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Just curious but does it bother you when someone doesn't like you and makes it clear they do not like you and they have absolutely no reason at all to not like you.
I know people are judgmental. They judge others on their appearance (which people cannot always help), or on something the person MAY have done in the past (just because you hear something doesn't mean it is true), or for something that did happen in the past years ago.
If you were in a situation where a new co-worker or someone you go to church with or whatever - if they make it clear they do not like you would you want to know why?
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No, because their opinion means absolutely nothing to me. I only care about the opinions of friends and family. My ex-husband hates my guts and probably wants me dead (LOL), but it doesn't bother me because I'm not wasting any more time on a fat loser.
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At first I think it would bother me, but eventually I wouldn't care.
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It doesn't bother me when someone doesn't like me but it makes me curious sometimes if I do not know why. I knew of someone who didn't like me for years and I have no idea why.
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I guess I don't really care. Like me or don't. But I do wonder what the problem is. I have never done anything to them and they have no reason to just flat out dislike me. Probably something completely stupid.
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Nobody, can make you feel inferior or hated without your consent! Don't waste your energy, worrying about something you can't control! It's their problem they have a problem with you whatever it is!
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I try not to let it bother me, if you don't like me, it's not a problem, my life doesn't revolve around you liking or not liking me, i'm not going to stress myself out over it.
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I try not to let it bother me, if you don't like me, it's not a problem, my life doesn't revolve around you liking or not liking me, i'm not going to stress myself out over it.
And I try to do just that.
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It is a free world. Different strokes for different for different folks.
There will always be people who do not like others. Just ignore them.
Do not hang around them. Why waste your valuable time with annoying people!
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I really don't care that's their problem not mine especially if I know I've never done anything to them. Some people just don't like you for no reason who knows why. I'm not mean or rude to people but I'm pretty good at just ignoring people who aren't worth my time because of their attitude.
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If I know there isn't a reason for a person to dislike me, I don't let it bother me. I would be curious to know why the person feels that way about me
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Just curious but does it bother you when someone doesn't like you and makes it clear they do not like you and they have absolutely no reason at all to not like you.
I know people are judgmental. They judge others on their appearance (which people cannot always help), or on something the person MAY have done in the past (just because you hear something doesn't mean it is true), or for something that did happen in the past years ago.
If you were in a situation where a new co-worker or someone you go to church with or whatever - if they make it clear they do not like you would you want to know why?
Hello!
I would like to say that it doesn't bother me but it does. I know I care way too much what people think about me even though I know I'm a good person. It all has to do with my low self-esteem!
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No, it does not, people are entitled to their feelings/opinions and i am not going to try and change them as long as they are respectful I move on and enjoy the company of those who wish to be in my company.
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I have had people in the past tell me or tell someone they don't like me. No reason and it did not bother me because I have always had a lot of friends and I just hang with the ones that do like me.
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It depends on the person really, but I'm sensitive and usually hate it when people don't like me. Oh well.
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Just curious but does it bother you when someone doesn't like you and makes it clear they do not like you and they have absolutely no reason at all to not like you.
I know people are judgmental. They judge others on their appearance (which people cannot always help), or on something the person MAY have done in the past (just because you hear something doesn't mean it is true), or for something that did happen in the past years ago.
If you were in a situation where a new co-worker or someone you go to church with or whatever - if they make it clear they do not like you would you want to know why?
Hello!
I would like to say that it doesn't bother me but it does. I know I care way too much what people think about me even though I know I'm a good person. It all has to do with my low self-esteem!
I honestly do not care what they think about me. I just get tired of being slighted especially in the situation it is in.
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I have had people in the past tell me or tell someone they don't like me. No reason and it did not bother me because I have always had a lot of friends and I just hang with the ones that do like me.
I remember years ago I had just started working on a new job and I went up at lunch and was talking to a couple people and the one woman flat out told me "I don't like you. You have not done anything to me but I don't like you" Well b**tch go play in a free way somewhere. lol
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When I was younger yes now that I am older no. I figure to heck with them. I am a solitary person for the most part now that my husband passed but if someone doesn't like me I figure why would I worry about them.
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People are always going to either like you or dislike you. Even in church where everyone is supposed to love everyone. Sometimes they're just jealous of you. 8) Sometimes they think you don't like them. ::)
If you reach out to people, they will respond. If they keep responding negatively, know that it's not you and just chalk it up to life unfairness. If you're not that person's cup of tea, there are many, many other fish in the sea. And statistically speaking, it would be odd if there were no people that didn't like you. You know.
I like you, for what it's worth. Do faceless entities matter at all to you? :dontknow:
:fish:
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No, It doesn't bother me at all. If they don't like me, it's their problem not mine.
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The older I get, the less it matters whether someone likes me or not. I'm old, and I'm tired. I don't have time to worry about it.
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I believe if a person does not like someone, they may be jealous of them. Someone could have a nice car, clothes, good job, etc... there is something that the other person is jealous of. I do believe that there is a reason for everything. I would like to know the reason why, but chances are people won't be honest and say why they dislike someone.
So just know that someone is jealous of you!
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I'm not a very trusting person, so i don't care what people think.
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It used to bother me, but I guess as I have aged, it has occured me to me that people just suck and sometimes people don't like you because they are jealous! So, it doesn't bother me; you don't like me, well YOUR Loss.
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:bunny: :cat: :dog: Some people it does bother me. I wonder what I ever done to them, but being nice. I wait to see if they have a bad mood day, but some people just don't like me doesn't matter the mood or the day. :bunny: :cat: :dog:
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I have had people in the past tell me or tell someone they don't like me. No reason and it did not bother me because I have always had a lot of friends and I just hang with the ones that do like me.
I remember years ago I had just started working on a new job and I went up at lunch and was talking to a couple people and the one woman flat out told me "I don't like you. You have not done anything to me but I don't like you" Well b**tch go play in a free way somewhere. lol
Now that situation is more telling about the person who would say such a thing to your face when they hardly knew you. You have to wonder about a person like that. I would steer clear as much as possible but not give them much "head space.' However, on the other hand, I know that can be a bit difficult at first because most of us would try to decide what we did. I have learned not to let that bother me for long, but it has become possible since I have matured and got a better understanding of myself and others.
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It bothers me at first bc I always want to be liked but I can't do anything about it so I get over it easily
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I have had some one that did not iike me and tried to get me in troube. The ended up losing their home. The Bible says "what you sew, you reap. Never try to get someone in trouble because it will come back to you. I have always treated other the way I want to be treated.
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No it doesn't bother me because that means that they are really not friends or family. As long as I am happy with myself that is all the counts
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Things like that use to both me but not anymore. The one thing that I really hate is when someone made it clear that they did not like you years ago and then you bump into them and they want to act like nothing happened. That really makes me mad. >:(
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No.
The people I like are nice to me. The people who don't, I don't let it get to me.
I walk right by them, they walk right by me.
The people in my apt bldg who have dogs mostly don't like me. Had one german shepherd jump on my back, almost knocked me face first on the sidewalk.
Another dog jumped me when I was talking with my son (who promptly took care of the problem), yet these people think I should love their "sweetie" dog.
I just pass them without comment, and they do likewise. Good grief. No one ever thinks "Oh maybe I should train my dog, so I don't offend others". duh......
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People are always going to either like you or dislike you. Even in church where everyone is supposed to love everyone. Sometimes they're just jealous of you. 8) Sometimes they think you don't like them. ::)
If you reach out to people, they will respond. If they keep responding negatively, know that it's not you and just chalk it up to life unfairness. If you're not that person's cup of tea, there are many, many other fish in the sea. And statistically speaking, it would be odd if there were no people that didn't like you. You know.
I like you, for what it's worth. Do faceless entities matter at all to you? :dontknow:
:fish:
I doubt anyone is jealous of me. I don't think you have to "love" everyone. But I don't think you should be rude to people for no reason. I have tried to talk to this person more than once. I can just tell by the snotty snarl on her face she doesn't like me. In her defense she always has a snotty scowl on her face. Maybe she hates every one. lol I honestly do not care.
Yes faceless friends online do matter. There have been a couple of times I have wished there was a way to private message people on here. :D
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I believe if a person does not like someone, they may be jealous of them. Someone could have a nice car, clothes, good job, etc... there is something that the other person is jealous of. I do believe that there is a reason for everything. I would like to know the reason why, but chances are people won't be honest and say why they dislike someone.
So just know that someone is jealous of you!
I hear that a lot. Nobody would be jealous of ME. :(
:bunny: :cat: :dog: Some people it does bother me. I wonder what I ever done to them, but being nice. I wait to see if they have a bad mood day, but some people just don't like me doesn't matter the mood or the day. :bunny: :cat: :dog:
I have noticed this person acts totally different in front of others. If she is alone and I speak to her she is more snarly. She is more friendly in front of a group of people. Like I said, I really do not care if she likes me or not. There are actually a couple of people. But it is like every where else. You have little groups. SO basically it is the "little group" .... What I think..... It has NOTHING to do with jealousy. I think "I" am not "good enough" for their group. I am too low class to associate with. HA!
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I have had people in the past tell me or tell someone they don't like me. No reason and it did not bother me because I have always had a lot of friends and I just hang with the ones that do like me.
I remember years ago I had just started working on a new job and I went up at lunch and was talking to a couple people and the one woman flat out told me "I don't like you. You have not done anything to me but I don't like you" Well b**tch go play in a free way somewhere. lol
Now that situation is more telling about the person who would say such a thing to your face when they hardly knew you. You have to wonder about a person like that. I would steer clear as much as possible but not give them much "head space.' However, on the other hand, I know that can be a bit difficult at first because most of us would try to decide what we did. I have learned not to let that bother me for long, but it has become possible since I have matured and got a better understanding of myself and others.
That was a long time ago. I just walked away. And I didn't go around them any more. I think I started going to my car on my lunch break.
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I have had some one that did not iike me and tried to get me in troube. The ended up losing their home. The Bible says "what you sew, you reap. Never try to get someone in trouble because it will come back to you. I have always treated other the way I want to be treated.
It does but I have to wonder when I see people being evil and doing whatever to get ahead and nothing bad ever happens to them.
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No not at all. I don't really care what people think,i don't live for others i live for my family.
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Nope, it doesn't bother me and I have been this way all my life. My family made sure I was tough but I try to treat everyone right.
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I always strive to be kind and caring to everyone I meet but sometimes people will still find fault with you, no matter what you do :\
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I try not to let it bother me, if you don't like me, it's not a problem, my life doesn't revolve around you liking or not liking me, i'm not going to stress myself out over it.
Agree, I have better things and more important things to do than worry about why they don't like to be around me. I just don't waste any time on them.
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no it does not because the only I really care about if they like me is God so AMEN and God bless