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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Debate & Discuss => Topic started by: AreletiaG on April 30, 2013, 05:11:01 pm
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don't help that person because they want something for nothing
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They have never heard of a lease.
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That person is really unstable.
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Or it may seem that they are on the run from something.
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One would have to ask WHY??? Are they running away from something or someone? Do they need help? Our first reaction is negative, but we don't know the whole story ???
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They could be on the run from law enforcement, creditors etc. They may also be so financially (or otherwise) unstable that they aren't paying their rent and getting evicted from places. This is why it hurts your credit when you move around constantly.
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Why are they moving so often? I know people that do move very frequently for work so it's not always a reason not to trust someone
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Seems unstable. I know someone who moves a lot but not that often.
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Sounds like it would depend on the situation. To not help a friend on the principle of frequency alone would be wrong.
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Having worked for someone that had some apartment buildings, you would havea person or family pay their deposit and then not pay any rent for 3-4 months and have to evict them. It is a way of life for some.
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A person like that wants to live at your house, eat your food, and do what they want. They get mad when you tell them it is time to go. I have a cousin who stayed with me, moved her boyfriend in, and I discovered later that she owed loan sharks money and they turned up on my door looking for her. My husband at the time told her she had to go. I told her boyfriend he had to go. My husband felt she was freeloading. I later loaned her $50 and haven't gotten it yet. :dontknow: :dontknow: :dontknow:
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Wow, I would really hate to be that person. That is a lot of moving.
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They are probably not the kind of tenant you would want. Its really sad to have to live that way especially if you have kids.
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That person needs some serious living couching
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If a person moves every three months then there is a serious problem there. People need stability. Moving is unavoidable but that is ridiculous. I only moved once in my life and that was when I was 18. Moving is hard and stressful. I couldn't imagine what that would be like every three months. And I'm not sure what you meant by not helping them out...
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It sounds like they might be in a bad situation and unable to pay the bills. This could be their own doing ( drug addict, gambling problem, etc.. ) or poor circumstances (being laid off from work, not getting child support payments, being injured and unable to work, etc.. ) It is up to you if you want to try to help or just let them keep doing the same thing over again.
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Or they are doing a cross country tour in an RV!! :) Do that myself once every couple of years!
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not knowing the person i cannot judge. there may be a lot of different reasons for this but until you have lived in there situations you will never truely know there motivation to move around every three months.
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You need to tell us more of the story, why does this person move every three months... there could be a perfectly good reason... seasonal workers comes to mind...
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Sounds like they are running from their self.