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Title: HOW TO PLEASE YOUR SPOUSE?
Post by: babypolotb on September 25, 2009, 10:00:04 pm
DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY IDEAS TO PLEASE THEIR SPOUSE? LET ME KNOW.. :wave:
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Post by: valerieandsteven on September 25, 2009, 10:20:18 pm
besides sex?? lol do whatever they say ha ha
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Post by: lynnc35 on September 26, 2009, 03:39:28 am
Lets see, probably if I sat there and watched ESPN for 12 hrs, A&E the other 4, he is awake, and didn't speak at all. had dinner ready when he got home, but he never tells me when he will be home, so if I cook dinner, he doesn't get home till 2-3 hrs late, and it gets ruined,
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Post by: hjh1974 on September 26, 2009, 05:56:29 am
It's as simple as making them feel good.  That doesn't necessarily mean sex.  It should be a two-way street though.
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Post by: dreamyxo on September 26, 2009, 09:00:47 am
Do whatever they want you to do.  You might not be happy but if you are trying to please them then that would work.
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Post by: dmalsbury on September 26, 2009, 09:13:26 am
can it be done?

dmalsbury
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Post by: MrsTBarber on September 26, 2009, 11:40:18 am
That's a good question; when someone discovers the answer PLEASE let me know!
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Post by: tomoshii on September 26, 2009, 01:29:21 pm
No nagging. P:
That makes a lot of people very angry.
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Post by: cloudsoup on September 26, 2009, 03:20:10 pm
compromise. this is probably one
of the most difficult things to accomplish (for
me and my significant other, anyway) but
once we actually find a way to do it, its great
because we both get what we want.

but just to please the other person?
i agree with the others, about doing whatever
he/she wants.

however, i can ask mine what exactly would
make him happy... and he doesn't know either  :P
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Post by: cheribam on September 26, 2009, 05:39:12 pm
Besides good sex, I cook him nice tasting meals, make him feel good and being a darling.
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Post by: lbeery on September 26, 2009, 06:22:05 pm
The best one I ever heard was this....Do not criticize anything that he says or does (and that includes correcting him, suggesting a better way to do it, and reminding him what he should be doing) for thirty days.  Seriously hard to do but you would be amazed at the change it will make in your relationship.  Course, then you will have to find something else to talk about (hah!)
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Post by: trujillo33 on September 26, 2009, 06:31:45 pm
For me i cook for him, spend time wit him, play video games. We go to the movies like twice a month!!
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Post by: goldensoul on September 27, 2009, 10:31:55 am
I don't know what marriage is like but I don't think doing everything he/she asks is the best form of diplomacy. Depending on who your spouse actually is, you should work together in doing whats best for each other and the entire family. It could be a peaceful debate when there is a discrepancy. Be creative with problem solving techniques as discord is bound to occur, whether often or sparingly   
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Post by: PMZ908 on September 27, 2009, 02:01:58 pm
just 3 simple words:

food
sex
silence  

or how i rather put it:

feed me
fu*k me
shut the fu*k up
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Post by: AmyTrivitt on September 27, 2009, 03:11:16 pm
HA sex, food, sports, make sure he is adored, give him silent time. Its all about compramise though. BUT IT TRUELLY GOES BOTH WAYS!!!
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Post by: Cuppycake on September 27, 2009, 07:12:10 pm
  (http://i177.photobucket.com/albums/w216/straitdstudentg3/quotes/animated-notes.gif) "Hold him and kiss him and love him
And show him that you care
Show him that you care just for him
Do the things that he likes to do
Wear your hair just for him" (http://i177.photobucket.com/albums/w216/straitdstudentg3/quotes/animated-notes.gif)
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Post by: redsspaz on September 27, 2009, 07:21:00 pm
When you have the day off or dont work at all make sure the house is always clean and dinner is ready for him when he gets home from a hard days work