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Title: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: sommap on February 06, 2011, 10:17:44 am

I tend to be more comfortable being a leader.  For some reason, when I am in a group, I tend to be picked to be the spokesperson.  I am okay doing that.  In a couple of instances, I was picked even though I had not said anything.  In work situations, I would tend to lead my group.

However, in fashion or technical situations, I am definitely a follower.  To me, fashion is comfort.  Technical, I yell for help. 

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: dreamyxo on February 06, 2011, 10:44:52 am

Depends on the situation but more often than not I'd say I'm more of a follower.  I a private person and I don't usually like to be in the spotlight.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: luvh8tragedy87 on February 06, 2011, 07:05:51 pm

Depends on the situation for me too. I'm usually a follower. I'm ok with being behind the scenes. I'm more comfortable that way.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: kapeh12 on February 06, 2011, 07:17:59 pm

I guess you can say I'm a reluctant leader.  I'm more comfortable as a follower, but often end up being pushed into the leader position.  I have no problems leading, it's just I'm naturally shy, so putting on a strong personality front one expects in a leader is more of a challenge.  I definitely know how to motivate people - individually and groups - and am highly organized - and a visionary - which all helps getting projects moving.  If I have my way, I'd be more comfortable as adviser to the leader (be the person "behind the curtain").

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: doctorike on February 06, 2011, 07:48:52 pm

Quote from: sommap on February 06, 2011, 10:17:44 am

I tend to be more comfortable being a leader.  For some reason, when I am in a group, I tend to be picked to be the spokesperson.  I am okay doing that.  In a couple of instances, I was picked even though I had not said anything.  In work situations, I would tend to lead my group.

However, in fashion or technical situations, I am definitely a follower.  To me, fashion is comfort.  Technical, I yell for help. 

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: healthfreedom on February 06, 2011, 07:51:27 pm

I'm definitely a leader. The leadership qualities were evident in my life even when I was in elementary school. I noticed my class mates often followed me, or waited to hear what I had to say before voicing their own opinions.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: doctorike on February 06, 2011, 08:12:48 pm

Quote from: sommap on February 06, 2011, 10:17:44 am

I tend to be more comfortable being a leader.  For some reason, when I am in a group, I tend to be picked to be the spokesperson.  I am okay doing that.  In a couple of instances, I was picked even though I had not said anything.  In work situations, I would tend to lead my group.

However, in fashion or technical situations, I am definitely a follower.  To me, fashion is comfort.  Technical, I yell for help. 

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: bretay on February 06, 2011, 08:31:30 pm

A leader.I want to be the one in charge.I have tried to be a follower.but it doesnt work.Some things you are just naturally.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: dodgers16 on February 06, 2011, 11:35:27 pm

 this is a good question! I would like to think that I am a leader, but in the end I am probably just a follower  :dontknow:

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: masked_brown_guy on February 06, 2011, 11:50:38 pm

i am an independent entity. I dabble in both categories.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: marciaenglish on February 07, 2011, 01:38:10 am

I'm a leader with no followers!! ::)

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: maggieyoung000 on February 07, 2011, 02:39:52 am

I think I am both   :dontknow:  It really depends on the situation... 

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: madeara on February 07, 2011, 06:17:59 am

I am a private person.  However, I am comfortable being both a leader and a follower.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: doctorike on February 08, 2011, 06:53:06 am

 :icon_rr: I am a leader, however, I believe that every true leader has been a true follower.  My perspective, since I am a man, is that we need more real leaders especially more men.  More men to take the leadership role in the home, church, community, and in our society.  The women are moving ahead of us due to a lack of real men willing to step up to the plate.  It is imperative that I continue to move forward in some leadership capacity to encourage others to do the same.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: slowg8 on February 08, 2011, 07:45:35 am

i am a leader.  i always have been.  i'm most happy & content when i am in control & not having to answer to anyone else.  i know that's hard to admit for some people, but it's quite often the truth.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: articx on February 08, 2011, 11:55:57 am

I can be a leader if needed, but I prefer to be one of the followers.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: sweatytree on February 08, 2011, 01:54:45 pm

I am a leader.  The way I know is all I have to do is turn around and see all the people following me. 

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: crazym123 on February 08, 2011, 02:27:51 pm

Quote from: articx on February 08, 2011, 11:55:57 am

I can be a leader if needed, but I prefer to be one of the followers.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: lightningclix on February 08, 2011, 02:33:11 pm

I am a leader - but I am not afraid to follow.  8)

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: Triggers on February 08, 2011, 07:31:24 pm

Depends on what the subject is and who Im working with, I am more of a follower :)

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: gretalarson on February 08, 2011, 07:39:58 pm

i never considered myself one until i went to leadership camps in college. now im really comfortable being a leader.  8)

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: tanginess on February 08, 2011, 08:55:07 pm

I'm most comfortable being a follower, but if necessary I can lead as well.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: tzs on February 08, 2011, 10:33:48 pm

I am a Divide and Conqueror!!!!!! Ban-kai!!!!! :bootyshake:

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: Debj1951 on February 09, 2011, 02:59:13 am

I feel I am a friendly non judgemental leader when the need arises. I live in a senior/disabled High Rise & prior to my brother moving in the same building & needing my help I was on the council board. I was very pleased & shocked at the respect I was shown. Now, I have had to resign my position, but remain an active "go along" I don't follow what I don't agree with, but work with anyone on what needs done as long as it is something I believe in.   

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: s_harrison on February 09, 2011, 06:56:25 am

I'm a leader but i was raised that way. Have all high ranking military family...being a follower was never an option  :icon_rr:

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: diala84 on February 09, 2011, 08:22:41 am

I'm a follower with any group I feel uncomfortable. I will take initiative on my own and often work alone in order to get a project done faster and better than the group but if a group is necessary I tend to follow.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: dreamongirl on February 09, 2011, 08:26:33 am

I consider myself to be both depending on the situation

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: 2getherwewin on February 09, 2011, 09:05:14 am

It is according to the situation but I am usually pick to be the leader. I can be a great follower too and thats according to the situation at hand because if you have a great leader and great followers you can accomplish anything. Two working together for one purpose. 

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: tech2d on February 09, 2011, 10:05:00 am

I am neither. I walk my own path.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: aimathome on February 09, 2011, 10:53:08 am

I like to think I am a leader.  I'm sure I may follow sometimes, but I do stand my ground, if it is something I do not want to do or something I believe is not right to do.  If they don't like me, then tough.  I know I won't please everyone.  I can only please myself and those who truly care about me and love me unconditionally.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: candyterrius on February 11, 2011, 01:17:01 pm

I am comfortable to start as a follower before becoming a leader.  If I can choose, I’d rather be a follower because leaders bear greater responsibilities on their shoulders. I would hate to lead others if I don’t know what I’m doing.   

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: white_swan on February 11, 2011, 02:18:56 pm

Definitely depends on the situation. But more often I'm a Leader.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: mgarmstrong on February 14, 2011, 05:43:29 pm

I don't think I am a leader or a follower.  I just tend to do my own think and what makes me happy. ;D

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: angsilva2000 on February 14, 2011, 06:31:51 pm

I'am a leader

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: Shutmeup3030150 on February 15, 2011, 08:18:38 pm

I've never been a leader, always more of a follower.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: lynnc35 on February 16, 2011, 12:09:22 am

I should follow God, but be a leader among men

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: investyourtimehere on February 16, 2011, 06:15:27 am

I am definitely a leader.  I have the ability to guide the group towards achieving its goal.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: alivinggem on February 16, 2011, 06:53:19 am

I am both. Whether we know it our not all of us are leaders but you can't be a good leader woithout first being a good follower.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: mtmailey on November 08, 2011, 08:18:53 pm

i would say neither because i  have a mind of my own also people will follow those that are like them such those who are silly.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: 35klye on November 08, 2011, 09:14:12 pm

it depends on what im doing, im kind of half and half

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: springsgardner on November 08, 2011, 09:34:26 pm

I am both. I am a cub scout leader and the nursery leader for our home school co-op. I am a follower when it comes to many other things. For instance, I rarely call the party, but I'll go. I don't decide on the activities for social functions, I wait until someone else does.

Title: Re: Are you a leader or a follower?
Post by: Graeth on November 08, 2011, 09:40:58 pm

I'm a mid level manager.
I can lead people, but prefer to have someone to watch my back and take the heavy decisions out of my hand.
I'll still do it if the needs arise. Its a 'lead or get out of my way' type of mindset.
Of course its a balance of still being courteous to idiots.