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Title: feel so alone....?
Post by: Ada652 on December 26, 2009, 08:52:50 pm
What do you do when you feel so alone?
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Post by: anguyen21 on December 26, 2009, 10:03:26 pm
Find something to do.  It depends, I do a lot of stuff alone, but I don't feel lonely when I do them.  For me I sometimes feel lonely when I'm with other people.  If you're feeling alone don't be because you're never really, if you're feeling lonely do something to keep yourself busy, maybe a part-time job or a place you can volunteer at to meet people that will make you feel like your making a difference in someone else's life as well as your own.
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Post by: dougmattson on December 26, 2009, 10:16:11 pm
Yes Alot But I try my best to deal with it. Force myself to get out even if it's just to the corner store,that volunteer idea is something I have been thinking about doing plus it is probably rewarding and that's going to make you feel good. I would check into it also. The hospital are always looking for volunteers. If you don't have a pet maybe consider getting one. Come here to talk online take surveys not only here different places but this is the best I have found so far. And their are other things you can do to feel not so alone, But sometimes no matter what you do to feel not alone you get that feeling aways. take care :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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Post by: walksalone11 on December 27, 2009, 07:31:33 am
Man what I wouldn't do to feel alone..... :(
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Post by: pammcco on December 27, 2009, 08:08:27 am
I've been alone most of my life.  Doesnt bother me.  Even when I was married, I was alone....
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Post by: rogery on December 27, 2009, 08:59:12 am
Do you feel alone because you don't feel included or don't "fit in" ? Or are you lonely because there is no one to interact with ? If the first, volunteering is great. So many people need you. Even a pet can help. A dog or cat will always need you and want attention. If you are lonely because there truly is no one around, try the many social networks online, facebook etc. or get out of the house if you can. Take a class or pick up a new hobby.

Finally, if it's holiday blues, it will pass. Spring is just around the corner.
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Post by: sadie524 on December 27, 2009, 09:57:44 am
I think the holidays are really awful for people that are alone. I don't have that problem (thankfully) but I would think that trying to surround yourself with people you care about and trying to keep yourself busy would help.
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Post by: trujillo33 on December 27, 2009, 10:57:33 am
i like to listen to music and i write a poem
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Post by: candyterrius on December 27, 2009, 11:24:19 am
I can always entertain myself by reading books, researching online, listening to music, etc. when I am alone. I used to draw when I was bored, but not anymore. I just got too lazy to sketch anything. I never feel alone-alone. ;D Being alone is actually a relaxing feeling for me without the everyday chaos.  :)
I see that you have started a couple of interesting topics. What do you actually do when you feel alone?  ;)
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Post by: Kymberli0529 on December 27, 2009, 12:24:16 pm
Man what I wouldn't do to feel alone..... :(

HA I completely agree on some days.
To feel blissfully alone with nobody to worry about but yourself.
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Post by: digiagent02 on December 27, 2009, 02:12:16 pm
I'm always alone. Well, until my roommate returns from Nebraska. Most All of my other friends are in other states or countries, so I spend most of my time on IRC or other chat rooms. Basically, I'm just your typical nerd with no real social life. :awesome:

But seriously, what do I do? I listen to music, write, work on some of my projects...I am going to try and get out more often, though. Probably when I get a job again, and maybe start school.
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Post by: resebel on December 27, 2009, 02:14:30 pm
sometimes, sometimes not,,
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Post by: cowgirlx on December 27, 2009, 03:09:15 pm
Not that I can think of.  I stay home and have 6 kids from 11 to 3 so alone really isn't an option right now. Hope to feel it someday, but not holding my breath. 
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Post by: mcrap85 on December 27, 2009, 03:58:56 pm
WHEN IM ALONE...I WATCH T.V...WHEN IM BORED AND ALONE...I WATCH T.V N EAT....WHEN IM ALONE BORED, AND DEPRESSED I WATCH T.V. EAT, AND CRY...LOL.
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Post by: jnjmolly on December 28, 2009, 12:22:23 am
I would go for a walk...I also would get a pet!!  :)
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Post by: khernon13 on December 28, 2009, 12:32:45 am
when you feel alone... pull out the blackbook and call up some girls!!!! =] :icon_rr:
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Post by: tdehne on December 28, 2009, 01:32:39 am
 :BangHead: I am 37 years old and disabled due to Psoriatic Spondylitis.  I've lost a lot of mobility.  I usually get around with my cane, but have gradually needed to use my wheelchair more and more.  I live in North Dakota.  It's very cold, windy and snowy during the winter so I feel stuck at home.  When my husband leaves for work and my kids leave for school,  I always  feel a little envious of them...and i feel very alone. 

But I found websites like Fusion Cash that allow me to concentrate on stuff instead of my progressing autoimmune disease which is now attacking other systems which means the list of my diagnoses is piling up again and causing me to go out less and less.  I miss interacting with live people.....
 :confused1:
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Post by: ancmetro on December 28, 2009, 03:17:08 am
 :) Keep busy! Learn how to live alone. Find arts and crafts, read a book or a magazine anything to keep your hands, mind and body busy...keep going.
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Post by: acurtsinger2 on December 28, 2009, 06:27:44 am
I always find something to do, so I rarely feel lonely.  I have a dog and cat that keep me co mpany.
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Post by: Kynoysald on December 28, 2009, 07:58:01 am
when i feel alone i try to play video games just get my mind of the feeling, usually works for me
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Post by: smylyfayce on December 28, 2009, 08:19:58 am
When I feel alone, I listen to songs that are uplifting, and I try to focus on the positive side of things. I find a way to make myself believe and feel that I am never alone. There is always someone greater than any human being walking the earth that is with me as long as I believe in his spirit existence.
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Post by: Isaac28 on December 29, 2009, 12:51:32 am
i just listen to music untill a girl calls   =)