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Title: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: aggie49 on May 04, 2012, 01:19:34 pm
it has been a ruff day can not understand why my loved ones are dying at early age first my mom now my sister beena up all night crying so i will go on but just like to know why but i guess i will never know
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: natashaspy on May 04, 2012, 02:04:48 pm
there's no way to understand why anyone passes.  i'm so sorry for your losses, just know that they are in a better place and will always be with you as long as you keep them in your heart and mind.
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: potluck6 on May 04, 2012, 02:46:01 pm
sorry to hear you troubles but crying is all you can do right now. i remember my cousin died of breast cancer when she was 37 how can that be so young. right now take all the time you need  talk to friends or family members that may help
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: falcon9 on May 04, 2012, 02:51:36 pm
it has been a ruff day can not understand why my loved ones are dying at early age first my mom now my sister beena up all night crying so i will go on but just like to know why but i guess i will never know

Everything that lives eventually dies.  Whether that event occurs early or later in the cycle of life, it remains an inflexible truth no matter how disheartening.
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: gamerpeeps on May 04, 2012, 08:39:53 pm
it has been a ruff day can not understand why my loved ones are dying at early age first my mom now my sister beena up all night crying so i will go on but just like to know why but i guess i will never know
My sympathy for your losses. Sometimes a "why" can't be answered but the question is part of the grieving process. I hope you can find some comfort soon.

Everything that lives eventually dies.  Whether that event occurs early or later in the cycle of life, it remains an inflexible truth no matter how disheartening.
Very true, my dear falcon9. My tears do flow tonight as well. Today is also the anniversary of my son's passing at the age of 17.
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: lbryanwf on May 04, 2012, 08:49:18 pm
My condolences for your loss. Sometimes you can't explain or know why things happen. My thoughts and prayers are with you. :crybaby2:
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: Shavontae on May 04, 2012, 09:19:08 pm
It will be o. Just rememb er that they are gone to a better place and they will always be with you! :wave:
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Post by: mzzsarah12 on May 04, 2012, 09:24:05 pm
My condolences to you, that Is a very hard thing for you or anybody to go thru.
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: falcon9 on May 04, 2012, 11:19:46 pm
Everything that lives eventually dies.  Whether that event occurs early or later in the cycle of life, it remains an inflexible truth no matter how disheartening.

Very true, my dear falcon9. My tears do flow tonight as well. Today is also the anniversary of my son's passing at the age of 17.

This is a hard truth; one that some cannot bear to face.  I've faced it in combat and civilian life and I'm not saying it's an easy thing by any means.  It's merely how the cycle works, like it or not.
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: ajami on May 05, 2012, 04:57:53 am
My heart goes out to you and your family.  I am very sorry for your loss and I know exactly how you feel right as i have lost 3 kids at young age of 8,6 and 5. As time goes by things will get better and you will heal from this.  Keep them in your heart and thoughts and never forget them. 
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Post by: samrhett2 on May 05, 2012, 05:11:40 am
I am sorry for your loss.  Although I have never lost anyone close to me, this type of thing has been on my mind a lot lately.  I keep hearing about people dying young it seems at an alarming rate lately.

I honestly don't know how some people find the strength to pull themselves together and go on after some of the losses they have to endure, but the strength of some people is truly amazing.
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: pkrahmer on May 05, 2012, 05:22:36 am
it has been a ruff day can not understand why my loved ones are dying at early age first my mom now my sister beena up all night crying so i will go on but just like to know why but i guess i will never know

most of the time we can never really understand why our loved ones are taken away from us. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I pray that you will be able to find peace and eventually be able to celebrate your loved ones lives.
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Post by: Irmarie on May 05, 2012, 09:12:02 am
My Condolences
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Post by: foxylady81 on May 05, 2012, 01:35:19 pm
i am so sorry for your loss and i am with u on that i have lost so many these last 3 years 3 kids and 2 of my best friends but just think of it this way god know who u are and know that u are sad but they are not in any more pain and they are happy. i am more jeoles of them then they are of me because i wish my day would come i didnt have to live in this evil world. i hope all gose well for u and that u will be ok i will pray for u and your family. :heart:
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Post by: pattersondebra on May 05, 2012, 01:39:29 pm
I am so sorry for your loss, when my brother passed away I didnt think I would ever feel normal again.
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Post by: SherylsShado on May 05, 2012, 03:00:49 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss.  Life deals some hard blows sometimes and when it's the loss of a family member, life just never is quite the same after that.  My deepest sympathies.  :heart:
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Post by: ptfunds on May 05, 2012, 05:03:31 pm
I am so sorry to hear about your losses.  Even with the little you said it is clear you are going through a really rough time and are feeling very sad.  Grief is a hard process and it takes time to get through it.  The non-stop tears and overwhelming sadness in your heart will pass and you will feel better.  I hope you have a good support system and are able to allow people to comfort you through this hard time. 
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: Lindaroof on May 05, 2012, 05:32:22 pm
Losing those that we love and have been with our entire lives is one of the hardest things we will ever have to endure, I lost a Grandmother, my mother, and a brother who was only 40 when he passed, all in a 3 month period, and then I lost my father and another brother, the sadness of losing them has left a hole in my heart knowing that I can't pick up the phone and hear their voices anymore. But I do still "talk" to them, they will Live forever in my heart, it took me a lot of years to reach the peace of losing them, but as I said they will live forever thru my love for them. God Bless you.  :heart:
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: robin1128 on May 05, 2012, 06:10:50 pm
so sorry to hear that but maybe the good Lord needs them for a reason.
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: falcon9 on May 05, 2012, 06:14:50 pm
so sorry to hear that but maybe the good Lord needs them for a reason.

Unless there's neither.
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: aryeetey_parsley on May 05, 2012, 08:08:35 pm
Just as a man shall live they shall also die!! There is a time and a place for everything... We don't always understand why these things happen, but that is all a part of understanding the things that we cannot change.. It is the circle of life! We all must live and we all must die... Some go sooner than others... I lost a brother a few years ago. I clong to those precious memories that we have made together and knowing that he is always right there with me in spirit!
Title: Re: so numb and can not cry no more
Post by: southernhorizons on May 05, 2012, 08:58:12 pm
if they didn't go to a hell and are just resting in peace... then id be happy for them
because if thats the case then they won't have to suffer ever again
and i don't think it gets any better than that
of course theres no way to know that but i don't feel anyone deserves to go to hell

I can think of some people that deserve to go to hell! Terrorists and traitors, for example.