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Title: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: Isaac28 on December 13, 2009, 12:41:44 am
Im sorry if this question offended anyone, I really want to know. :wave:
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: Gemz09 on December 14, 2009, 06:33:26 pm
Men mostly cheat first....i dont just base it in my experienced but base on what im seeing to other people around me...
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Post by: Kymberli0529 on December 14, 2009, 07:19:43 pm
I would say woman because men get comfortable and start treating their woman like a second key and take them for granted.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: Sohcahtoa on December 14, 2009, 07:45:55 pm
Most women think that men cheat more because men are assholes.

Most men think that women cheat more because women are bitches.

This thread is now over.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: Kymberli0529 on December 14, 2009, 07:53:03 pm
Most women think that men cheat more because men are assholes.

Most men think that women cheat more because women are bitches.

This thread is now over.

Disagree with your stereotypical view....
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: judyann1984 on December 14, 2009, 07:57:54 pm
Well I think that both men and women cheat. Its just that men get caught more because they dont think about covering their tracks or they just really dont care if they get caught. Men tend to get a bad rap when they cheat but most women are smart enough not to get caught so they dont hurt the one they are in a relationship with.
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Post by: sgluckadoo on December 14, 2009, 08:40:22 pm
definately men. but i dont think it matters who cheats more. anyone who has been cheated on knows how bad it sucks.
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Post by: mrisha on December 15, 2009, 07:18:51 am
Men and Women cheat equally.  One is no better than the other.  I know of a woman who cheated on her husband from day one and she did it for years.

With men some are stupid and just don't care if people know.

With women they are more conniving and a little more discreet.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: klutzycutie on December 15, 2009, 08:54:28 am
its ok

i know men cheat

ive had alot of guys who cheated

and there are plenty of stories that show men have cheated

nowadays theres alot of ppl who cheat

its like not alot of ppl can b

faithful
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: gesus on December 15, 2009, 03:02:29 pm
Were all equal neither one of us would do it if it were not of temptation and greed
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Post by: deekeepinitreal2009 on December 15, 2009, 06:33:10 pm
Cheating is nasty and wrong by which ever one that does it. I mean really why cheat on someone with everything that is going around out here these days. If you cant be with one woman or one man then dont commit to anyone and tell them the sorry lies that i love you and i would never do it because the majority of the time they are doing it.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: michealm1979 on February 02, 2010, 01:19:19 pm
Cheating is nasty and wrong by which ever one that does it. I mean really why cheat on someone with everything that is going around out here these days. If you cant be with one woman or one man then dont commit to anyone and tell them the sorry lies that i love you and i would never do it because the majority of the time they are doing it.

someone sounds like they got burned
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: playgurll on February 02, 2010, 01:30:11 pm
Well  for me i think that men cheat more because most men dnt like to be tied down to one girl, and i think that any kind of cheating is wrong weather the woman is cheating or the man is!
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Post by: tzs on February 03, 2010, 07:42:04 pm
Men are visual creatures, therefore they tend to get excited more about something they can't have, and nature takes over.....
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Post by: Azanne07 on February 03, 2010, 07:44:10 pm
My beliefs are that cheating by a man or woman is both morally wrong. you go against loyalty and honesty and how can someone trust you once you have broke those important ethics in the world.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: ipayitforward on February 10, 2010, 06:42:37 am
And yet your screen name is Playgurl??
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: angel379227 on February 10, 2010, 08:52:09 am
Only men or women I know that cheat (personally) are the ones who are dissatisfied with their love lives. We're all led by our carnal nature, after all. Some of us just suppress it better than others.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: atvgirl1 on February 10, 2010, 09:09:23 am
cheating is not okay if your unhappy get out and get on with your life
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Post by: MrsTBarber on February 10, 2010, 09:32:53 am
My ex husband cheated on me with his baby mama, a chick from Lubbock, and his boss; go figure, he's a dawg!   It's funny because once our divorce was final he married his baby mama and from what I'm told, he is cheating on her!  She knew he was a dawg from their previous relationship but that is who she wanted so she gets what she gets.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: klutzycutie on February 10, 2010, 12:31:31 pm
i hate cheaters

usually i can find out because sometimes they may act different

or now with the internet ppl can find out more easily

and just "internet stalk"

tho any cheater is worth nothing

they just want more than one person

and neer think about the 2 ppl that dnt know abotu the other
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: rob2114 on February 10, 2010, 01:21:58 pm
men cheat because its been viewed as 'manly' to have more than one women or even wife for that matter. women cheat because their man cant satisfy them either sexually, emotionally, or from what i see the most, financial.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: mattgonterman on February 10, 2010, 02:40:56 pm
cheating is wrong, if they find out about it.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: GoGoKokiGo on February 10, 2010, 02:42:12 pm
Won't do it and won't stand for it either.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: angel379227 on February 10, 2010, 07:08:02 pm
I would cheat on a lot of you.
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Post by: juggalette_495 on February 10, 2010, 08:26:38 pm
I do not think it is right at all. In fact, I think it is the lowest thing anyone could ever do in a relationship.  It is pathetic and there is no excuse.  If someone does not please you, then let them know it is over and risk hurting them for your happiness.  Even though it may hurt them, it is just right to let them know and the reason why that way they can have an understanding, rather than finding out and then being hurt and not knowing why.  Trust me I would rather know that the person is going to do someone else before i find out they cheat and then kill them  :bunny:


krazeeklownkim :icon_rr:
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: sands01 on February 11, 2010, 07:16:55 am
I think cheating is wrong. If you want someone else, tell the person you are with. It is gonna hurt more to find out you cheated than it is to just let someone go if you want someone else. Someone who gets cheated on a lot can have a hard time trusting that anyone won't cheat on them. It is a horrible blow to your self esteem. I have been cheated on but have never cheated. I don't want to put someone through that.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: lightningclix on February 11, 2010, 08:28:41 am
This makes me even happier to know that my husband goes to work and then directly home...I used to get upset that he never went anywhere or did anything without me, I felt smothered - too clingy for me, but like I said, now at least I know there's nothing going on!    ::)

Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: GoGoKokiGo on February 11, 2010, 02:02:10 pm
I would cheat on a lot of you.
Lol I know I said I wouldn't but I've been cheating on you this whole time.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: belleg1 on October 18, 2010, 06:07:02 am
Kym! I couldn't have said it better or more truthfully!! Hey Guys, better stop takin us for granted, because remember that great meal you ate last night? It WILL BE YOUR LAST from me unless you treat me like the only good thing that EVER came into your life!! And - we are.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: britandjp on October 18, 2010, 08:55:41 am
I think its equal. Both cheat. Its not the sex it depends on. Its the person and their beliefs.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: anguyen21 on October 18, 2010, 09:01:36 am
Just have an open relationship and don't commit to anyone.  Tell them upfront that you will be dating other people and if they're not ok with it then they don't have to be together.  Plain and simple.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: Longoria11 on October 18, 2010, 09:51:49 am
cheating is a BIG no no!!! i had 2 friends tell me they were cheating on their Significate other and it made me sooooo mad!!

was i wrong?  :dontknow: but i mean they asked for my opinion so they go it!! might not have been what they wanted but.. oh well!
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: mattymatt79 on October 18, 2010, 09:56:33 am
Cheating is horrible, it destroys trust and shouldn't be done.

Be honest in your relationship and if you don't enjoy it, then leave instead of risking happiness of both people
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Post by: BabyMamaBoutique on October 18, 2010, 11:04:13 am
It's hard, in general, to find someone you completely trust, and who doesn't mess that up.  Not just in romantic relationships, but in friendships as well. If you find someone like that consider yourself lucky and hold on tight.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: MYKRLuciano on October 18, 2010, 11:09:51 am
Well first of all this does not offen me. But I will tell you just because man get caught more often doesnt mean the cheat more. Actually I believe is equal with man and woman. And sometime people just cheat with out a reason. They dont value the relationship and when is too late they are sorry.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: celinesweets on October 24, 2010, 05:36:47 am
Most women think that men cheat more because men are assholes.

Most men think that women cheat more because women are bitches.

This thread is now over.

lol this is funny
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: Hurricanekiz on October 24, 2010, 07:01:44 am
I think its only because people havent grown to know what they really want and arent to sure if they want to be in their relationship.  Sometimes one person is more infatuated with the other. And the other is still searching but dont want to break a heart :dontknow:
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: trujillo33 on October 30, 2010, 05:21:34 pm
If they want to cheat they shouldnt be in a relationship in the first place. Both men and women cheat...I think most people stay in relationships because of their kids
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: Mojoshog on October 30, 2010, 05:58:04 pm
I've heard it can be healthy for a relationship. Not sure that's true but I guess every situation is different.
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Post by: Azanne07 on October 30, 2010, 07:56:38 pm
Cheating in relationships will not be tolerated in my house.
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Post by: sweetmermaid on November 03, 2010, 06:05:02 pm
I don't deal with cheaters
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Post by: syntheticbeauty on November 04, 2010, 04:01:39 am
Cheating is wrong I agree, but everyone has their reasons and everyone has their faults. No one is perfect.
 I have been cheated on numerous times
and I have cheated once  " not affair or sexual thing it was my heart belonging to someone else while i was with someone)
I considered that cheating because it was basically lying that my commitment was to one person, but wasn't.


I found this song called 9 crimes the lyrics pretty much state how i felt.

( here are the lyrics)

Leave me out with the waste, this is not what I do
It's the wrong kind of place to be thinking of you
It's the wrong time for somebody new
It's a small crime and I got no excuse
And is that all right, yeah?
I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right, yeah?
If you don't shoot it how am I supposed to hold it?
Is that all right, yeah?
I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right, yeah, with you?
Leave me out with the waste, this is not what I do
It's the wrong kind of place to be cheating on you
It's the wrong time she's pulling me through
It's a small crime and I got no excuse
And is that all right, yeah?
If I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right, yeah?
If you don't shoot it, how am I supposed to hold it?
Is that all right, yeah?
I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right?
Is that all right with you?
Is that all right, yeah?
If I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right, yeah?
If you don't shoot it, how am I supposed to hold it?
Is that all right, yeah?
I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right?
Is that all right with you?
And is that all right, yeah?
Is that all right?
Is that all right?
Is that all right with you?
No?


I am married for a while I was losing my faith in my husband.
He cheated on me while I was pregnant and there was this man who was a friend I spoke to and I fell for,
we both agreed it wasn't right to be together due to my marriage and we parted ways.
I fixed my marriage as well as I could and have been married for 4 1/2 years
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: celinesweets on November 04, 2010, 05:41:30 am
Cheating is not good, but i think the reason why people cheat is because the other partner stop doing the things he/she use to do  to make each other happy, and alway arguing. We want to talk and you listen at time and it goes both ways.
Title: Re: Cheating in relationships.
Post by: 2little on November 06, 2010, 06:58:31 pm
Well in my point of view most women cheat because they're looking for love and there spouse isn't giving it to them
and men cheat because they feel like they can get away with it because they like to try new things