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Title: high school crush / boyfriend
Post by: o2bnocn on November 06, 2013, 12:54:24 pm
Would you talk to your high school crush or boyfriend now? Would you be excited or nervous?
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Post by: linsanna on November 06, 2013, 12:59:29 pm
I would not, because I have been happily married for 19 years, so there is no need to.
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Post by: patycake56 on November 07, 2013, 07:30:51 am
I would just to catch up on old tines
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Post by: nguzman1 on November 07, 2013, 08:55:32 am
Probably I have more confidence now and I don't care much what others think of me like I use to.
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Post by: jowbow on November 07, 2013, 06:49:54 pm
i see my high school crush at least 3 times a week and my husband of 22 years knows it.  He says it is nice to see that we can still be friends
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Post by: Nancy5 on November 07, 2013, 08:03:16 pm
I would love to see him again after all these years.  I wonder what's he's doing, who he married, any kids?  He was my boyfriend most of high school and it's been a lot of years since we saw each other. 
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Post by: gaylasue on November 08, 2013, 04:40:44 am
What a coincidence!  I started a new job a while back and on the first day there, guess who I ran into???  My high school sweetheart from 34 years ago!  He is the contact for one of our major clients.  When he came in the office, I asked the girl who was training me who that was (it had been 34 years since I last seen him - thought it was him but wasn't for sure - you know how some people age...).  She told me it was "the love of her life" and told me his name.  She about hit the floor when I told her that he wanted to marry me 34 years ago.  I went up to him and pecked him on the shoulder.  He turned around and looked at me.  The next thing I knew, he was hugging and kissing me.  She did fall out of her chair after that!  We talk often.  Laugh and joke about "how things could have been".
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Post by: jkhanson on November 08, 2013, 05:56:46 am
I talk to my High School sweetheart every day.
We have been married 37 years!

Add the 37 married to the 4 years we dated through HS and college.... 41 years together!!  :heart:
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Post by: jenniferhoder on November 08, 2013, 06:35:29 am
Well, I didn't date much in HS, but I would for sure talk to old boyfriends if I ran into them. I think it would be neat to find out who they married; what they are like now and compare to who they were back then. Hey, all you have to do is go on facebook and you can probably find them!!
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Post by: bremer51 on November 08, 2013, 07:19:44 am
Sure. No problem.  Water under the bridge...way under the bridge.
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Post by: potluck6 on November 08, 2013, 10:45:07 am
I seen the guy I had a crush on in high school 30 years yes 30years ago. Seen him on tv on the news he is a contractor for something I reconized him right away still was cute but way older.If I seen him i'd chat a bit but 30 years is a long time.
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Post by: vickysue on November 08, 2013, 03:04:51 pm
One of them anyway, Maybe it was more that he had a crush on me in high school. But we have remained frends all of our adult life. His wife and i get along great and he and my hubby get along too. As for the one i had a crush on has passed away and it hurt some because we also had stayed friends.  Friends are  (true friends are hard to come by) So you should charish each and every one. 
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Post by: o2bnocn on December 01, 2013, 08:08:34 pm
wow it's great that some of you have talked to or seen your exes from high school. I may have found my ex. I have looked for him on Facebook but haven't been able to find him, but someone told me that they know of someone that looks like him and has the same name that works at a nearby restaurant. The problem is that the restaurant is an hour away, and I haven't had the time to go. I am still planning on going and seeing him, to at least see if its him. Would love to talk to him, and see him. There are a few things I would want to thank him for and apologize for. I'm afraid I may never get to say those things to him. I would even want to get back together with him if he wanted the same. We never really broke up, we just went our own separate ways when he graduated because he graduated before me.
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Post by: dreamyxo on December 01, 2013, 08:22:28 pm
My crushes didn't know I was alive.  One of them anyway.  I never talked to one but worshiped him from afar.  The other I had a few classes with but I was a non factor to him.  I talked to him a few times briefly but I doubt he even remembers me.
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Post by: Tresbn00 on December 01, 2013, 08:37:55 pm
I would have no problems talking to my high school girlfriend.  I still care about her and wish her nothing but the best that life has to offer.  We were too young to have a solid relationship.  I had to finish school and was quite immature. I have been married for twenty years and wonder, every once and awhile, how she is doing.  I ran into her about a month before I moved away from the state that she lived in.  I was lucky my mother was there to ask my ex the right questions.  My ex had the answers that didn't fit my life and what I was looking to accomplish.
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Post by: countrygirl12 on December 02, 2013, 05:43:06 am
Would you talk to your high school crush or boyfriend now? Would you be excited or nervous?

I don't remember having a crush on any guys from high school.  Any guys that I liked in high school if I saw them today I wouldn't have a problem with talking to them.
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Post by: braggin on December 02, 2013, 06:07:21 am
My high school crush was very handsome and very smart. He was at the top of the class in math and sciences. He and I went off to different colleges and he became heavily involved with drugs, which totally messed up his mind. Now he is roaming around the town homeless. Rather than being excited or nervous to meet him, all I would feel is just sad.  :(
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Post by: LenoraMinogue on December 02, 2013, 06:48:52 am
I would definitely talk to my high school crush again. I'm confidant in my current relationship and think it would be nice to catch up.
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Post by: kountrypeach80 on December 02, 2013, 06:51:04 am
i wudnt
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Post by: makeblessed on December 02, 2013, 07:03:15 am
Maybe, perhaps just catch up on old times but I am sure at this season in our lives we may not even see the need.
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Post by: melissaotto1982 on December 02, 2013, 10:56:25 am
I dont think I would have a desire too.
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Post by: o2bnocn on December 03, 2013, 08:10:05 am
Thanks for everyone's answers. I noticed most of you would like to talk to your ex or crush. I definitely want to especially because we didn't really break up. It's sad when two people could be together but are on different paths in their lives. The only reason we didn't continue to go out was because he was 2 years older than me and graduated before me. Hopefully I will find him soon. Thanks again.
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Post by: nguzman1 on December 03, 2013, 09:09:55 am
probably not since it has been so long and I have my boyfriend I love.
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Post by: yaayme on December 03, 2013, 10:08:40 am
I didn't have a high school crush or boyfriend. There was no one I found attractive. You'd think out of thousands of kids I'd find one boy that was cute, but nope. It was weird.
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Post by: teenangel on December 03, 2013, 07:05:39 pm
I would just talk to my high school boyfriend but there will be no fellings there
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Post by: Dynamite2013 on December 03, 2013, 07:59:59 pm
The last time I saw my high school crush I told him I was happy and I didn't want to make problems between my husband and myself so I told him to forget me because I had forgotten him.
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Post by: msmoneybags48 on December 03, 2013, 08:32:58 pm
My high school crush would never acknowledge me.  If I ran into him today, he would recognize me, but I look at it like this; you didn't notice me then, but look at me now.  I have been there and done that.  If you could never get that chance, I wouldn't say it's too late, but I am married now and a lot of my old classmates have passed on, so it was nice walking down Memory Lane, but no. ??? ??? ??? :rainbow:
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Post by: ljrjess69 on December 04, 2013, 04:05:40 am
I might,,,don't interest ne much though,,, :turkey:
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Post by: tikihut5 on December 04, 2013, 04:11:07 am
I wouldn't.
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Post by: Skyenkit on December 05, 2013, 03:10:45 pm
I saw a picture one of my high school crushes. I was wondering why I was crushed on him before lol!!