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Title: Wifes
Post by: bigspur on January 08, 2014, 02:44:26 am
So glad my wife and I have decided to work things out!  Any of my Fusion people have any marriage advice :heart:
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Post by: Kirenisa on January 08, 2014, 05:32:46 am
awesome, congratulations! it's awesome to see married couples work it out I always my parents had worked it out I'll admit.   :-X
Title: Re: Wifes
Post by: Timberlan127 on January 08, 2014, 05:37:38 am
Relationships are hard work and I give you a lot of credit for trying to work on yours. I think we need to try to never take our significant others for granted and to always treat them with respect and thoughtfulness. this is not always easy in day to day living but if you keep that in mind it gets you through some of the tough times. Best wishes for making your marriage a success.
Title: Re: Wifes
Post by: Nancy5 on January 08, 2014, 07:47:22 am
I'm happy you are going to work thing out.  I can't give you any advice, I'm not an expert, but just listen to each other and it will take some time.  Good luck.
Title: Re: Wifes
Post by: jford87 on January 08, 2014, 09:23:47 am
Marriage is a ton of work. Both parties have to be willing to work really hard in order to make it work. Couples counseling can be really beneficial.
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Post by: sanglee on January 08, 2014, 09:53:38 am
Im 42 and havent married yet, i been thinking more and more of it (getting married), but I dont think im ready financially, and nobody seems right
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Post by: mythociate on January 08, 2014, 12:14:32 pm
I can't tell you this 'from experience,' but 'the Word of God' (NOT the Bible, but the advice of His children today) says that you must both serve 'the same god.'
Title: Re: Wifes
Post by: quietpal on January 08, 2014, 12:23:01 pm
So happy for the both of you. As stated before, it is work and both parties have to be willing to work on the marriage. Keep the lines of communication open and remember to have fun. Sometimes people can get so busy that they forget to take time out for the relationship, so make time for some fun.
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Post by: smithjcsdfw on January 08, 2014, 12:25:38 pm
Just have to keep in the thinking that marriage is based on Love and that Love is a series of sacrifices that you make for what you Love.
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Post by: 6265AT99 on January 08, 2014, 01:24:38 pm
My advice is always tell each other the truth- never go to bed angry and respect each other in everything you do and say!!!  Good luck!!!
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Post by: Dynamite2013 on January 08, 2014, 01:28:49 pm
I don't know how long you have been married but love was there and I am sure it is not gone. Many fights with couples are pure frustration. My husband and I had many fights split up once and got together to work things out that lasted four years. twenty years later we are more in love than we first met. We get our frustration out by having water pistol fights and we end up laughing. we always think about each other. He does things for me like once in awhile makes breakfast, or does my dishes. He is the best. Find the good qualities you both have and think about finding common things you both enjoy and start from there. He works and I run the budget to take the stress away from him. And we share much of the other things that need to be done. When you think about the thing that affected your marriage think about if it is more important than the love you have for your darling.