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Title: Please pray for my friend
Post by: CharmedPhoenix on January 03, 2015, 04:47:14 pm
My friend Emerald is going through a major crisis, a breakdown.  She won't even let me help so I'm seeking other ways to help.  Please pray for her, send her healing energy of all kinds.  This has been going on for days and I'm really worried.
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Post by: pookie22 on January 03, 2015, 05:07:03 pm
How sad. I will keep your friend Emerald in my thoughts and prayers, plus I will add her to our church Prayer Warrior list.  Depression is hard, and often people refuse help because it "makes them look weak".  I hope she will let you help her get some help.  In the mean time, she is being prayed for!
Please let us know how she is doing.
Bless you for being such a good friend
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Post by: rdy2pl8 on January 03, 2015, 08:41:26 pm
I'm sorry to hear about your friend, sending prayers and good vibes.
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Post by: batmobile on January 04, 2015, 08:19:02 am
prayers to you and your friend for peace and healing
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Post by: melissajh44 on January 04, 2015, 08:19:23 am
Sending prayers up for your friend.
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Post by: pookie22 on January 04, 2015, 08:52:20 am
How is your friend Emerald doing today?  I am praying for her, as well as my Prayer Warrior group (there are many of them to pray for her).  I hope she is feeling better.
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Post by: Nancy5 on January 04, 2015, 09:02:38 am
I will keep her in my prayers.  I hope she realizes what a good friend she has in you, and will allow you to help her.
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Post by: BATISTAGIRL663 on January 04, 2015, 11:04:46 am
i am so very sorry your friend is going through this --i will keep her in my prayers along with you and the rest of her family --may she find strength to pull out of this
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Post by: natashaspy on January 04, 2015, 12:40:22 pm
will send prayers and good thoughts your way.  hopefully your friend will let you help soon ..hugs
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Post by: holmesch22 on January 04, 2015, 10:56:00 pm
Father who are in heaven I am praying for this person whatever is wrong with this person set them free from what is bothering them let them know only believe and trust and have faith in you. In Jesus Name AMEN AMEN
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Post by: Screwedupclick4life337 on January 05, 2015, 02:56:21 am
I pray for your friend
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Post by: bonzie on January 05, 2015, 06:54:39 am
I hope your friend will get better, I think be there for your friend is the most important right now.
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Post by: CharmedPhoenix on January 05, 2015, 02:48:38 pm
Thank you everyone.  She is talking to her therapist, but she didn't go out for her regular appointment today.  I talked to her therapist Friday and was told to give her space, there was nothing I could do to help right now.  I have problems too, but, as she has said "sometimes our demons don't play nice together".  This appears to be one of those times combined with some other issues.  She's been shut up in her apartment since the first.  She's not gone out to walk her dogs.  She wanted snow, we got snow, but she's not opened her blinds to enjoy it.  Her blinds were open for a couple hours today, but they're closed again.  She hasn't even had her caregiver in for more than a few minutes.  This is the worst I've seen since I've known her, though I've only known her for a couple years.  She's been very helpful to me and I keep trying to do things for her, but she doesn't accept much.  Thanks again.
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Post by: pookie22 on January 06, 2015, 08:32:55 am
I am still praying for you and your friend.  As long as her therapist is aware, that's good.  Perhaps space is a good thing for a short time, and she does have someone coming in to check on her, even if for a short time.
I will continue to pray.  Thank you for updating us.
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Post by: devideddi on January 06, 2015, 10:00:23 am
I said a prayer.  :heart:
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Post by: kimber62372 on January 07, 2015, 03:55:02 pm
Sending prayers to you and your friend. I send you the energy to help your friend and guide her through any issues. You might be her guardian angel!  :angel11:
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Post by: colbtrist on January 07, 2015, 04:18:38 pm
Bless your friend, I will pray for her.
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Post by: pookie22 on January 14, 2015, 03:01:05 pm
How is your friend doing?  Has she been able to get some help?
And you, how are you?
I continue to keep both of you in my prayers.
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Post by: PGS28 on January 15, 2015, 06:17:29 am
I pray that your friend Emerald gets through whatever is troubling her and allows love from loved ones to flow in.  Amen.
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Post by: Seenobita on January 15, 2015, 06:20:22 pm
I am praying for your friend.. god bless :)
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Post by: teenangel on January 16, 2015, 02:10:28 pm
I pray for her
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Post by: teenangel on January 16, 2015, 02:10:43 pm
I pray for her
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Post by: gaylasue on January 20, 2015, 11:42:21 am
Special prayers have gone up for Emerald.  I pray she is doing better.
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Post by: CharmedPhoenix on January 22, 2015, 04:28:14 pm
Thanks again everyone.  She appears to be back to a "normal" routine, but I never heard back from her therapist.  She is a very troubled person, much deeper than I first realized.  I dare not approach since she unfriended/blocked me on Facebook and changed her parking routine so she doesn't look at my place while turning her car around.  I wish I knew what I'm accused of doing.  I noticed that she misinterprets facial expressions, actions, words, etc.  She's also prone to overreacting and focusing her anger outward.  We started out talking about our feelings and clarifying things, but she's changed.  It's like she flipped a switch and became a different person.  It's been hard to deal with her since the change.  I've tried to draw her out to talk about it but she just stayed silent, even when I was obviously in pain about it.  She gave ma a lot of mixed messages.  She do and say nice things, like taking me to lunch, then turn around and get defensive because she likes snow and I don't or some other minor difference of opinion.  I'm really confused.  :confused1:
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Post by: tuyetmai on January 22, 2015, 06:22:11 pm
I'll add her name in my prayer today as well.  Hope Emerald will get over this tough time soon.