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Title: Online Dating
Post by: debidoo on October 10, 2014, 11:37:26 am
Has anyone met someone through online dating that worked out to be a long term relationship or marriage?  My hubby of 34 years passed away 1 1/2 years ago & I miss the love and companionship.  I did a profile recently on an online dating site but so far it seems like I am not attracting people I would be compatible with - what are your thoughts about online dating?  As a christian should I just pray and wait for God to drop someone in my lap so to speak?
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: Skyisbluetoday on October 10, 2014, 12:11:02 pm
I've not ever done online dating before. I have heard some stories that work. I hope your search find's you a nice person to spend time with!  :)
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: batmobile on October 10, 2014, 12:39:10 pm
Yes a lot of exes with issues be careful !
There is a reason for some people being single
Online dating can be fun tho... You can meet a lot of interesting people even if it doesn't work out into a relationship
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: kimber62372 on October 10, 2014, 12:53:49 pm
I don't think you will have any problems. I would try eHarmony, I heard a lot of good things from them. I am married for 9 yrs and we met online 14 yrs ago this November. It's like any relationship...you have your ups and downs. Sorry to hear about your husband :( . You will do fine finding companionship online. Just don't pick the 1st one you meet...lol...unless you see fireworks! :) Good luck!   :in-love: :D
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: nguzman1 on October 10, 2014, 01:30:03 pm
I am sorry to hear about your husband. I had a huge accident that left me paralyze and thought I would never find someone but I started dating online and met a wonderful man I have been dating for 3 and a half years now.
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: tjshorty on October 10, 2014, 02:19:14 pm
A few good stories and a few bad ones.  My brother met the lady he married on line.  My brother in law also did.  Both couples have been married a long time.
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: bigfoot951 on October 10, 2014, 04:57:21 pm
I know a few people who have met their spouses on online dating sites, but I just can't imagine myself ever doing it.  To each their own though I guess.
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: BMaston12 on October 10, 2014, 05:12:15 pm
Has anyone met someone through online dating that worked out to be a long term relationship or marriage?  My hubby of 34 years passed away 1 1/2 years ago & I miss the love and companionship.  I did a profile recently on an online dating site but so far it seems like I am not attracting people I would be compatible with - what are your thoughts about online dating?  As a christian should I just pray and wait for God to drop someone in my lap so to speak?
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Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: quietpal on October 10, 2014, 10:11:49 pm
I don't know much about it but I would say do your research. Even if you meet someone online, find out all you can about that person (i.e. background checks, google them). In the meantime, might I suggest finding a hobby that you like to do. Something that will keep you busy and maybe involves connecting with other people. I can't even imagine what you're going through.
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: melissajh44 on October 10, 2014, 11:27:22 pm
I agree, make sure to do research. Also I suggest talking to them (messaging, phone, skype, etc) as long as possible before meeting them to get a good "feel" of who they really are.
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: camellia0 on October 11, 2014, 02:27:56 am
If I were you, I would pray on it and wait. No telling who you can meet online. They may seem nice and sincere, but have a hidden agenda. Don't fall for online dating.
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: dodgers16 on October 15, 2014, 01:34:40 pm
  yes, I have tried Online-Dating more then a few times over the years! never with much luck but I for sure recommend it to anyone to give it a shot
Title: Re: Online Dating
Post by: alina6 on October 15, 2014, 07:32:29 pm
Has anyone met someone through online dating that worked out to be a long term relationship or marriage?  My hubby of 34 years passed away 1 1/2 years ago & I miss the love and companionship.  I did a profile recently on an online dating site but so far it seems like I am not attracting people I would be compatible with - what are your thoughts about online dating?  As a christian should I just pray and wait for God to drop someone in my lap so to speak?

I believe there is a dating site called Christian Mingle that might be a good place to start for you.