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Title: do you
Post by: mnichols4 on June 08, 2017, 07:55:52 pm
do you think its better beinging in a relationship or single?what if you have kids ?why does life seem so much simpler when your single ?is it because no one to answer to an the freedom to do as u please?do you feel its wrong for people to feel like that ?
Title: Re: do you
Post by: amyDAST on June 08, 2017, 09:22:22 pm
do you think its better beinging in a relationship or single?what if you have kids ?why does life seem so much simpler when your single ?is it because no one to answer to an the freedom to do as u please?do you feel its wrong for people to feel like that ?

do you think its better beinging in a relationship or single? Being in a relationship vs being single just depends on the people involved.
what if you have kids ? Why would anyone want to be in a relationship just because they have kids?
why does life seem so much simpler when your single ? I think as a married person my life is simple.
is it because no one to answer to an the freedom to do as u please? If your partner is making you feel like you have no freedom maybe it's time to move on from the relationship.
do you feel its wrong for people to feel like that ? I think wondering if people think your feelings are wrong or right is a little strange. Good luck!
Title: Re: do you
Post by: Cbsteffen on June 08, 2017, 09:25:55 pm
Well, I can only say it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all and that relationships can hurt since friendships and relationships probably don't usually last a lifetime as of whomever dies first.
Title: Re: do you
Post by: swell455 on June 08, 2017, 09:49:21 pm
Single has a want better sense....for others, it can get scary if you stay single too long though. Trusting someone is almost never questioned non single....shows how single I've been. I like the relationship answer from others.
Title: Re: do you
Post by: surveypro2016 on June 09, 2017, 05:55:46 am
I used to be an advocate for the single life as I am single. Recently though I realized how important it is to have someone in your life. My BF has cancer and is going through treatment. Without me, he would be doing it alone as his kids don't come around and he has no other family.
Title: Re: do you
Post by: w3s on June 09, 2017, 06:51:56 am
I find it easier to be on my own but I can't deny that I crave human attraction
Title: Re: do you
Post by: kathleenkleinhans on June 09, 2017, 07:29:42 am
It all depends on the people and their personalities
Title: Re: do you
Post by: ccandpam on June 09, 2017, 07:32:08 am
I have been married 30 years today and I could not make it without my husband. :heart:
Title: Re: do you
Post by: BATISTAGIRL663 on June 09, 2017, 01:04:55 pm
i think its only normal to want a companion to share life with but not always possible--i have been single for so long now that it would take an act of God to convince me that i needed you in my life-- relationship wise --i am very happy where i am with my life --i have raised my kids and i have a great job and own my house --i go and come as i please ! i love it !!
Title: Re: do you
Post by: Nateraabe on June 09, 2017, 01:54:43 pm
I'm new here.  Trying to see if I can post 30 messages to get the $3.  Hope I like it here!
Title: Re: do you
Post by: Cbsteffen on June 09, 2017, 02:18:43 pm
I'm new here.  Trying to see if I can post 30 messages to get the $3.  Hope I like it here!

Good luck!
Title: Re: do you
Post by: dreamyxo on June 09, 2017, 09:57:59 pm
Relationships are more trouble than they're worth imho. 
Title: Re: do you
Post by: plennis on June 09, 2017, 10:35:47 pm
I am in a relationship and very happy/content.  I think it just depends on your personality.  I like to have someone to come home to, to nest, to talk to, to share with.
Title: Re: do you
Post by: Jayce2013 on June 09, 2017, 11:41:43 pm
It's never wrong if that is what makes you feel good and that you fell is right for you, as long as it does not hurt anyone.
I am married and we have ups and down but overall I am happy I have someone to share my life with.

When you are single everything SEEMS easier like you said only becuase there is no one else that might go against you. You are free to do what you want, whenever you want, even if it's wrong... you are on your own. It feels good but sometimes it might feel lonely too.

We are here in this world not to be alone but to be with someone else, someone you can share your daily life with. Without that, all the memories are 'wasted' if they can't be shared.
Title: Re: do you
Post by: snuggleycutejc on June 10, 2017, 08:07:14 am
I always thought being with someone was the only thing to do. I am single I like this way too. Stay happy.
Title: Re: do you
Post by: natashaspy on June 10, 2017, 05:12:49 pm
Its kind of hard to say. Depends on the person I suppose.  Ive been married 22 years..sometimes it's great, others I'd give anything to get out. 
Title: Re: do you
Post by: mrsmere on June 10, 2017, 05:36:14 pm
It depends on the person and how much you put into a relationship.  I have been married 36 years and he's my best friend but you have to work at it, talk, go on dates, appreciate each other, etc.  I'm a home body and he's a road runner so sometimes I go places with him and sometimes he stay home with me, it's a nice balance.