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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Debate & Discuss => Topic started by: hensleyll on March 27, 2014, 07:10:40 pm
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so my oldest daughter got 6 years so far,4 more charges dont know when she will get out,father is taking her sons9,10 and we cant stop them but are supposed to make them ok with it how? he is taking them away from everything they know,its just not right
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Maybe he will keep the other two out of jail
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I`m not sure if that is a insult but the reason my daughter got in trouble was the father before he left her
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he used to be a drug dealer and i dont believe just because he switched counties and girls that changed but i could be wrong i suppose
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Lets hope he will keep the other two out of jail.
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yes we will hope
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It hard subject I went though it and my son had take his daughter when his girlfriend went jail it the only thing kids know to need there other parent and family I understand it very hard.
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so the father is taking them but they mommy is going to have another one i have to take as soon as she gives birth
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Wow. What a bitter pill to swallow. Those are the prices you pay for not thinking straight. I hope you will have some dealings in their lives. She got in trouble because of him? That shows you that he won't stand up and do the right thing, which would be sacrificing her so she can take care of the kids. I know it is not fair, but hopefully she will get past it. ??? ??? ??? :bad: :bad:
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My heart goes out to you. If this man is a bad person, why not fight for your grandchildren. The law protects children in a bad environment. Best wishes to you and your daughter in this sensitive situation and I hope all will goes well in your favor. Peace be with you.
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Don't know all the details but I certainly can't see any way he would not b granted custody, he IS a parent, and to only of the two NOT incarcerated. There is probably a lot more problems that have gone on in the past that led to this situation, but that is an entirely different topic.
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At 9 and 10 years old those two will understand more than anyone will give them credit for. When it comes to parenting my 3 I tried to have an open relationship with there fathers parents while he was incarcerated so they could continue visiting with them during his legal visitation time. I needed the break. The kids needed there grandparents. And the Grandparents needed there Grandchildren. Since then the kids have grown to teens and they would rather be with friends than traveling all weekend to visit Grandparents but once a year (If that anymore) Hopefully the kids father will keep an open mind. Keep an open dialogue with you for the sake of what the kids know. I'll keep you and your Grand babies in my prayers.
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thank you im still praying he will let us have visitation guess only time will tell
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this is a tough situation but i hope the children don't suffer the most because of it
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It is my mom and my intention that they dont sufferbwhich is why we are afraid to fight him in court if we all lose boys will be put in foster care and the father doesnt want that either he was there and then ended up in juvy then jail in streets of baltimore
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It is my mom and my intention that they dont sufferbwhich is why we are afraid to fight him in court if we all lose boys will be put in foster care and the father doesnt want that either he was there and then ended up in juvy then jail in streets of baltimore
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so father has kids we wait now daughter trying to get something done from jail,we will see
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What a mess they seem to have made of their lives and now you and the kids are the ones that are suffering. It's very sad.
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yes i`m trying to make the best of the situation say prayer for us my daughter called baby only 3 lbs and she is due oct 13
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I hope that this situation changes soon, because this will have negative life changes for the kids to endure...
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not going so good every time they come to visit they beg not to go back ends up with us all crying
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she shuold have thought of that before she went out and did the crime that got her in jail.I know it hard on u to not see your grand kids .but u can go to court and get visiting right for u if u want to.
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Check with county department that he lived in. They should be able to. Alot of states don't have grandparent rights, but if you can prove that he was a drug deler and not a supposed reformed one. You may be able to get custody of them.
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he will only give us his area dont even know which county but he is letting us get kids for the weekend
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he will only give us his area dont even know which county but he is letting us get kids for the weekend
It's really not that hard to find people through public records especially if you only need a general area like the county he lives in
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Wow. What a bitter pill to swallow. Those are the prices you pay for not thinking straight. Maybe this will make him think more..
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so the boys seem to be adjusting however my oldest grandson wants to come back and stay with me ,i miss him and would like him to come back but i think it is only because he misses the internet