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Title: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: angelawarhol on December 14, 2011, 05:02:05 am

 
                    So we all deal with matters differently right, how do you deal with rejection or being dismissed from a group or project?  :notworthy:

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: oldbuddy on December 14, 2011, 08:37:42 am

I reject it from influencing my attitude.

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: kqa on December 14, 2011, 08:43:21 am

Being truthful here, I usually get revenge in a harmless way.  Not a good thing, but it can be fun.

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: scollontrade on December 17, 2011, 03:36:16 am

I realize that I am not going to fit in everywhere and with everyone. As long as I am secure in my own convictions I just move on to other projects. :)

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: fogarty815 on December 17, 2011, 05:22:50 am

I just figure if I didn't fit in it wasn't the right place for me. There are better places that will accept me.  :cat:

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: angsilva2000 on December 17, 2011, 10:33:47 am

I try to keep busy that s how I deal .

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: monnee on December 17, 2011, 11:43:30 am

Stay  8)  and calm.  Life goes on.

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: squirrelgirl44 on December 17, 2011, 12:09:08 pm

Obviously not crazy about it, but it's not that big of a deal.

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: articx on December 17, 2011, 07:27:37 pm

It isn't a big deal to get rejected. To get dismissed from a group project would be a good thing not all of the time, maybe, but most of the time, yes. It means I don't have to do any work.

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: melinder on December 17, 2011, 10:46:57 pm

Move on and find something else

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: twol on December 18, 2011, 01:42:48 am

Focus on what's ahead, and keep busy busy busy

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: dwiley11 on December 18, 2011, 09:04:20 am

it depends on what I get rejected for

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: brendy1990 on December 18, 2011, 10:03:27 am

i now this is not right but i can turn it all around in my head why they are not the ones who fit in with me so i basically can turn the tables on things and be ok with it.. :wave:

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: lrodriguez4 on December 18, 2011, 10:36:28 am

I get alittle upset but as they say life goes on. just go on as I always do.

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: girlswin2 on December 18, 2011, 11:47:14 am

Well even though it might hurt to be rejected for some reason or another I just don't put much into the situation surrounding it. Seeing how most that are within that group are usually shallow and don't have a clue to reality I just say to myself its okay and go on with what I need to do.  Don't give into the whole being mad b/c it doesn't do any good but to see them smerk and talk about how its effecting you.  If you show it sdoesn't bother you, it takes away there power of the situation and they don't get that gradification they want so in the end you win.  Just be a bigger person hold head up and keep going.   :thumbsup: :wave:

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: sommap on December 18, 2011, 11:59:34 am

I just chalk it up and move on. 

Title: Re: How do you deal with rejection??
Post by: mall0271 on December 19, 2011, 10:50:41 am

I try to keep calm. Find a positive to the situation. If that doesn't work, there is always chocolate! lol!! :thumbsup: