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Title: need your advice
Post by: Itileneai on May 30, 2021, 05:12:09 pm
My wife has become some kind of monster, because of her I do not want to return home, what should I do? I love her, but it is not possible to be in the same apartment with her, I want to escape. What should I do?
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: Nancy5 on May 30, 2021, 07:40:11 pm
What do you mean by monster?  I would get her to a doctor for a check up.  Personality changes could mean lots of things from a brain tumor, dementia to a simple vitamin deficiency
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: dreamyxo on May 30, 2021, 09:33:04 pm
Talk to her.  Is she going through problems (personal, work health).  There is a reason behind her behavior find out what it is.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: tantricia44 on May 31, 2021, 12:16:11 am
Please,Elaborate on what do you mean by she’s become a monster. I need more information so that I can help you better.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: oldbuddy on May 31, 2021, 01:06:57 pm
Whenever my wife becomes a monster, I just go in my computer room and shut the door.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: DEBMZ6 on May 31, 2021, 02:17:17 pm
Let her know that you are there for her when she is ready to talk.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: sipingyu on June 01, 2021, 06:17:40 am
Don't know the specifics so hard to give concrete advice. Just wish to share that after I gave birth to my son, I had postpartum depression but I didn't realize that in hindsight. With the pandemic, different people might struggle in different ways. I hope that she will seek help or talk to others that she trust or search for information online. Hope that both she and you will feel better.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: stevensm4 on June 01, 2021, 10:17:38 am
Whenever my wife becomes a monster, I just go in my computer room and shut the door.
Lol, I love this! But, for an answer, it sounds like she might need some therapy. Some kind of counseling from a psychologist or maybe a psychiatrist if some medication might be necessary and even then, its not a quick fix. It will take in indeterminate amount of time to deal with what problems she has if at all.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: oldbuddy on June 01, 2021, 11:16:26 am
Honestly, I don't believe she needs any help in that area and can't remember any time in 49 years she has been a monster more than a few minutes.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: Nancy5 on June 02, 2021, 08:40:12 am
Honestly, I don't believe she needs any help in that area and can't remember any time in 49 years she has been a monster more than a few minutes.


I think most of us have been ‘monsters’ occasionally.  I’m sure my husband will agree with that 😁lol
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: mrisha on June 02, 2021, 06:49:44 pm
It seems something has changed in your wife's life.  Try talking to her.  If that doesn't work, go to a therapist if she will agree.  Some one just doesn't turn into a monster (or your version of one).
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: Arappi on June 07, 2021, 08:28:12 am
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Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: ssarber on June 07, 2021, 06:10:34 pm
I think when asking advice, you would need to share more details of what you mean.

On the other hand, I really dont think asking advice from people on a survey site is probably the best idea. Perhaps try counseling, talking to your religious leader (if you have one)  or talking to her about your issues might help
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: potluck6 on June 07, 2021, 09:47:28 pm
Monster ok does it mean violent.  If so then stay away. Maybe bring her flowers  the monster might like them. Please keep us informed about what is happening.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: santa7 on June 09, 2021, 11:04:15 pm
Whenever my wife becomes a monster, I just go in my computer room and shut the door.

Does your wife read your fusioncash forum posts?  lol.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: oldbuddy on June 10, 2021, 05:57:36 am
Whenever my wife becomes a monster, I just go in my computer room and shut the door.

Does your wife read your fusioncash forum posts?  lol.
Never, so I have no worries. She would just laugh anyway.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: PGS28 on June 10, 2021, 08:16:00 am
This is great advice; people don't usually change so drastically so quickly without an underlying cause- whether that cause be medical or emotional.  I'd also recommend evaluating the poster's behavior to trace whether he is contributing to the change in her behavior and to also just talk to her in case there's something bothering her that she doesn't feel confident enough to intiate talking about without being provoked.

What do you mean by monster?  I would get her to a doctor for a check up.  Personality changes could mean lots of things from a brain tumor, dementia to a simple vitamin deficiency
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: PGS28 on June 10, 2021, 08:18:28 am
Excellent POV! We have to be empathetic and acknowledge that none of us have been perfect.

Honestly, I don't believe she needs any help in that area and can't remember any time in 49 years she has been a monster more than a few minutes.


I think most of us have been ‘monsters’ occasionally.  I’m sure my husband will agree with that 😁lol
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: alionlah on June 24, 2021, 12:48:14 pm
Hi and sorry for reviving the thread. Me and my wife had the exactly the same situation and we decided to live apart from each other for about 2 months. Now everything got to normal as it was a few years ago.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: Mizzkizz7 on June 24, 2021, 04:57:08 pm
My wife has become some kind of monster, because of her I do not want to return home, what should I do? I love her, but it is not possible to be in the same apartment with her, I want to escape. What should I do?





Wow..umm Is something wrong with her? Any medical problems, mental health issues? This has to be coming from somewhere
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: ktheodos on June 24, 2021, 05:28:51 pm
Please,Elaborate on what do you mean by she’s become a monster. I need more information so that I can help you better.

Agree...I'm sorry to hear about your situation but some more information would be helpful.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: Donnamarg323 on June 26, 2021, 08:29:43 pm
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm,well i figure the member made 3 posts in just under a month.

Maybe the monster ate them.
Title: Re: need your advice
Post by: emmywalker on July 01, 2021, 12:17:17 pm
Sorry for bumping the thread as I am just curious why you call her a monster as maybe there is a problem in you both? My wife a few years ago was behaving as well like a monster and I could not figure out what was the issue. I thought the problem was in me but everything I thought was wrong. My wife was taking pills called Accutane to get rid of acne and they were making her psychological disorders. I told her to stop taking them and bought her some cream from this website https://shopmaryann.com/ (https://shopmaryann.com/) . When she stopped taking Accutane she came back to normal and after using the cream I bought she started to see results.