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Title: Life is hard
Post by: marieelissa on April 11, 2011, 07:04:19 pm
Life is really, really hard and I don't have the strength to keep it up anymore. What do I do?
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: tzs on April 11, 2011, 11:14:13 pm
Where is this "God" that you talk about believing in so strongly, your post doesnt make any sense at all...... :dontknow: :dontknow:
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: marciaenglish on April 12, 2011, 01:08:17 am
If you think LIFE is hard;  consider the alternative!! ::)
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: denaPC2011 on April 12, 2011, 12:43:10 pm
u may think life is hard but things could be worse...what couldbe that bad in ur life anyways....
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: JuletLindo on April 13, 2011, 10:41:09 pm
Where is this "God" that you talk about believing in so strongly, your post doesnt make any sense at all...... :dontknow: :dontknow:


Sometimes life gets hard for me too, and I'm a Christian. It happens to everyone. That's how the cookie crumbles.

But it IS confusing to ask 'what do I do?' if you ARE a believer. That's a benefit of being a child of God! I hope you know to seek him in your roughest time - that seems to be when we're at our best. Sounds weird, but it's easy to sail through life when everything is working just fine. But when the chips are down and things aren't connecting as we thought they should, our reaction separates us from most others. How we deal with the pressure is imperative.

Remember, this is a two-way relationship. You don't have to deal with anything by yourself. Getting to know Christ better in this situation will help. (Or, in my case, complaining and praying for answers usually works. And it never works out the way I thought it would. When things come together..I'm usually at a lost for words. It's a weird and awesome feeling that you just have to experience to understand. Again, the two-way relationship thing!)

My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest. (Exodus 33:14)
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: angie828 on April 14, 2011, 08:42:11 am
Talk to a friend and do not give up.  YOur life is worth living and you need to know that.  PLease get some help.  I urge you to do this.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: Tresbn00 on April 14, 2011, 09:11:49 am
Change your ways, change up your routine, escape to something completely different than what you are currently doing, take a class (dance, welding, art...whatever), go to church...in general carpe diem!  It can't be constantly bad so enjoy the good when it enters your life.  I think that bad enters our life so that we change and learn to really appreciate and embrace the good!
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: 2getherwewin on April 14, 2011, 12:00:55 pm
Life is not hard. Life is what you make it.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: angsilva2000 on April 14, 2011, 12:23:35 pm
sorry to hear that, life has been very hard me too,i pray that i can finally catch a break an somethin good  happen for that i have been wanting and waiting for. we need to stay touch
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: Flackle on April 14, 2011, 12:37:06 pm
Life can sometimes be hard. If you need to escape society you can always get some gear and escape and survive on the wilderness.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: monnee on April 14, 2011, 01:46:08 pm
Get some help.  Talk to a shrink.  Don't give up.  Life is a challenge.   :peace:
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: cubarican210 on April 14, 2011, 02:48:21 pm
I hope you're not just learning that life is hard because everyone knows that. Just kidding. Yes life is hard but I put faith in myself and God that I'll get through anything that life throws at me.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: raven1114 on April 14, 2011, 05:32:27 pm
Life is really, really hard and I don't have the strength to keep it up anymore. What do I do?

first acknowledge that yes sometimes life flat out sucks and anyone who claims different is full of it. then take a moment to feel sorry for yourself, cry, scream, stomp your feet, throw something what ever you need to do to get it out. then do something about it. if you're depressed get counseling, if you're bored, seek a hobby, get a job, change jobs. if you're religious talk to your clergy. point is don't just complain that life is hard, do something about it.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: dsawan on April 14, 2011, 06:22:12 pm
Life is difficult bhut you have to have the soldier mentality to overcome it. think of it as a fight to the death on the eastern front in Russia WW2. You have to battle for survival.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: Mojoshog on April 14, 2011, 06:32:45 pm
Yeah, keep up the good fight. Appreciate the simple things. Count your blessings.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: sdenimandlace1 on April 14, 2011, 06:54:12 pm
Life is hard, you just have too keep picking yourself up an going on, Life ia about struggle and winning. The struggle is temporary and then things get better.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: ancmetro on April 14, 2011, 07:13:42 pm
    Life is hard! I agree with you! But "Life is good!" Keep trying. Take good care of yourself. You will see the good changes in your life.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: bud1 on April 14, 2011, 07:22:50 pm
Life is what you make of it.  When you start felling sorry for yourself, remember that there is someone out there who has it worse than you. We need to help people when they need
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: Theladyjoker1817 on April 14, 2011, 07:50:09 pm
I think life is teaching you how to live it and to see what your going to do with it if you make it hard it fgoing to be that way  :-
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: Theladyjoker1817 on April 14, 2011, 07:50:34 pm
I think life is teaching you how to live it and to see what your going to do with it if you make it hard it fgoing to be that way  :-
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: lgemini on April 15, 2011, 06:10:52 am
Nobody said it was easy.  Stop looking at the big picture.  You have to take life day by day. If you try to do good a little everyday, you will have something to live for.  I feel if I can help one person it will make me feel better. Try it! :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: texaswhiterose on April 15, 2011, 06:41:32 am
Life is never as hard as we are thinking it is when we are going through a bad time. And you are never as alone as you think you are. Even if you don't have a family near by or no family anywhere at all you still always have God to talk to and he will answer you. Maybe not the way you wish him to but in his own time and way. Just keep your mind and heart open and things will get better. Take care and God bless. (P.S. This is exactly how I was feeling last night so look for my posting on here in a bit)
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: candyterrius on April 17, 2011, 12:44:02 pm
Everyone knows life is difficult. Whatever hardships you undergo, there is a saying “What doesn’t kill you makes you strong.” Everyone’s life path is different. We go through certain conditions (good and bad) that are relevant to make us grow as human beings. Earth is a tough school. We are lucky enough to be born as a human being to learn and develop ourselves to a higher level. If you fail, forgive yourself and do better the next time. I frequently fall out of grace. I refuse to give up trying to improve myself. Every failure is a working progress for me. :) Self pity and negative thinking does nothing but stunt your growth. When the going gets tough, suicide is NOT an option that will get you closer to Heaven.  :peace: :heart:   
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: lbeery on April 17, 2011, 02:57:44 pm
Life is hard, but always remember to take it a little at a time.  Each good choice leads to a better place even if it doesn't seem like it.  Also, sometimes of life are harder than others because we may be broke or sick or have lost someone we love but the wonderful thing about life is that it does change and it always moves on.  You will only be lost if you stop trying.  Remember, if you are driving through hell, don't stop.

Hang in their baby it is really a very short ride.

Quote from my refrigerator:

Things turn out best for people who make the best of the way things turn out.....  Art Linkletter
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: mommagoes on April 17, 2011, 04:12:36 pm
Life is not hard. Life is what you make it.
i totally agree! my life has been full of trials and tribulations, many obstacles that could very well have forced me off the path i was on, making my life "hard." but i refuse to be derailed. i know what i want from my life, what i want to have and experience and i do my best to make it happen. and when something "hard" steps in front of me i pick my head up and i face it because there is nothing i can't handle. i have my family and my faith and that is all i need
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: bobbijofleming on April 18, 2011, 07:05:28 pm
Life will always be hard and it wont stops. Just think of it as what ever your going through is going to help you in the future. For some reason your chosen to be used for something good and the devil knows that and hes gonna do whatever he can to disincourage you. You just gotta hang in there and know that for some reason Gods trying to use you. The devil wont attack someone that isnt going to be doing something great. So, stay strong, it would probably help to have a friend to help you.
Title: Re: Life is hard
Post by: tzs on April 18, 2011, 10:58:35 pm
...Always remember this marieelisa-someone somewhere else has it worse than you do.......