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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Topic started by: ladycasshmere on April 30, 2014, 06:23:14 pm
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For those of you with a facebook page is your significant other on your list of facebook friends.I noticed alot of my friends deleting their mates as they say they spy on their page and start alot of drama. Mines got mad and posted something about our personal life and it pissed me off.some things should be private.I thought about deleting him from my page.what is your thoughts on this
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Isn't marital bliss more important than Facebook?
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My hubby refuses to have a facebook. But he reads a lot of posts on my page made by mutual friends. I also show him pictures posted by family and friends.
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facebook is for fun..reconnecting with old friends, birth announcements, wedding announcements etc. it is not for drama and b.s. so i agree with you
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My wife and I are friends on Facebook. We don't have anything to hide.
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i don't have this issue but these social networks seem to cause more harm than good
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Facebook is ok but I see friends and others posting things on their page as if only their friends will see it. People seem not to care if their boss see some of the most personal thoughts that they post. Just today I thought about closing my Facebook page. I don't have any real issues with it just sometimes people say stuff before they think.
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My husband and I are facebook friends and we have no problem. He posts a lot more than me and I find myself liking pictures that he posts. I too see facebook as a way to help me connect with friends and family, especially family that lives in a different state than me. I think there needs to be a balance. I hope you communicated with him about your being upset about what he posted. Yes, certain things should be kept private.
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I'm single. :( Lol!
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Ladycasshmere: why do u have separate face accounts? I don't know what cause him to retaliate against u 4him 2post something private in ur life history but adults that are couples & suppose 2love & respect each other don't do childish things like that.U should b a team against other offenders blackening ur character online not at each other. If u cant communicate in front of each other & solve issues u shouldn't b friends online or In real life!U should unfriend him online & delete him from real time as well!Trust equals love.Love =trust! Without trust there is no love & love can't existence w/o trust!
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My hubby passed away last year but that was an issue between us because he wasn't well and he started putting mean stuff on so I deleted my account for a long time and he didn't like that either but I didn't know what to do because some of the stuff he was putting on the site was very distressing. I hope you guys work it out. Sometimes I think facebook is more trouble than it is worth. :-X
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We are both friends of each other on facebook, we have nothing to hide from each other.
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No, my hubby is not part of my Facebook family. My daughter and cousins are on Facebook and a lot of my hubby's relatives are on Facebook as well. That is only because my husband is not the greatest reader, and when he needs something done, he generally gets me to do it for him. :male: :female: :rose: :rose:
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My BF is not on FB but I have no problem with him going on mine. I have heard however that FB can cause many problems in a relationships!!
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I have nothing to hide, so it is not an issue. If a guy posts something offhanded to me, I simply say something like "Hey, that was him, not me", because I do have one friend that does joke with me that way occasionally. But that friend knows that I am very serious about leaving it at the level of joking is okay, but don't cross that line, because he has attempted to and failed embarrassingly. So I have no shame or secrets where my page is concerned.
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My hubby is not on Facebook but he also sometimes gets annoyed with me for posting stuff on Facebook about him or our kids. He finds out about it because he has a friend who is on Facebook, reads my posts, then calls my hubby about the subject of the posts. For example, my daughter got married recently and I posted a photo of her getting married. My husband's friend saw it and called my husband to congratulate him about being a new father-in-law. My hubby was annoyed about this because he thinks my daughter's wedding is a private family thing and is not something that should go up on Facebook. My kids also sometimes get annoyed with me for stuff I post that I consider innocuous and they consider private. I like Facebook a lot because it helps me keep up with the doings of friends and family, but it can be a pain sometimes.
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I think sometimes, I can say yes it ruins relationship, sometimes even in friendship. Post misunderstanding is the common reason. But of course it defends of how 2 people handle it. There is no problem can`t be solve, if the 2 person involve will cooperate well.
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My husband and I are facebook friends and we have no problem. He posts a lot more than me and I find myself liking pictures that he posts. I too see facebook as a way to help me connect with friends and family, especially friends that lives in a different state than me.
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It kind of sounds like there may be some trust issues if you have to do that!?
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For those of you with a facebook page is your significant other on your list of facebook friends.I noticed alot of my friends deleting their mates as they say they spy on their page and start alot of drama. Mines got mad and posted something about our personal life and it pissed me off.some things should be private.I thought about deleting him from my page.what is your thoughts on this
I agree arguments, disputes, private matters are not the place for FB, it is to connect with friends, hence the word friends. I wouldn't delete a person or unfriend unless you have completely deleted and unfriended them from you life...make an agreement with your significant other that you will not use FB as a weapon...so to speak...that's my opinion :)
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In my opinion talk and see what can be done to fix the problem. I am a single. If I was in this situation I would try to result the problem with talking to your guy and try to work it out in a way that both are happy. Things happen for a reason. It may be that you 2 need to have a conversation about boundaries and other things. When you go into a relationship with things that both are aware of and you have things set in place(like a prenup) then when this happens you know where you stand. Just my opinion.