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Title: Making up with spouse
Post by: LaKecias on October 27, 2014, 07:23:10 pm
How many days do you and your spouse go without speaking after a fight? My husband and I usually don't go too long maybe a day two because we have kids.
Title: Re: Making up with spouse
Post by: marciaenglish on October 27, 2014, 08:38:24 pm
We have never gone overnight!  I can't fight with him!  I get mad and yell; he starts crying and apologizing, then, I just feel so bad, I forget all about it!  ::)
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Post by: moonangel on October 27, 2014, 09:51:10 pm
we have never went more than two hours of not talking we both yell at each other then we blame each other then we blame ourselves then we talk about it and work it out fight over and done
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Post by: aggie49 on October 27, 2014, 09:57:50 pm
we have never had a fight small disagreements but it always work it out we don't go to sleep unless we make up
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Post by: Nancy5 on October 28, 2014, 03:10:26 am
We have had our share of fights, but we have never gone to bed without making up.
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Post by: sherryfan on October 28, 2014, 06:18:26 am
can't be long or it will cause divorce. Making up with spouse right away
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Post by: king4cash on October 28, 2014, 08:18:18 am
We usually work out the problem, when we both are calmed down....There is no set time...
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Post by: lhz123 on October 28, 2014, 08:49:01 am
We always talk if there's a problem so that it will not worsen. We love each other so much so no need to fight talk and understanding is the key.
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Post by: pwvogt on October 28, 2014, 02:49:12 pm
Maybe 12 hours but that was mainly because we fought before both going off to work and then returning home later in the evening.  Even then, usually on of us will phone the other during the day.  Mostly only and hour or two....both of us usually more upset with ourselves than the other person by then so we can talk more rationally about whatever is upsetting us.
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Post by: kleenex40 on October 28, 2014, 04:42:46 pm
I dont  really stay mad for that long(but the longest i have ever stayed mad at my husband was prob about half a day)
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Post by: jenniferhoder on October 28, 2014, 06:41:55 pm
I could go days before I got divorced but I don't think its very healthy to go that long without talking either with or without kids.
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Post by: texasmom32 on October 28, 2014, 07:21:27 pm
The longest we've gone is a whole day, because my husband can be very stubborn!  Lol  I like to work things out right away and don't agree with letting the sun go down, but he is the total opposite. 
Title: Re: Making up with spouse
Post by: marcar1008 on October 29, 2014, 05:29:42 pm
Going on 18 years and never skipped a day without talking.

We always talk it over and mostly I'm always the one who is right  ;D   :kiss:
Title: Re: Making up with spouse
Post by: raven1114 on October 29, 2014, 10:21:02 pm
We generally get over it pretty quick.
Title: Re: Making up with spouse
Post by: kewl4reals on October 30, 2014, 05:16:23 am
How many days do you and your spouse go without speaking after a fight? My husband and I usually don't go too long maybe a day two because we have kids.
               forgiveness is a virtue 
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Post by: inertia4 on October 30, 2014, 05:45:47 am
When I was married we used to fight. And making up was actually the best parts of the fight. If you know what I mean. LOL.
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Post by: freedomcash11 on October 30, 2014, 09:56:33 am
I not married yet so none and hopefully none.
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Post by: moon29 on October 30, 2014, 10:12:56 am
a few hours.  its really hard to not speak to the person that you live with and have children with. 
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Post by: debidoo on October 30, 2014, 11:38:43 am
Better not to go any longer than you can - my hubby passed away 1 1/2 years ago and I regret every argument we ever had and every minute we ever spent angry with each other although I realize arguments and disagreements are natural.
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Post by: sak4kat on October 30, 2014, 11:51:46 am
Usually just a couple of hours.  For the first time in my life the last argument we had lasted on my end for 2 or 3 days.  I just didn't want to say anything at all.  Nor did I want to hear anything either.