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Title: what do you all think of sex before marrige ok? or no bueno
Post by: go4thegold on August 19, 2009, 10:01:41 pm
what do you all think im  just curious
Title: Re: what do you all think of sex before marrige ok? or no bueno
Post by: Graeth on August 19, 2009, 10:09:23 pm
as long as it's out of love and nothing else.
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Post by: dreamyxo on August 19, 2009, 10:15:03 pm
What's love got to do with it?


Sex before marriage is just fine with me.
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Post by: sharonkim on August 20, 2009, 02:28:27 am
How else are you going to know what you have to live with for the rest of your married life?  ;)
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Post by: aimeerose00 on August 20, 2009, 06:06:45 am
Seeing as how I engaged in sex before marriage, I have no problem with it.
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Post by: flotowngolfer on August 20, 2009, 06:43:34 am
I think it's fine. To each his own. Personally, I've done it, but only with one person, and I plan to marry her. But, people can do whatever they want. What is right and wrong anymore? :dontknow:
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Post by: mrisha on August 20, 2009, 06:52:33 am
Definitely sex before marriage, if you are over eighteen.  Who wants to end up with a dud for the rest of your married life.  Some people maybe sexually frigid after the I do's. 
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Post by: dreamyxo on August 20, 2009, 07:27:16 am
Quote
...why would you want to if he doesn't but that is just me


Because sometimes it's just about the sex and nothing else. 
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Post by: smilebig22 on August 20, 2009, 10:54:52 am
Yeah sex is great. As long as you know what you're getting yourself into. You should also know if you or the person you're having sex with has any STD's.
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Post by: Shadix494 on August 20, 2009, 12:26:17 pm
Yeah I think its okay. But having sex before you're like 16 and doing it when you're 13 or 14 is just sick. Kids should enjoy their innocence...That's just me.
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Post by: itsmyname712 on August 20, 2009, 12:28:55 pm
I think its fine....just be safe so you don't end up with an unwanted child or STDs
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Post by: smadesy on August 20, 2009, 12:30:01 pm
Quote from: flotowngolfer on August 20, 2009, 06:43:34 am
I think it's fine. To each his own. Personally, I've done it, but only with one person, and I plan to marry her. But, people can do whatever they want. What is right and wrong anymore? :dontknow:

Toche. The only opinion I got is the choice is yours. Your the only one that has to sleep with yourself with choices you make. Do what you feel is right. Or maybe your not the only one who sleeps with you. haha ;D
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Post by: klutzycutie on August 20, 2009, 01:36:52 pm
i also agree that it doesnt matter wat age

just if ur an adult then ok sure

but be careful

cuz nowadays there are many ppl who are not married and pregnant

and the guys left them to defend themselves
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Post by: davidf938 on August 21, 2009, 05:38:04 am
I'm definitely against sex before marriage.  NOT THE SEX, BUT THE MARRIAGE!!!!!!
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Post by: sheliawheeler on August 21, 2009, 06:04:23 am
It think it is up to the individual.  I agree that you should be at least 18 before having sex.  Realistically, how many people actually wait until they are married?  Not many because sex has become a casual thing now.
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Post by: MyLastDisguise on August 21, 2009, 08:07:04 am
Not many people seem to agree any more, but I think it is best to wait until after marriage. I want to be able to give as much as I can to that one guy and only him rather than regretting what I already gave away to others.
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Post by: jasoneaton on August 21, 2009, 08:10:47 am
Be safe, have fun, be aware of the risks. Relationships and children are the most damaging and lingering sexually contracted disease.
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Post by: jaymz462 on August 21, 2009, 12:26:45 pm
Try it before you buy it  :)
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Post by: 5patti5 on August 21, 2009, 12:55:16 pm
People should always wait until marriage.. Sex before marriage only will create problems.. Sometimes they will never get married because why get married if your already getting the goods. Sexual transmitted diseases,  pain caused after breakups,  unplanned pregnancies.. Also.. were not dogs.. were human beings.. If you just sleep with everybody then your no better than the dogs down the road.. ABSENCE is best.
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Post by: pshah1991 on August 21, 2009, 08:27:39 pm
It really depends on the couple, but I feel like you should definetly be over 18, and at lesat date with the intnt to get married.

I'm personally waiting untill I'm engaged.
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Post by: vlsm23 on August 21, 2009, 09:02:37 pm
fine, sex can ruin a marriage, so might as well make sure you enjoy having sex with the person you marry.  Personally the first guy I was with was horrible in comparison to my husband - I would have been sexually deprived if I stayed with the first guy just because he was the first one I fell in love with and thought I was going to marry.
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Post by: mgarmstrong on August 22, 2009, 05:35:57 pm
It's and individual choice.  Some look at is from the religion standpoint but I'll be accountable for my own sins, and you can worry about yours.
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Post by: nesandry on August 22, 2009, 06:36:09 pm
sex is normal. and natural and it is just an urge we all have. i think its perfectly fine. lol as long as its not taken too far i suppose haha.
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Post by: Sunshine84 on August 25, 2009, 11:50:25 am
I think it is okay to have sex before marriage. It is the new age it is nobody elses business what you do before you are married. People have needs it is not the 50's like the tv shows. I think before you married you should probably be careful so you don't end up pregnant but I think it is okay to satisfy your needs.
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Post by: aimeerose00 on August 25, 2009, 11:54:43 am
Quote from: 5patti5 on August 21, 2009, 12:55:16 pm
People should always wait until marriage.. ABSENCE is best.

LOL
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Post by: mjerevie on August 25, 2009, 12:05:05 pm
i think that engaging in sex with another individual is a personal choice to make. it depends on how you see sex, what do you think it is really for, and why you want to do it. personally though, i waited before marriage. this is who i am and i made that decision for myself. Just remember that whatever you choose to do, whether you decide to abstain or to engage, a consequence will follow and you would have to deal with that afterwards.  :angel12:
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Post by: prettynink87x on August 25, 2009, 12:47:29 pm
I'm not for sleeping around but it's okay if you love the other person
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Post by: reneezysk on August 27, 2009, 05:04:48 pm
I wish I had waited til I was married.  I've had many more partners than my husband and it makes me very sad
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Post by: AXELUnholy on August 27, 2009, 05:11:29 pm
I don't care either way, personally. I just hate when people put ALL the emphasis on sex. Sex isn't all there is to a relationship.
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Post by: valerieandsteven on August 27, 2009, 05:19:18 pm
i think i wouldve waited everything... it wasny what i expected when i lost my virginity however w my hubby its different
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Post by: arms1977 on August 28, 2009, 01:26:18 pm
This is a good topic. I saw a program on television a few days ago and was alarmed at the percentage of teens who ADMITED they were sexually active. That percentage was in the low 50%, can you imagine the REAL number! I made the choice to wait to have sex until marriage and do not regret it. I think this world has become too laxed though. Every time I turn on the tube I see half naked women throwing themselves at men. The programs these days seem to be telling our children to do it now with whomever they wish and there will be no consequences. My child and I regularly discuss sex. We discuss the pros and cons, but most importantly we discuss the importance of protection. I am confident that when my child decides to have sex for the first time he will be informed and act responsibly. i hope he will wait until marriage, but I will not condemn him if he does not. I will demand that he use protection, not only for himself, but for his partner.
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Post by: dream420believer on August 30, 2009, 02:52:35 pm
Well i think its ok in this generation. I know that i want know that i can connect with the person that i am with. I like to have sex so if i got married and it wasnt working i dont think the marriage would last.
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Post by: goldensoul on August 31, 2009, 12:26:14 am
Gender has alot to do with this discourse. Females would be more predisposed to wait for marriage or some kind of assurance before handing out their treasure. On the other hand, males instant gratification counters pride if any. I think in this present age, a couple truly in love should suffice. Someone once said only sex in an act of procreation is not sin. I guess discrimination should conquer lust.   
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Post by: neverwork on August 31, 2009, 12:40:47 am
i am torn on this issue...for me .. i would wait..but if right girl came along and we were together while and it just happened.. i would not mine
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Post by: melissakoch on August 31, 2009, 05:44:15 am
I had sex before marriage...and am still married to him 13 years later...no problem with it!