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Title: Are you
Post by: mnichols4 on August 31, 2017, 05:47:33 pm
Are you married ?do you ever wanna get married ? Do you think marriage has change ?would you rather be single or just dateing these days?
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Post by: catherinedwhite on August 31, 2017, 05:56:52 pm
Not married. Yes I would get married. Don't see it happening for me though.
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Post by: dreamyxo on August 31, 2017, 07:05:57 pm
Not married and never planned to be.  From an early age I very few examples of a good marrige certainly not from my own parents who divorced when I was 11.  I don't have a use for it in my life.  I'd rather be free to pursue my own dreams without having to worry about someone else.  If I want to pick up and move across country tomorrow I'm free to do that without worrying about what someone else feels.
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Post by: oldbuddy on September 01, 2017, 07:07:00 am
Been married for 47 years and wouldn't want it any other way, however it did take us both two tries to get it right.
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Post by: jkhanson on September 01, 2017, 07:26:17 am
I've been married 41 years.  It has been a great overall for me!  We are high school sweethearts so we've known each other 45 years.  I wouldn't want it any other way.
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Post by: beatsdrop on September 01, 2017, 07:27:28 am
I wish. :( Maybe one of these days.
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Post by: ljrjess69 on September 01, 2017, 05:31:58 pm
married and got 2 kids,,,and cat!!!!!!!!!!!1 :peace: :heart: :thumbsup:
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Post by: amyDAST on September 01, 2017, 06:23:03 pm
Married for 9 years. We started dating when we were teenagers :) and kept dating for 6 years before getting married.
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Post by: PGS28 on September 02, 2017, 06:35:27 am
I was married for almost a decade and hope to remarry again.
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Post by: metsrock69 on September 02, 2017, 08:11:07 am
Married for 26 years ans counting. We got married 3 months after we met. A few people said it wouldn't last a year and were they wrong :)
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Post by: countrygirl12 on September 02, 2017, 10:16:15 am
Are you married ?do you ever wanna get married ? Do you think marriage has change ?would you rather be single or just dateing these days?

As screwed up as the world is right now I don't think anybody with any sense would want to be just dating right now.
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Post by: mrsmere on September 02, 2017, 01:31:33 pm
Married 36 years to my crush and wouldn't have it any other way, we still go on dates, talk and have getaways.  I think people are waiting longer or just living together.
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Post by: gaby_ro_2004 on September 02, 2017, 02:09:24 pm
Happily married for 11yrs and i wonder why did i wait so long?(got married when i was 31 and my husband 38).
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Post by: hkckk5 on September 02, 2017, 02:16:05 pm
Second marriage for both of us. Guess we were meant to find each other. Been married almost 35 years now.
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Post by: PGS28 on September 03, 2017, 05:59:18 am
Nothing wrong with that, I was telling my children to make sure when they're making goal agendas that they're chasing their dreams and not someone else's.

Not married and never planned to be.  From an early age I very few examples of a good marrige certainly not from my own parents who divorced when I was 11.  I don't have a use for it in my life.  I'd rather be free to pursue my own dreams without having to worry about someone else.  If I want to pick up and move across country tomorrow I'm free to do that without worrying about what someone else feels.
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Post by: bretay on September 03, 2017, 07:32:05 am
i have been married for 40 yrs...got married at 15,,,3 knids and 2 grandkids..dont think i would want to date these days
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Post by: dsosnowski06 on September 03, 2017, 10:11:28 pm
Married 35 years and inherited 3 stepsons and had 1 daughter of own.  Sometimes I wish I didn't marry someone with kids but my husband is great and would not have my daughter.  ( 1 of 3 sons is also great)
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Post by: pkrahmer on September 04, 2017, 03:13:09 am
I have never been married.i would like to be don't think it will happen. :rainbow: :rose: :peace: :wave:
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Post by: dogsleash on September 04, 2017, 04:40:57 am
Well I'm married and verry seperated. Loving it
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Post by: brian8713 on September 04, 2017, 05:28:37 am
I'm recently divorced. I never want to get married again. I feel like marriage is for people who want to devote themselves to another person. I have other priorities in my life -- my house, my job, my pets. I value my independence too much to go through that again, though props to people who do find love. I'm definitely not against marriage. Just against it for me.
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Post by: bremer51 on September 04, 2017, 06:18:16 am
I didn't get married until I was 39 so I really didn't think it was going to happen for me. Then it did.  And its been good.
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Post by: PGS28 on September 05, 2017, 05:43:33 am
Same boat.

I have never been married.i would like to be don't think it will happen. :rainbow: :rose: :peace: :wave:
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Post by: gaylasue on September 05, 2017, 08:42:32 am
Yes, I am married.  Will be celebrating #38 in November.
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Post by: stretch1967 on September 05, 2017, 10:10:31 am
I'm not married. Nor do I plan to get married.
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Post by: darkxtsuna on September 05, 2017, 03:46:31 pm
Not married, Still searching for the right one to marry someday.
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Post by: makeblessed on September 05, 2017, 04:50:56 pm
Yes, second marriage for both of us, we got it right this time around  even if it was later in life!
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Post by: singletonb on September 05, 2017, 09:32:20 pm
I have been married 45 years and would not like to have it any other way.
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Post by: cateyes1 on September 06, 2017, 05:33:41 am
I was married and divorced, married again and a widow, and have no intentions on ever getting married again!
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Post by: braggin on September 06, 2017, 05:46:20 am
I've been married for 42 years to the same man and have never been married to anyone else. I like having a companion for life. Even though we disagree on a lot of things, I like having somebody else's perspective on all decisions I have to make in life.
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Post by: bshee58 on September 06, 2017, 06:45:50 am
I am dating, and I was married now divorced, if I got married again, it will not be a divorce later in my life, I want to stay married until death do us part, my mom and dad stayed together until she died, marriage isn't always a bed of roses, but you just have to work things out and don't go running to family members with what is going on in your married life.
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Post by: Azanne07 on September 06, 2017, 11:09:26 am
I was married and a really bad thing happened and I had to file for divorce before our first anniversary. I should have never married him. I still feel pretty stupid over it all but it has also made me very "gun shy" over getting married ever again.
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Post by: ghunter on September 06, 2017, 12:11:47 pm
Yes, I am and have been for over 40 years.  I am planning our 41st anniversary on September 25th.  Now it have not all been a bed of roses, but for the most part it is great.  We love each other, respect each other and he treats me very good. Just try to find someone who truly loves their mother, respect her and would do anything for her and loves the Lord and you got yourself a good husband. 
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Post by: cateyes1 on September 06, 2017, 12:17:32 pm
Yes, I am and have been for over 40 years.  I am planning our 41st anniversary on September 25th.  Now it have not all been a bed of roses, but for the most part it is great.  We love each other, respect each other and he treats me very good. Just try to find someone who truly loves their mother, respect her and would do anything for her and loves the Lord and you got yourself a good husband. 
Yes, I am and have been for over 40 years.  I am planning our 41st anniversary on September 25th.  Now it have not all been a bed of roses, but for the most part it is great.  We love each other, respect each other and he treats me very good. Just try to find someone who truly loves their mother, respect her and would do anything for her and loves the Lord and you got yourself a good husband. 
Yes, I am and have been for over 40 years.  I am planning our 41st anniversary on September 25th.  Now it have not all been a bed of roses, but for the most part it is great.  We love each other, respect each other and he treats me very good. Just try to find someone who truly loves their mother, respect her and would do anything for her and loves the Lord and you got yourself a good husband. 

It's so funny you say that. My Dad ALWAYS said "that how a man treats his Mother is how he will treat his wife/girlfriend"
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Post by: Cbsteffen on September 06, 2017, 12:24:13 pm
No, I'm not married, and I might not consider marrying for a while because I don't want to risk ending a marriage in divorce so easily.
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Post by: michael22000 on September 06, 2017, 06:34:23 pm
Nope still single; looking for that special someone  :heart:
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Post by: cateyes1 on September 07, 2017, 04:57:43 am
Nope still single; looking for that special someone  :heart:

I hope you find her one day !!
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Post by: bigfoot951 on September 07, 2017, 07:44:14 pm
I have never be married and with all the people I know that have been married I feel sure that if I do get married that it will end up absolutely terrible.  But I really do want to have kids one day.  Kind of screwed up.
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Post by: dancer139 on September 07, 2017, 08:07:31 pm
been married twice and divorced twice.  Now I have been living a guy for over 21 years and I couldn't be happier.  But I will not get married again. :)
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Post by: w3s on September 08, 2017, 07:08:23 pm
I don't know. Honestly don't think I can pull off a relationship at all
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Post by: sherryinutah on September 08, 2017, 07:17:52 pm
I was married for 25 years.  Been there, done that.  I love being single because I have a sense of freedom that's priceless.  I'm too hypersensitive to live with someone at this time in my life.

 :heart:

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Post by: fillfran82 on September 26, 2017, 11:55:47 pm
Are you married ?do you ever wanna get married ? Do you think marriage has change ?would you rather be single or just dateing these days?

Hello! :D :)

I'm currently dating someone for about one year now. I said to myself that if this one doesn't workout for me I wont date anymore. In the stage of my life that I'm in right now I want to get married and to start my own family. I'm a hopeless romantic and I truly madly deeply want to find my soul mate. The way the world is now I certainly don't want to put my heart on the line again. I hope who ever find true love that it keeps going well for you. :heart: :rose:
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Post by: MichelleHW101 on September 27, 2017, 02:52:56 am
Never Married but I'm always hopeful.  My parents and grandparents have stayed married almost all their lives so I come from a strong background of people sticking it out through the hard times.  There were many times when I thought my parents would divorce.  Many times I thought they should.  But they still stuck it out so while there are lots of couples who divoce I think when one finds the right person, they will stay with them even through the bad times.
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Post by: gtdoss on September 27, 2017, 03:16:55 am
When I was 34, my roommate threw me an all-ladies birthday party. There were presents, a beautiful cake, and even a romantic comedy movie thrown in. I smiled all evening, but inside I was crushed. I kept thinking, "I'm 34, living in someone else's house, have a job I can't stand, and not even a date on the horizon." Guess what? Twelve weeks later I was married! We met through Sunday School and have been together for 21 years. We even have two very happy sons (one in high school, one in college). But I always remember how horrible and alone I felt on my 34th birthday. I would never have guessed how things would turn out! :heart:
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Post by: ghunter on September 27, 2017, 08:14:14 am
Yes, I am and have been for 41 years.  Just celebrate 41 years this past Monday.
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Post by: bshee58 on September 27, 2017, 09:26:39 am
Dating, not dateing. I am dating and once was married.
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Post by: pectacon on September 27, 2017, 09:56:58 am
Not married, but would like to be someday. I never seem to meet anyone.
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Post by: king4cash on September 27, 2017, 12:20:08 pm
soon, i think that marrying will become like a term contract, that we will have to renew every 5-10 years...
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Post by: oldbuddy on September 28, 2017, 12:23:57 am
soon, i think that marrying will become like a term contract, that we will have to renew every 5-10 years...
Sorry, but my marriage is ETERNAL and I have no intention of changing that.
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Post by: MichelleHW101 on September 28, 2017, 06:54:48 am
Nope, not married but if the right person comes along I might.  I don't think marriage itself has changed I think the people who get married have.  We are now-a-days looking for the easy way out that people just divorce rather than sticking it out and trying to work through there problems.  I think dating is better since you don't know how a person will react until you all have that first big fight. 
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Post by: yikes77 on September 28, 2017, 06:58:28 am
NOt married and sadly I don't think it's in the cards for me :(
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Post by: Bigpar31 on September 28, 2017, 09:21:25 am
I love my married life 6 years and still going.
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Post by: bshee58 on September 28, 2017, 09:23:28 am
ok then.
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Post by: LaTashaS28 on September 28, 2017, 06:49:58 pm
No I have never been married before but I hope I get married soon, because marriage is a blessing from God.
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Post by: camellia0 on September 30, 2017, 07:26:55 pm
I am single and never been married. I do hope to get married one day. I just want to make sure that I find someone that is a fit for me because I do not want a divorce.
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Post by: tantricia44 on September 30, 2017, 07:36:39 pm
I'm widowed & still haven't found anyone who could ever measure up to my husband! So, single & will probably stay single till the day I die!
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Post by: lmrbean on September 30, 2017, 07:38:00 pm
I've been married to my wonderful husband for 43 years and have three grown children and one grandchild, and another on the way. We are retired now and do a lot of traveling.  We are very blessed!