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Title: how many kids
Post by: Azanne07 on January 14, 2018, 03:40:17 pm
How many kids is enough?

How many kids were enough for you?

I have seriously been debating this one a lot in my head.

I am almost 30 I have 2 babies a girl and a boy. shes 2 and hes 3.

Part of me really wants another baby while the other part of me likes the fact that they are getting closer to school.

I don't know I feel this huge internal conflict. and I cant seem to sort it all out. Hopefully I will just be able to figure out what I want before its too late.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: camellia0 on January 14, 2018, 03:57:43 pm
If you two are able to afford another child and have the time for another child, then have one. Just make sure that you have time for another child.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: ricdsm on January 14, 2018, 04:11:39 pm
Boy, only you and God can answer that question.  Good luck to you either way.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: Nancy5 on January 14, 2018, 04:16:58 pm
I can’t answer that for you, only you and your husband/partner can.  Can you afford another?  Do you have the time for another?  Only you can answer that.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: dreamyxo on January 14, 2018, 04:29:59 pm
For me zero.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: Azanne07 on January 14, 2018, 05:19:14 pm
I can’t answer that for you, only you and your husband/partner can.  Can you afford another?  Do you have the time for another?  Only you can answer that.

I told my boyfriend in the beginning that I wanted a big family and if he didn't there was the door. I was just threw a divorce and I wasn't compromising what I wanted. I was going to seek someone out that wanted the same things as me.

yes we could afford another, but only because ive been working so hard to get where I am
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: Sendmicheck on January 14, 2018, 06:19:14 pm
God time is the right time.  Blessed are the fruit of the womb.  You will find the answer within your heart to do the right thing to have or not to have another child.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: kdemers0 on January 14, 2018, 07:54:47 pm
I think it depends! For me 4 kids would be enough...but who am I to tell someone they have too many kids!
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: nmbrown863 on January 14, 2018, 10:19:12 pm
If you can financially afford another child then I suppose it all depends on how you feel and how your partner feels.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: Jayce2013 on January 15, 2018, 12:07:14 am
First off, you are still very young and lucky that you have kids before the 30ties... some moms are not.

There is not a limit number.. if you can afford to have one or more, why not? If you love kids, I think it's a beautiful thing to have a big family!  :in-love:
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: ccandpam on January 15, 2018, 04:16:51 am
I have three boys and that is more than enough for me. I trade hem for nothing in this world. :angel11:
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: gaylasue on January 15, 2018, 05:58:05 am
The Lord only blessed me with one precious daughter.  Would have loved to have had more but wasn't in the Lord's plans.  I now have one beautiful grandson.  Not for sure if I want any more or not...
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: bshee58 on January 15, 2018, 06:15:34 am
It all comes down to you, it's your body, don't stress yourself out, if it's for you, then you will feel it.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: cabrahamson on January 17, 2018, 10:07:32 pm
I have 2 amazing handsome young boys they are my world and my life
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: gaylasue on January 18, 2018, 09:00:36 am
I don't know about anyone else but one was enough for me!  I really wanted three but was only blessed with one.  I have one grandchild.
Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: linderlizzie on January 18, 2018, 12:35:29 pm
I had three. If I could do a do-over, I'd have more.

My daughter had nine; one was stillborn or she would have ten now. :star: She was told by a mother of 15 children that having a lot of children means you'll never be alone.  :rainbow:

My oldest son has four.

My youngest son has not yet married, but I think he'd love children.  :heart:

Having a big family is a great idea. Hope you do it.


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Title: Re: how many kids
Post by: cabrahamson on January 21, 2018, 08:25:24 am
I may have to boy's now but I want more kids I love kids and so dose my partner and i believe that my 2 boy's would love to have another baby sister or brother again because both if them are grate around baby and they help take care if them my youngest son will play with the baby and is so gentle with then