15, 2013, 03:14:26 pm
my young son has ben there for me after my wife died last July.