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Title: Abortion Ban
Post by: Mizzkizz7 on May 28, 2019, 03:01:52 pm
There has been a lot in the news about this subject. Some are pro-life and some are pro-choice. I'm pro-choice. Most may not agree but I would like to get other opinions.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: king4cash on May 29, 2019, 03:41:09 pm
I think that the supreme court should take a next look at ROE V WADE, and settle this once and for all....
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on June 03, 2019, 08:38:06 am
I think that the supreme court should take a next look at ROE V WADE, and settle this once and for all....


The problem is that it will never be settled once and for all until the end of time. I have my own opinions on the topic and (do my best to) try to respect opposing views... but taking a second look at Roe v. Wade and even reversing that decision is not going to settle the matter.  It will continue to be debated and will continue to be highly contested regardless of which side you are on and regardless of the (ever changing) breakdown of the Supreme Court.


Just like Congress and the White House, the pendulum swings back and forth. Granted, on the Supreme Court, it swings much more slowly. But even if it takes 200 years - if Roe V. Wade is reversed (I personally don't believe it will be changed in my lifetime), you can bet at some point in the future when enough liberal justices are back on the bench = it will be addressed again.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 03, 2019, 05:39:13 pm
There has been a lot in the news about this subject. Some are pro-life and some are pro-choice. I'm pro-choice. Most may not agree but I would like to get other opinions.

It's murder in the womb and infanticide after birth. That little person from conception is not an insignificant part of its mother; it's a separate entity called a baby in the mother's womb which should be the safest place on earth for it. Fetus, embryo, products of conception, clump of cells are all words/phrases meant to dehumanize the unborn which renders them no longer entitled to human rights such as those provided for in the Constitution, i.e., life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.That's my opinion as per your request. I've never considered murdering an innocent life "pro-choice." It is called abortion which is murder.

Definition: a·bor·tion

noun
1.
the deliberate termination of a human pregnancy, most often performed during the first 28 weeks of pregnancy.

There you go; that's my opinion and has been for some time. I've heard all the arguments for and against and I haven't wavered one iota. I can respect your opinion because you must have your reasons. Have you seen the movie "Unplanned?"
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on June 05, 2019, 06:18:05 am
Have you seen the movie "Unplanned?"


I would challenge any pro-choice person to watch that movie. Most will dismiss it as fanatical propaganda (which it is not, but it was certainly portrayed that way by the media and pro-abortion groups) and use that as an excuse to not watch it.  But if you are 100% confident in your position, watching this movie shouldn't shake your conviction...


... or might it?  Maybe that is the fear of those in favor of abortion - they may be afraid that if they saw something that made them rethink their position, they might be talked into changing their mind.


As a pro-life advocate, I am 100% willing to watch any pro-abortion movie, story, documentary, whatever. Even though they are the extreme low percentage of abortion circumstances, I welcome the chance to see the true stories of those who got an abortion after rape or incest pregnancies or high health risk pregnancies.  I know that it is a difficult choice and I feel for those who live the awful reality of having to face that choice.  I am also 100% confident that seeing such a story would not change my position on the abortion issue. But I am willing to listen to the story and the aftermath.


I could be (and hope I am) wrong, but I believe that the reverse position is not true. Very few pro-abortion activists would be willing to watch Abby Johnson's story or Norma McCorvey's story. It really is a shame.




Unrelated, but similar -- in my younger days I was very much in favor of the death penalty when I heard about horrific acts that some evil people committed.  Until I met Sr. Helen Prejean and heard her talk.  And then I watched the movie Dead Man Walking with Susan Sarandon and Sean Penn. Like Unplanned it portrayed the true story of a real person (Sr. Helen) and her personal experience with a controversial topic.


She allowed me to see the truth that all people are precious - even the evil ones.  All human life is precious from the point of conception to the point of natural death. We are not God. We do not have the right to take any life (self defense excepted).


They are difficult topics, no doubt. There will always be debate. But we don't have to hate each other for having alternate viewpoints. I think that sometimes is even more challenging than the underlying issues.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: sfreeman8 on June 05, 2019, 09:09:22 am
I think some states are making it too strict now. I don't believe a baby has a heartbeat before 12 weeks. That's what  I've read for years. So the 6- or 8-week ban is a little too early.  I know the one state (MS or AL)  is doing it to bring it up to the Supreme Court so they make the decision once and for all.

I don't believe Roe v. Wade should be totally overturned, but I don't believe abortion should be used as a means of birth control and just because a baby is conceived in a woman's body, it  shouldn't be just her decision to make. It takes two to conceive and should take two to make the decision of life or death. Even a murderer has a jury of 12 to decide life or death. 
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on June 06, 2019, 09:53:39 am
Abortion is murder of the unborn. It's pure and simple. Thankfully, it does seem like there is some movement to stop it lately. Probably because Trump is unafraid of the Left (honestly, what more could they say or do to him at this point?) and the Dems are showing themselves to be cray cray on the issue and normies are seeing just how far they've gone. (Now you can have abortions outside the womb? When does it end?)
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: dreamyxo on June 07, 2019, 11:40:10 pm
I'm pro abortion.  For all these people who are going to force a woman to keep a baby she doesn't want or can't take care of why don't you adopt those kids.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on June 08, 2019, 03:49:43 pm
Banning abortions won't stop women from having them.  The bans are a futile effort, and a waste of taxpayer time and money.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: mardukblood2009 on June 08, 2019, 03:52:32 pm
Next time you think about banning Abortion you just remember all those homeless people you don't look at and all the sections of the city you are afraid to go too.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: ericborn1980 on June 08, 2019, 04:21:35 pm
I guess if the government can send soldiers to die in wars that are a joke and against what Jesus taught,why should they be concerned if they kill a fetus?

Thats them.....NOT ME!!I know how God feels about it.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: BATISTAGIRL663 on June 10, 2019, 02:21:02 pm
I am pro-choice I believe a woman should have the right to decide what she does with her body and no one else should have the right to tell her.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 13, 2019, 03:58:38 pm
I am pro-choice I believe a woman should have the right to decide what she does with her body and no one else should have the right to tell her.

I am curious to know why you think the baby is actually a part of the mother's body. Can you elaborate on that? Babies are not tumors or cancers to be cut off for the mother's health.

A woman's "choice", as you put it, is whether to carry the baby she conceived (with some help) in her body, or not allow him/her to live. It is a selfish act that is done for convenience.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 13, 2019, 04:02:03 pm
I'm pro abortion.  For all these people who are going to force a woman to keep a baby she doesn't want or can't take care of why don't you adopt those kids.

How can they be adopted if they are murdered before they are born? Do you have a solution to that?

Even if what you say was true (that there's no one to care for them), why do you want to opt to kill them instead of allowing them to be born. Does that seem helpful?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: heypeg on June 13, 2019, 04:06:37 pm
while I am not totally against abortion I think there needs to be some restrictions.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 13, 2019, 04:08:48 pm
Next time you think about banning Abortion you just remember all those homeless people you don't look at and all the sections of the city you are afraid to go too.

I don't understand your argument here. Were those people all potential murder victims of their parents and that's why they're homeless on the streets? Is that what naturally happens to children that are allowed to live instead of being aborted?

I still can't comprehend why the "sections of the city we're afraid to go to" are pertinent to your argument either. Please explain if you will. Unless, of course, they would have all been aborted and out of sight had the mother been allowed to "choose."
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 15, 2019, 04:40:00 pm
Banning abortions won't stop women from having them.  The bans are a futile effort, and a waste of taxpayer time and money.

"Between 1974 and 1983 the repeat abortion rate soared drastically - 166%."

It is definitely NOT a futile effort to ban abortions. And I can't think of a better way to spend taxpayer money. It would be first on my list.

"Since legalization, abortion has become so routine more than 40 million unborn
babies have been aborted since 1973. In 1996, 1,365,730 abortions were recorded, an
increase of well over 100% since 1973, when the annual figure was 615,831, according to
the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. About every 20 seconds a baby is
aborted. 159 abortions are done every hour, 3,805 every day, 115,744 every month.
Almost 30% of all pregnancies are now ended by abortion."


The quotations are taken from Georgia Right To Life website.

The other data to consider is the effect that abortions have upon the mother including physical, psychological and emotional trauma and, in some cases, death.

It's also interesting to imagine what sort of people may have been lost forever who were geniuses in some field that would have been a vital asset to our country and we'll never know. We'll never know.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on June 15, 2019, 05:58:26 pm
Banning abortions won't stop women from having them.  The bans are a futile effort, and a waste of taxpayer time and money.

"Between 1974 and 1983 the repeat abortion rate soared drastically - 166%."

It is definitely NOT a futile effort to ban abortions. And I can't think of a better way to spend taxpayer money. It would be first on my list.

"Since legalization, abortion has become so routine more than 40 million unborn
babies have been aborted since 1973. In 1996, 1,365,730 abortions were recorded, an
increase of well over 100% since 1973, when the annual figure was 615,831, according to
the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. About every 20 seconds a baby is
aborted. 159 abortions are done every hour, 3,805 every day, 115,744 every month.
Almost 30% of all pregnancies are now ended by abortion."


The quotations are taken from Georgia Right To Life website.

The other data to consider is the effect that abortions have upon the mother including physical, psychological and emotional trauma and, in some cases, death.

It's also interesting to imagine what sort of people may have been lost forever who were geniuses in some field that would have been a vital asset to our country and we'll never know. We'll never know.


As I said, banning abortion won't stop them.  It will simply make it unsafe, and women will die.
What lowers the abortion rate is free and accessible birth control. 
Women aren't incubators.

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: 1imaginarygirl on June 15, 2019, 06:17:22 pm
I find it interesting that a majority of the people that say we can't ban abortions or women will get them illegally are the same people who are calling for a gun ban as if people won't get guns illegally.

Personally, I am not pro-choice, because abortion IS murder. Am I also not pro-life, because we already have too many people in this world and most of them suck. I suppose I am pro-prevention. Condoms are cheap and easily accessible, and abstinence is free.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: mardukblood2009 on June 15, 2019, 06:54:57 pm
There is enough people and there are too many people who no one cares about. It is so stupid worrying about someone who is not born when there are so many people who are not worried about who are alive. The bottom line is, people love sticking their nose in other people's business.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on June 15, 2019, 09:37:30 pm
I find it interesting that a majority of the people that say we can't ban abortions or women will get them illegally are the same people who are calling for a gun ban as if people won't get guns illegally.

Personally, I am not pro-choice, because abortion IS murder. Am I also not pro-life, because we already have too many people in this world and most of them suck. I suppose I am pro-prevention. Condoms are cheap and easily accessible, and abstinence is free.


History.  When abortion was illegal, women were still having abortions.  Banning them pushes them underground, and women die. 
Banning guns, same principle.  People who want them, will find a way.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: 1imaginarygirl on June 16, 2019, 07:52:31 am
I find it interesting that a majority of the people that say we can't ban abortions or women will get them illegally are the same people who are calling for a gun ban as if people won't get guns illegally.

Personally, I am not pro-choice, because abortion IS murder. Am I also not pro-life, because we already have too many people in this world and most of them suck. I suppose I am pro-prevention. Condoms are cheap and easily accessible, and abstinence is free.


History.  When abortion was illegal, women were still having abortions.  Banning them pushes them underground, and women die. 
Banning guns, same principle.  People who want them, will find a way.

That's why I find it interesting that most of the people pushing for legal abortion are also pushing to ban guns. Skewed logic.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: countrygirl12 on June 16, 2019, 11:05:46 am
I find it interesting that a majority of the people that say we can't ban abortions or women will get them illegally are the same people who are calling for a gun ban as if people won't get guns illegally.

Personally, I am not pro-choice, because abortion IS murder. Am I also not pro-life, because we already have too many people in this world and most of them suck. I suppose I am pro-prevention. Condoms are cheap and easily accessible, and abstinence is free.


History.  When abortion was illegal, women were still having abortions.  Banning them pushes them underground, and women die. 
Banning guns, same principle.  People who want them, will find a way.

And when they get the abortion in an office a baby dies.  No if it were not legal and easily accessible they would not get them as often. Maybe it needs to be made a law if you get an abortion at the same time you will be sterilized so this doesn't happen again.  Maybe that would curb it.  I mean it is not like there are not multiple ways to prevent pregnancy.  And it has been proven that a very small percentage of abortions are because of rape.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on June 16, 2019, 12:49:51 pm
It is so stupid worrying about someone who is not born ....


In that case, you would consider me to be one of the stupidest people on earth.
 
WHY is it okay to kill an innocent human life (and yes he or she IS human) out of convenience? WHY is it okay to act irresponsibly and not consider the consequences of those actions?


I know I am not changing anyone's mind here, but to call us stupid is absolutely insulting.I will take that insult for what it is, and simply respond with "You're Welcome."  To the one baby who is saved: "You're Welcome." To the one mother who has the chance to rethink her situation and change her mind before it is too late: "You're Welcome." To the person who believes that I am stupid and have no right to an opinion on this issue because I am a pro-life male (but at the same time would WELCOME and champion my opinion if I was a pro-abortion male) - you are the 'unintelligent' one.

(EDIT - for some reason, the majority of that last paragraph came through as very fine small print in my original post...)
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 16, 2019, 05:42:36 pm
There is enough people and there are too many people who no one cares about. It is so stupid worrying about someone who is not born when there are so many people who are not worried about who are alive. The bottom line is, people love sticking their nose in other people's business.

Do you have children mardukblood2009? If not, maybe I get your point. You can't see why anyone would worry about someone not born. If you have children, or ever tried to have children, you would understand why someone would worry about someone not born. And as for caring for people who are born; who says that we don't care about them too?

As to sticking our noses into other people's business, why should we worry if someone wants to murder someone? It really doesn't matter if it's a grown person or a toddler or an infant, does it? If it's their business, then we should just let it go. Right? Any murder is that person's own business and none of ours. You know; there ought to be a law. Oh, wait; there is one, isn't there? I think they put people who murder others in prison, unless it's their own baby. Then it's their own business. There is no punishment for that. Good plan.

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 16, 2019, 06:01:34 pm
Banning abortions won't stop women from having them.  The bans are a futile effort, and a waste of taxpayer time and money.

"Between 1974 and 1983 the repeat abortion rate soared drastically - 166%."

It is definitely NOT a futile effort to ban abortions. And I can't think of a better way to spend taxpayer money. It would be first on my list.

"Since legalization, abortion has become so routine more than 40 million unborn
babies have been aborted since 1973. In 1996, 1,365,730 abortions were recorded, an
increase of well over 100% since 1973, when the annual figure was 615,831, according to
the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. About every 20 seconds a baby is
aborted. 159 abortions are done every hour, 3,805 every day, 115,744 every month.
Almost 30% of all pregnancies are now ended by abortion."


The quotations are taken from Georgia Right To Life website.

The other data to consider is the effect that abortions have upon the mother including physical, psychological and emotional trauma and, in some cases, death.

It's also interesting to imagine what sort of people may have been lost forever who were geniuses in some field that would have been a vital asset to our country and we'll never know. We'll never know.


As I said, banning abortion won't stop them.  It will simply make it unsafe, and women will die.
What lowers the abortion rate is free and accessible birth control. 
Women aren't incubators.



I agree that banning abortions will not stop them, but legalization drastically increases the number. I guess you didn't read my post before you wrote your response. Banning anything is not an answer, but saying that birth control is an option is obvious but doesn't always work and it's not free.

Abstinence is free but that's not practiced very much anymore.

The people who opt for abortions are generally looking for an easy way out of an uncomfortable position they got themselves into. It's a selfish act that totally disregards another person's right to life.

There are many organizations that are willing to help people deal with their particular situation (unwanted pregnancy) that might not be as easy, but are obviously more humane.

What does your comment about incubators have to do with the post? I never said women were incubators. Here is the definition. What is your point?

in·cu·ba·tor

   1.  an enclosed apparatus providing a controlled environment for the care and protection of premature or 
         unusually small babies.
   2.   an apparatus used to hatch eggs or grow microorganisms under controlled conditions.   
   3.  a place, especially with support staff and equipment, made available at low rent to new small businesses.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: vg7405 on June 17, 2019, 03:50:33 am
While I do not generally believe in abortions, I ultimately believe it should be a personal choice only to be made by the affected woman. Just my two cents. I do not appreciate people controlling my reproductive rights.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on June 17, 2019, 08:54:17 am
Banning abortions won't stop women from having them.  The bans are a futile effort, and a waste of taxpayer time and money.

"Between 1974 and 1983 the repeat abortion rate soared drastically - 166%."

It is definitely NOT a futile effort to ban abortions. And I can't think of a better way to spend taxpayer money. It would be first on my list.

"Since legalization, abortion has become so routine more than 40 million unborn
babies have been aborted since 1973. In 1996, 1,365,730 abortions were recorded, an
increase of well over 100% since 1973, when the annual figure was 615,831, according to
the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. About every 20 seconds a baby is
aborted. 159 abortions are done every hour, 3,805 every day, 115,744 every month.
Almost 30% of all pregnancies are now ended by abortion."


The quotations are taken from Georgia Right To Life website.

The other data to consider is the effect that abortions have upon the mother including physical, psychological and emotional trauma and, in some cases, death.

It's also interesting to imagine what sort of people may have been lost forever who were geniuses in some field that would have been a vital asset to our country and we'll never know. We'll never know.


As I said, banning abortion won't stop them.  It will simply make it unsafe, and women will die.
What lowers the abortion rate is free and accessible birth control. 
Women aren't incubators.



I agree that banning abortions will not stop them, but legalization drastically increases the number. I guess you didn't read my post before you wrote your response. Banning anything is not an answer, but saying that birth control is an option is obvious but doesn't always work and it's not free.

Abstinence is free but that's not practiced very much anymore.

The people who opt for abortions are generally looking for an easy way out of an uncomfortable position they got themselves into. It's a selfish act that totally disregards another person's right to life.

There are many organizations that are willing to help people deal with their particular situation (unwanted pregnancy) that might not be as easy, but are obviously more humane.

What does your comment about incubators have to do with the post? I never said women were incubators. Here is the definition. What is your point?

in·cu·ba·tor

   1.  an enclosed apparatus providing a controlled environment for the care and protection of premature or 
         unusually small babies.
   2.   an apparatus used to hatch eggs or grow microorganisms under controlled conditions.   
   3.  a place, especially with support staff and equipment, made available at low rent to new small businesses.


An incubator is a machine, without a mind or soul, whose sole purpose is to bring a fetus to a point that it can survive outside the incubator.

The abortion discussion centers around the fetus, or the unborn, rather than the woman and her right to life.
Thus reducing a woman to the status of an incubator, instead of a person with a mind and a soul.

That was my point.




Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on June 17, 2019, 10:36:24 am

The abortion discussion centers around the fetus, or the unborn, rather than the woman and her right to life.
Thus reducing a woman to the status of an incubator, instead of a person with a mind and a soul.



Tell me I am not the only one to see the irony in this choice of phrasing.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 17, 2019, 06:05:31 pm

The abortion discussion centers around the fetus, or the unborn, rather than the woman and her right to life.
Thus reducing a woman to the status of an incubator, instead of a person with a mind and a soul.



Tell me I am not the only one to see the irony in this choice of phrasing.

Thank you. I couldn't have said it better myself and so succinctly.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on June 19, 2019, 11:37:21 am

The abortion discussion centers around the fetus, or the unborn, rather than the woman and her right to life.
Thus reducing a woman to the status of an incubator, instead of a person with a mind and a soul.



Tell me I am not the only one to see the irony in this choice of phrasing.

Amazingly enough, a woman has a right to life.  That is not considered when fetishizing the unborn.

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on June 19, 2019, 11:42:07 am

The abortion discussion centers around the fetus, or the unborn, rather than the woman and her right to life.
Thus reducing a woman to the status of an incubator, instead of a person with a mind and a soul.



Tell me I am not the only one to see the irony in this choice of phrasing.

Amazingly enough, a woman has a right to life.  That is not considered when fetishizing the unborn.


One person's "right" (not to life but to avoid an inconvenience) is immediately suspended when another person is murdered absent the element of self-defense.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 19, 2019, 02:07:36 pm

The abortion discussion centers around the fetus, or the unborn, rather than the woman and her right to life.
Thus reducing a woman to the status of an incubator, instead of a person with a mind and a soul.



Tell me I am not the only one to see the irony in this choice of phrasing.

Amazingly enough, a woman has a right to life.  That is not considered when fetishizing the unborn.



Yes, a woman has a right to life. Yet very rarely is a woman's life actually at risk when carrying or delivering a baby. It's more at risk during and after an abortion, which is the not the natural way of things.

But as you state the woman has a right to life, so does her unborn baby, whose chance for survival after an abortion is in most cases nil.

I believe your terminology of "fetishizing the unborn" is not apt. I would go so far as to say it's demeaning.

If you've ever had or been expecting a baby, I think most people would agree that you will love that baby in utero until it's born. That's called "maternal love" by the mother. It's called "respect for human life" to be able to stay alive in its mother's womb until it's born. Neither of those situations exemplify "fetishizing. "

And normally the expectation would be that the parents would nurture that baby until it's grown after it's born. The fact that now it is perfectly acceptable to allow that poor baby to die after surviving an abortion when it's unable to help itself is grotesque and inhumane.

I know that many people feel it's an inconvenience and it is. Having a baby and caring for it is hard work. But it is rewarding work as is anything that is of value. As I have stated before, to do away with something as valuable as a human life for your own convenience is criminal.

Please consider this quote by Ronald Reagan: “I've noticed that everyone who is for abortion has already been born.”




Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on June 19, 2019, 02:43:44 pm
One of the flaws in the anti-abortion argument is it speaks from the Disney-fied version of childbirth.

Every pregnancy is different, and every woman is different.  And, no matter how rose-colored your glasses, pregnancy and childbirth is no easy thing. 

Bottom line, a woman has final say over her body, and her life. 
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on June 20, 2019, 05:21:30 am
One of the flaws in the anti-abortion argument is it speaks from the Disney-fied version of childbirth.

Every pregnancy is different, and every woman is different.  And, no matter how rose-colored your glasses, pregnancy and childbirth is no easy thing. 


So many things could be said in response to even just a few short lines...


You are basically saying - this is a scary and difficult experience for me, so I am going to kill you to avoid a scary and difficult experience for me. Not life threatening, just scary and difficult.  There are life threatening pregnancies which I do not deny, but that is not what you are saying here.


Abortion for convenience sake (which is beyond the vast majority of the procedures performed) is one of the biggest cop out, irresponsible, entitlement arguments ever presented. It is meritless and indefensible. There is no convincing argument that legitimizes killing someone due to inconvenience.



Bottom line, a woman has final say over her body, and her life. 

The fundamental flaw in this argument has always been (and will always be) once a woman becomes pregnant - there is more than just one body involved. You can spin it any which way you want, but that doesn't change the scientific and biological fact that there is a second body in the equation. A body that the woman has been entrusted with, regardless of the circumstances.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 20, 2019, 08:41:31 am
One of the flaws in the anti-abortion argument is it speaks from the Disney-fied version of childbirth.

Every pregnancy is different, and every woman is different.  And, no matter how rose-colored your glasses, pregnancy and childbirth is no easy thing. 


So many things could be said in response to even just a few short lines...


You are basically saying - this is a scary and difficult experience for me, so I am going to kill you to avoid a scary and difficult experience for me. Not life threatening, just scary and difficult.  There are life threatening pregnancies which I do not deny, but that is not what you are saying here.


Abortion for convenience sake (which is beyond the vast majority of the procedures performed) is one of the biggest cop out, irresponsible, entitlement arguments ever presented. It is meritless and indefensible. There is no convincing argument that legitimizes killing someone due to inconvenience.



Bottom line, a woman has final say over her body, and her life. 

The fundamental flaw in this argument has always been (and will always be) once a woman becomes pregnant - there is more than just one body involved. You can spin it any which way you want, but that doesn't change the scientific and biological fact that there is a second body in the equation. A body that the woman has been entrusted with, regardless of the circumstances.


Well argued and well spoken. :highfive:
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on June 24, 2019, 10:51:20 pm
One of the flaws in the anti-abortion argument is it speaks from the Disney-fied version of childbirth.

Every pregnancy is different, and every woman is different.  And, no matter how rose-colored your glasses, pregnancy and childbirth is no easy thing. 

Bottom line, a woman has final say over her body, and her life. 

A woman shouldn't have the say over somebody else's body- I.E the child that will be killed.

The 'her body/her choice' crap is nonsense. We tell women what they can & can't do with their bodies all the time.

Want to take illegal drugs? The Government won't let you.

Want to rent yourself out as a prostitute? The Government won't let you (in 99% of the country)

Want to engage in pedophilia? The Government won't let you (and rightly so)

So, is it so horrendous a concept that the government tell a woman that she can't murder her unborn child for the sake of convenience?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Kimdud22 on June 25, 2019, 07:49:09 pm
Pro Choice. I can understand peoples feelings though and can see some instances but other than that I think a women's body is hers to make such choices.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 26, 2019, 11:48:28 am
Pro Choice. I can understand peoples feelings though and can see some instances but other than that I think a women's body is hers to make such choices.

Her body is her choice. Her child's body does not have a choice. That's not fair to either party.

It's pretty obvious that the abortion industry never gives any inkling of what happens to women after abortions. That's why they make them leave out the back door so no one sees their pain and/or grief. And it's been shown that the emotional aftereffects are quite devastating.

And as far as the infant that was comfortably residing in utero, he/she is history. Therefore, no choice was made by the baby that was elected to die. If the baby knew what was going to happen beforehand, I think they would be surprised that mommy would do that to them through no fault of their own. Mommies should not do that.

There are many other ways to not become a mommy and it should be before conception. Not after when it's decided that another human being coming into the world is too big an inconvenience.

None of these arguments on either side is likely to convince another person that their viewpoint is wrong. This issue has been around for a very long time.

I do think it's criminal that Planned Parenthood is funded to the tune of half a billion dollars per year by our own government to slaughter innocents. There are surely better options for our tax dollars.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on June 26, 2019, 07:08:26 pm
One of the flaws in the anti-abortion argument is it speaks from the Disney-fied version of childbirth.

Every pregnancy is different, and every woman is different.  And, no matter how rose-colored your glasses, pregnancy and childbirth is no easy thing. 

Bottom line, a woman has final say over her body, and her life. 

A woman shouldn't have the say over somebody else's body- I.E the child that will be killed.

The 'her body/her choice' crap is nonsense. We tell women what they can & can't do with their bodies all the time.

Want to take illegal drugs? The Government won't let you.

Want to rent yourself out as a prostitute? The Government won't let you (in 99% of the country)

Want to engage in pedophilia? The Government won't let you (and rightly so)

So, is it so horrendous a concept that the government tell a woman that she can't murder her unborn child for the sake of convenience?

We made certain drugs illegal.  So now, nobody takes drugs.

We made prostitution illegal.  So now, there are no more prostitutes.

We made pedophilia illegal.  Look Ma, no more pedophiles!

Abortion is never about convenience.  Never. 
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on June 26, 2019, 07:15:22 pm
One of the flaws in the anti-abortion argument is it speaks from the Disney-fied version of childbirth.

Every pregnancy is different, and every woman is different.  And, no matter how rose-colored your glasses, pregnancy and childbirth is no easy thing. 

Bottom line, a woman has final say over her body, and her life. 

A woman shouldn't have the say over somebody else's body- I.E the child that will be killed.

The 'her body/her choice' crap is nonsense. We tell women what they can & can't do with their bodies all the time.

Want to take illegal drugs? The Government won't let you.

Want to rent yourself out as a prostitute? The Government won't let you (in 99% of the country)

Want to engage in pedophilia? The Government won't let you (and rightly so)

So, is it so horrendous a concept that the government tell a woman that she can't murder her unborn child for the sake of convenience?

We made certain drugs illegal.  So now, nobody takes drugs.

We made prostitution illegal.  So now, there are no more prostitutes.

We made pedophilia illegal.  Look Ma, no more pedophiles!

Abortion is never about convenience.  Never. 


And this argument is also nonsensical. As I said before (possibly in this thread) you can't dictate what's illegal on the basis of 'they'll do it anyway.'  It's an immoral treatment of a human life. And 95% of the time it IS only for the sake of convenience.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on June 26, 2019, 08:00:05 pm
One of the flaws in the anti-abortion argument is it speaks from the Disney-fied version of childbirth.

Every pregnancy is different, and every woman is different.  And, no matter how rose-colored your glasses, pregnancy and childbirth is no easy thing. 

Bottom line, a woman has final say over her body, and her life. 

A woman shouldn't have the say over somebody else's body- I.E the child that will be killed.

The 'her body/her choice' crap is nonsense. We tell women what they can & can't do with their bodies all the time.

Want to take illegal drugs? The Government won't let you.

Want to rent yourself out as a prostitute? The Government won't let you (in 99% of the country)

Want to engage in pedophilia? The Government won't let you (and rightly so)

So, is it so horrendous a concept that the government tell a woman that she can't murder her unborn child for the sake of convenience?

We made certain drugs illegal.  So now, nobody takes drugs.

We made prostitution illegal.  So now, there are no more prostitutes.

We made pedophilia illegal.  Look Ma, no more pedophiles!

Abortion is never about convenience.  Never. 


And this argument is also nonsensical. As I said before (possibly in this thread) you can't dictate what's illegal on the basis of 'they'll do it anyway.'  It's an immoral treatment of a human life. And 95% of the time it IS only for the sake of convenience.

It's no more nonsensical than your argument. 

Women own their bodies.  It's not up to you to approve or disapprove, only to mind your own.

95% is a made up statistic.  When you have to make up the numbers, you know it is a bogus argument.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on June 27, 2019, 08:15:44 am
95% is a made up statistic.  When you have to make up the numbers, you know it is a bogus argument.


I apologize for the wonky formatting. I was trying to make it more readable, and it messed up the columns and format a bit.


It looks like JediJohnnie's number is actually pretty close since the top six or seven reasons can all be boiled down to some sort of convenience excuse/argument. Is it exactly 95% - no, obviously not... But it is much closer to that (hovering around 90-95% depending on which you consider to be convenience arguments and since you cannot really classify the 4% other - can't rule it in, but also can't fully rule it out either) and far far far far away from being a "made up" statistic to support a bogus argument.


So before you decide to disregard someone's argument by accusing them of making up numbers, maybe do a little bit of research first. Dismissing an opposing viewpoint as bogus simply because it cites to a statistic is being just as shortsighted as what you are [wrongfully] accusing JediJohnnie of (i.e. making up numbers). That is the sort of tactic people who have no convincing counter argument usually resort to.


I pulled this list from this website (https://www.abortionfacts.com/facts/8) under the heading The vast majority of abortions are elective. But if you look at their source (cited below) you can track it back to the original source - one that is widely cited elsewhere.




 
Why Women Choose Abortion
Inadequate finances to raise a child
21%
Not ready for responsibility
21%
Woman's life would be changed too much
16%
Problems with relationship; unmarried
12%
Too young; not mature enough
11%
Children are grown; woman has all she wants
8%
Unborn child has possible health problems
3%
Woman has health problems
3%
Pregnancy caused by rape, incest
1%
Other
4%
(Average number of reasons given:   3.7)
Source: Torres and Forrest, as cited by Physicians for Reproductive Choice and Health and the Alan Guttmacher Institute in An Overview of Abortion in the United States
(October 2001)
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: madeara on June 27, 2019, 11:13:53 am
Hello,
I am pro-life.  I believe the issue of abortion should be a topic between the woman and her doctor.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on June 27, 2019, 12:28:10 pm
95% is a made up statistic.  When you have to make up the numbers, you know it is a bogus argument.


I apologize for the wonky formatting. I was trying to make it more readable, and it messed up the columns and format a bit.


It looks like JediJohnnie's number is actually pretty close since the top six or seven reasons can all be boiled down to some sort of convenience excuse/argument. Is it exactly 95% - no, obviously not... But it is much closer to that (hovering around 90-95% depending on which you consider to be convenience arguments and since you cannot really classify the 4% other - can't rule it in, but also can't fully rule it out either) and far far far far away from being a "made up" statistic to support a bogus argument.


So before you decide to disregard someone's argument by accusing them of making up numbers, maybe do a little bit of research first. Dismissing an opposing viewpoint as bogus simply because it cites to a statistic is being just as shortsighted as what you are [wrongfully] accusing JediJohnnie of (i.e. making up numbers). That is the sort of tactic people who have no convincing counter argument usually resort to.


I pulled this list from this website (https://www.abortionfacts.com/facts/8) under the heading The vast majority of abortions are elective. But if you look at their source (cited below) you can track it back to the original source - one that is widely cited elsewhere.




 
Why Women Choose Abortion
Inadequate finances to raise a child
21%
Not ready for responsibility
21%
Woman's life would be changed too much
16%
Problems with relationship; unmarried
12%
Too young; not mature enough
11%
Children are grown; woman has all she wants
8%
Unborn child has possible health problems
3%
Woman has health problems
3%
Pregnancy caused by rape, incest
1%
Other
4%
(Average number of reasons given:   3.7)
Source: Torres and Forrest, as cited by Physicians for Reproductive Choice and Health and the Alan Guttmacher Institute in An Overview of Abortion in the United States
(October 2001)


Thank You.

Statistics continually show that abortions for rape & incest are BELLOW 5%. There are no bogus numbers there. The fact that we allow abortion on demand for the sake of around 5% is ludicrous.

All I'm saying is, how about we stop the wholesale slaughter of the unborn for the sake of convenience and deal with the under 5% that are victims of rape/incest on a case by case basis.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Mizzkizz7 on June 28, 2019, 03:18:08 pm
I'm Pro-choice. You never know what women are going through..Abusive relationships, mental health issues, HEalth problems-High Blood Pressure etc. This decision is between that woman and GOD. Period. So the pro-life ppl can be pro-life but they are, and can't judge another person for deciding to terminate a pregnancy. I thank God my mom didn't terminate me but if she did I WOULD NOT KNOW! I would be with the LORD.
 
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 29, 2019, 12:33:59 pm
I'm Pro-choice. You never know what women are going through..Abusive relationships, mental health issues, HEalth problems-High Blood Pressure etc. This decision is between that woman and GOD. Period. So the pro-life ppl can be pro-life but they are, and can't judge another person for deciding to terminate a pregnancy. I thank God my mom didn't terminate me but if she did I WOULD NOT KNOW! I would be with the LORD.
 


You're talking about high risk pregnancies and that does involve a critical decision making process. That mother does have to choose. And any decision made will involve God. If one really invoked God in the process, I firmly believe they would choose life since God is the creator of life.

I think we've been debating on this forum that elective abortion for convenience or for birth control is wrong in countless ways. The right to life exists for the mother AND her unborn baby.

I too am glad that your mother chose life for you. And my only consolation for babies being put to death in their mother's womb means that they will be in heaven.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: vp44 on July 04, 2019, 09:47:44 am
I'm Pro-choice. You never know what women are going through..Abusive relationships, mental health issues, HEalth problems-High Blood Pressure etc. This decision is between that woman and GOD. Period. So the pro-life ppl can be pro-life but they are, and can't judge another person for deciding to terminate a pregnancy. I thank God my mom didn't terminate me but if she did I WOULD NOT KNOW! I would be with the LORD.
 


You're talking about high risk pregnancies and that does involve a critical decision making process. That mother does have to choose. And any decision made will involve God. If one really invoked God in the process, I firmly believe they would choose life since God is the creator of life.

I think we've been debating on this forum that elective abortion for convenience or for birth control is wrong in countless ways. The right to life exists for the mother AND her unborn baby.

I too am glad that your mother chose life for you. And my only consolation for babies being put to death in their mother's womb means that they will be in heaven.

How about debate it is none of your business what a woman does with her body.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 04, 2019, 09:53:31 am
From KJV

Ecclesiastes 9:5 King James Version (KJV)
5 For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten.

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 04, 2019, 08:43:44 pm
How about debate it is none of your business what a woman does with her body.


And like was said before - if it was just her body in question - you might have a point here. But sadly it is not just her body.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: nickylanena on July 04, 2019, 09:09:11 pm
If YOU are not the one that is pregnant, you should not have a say! I don't see how men are the ones making these laws.

Also, Separation of church and state!
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 05, 2019, 11:27:06 am
If YOU are not the one that is pregnant, you should not have a say! I don't see how men are the ones making these laws.

Also, Separation of church and state!

Men are not the only ones making the laws.

Separation of church & state has nothing to do with this issue whatsoever. It's a human rights issue.

By your reasoning, there would still be slavery, since Jefferson's “We hold these Truths to be self-evident, that all Men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness….” would be violating 'separation of church & state.'
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on July 05, 2019, 03:47:02 pm
If YOU are not the one that is pregnant, you should not have a say! I don't see how men are the ones making these laws.

Also, Separation of church and state!

Investigate and find out what separation of church and state really means before you throw it into an argument. It's actually to keep the state (government) from forming a state religion and not at all about keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs. It's not in the Constitution per se. It was a paraphrase by Thomas Jefferson.

The following quote is from from Teachinghistory.org.:

"The United States Constitution does not state in so many words that there is a separation of church and state. The first part of the First Amendment to the Constitution states: “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.” Therefore, it is more accurate to say that the Constitution promotes freedom of religion and prohibits the federal government from inhibiting its citizens’ ability to worship as they wish."

BTW, men should definitely have a say on whether or not their babies are slaughtered before they're allowed to be born. It shouldn't only be the woman's prerogative. The daddies might actually want to be a daddies. Why doesn't anyone think about them?

And even if they are not the daddies, why should they necessarily be for murdering babies by anyone? Unborn babies are still human beings (albeit quite small and helpless) and deserve the right to live. And if men want to fight for the defenseless little babes, I say, "Go for it!"
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 05, 2019, 04:24:35 pm
If anyone thinks i am going to back down from putting Gods word up....think again and show your true self.

Much discussion Re abortion and the sad thing about it NOT too many care about Gods view.To save band width the link is here to those that MIGHT care.

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/abortion-in-the-bible/
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on July 06, 2019, 11:42:17 am
If anyone thinks i am going to back down from putting Gods word up....think again and show your true self.

Much discussion Re abortion and the sad thing about it NOT too many care about Gods view.To save band width the link is here to those that MIGHT care.

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/abortion-in-the-bible/


Who in this forum challenged you about giving us God's point of view?  FC forum posters are the most tolerant people I've ever seen in a public forum. I rarely hear of anyone on here being radically opposed to someone else's point of view. And there are plenty of FCers that use God's viewpoint in their posts.

I cannot fathom your defensiveness. I think we all want to see what you have to say. And thank you for referencing a good site to visit on the topic being discussed.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 06, 2019, 02:04:46 pm
If anyone thinks i am going to back down from putting Gods word up....think again and show your true self.

Much discussion Re abortion and the sad thing about it NOT too many care about Gods view.To save band width the link is here to those that MIGHT care.

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/abortion-in-the-bible/


Who in this forum challenged you about giving us God's point of view?  FC forum posters are the most tolerant people I've ever seen in a public forum. I rarely hear of anyone on here being radically opposed to someone else's point of view. And there are plenty of FCers that use God's viewpoint in their posts.

I cannot fathom your defensiveness. I think we all want to see what you have to say. And thank you for referencing a good site to visit on the topic being discussed.

Pretty obvious those that support abortion could care less what God thinks.And then you have some on the fence that could care what God thinks.Even many that are against it seem to wait till man corrects it.But then again thats why this world is the way it is RE the problems in it.

To those of us that think a loving Creator exists and with the world in a shambles,how can anyone in their right mind think God had anything to do with the way it is?But maybe HE had a good reason to let it continue for awhile to show the universe that man and the ungodly ruler NOW cant bring about the harmony that so many of us desire and want but most of us still wanna decide for ourselves whats good and bad.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: nickylanena on July 08, 2019, 12:47:10 am
If YOU are not the one that is pregnant, you should not have a say! I don't see how men are the ones making these laws.

Also, Separation of church and state!

Men are not the only ones making the laws.

Separation of church & state has nothing to do with this issue whatsoever. It's a human rights issue.

By your reasoning, there would still be slavery, since Jefferson's “We hold these Truths to be self-evident, that all Men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness….” would be violating 'separation of church & state.'

No, men aren't the only ones making the laws but they are the ones (in the Senate) who are so adamant about pushing abortion bans.

Also, are you implying that just because saying "separation of church and state" that no one else would have found another way to end slavery?  ??? Because that sounds rather absurd.

Also, it shouldn't take believing in a Creator to make someone realize that they and others have such rights.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: nickylanena on July 08, 2019, 01:15:35 am
If YOU are not the one that is pregnant, you should not have a say! I don't see how men are the ones making these laws.

Also, Separation of church and state!

Investigate and find out what separation of church and state really means before you throw it into an argument. It's actually to keep the state (government) from forming a state religion and not at all about keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs. It's not in the Constitution per se. It was a paraphrase by Thomas Jefferson.

The following quote is from from Teachinghistory.org.:

"The United States Constitution does not state in so many words that there is a separation of church and state. The first part of the First Amendment to the Constitution states: “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.” Therefore, it is more accurate to say that the Constitution promotes freedom of religion and prohibits the federal government from inhibiting its citizens’ ability to worship as they wish."

BTW, men should definitely have a say on whether or not their babies are slaughtered before they're allowed to be born. It shouldn't only be the woman's prerogative. The daddies might actually want to be a daddies. Why doesn't anyone think about them?

And even if they are not the daddies, why should they necessarily be for murdering babies by anyone? Unborn babies are still human beings (albeit quite small and helpless) and deserve the right to live. And if men want to fight for the defenseless little babes, I say, "Go for it!"

[/quote]

I didn't feel the need to be technical about "separation of church and state" but it seems like you clearly understood that I was referring to "keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs."   ;)

You understand that there is a difference between a fetus and a baby, right?

Also, I hope you don't truly think it is simply a matter of wanting or not wanting to be daddies/parents. And why would anyone think they have the right to make a decision that doesn't regard their own being in the first place? And the woman should be able to decide what happens to the "unborn babies" she (NOT the "daddies" or other men it may/may not concern) is carrying (in HER body, in case that isn't clear) especially if it endangers her "right to live."

Also, "slaughtered" made me giggle.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 08, 2019, 08:02:09 am
If YOU are not the one that is pregnant, you should not have a say! I don't see how men are the ones making these laws.

Also, Separation of church and state!

Investigate and find out what separation of church and state really means before you throw it into an argument. It's actually to keep the state (government) from forming a state religion and not at all about keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs. It's not in the Constitution per se. It was a paraphrase by Thomas Jefferson.

The following quote is from from Teachinghistory.org.:

"The United States Constitution does not state in so many words that there is a separation of church and state. The first part of the First Amendment to the Constitution states: “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.” Therefore, it is more accurate to say that the Constitution promotes freedom of religion and prohibits the federal government from inhibiting its citizens’ ability to worship as they wish."

BTW, men should definitely have a say on whether or not their babies are slaughtered before they're allowed to be born. It shouldn't only be the woman's prerogative. The daddies might actually want to be a daddies. Why doesn't anyone think about them?

And even if they are not the daddies, why should they necessarily be for murdering babies by anyone? Unborn babies are still human beings (albeit quite small and helpless) and deserve the right to live. And if men want to fight for the defenseless little babes, I say, "Go for it!"


I didn't feel the need to be technical about "separation of church and state" but it seems like you clearly understood that I was referring to "keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs."   ;)

You understand that there is a difference between a fetus and a baby, right?

Also, I hope you don't truly think it is simply a matter of wanting or not wanting to be daddies/parents. And why would anyone think they have the right to make a decision that doesn't regard their own being in the first place? And the woman should be able to decide what happens to the "unborn babies" she (NOT the "daddies" or other men it may/may not concern) is carrying (in HER body, in case that isn't clear) especially if it endangers her "right to live."

Also, "slaughtered" made me giggle.
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When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit.

Do  u understand what that scripture means?Elizabeth was carrying John the Baptist and Mary was to be Jesus mom.It certainly looked like "Life"existed in Elizabeths womb.Ponder that!!
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 08, 2019, 11:34:29 am
95% is a made up statistic.  When you have to make up the numbers, you know it is a bogus argument.


I apologize for the wonky formatting. I was trying to make it more readable, and it messed up the columns and format a bit.


It looks like JediJohnnie's number is actually pretty close since the top six or seven reasons can all be boiled down to some sort of convenience excuse/argument. Is it exactly 95% - no, obviously not... But it is much closer to that (hovering around 90-95% depending on which you consider to be convenience arguments and since you cannot really classify the 4% other - can't rule it in, but also can't fully rule it out either) and far far far far away from being a "made up" statistic to support a bogus argument.


So before you decide to disregard someone's argument by accusing them of making up numbers, maybe do a little bit of research first. Dismissing an opposing viewpoint as bogus simply because it cites to a statistic is being just as shortsighted as what you are [wrongfully] accusing JediJohnnie of (i.e. making up numbers). That is the sort of tactic people who have no convincing counter argument usually resort to.


I pulled this list from this website (https://www.abortionfacts.com/facts/8) under the heading The vast majority of abortions are elective. But if you look at their source (cited below) you can track it back to the original source - one that is widely cited elsewhere.




 
Why Women Choose Abortion
Inadequate finances to raise a child
21%
Not ready for responsibility
21%
Woman's life would be changed too much
16%
Problems with relationship; unmarried
12%
Too young; not mature enough
11%
Children are grown; woman has all she wants
8%
Unborn child has possible health problems
3%
Woman has health problems
3%
Pregnancy caused by rape, incest
1%
Other
4%
(Average number of reasons given:   3.7)
Source: Torres and Forrest, as cited by Physicians for Reproductive Choice and Health and the Alan Guttmacher Institute in An Overview of Abortion in the United States
(October 2001)


None of the statistics equal "convenience."
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on July 11, 2019, 02:19:28 pm
If YOU are not the one that is pregnant, you should not have a say! I don't see how men are the ones making these laws.

Also, Separation of church and state!

Investigate and find out what separation of church and state really means before you throw it into an argument. It's actually to keep the state (government) from forming a state religion and not at all about keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs. It's not in the Constitution per se. It was a paraphrase by Thomas Jefferson.

The following quote is from from Teachinghistory.org.:

"The United States Constitution does not state in so many words that there is a separation of church and state. The first part of the First Amendment to the Constitution states: “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.” Therefore, it is more accurate to say that the Constitution promotes freedom of religion and prohibits the federal government from inhibiting its citizens’ ability to worship as they wish."

BTW, men should definitely have a say on whether or not their babies are slaughtered before they're allowed to be born. It shouldn't only be the woman's prerogative. The daddies might actually want to be a daddies. Why doesn't anyone think about them?

And even if they are not the daddies, why should they necessarily be for murdering babies by anyone? Unborn babies are still human beings (albeit quite small and helpless) and deserve the right to live. And if men want to fight for the defenseless little babes, I say, "Go for it!"


I didn't feel the need to be technical about "separation of church and state" but it seems like you clearly understood that I was referring to "keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs."   ;)

So we should go by what you mean instead of the original meaning of the text?

You understand that there is a difference between a fetus and a baby, right?

The definition of fetus is an unborn human baby.


Also, I hope you don't truly think it is simply a matter of wanting or not wanting to be daddies/parents.

Just what do people become after they have a baby? What do you call them other than mommies/daddies/parents? Or do you mean that they are okay with being mommies/daddies/parents (or whatever name you what to ascribe to them) as long as they can have the authority to end their fetus/baby's life?

And why would anyone think they have the right to make a decision that doesn't regard their own being in the first place? And the woman should be able to decide what happens to the "unborn babies" she (NOT the "daddies" or other men it may/may not concern) is carrying (in HER body, in case that isn't clear) especially if it endangers her "right to live."

I would respect a woman's decision to have an abortion if it really threatened her life, but those cases are extremely rare. And I still hold that a man should be involved in a decision that will end the life of his own offspring. He was definitely involved in the conception. Many men are capable of being responsible and caring.

Also, "slaughtered" made me giggle.

If the word "slaughtered" in reference to unborn babies made you giggle, then you already have a heart problem.


When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit.

Do  u understand what that scripture means?Elizabeth was carrying John the Baptist and Mary was to be Jesus mom.It certainly looked like "Life"existed in Elizabeths womb.Ponder that!!

I'm familiar with the scripture and I do realize that life existed in both of the women's bodies. What is the point you're trying to make? And I'm very happy that Elizabeth and Mary elected to have their babies. Ponder that.

I knew when this thread was started that there would no changing of opinion on either side. I expected it might become ugly and that was never my intention. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I think it's tragic if that opinion takes another person's life.

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 11, 2019, 02:48:44 pm
To Linder

My last post was only based on the bible.Above that looks like my post but it isnt.That was NOT directed at you cos i see you are against abortions as i am and i support Gods word on it.Your ending comment "ponder that"was directed at me cos u thought i was talking to you.I wasnt!!!Slaughtered made me giggle was NOT my post.Im sure i directed it at Nicky.

The only thing we disagree with is you think babies go to heaven and that ws addressed by me already.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: nickylanena on July 11, 2019, 06:12:39 pm
If YOU are not the one that is pregnant, you should not have a say! I don't see how men are the ones making these laws.

Also, Separation of church and state!

Investigate and find out what separation of church and state really means before you throw it into an argument. It's actually to keep the state (government) from forming a state religion and not at all about keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs. It's not in the Constitution per se. It was a paraphrase by Thomas Jefferson.

The following quote is from from Teachinghistory.org.:

"The United States Constitution does not state in so many words that there is a separation of church and state. The first part of the First Amendment to the Constitution states: “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.” Therefore, it is more accurate to say that the Constitution promotes freedom of religion and prohibits the federal government from inhibiting its citizens’ ability to worship as they wish."

BTW, men should definitely have a say on whether or not their babies are slaughtered before they're allowed to be born. It shouldn't only be the woman's prerogative. The daddies might actually want to be a daddies. Why doesn't anyone think about them?

And even if they are not the daddies, why should they necessarily be for murdering babies by anyone? Unborn babies are still human beings (albeit quite small and helpless) and deserve the right to live. And if men want to fight for the defenseless little babes, I say, "Go for it!"


I didn't feel the need to be technical about "separation of church and state" but it seems like you clearly understood that I was referring to "keeping religion, or God, out of governmental affairs."   ;)

So we should go by what you mean instead of the original meaning of the text?

Yes.

You understand that there is a difference between a fetus and a baby, right?

The definition of fetus is an unborn human baby.

Yes, unborn.

Also, I hope you don't truly think it is simply a matter of wanting or not wanting to be daddies/parents.

Just what do people become after they have a baby? What do you call them other than mommies/daddies/parents? Or do you mean that they are okay with being mommies/daddies/parents (or whatever name you what to ascribe to them) as long as they can have the authority to end their fetus/baby's life?
The way you speak of it makes it sound as if the man is missing out on an opportunity [of being a parent], and the issue is deeper than that.

And why would anyone think they have the right to make a decision that doesn't regard their own being in the first place? And the woman should be able to decide what happens to the "unborn babies" she (NOT the "daddies" or other men it may/may not concern) is carrying (in HER body, in case that isn't clear) especially if it endangers her "right to live."

I would respect a woman's decision to have an abortion if it really threatened her life, but those cases are extremely rare. And I still hold that a man should be involved in a decision that will end the life of his own offspring. He was definitely involved in the conception. Many men are capable of being responsible and caring.
Life threatening abortion cases are only a fraction to the whole, as you mentioned. Sadly, additional realities include women and girls getting pregnant as a result of rape who do not desire to keep the child. Then, there are the families who conceive and find out that their unborn has a fetal anomaly (ie. rare disorder,defect) making them want to terminate the pregnancy. Furthermore, there are people who just aren't ready or able to care for a child (adoption doesn't work for everyone).
People are not just having abortions on a whim.


Also, "slaughtered" made me giggle.

If the word "slaughtered" in reference to unborn babies made you giggle, then you already have a heart problem.
No, my heart, as of now, is A-Okay.  :) But, yes, in this context I giggle at the tone in which I consider to be over-dramatic.


When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit.

Do  u understand what that scripture means?Elizabeth was carrying John the Baptist and Mary was to be Jesus mom.It certainly looked like "Life"existed in Elizabeths womb.Ponder that!!

I'm familiar with the scripture and I do realize that life existed in both of the women's bodies. What is the point you're trying to make? And I'm very happy that Elizabeth and Mary elected to have their babies. Ponder that.

I knew when this thread was started that there would no changing of opinion on either side. I expected it might become ugly and that was never my intention. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I think it's tragic if that opinion takes another person's life.


This is from another person who also replied, not me, so I have no idea what point he/she was trying to make...
And, yes, it would be foolish to think an online forum would change anyone's opinions on such a topic (but if that's anyone's goal - they can give it a go). I don't think this has turned ugly, but I don't mind civilly challenging views I don't necessarily agree with.

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on July 12, 2019, 10:37:15 am
95% is a made up statistic.  When you have to make up the numbers, you know it is a bogus argument.


I apologize for the wonky formatting. I was trying to make it more readable, and it messed up the columns and format a bit.


It looks like JediJohnnie's number is actually pretty close since the top six or seven reasons can all be boiled down to some sort of convenience excuse/argument. Is it exactly 95% - no, obviously not... But it is much closer to that (hovering around 90-95% depending on which you consider to be convenience arguments and since you cannot really classify the 4% other - can't rule it in, but also can't fully rule it out either) and far far far far away from being a "made up" statistic to support a bogus argument.


So before you decide to disregard someone's argument by accusing them of making up numbers, maybe do a little bit of research first. Dismissing an opposing viewpoint as bogus simply because it cites to a statistic is being just as shortsighted as what you are [wrongfully] accusing JediJohnnie of (i.e. making up numbers). That is the sort of tactic people who have no convincing counter argument usually resort to.


I pulled this list from this website (https://www.abortionfacts.com/facts/8) under the heading The vast majority of abortions are elective. But if you look at their source (cited below) you can track it back to the original source - one that is widely cited elsewhere.




 
Why Women Choose Abortion
Inadequate finances to raise a child
21%
Not ready for responsibility
21%
Woman's life would be changed too much
16%
Problems with relationship; unmarried
12%
Too young; not mature enough
11%
Children are grown; woman has all she wants
8%
Unborn child has possible health problems
3%
Woman has health problems
3%
Pregnancy caused by rape, incest
1%
Other
4%
(Average number of reasons given:   3.7)
Source: Torres and Forrest, as cited by Physicians for Reproductive Choice and Health and the Alan Guttmacher Institute in An Overview of Abortion in the United States
(October 2001)


None of the statistics equal "convenience."

IMO, yes they do. Perfectly.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: nickylanena on July 12, 2019, 10:46:36 pm
95% is a made up statistic.  When you have to make up the numbers, you know it is a bogus argument.


I apologize for the wonky formatting. I was trying to make it more readable, and it messed up the columns and format a bit.


It looks like JediJohnnie's number is actually pretty close since the top six or seven reasons can all be boiled down to some sort of convenience excuse/argument. Is it exactly 95% - no, obviously not... But it is much closer to that (hovering around 90-95% depending on which you consider to be convenience arguments and since you cannot really classify the 4% other - can't rule it in, but also can't fully rule it out either) and far far far far away from being a "made up" statistic to support a bogus argument.


So before you decide to disregard someone's argument by accusing them of making up numbers, maybe do a little bit of research first. Dismissing an opposing viewpoint as bogus simply because it cites to a statistic is being just as shortsighted as what you are [wrongfully] accusing JediJohnnie of (i.e. making up numbers). That is the sort of tactic people who have no convincing counter argument usually resort to.


I pulled this list from this website (https://www.abortionfacts.com/facts/8) under the heading The vast majority of abortions are elective. But if you look at their source (cited below) you can track it back to the original source - one that is widely cited elsewhere.




 
Why Women Choose Abortion
Inadequate finances to raise a child
21%
Not ready for responsibility
21%
Woman's life would be changed too much
16%
Problems with relationship; unmarried
12%
Too young; not mature enough
11%
Children are grown; woman has all she wants
8%
Unborn child has possible health problems
3%
Woman has health problems
3%
Pregnancy caused by rape, incest
1%
Other
4%
(Average number of reasons given:   3.7)
Source: Torres and Forrest, as cited by Physicians for Reproductive Choice and Health and the Alan Guttmacher Institute in An Overview of Abortion in the United States
(October 2001)


None of the statistics equal "convenience."

IMO, yes they do. Perfectly.

Was this reposted for me to see? If so, this pretty much sums up what I said - there are many realities/reasons in which a woman would choose to get an abortion. Each of the aforementioned is a reason. Whether a woman feels ready or not to give birth/raise a child or whether they are facing complications with a pregnancy is still a valid reason for that woman. You/him/her/they/we may not like the reasoning but who is anyone else to decide (despite beliefs and feelings)?

Either way, IMO these are decisions that are thoroughly thought out and not merely whimsical.

If this wasn't posted for me to see, thanks for sharing regardless.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 13, 2019, 07:52:24 am
Many wanna put a lot of emphasis on the thought out process when the woman IS pregnant.Too bad most of the time that same thought out process didnt come into play sooner.<like being carefull>

But we all err.DONT continue to do so taking away a life.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 15, 2019, 06:14:18 pm

None of the statistics equal "convenience."


EVERY of the statistics I referenced in my earlier explanation of this post equals "convenience"
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 15, 2019, 10:14:45 pm

None of the statistics equal "convenience."


EVERY of the statistics I referenced in my earlier explanation of this post equals "convenience"

In your opinion. 
Since you will never be faced with making that choice, your opinion doesn't matter.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 16, 2019, 12:14:32 pm

None of the statistics equal "convenience."


EVERY of the statistics I referenced in my earlier explanation of this post equals "convenience"

In your opinion. 
Since you will never be faced with making that choice, your opinion doesn't matter.


 ::) :'(
The eye roll is for your faulty logic and unwillingness to have a rational discussion about a topic when someone presents a legitimate response to your faulty logic - I've already given a rational response to your "statistics are made up" argument. Your response is that I am not entitled to an opinion because I am a man.  That is the most BS asinine argument out there and I have lost quite a bit of respect for you for making it.  There are many women who share and would echo my opinion verbatim. In your mind, do they have a right to the same opinions I profess because at least they are women who might be faced with an unexpected pregnancy? Why or why not?


The teary eyes are for all of the children (not inanimate lifeless tissue) who will die as a result of entitlement thinking such as yours.


Inadequate finances to raise a child = it will cost too much to have/raise this child - making it inconvenient for me. Having $ is more important than the life I have created, which will suck away all of my fun money. Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Not ready for responsibility = raising a child is too big of a responsibility - it would be inconvenient for me to end my selfish me first lifestyle and be a nurturing mom to this life I have created. I'm not ready to do that, so I will kill the unborn child instead. Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Woman's life would be changed too much = having and raising this child will impact my daily schedule and where my focus and energy are directed. It will change my world from top top bottom. I don't want to change my life, so I will instead end the life of that child which would otherwise change it. Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Problems with relationship; unmarried = My boyfriend is going to hate/leave me if I have a baby and he is forced to man up and pay child support; or I cannot do this alone as a single mother. Since I am not married and my baby's father is a worthless piece of crap, I will kill the life we have created to avoid the struggles that come from single motherhood.  Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Too young; not mature enough = I am not old enough or experienced enough to raise a child myself. I might actually have to grow up and take responsibility for my actions. It would be much easier if I just kill this life I've created instead. Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Children are grown; woman has all she wants = I thought I was completely done with dirty diapers, potty training, school programs, sassy teenagers, etc. It's my turn to be the center of my universe again. This baby I've created is going to ruin that plan.  Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Unborn child has possible health problems = I don't want a child that isn't perfect or is more difficult to take care of than a 'normal' child without special needs or one that might die anyway. Instead of the unconditional love that I will get from a sick or special needs child, my focus is on the pain or embarrassment that I will suffer as a result of this imperfect child and I should kill it now rather than wait to see what blessings he or she might bring into my life.  Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

The last two categories: Woman has health problems and Pregnancy caused by rape, incest I am not going to classify as convenience arguments - although depending on the specific circumstances they still could be.

I have known women who have been in each one of these possible situations and have chosen the inconvenience of having a baby over the convenience of killing a baby. I have also known women who have been on the other side and had to make a really difficult and heart wrenching decision to terminate a pregnancy. I have compassion and love for those women (and their deceased babies) and the truly awful decisions they faced. To anyone in this forum who has been in that horrible position, you have my sympathy and support, even if you feel like I am lashing out at you. It is my belief that you can be forgiven for that decision just like any other sin can be forgiven... but that doesn't make the next convenience killing of an unborn child right or okay.

I stand by my earlier point. The vast majority of abortions are performed for convenience sake. My male gender or @paints strong opposing viewpoint does not change that fact.

Women and young girls are both burdened and blessed with the responsibility of being the child-bearers. It absolutely sucks when they are scared and alone in facing that situation and the young men who have a hand in the life creation should also have something at stake. Thankfully, in many circumstances, the fathers do step up and take responsibility. Sadly, in many other cases - they show their true colors and skate away free.
This does not change the fact that a young innocent beautiful little boy or girl is just beginning to start a life journey and deserves a chance to make something special happen on that journey.

When the start of that little one's big journey is seen as nothing more than an inconvenience to mom it makes me cry inside. :'(
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 16, 2019, 12:47:17 pm
[quote author=nickylanena link=topic=89122.msg1284053#msg1284053 date=1562996796]
Was this reposted for me to see? If so, this pretty much sums up what I said - there are many realities/reasons in which a woman would choose to get an abortion. Each of the aforementioned is a reason. Whether a woman feels ready or not to give birth/raise a child or whether they are facing complications with a pregnancy is still a valid reason for that woman. You/him/her/they/we may not like the reasoning but who is anyone else to decide (despite beliefs and feelings)?

Either way, IMO these are decisions that are thoroughly thought out and not merely whimsical.

If this wasn't posted for me to see, thanks for sharing regardless.




@nickylanena, it was originally posted to counter another member who attacked JediJohnnie's earlier post about roughly 95% of abortions being performed for the sake of convenience and that member's baseless claim that Johnnie was spouting fake made up statistics.  When Johnnie was proven correct with verified sourced statistics, she devolved into lower and more baseless arguments until finally hitting rock bottom with: men have no right to any opinions.

You are correct that each category is a legitimate reason given - valid or not - they are the reasons truthfully given and thought out by the person facing the abortion. The point though - is that the vast majority of these categories boils down to convenience rather than health.  The main shouting points are always: Health of the mother!!! and Rape & Incest!!!  Yet statistics show that these make up such a small number of the overall abortions.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 16, 2019, 05:40:07 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 16, 2019, 05:49:19 pm
Okay - well I didn't expect to change your mind anyway, but hopefully gave you something to think about.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: nickylanena on July 17, 2019, 12:44:35 am
[quote author=nickylanena link=topic=89122.msg1284053#msg1284053 date=1562996796]
Was this reposted for me to see? If so, this pretty much sums up what I said - there are many realities/reasons in which a woman would choose to get an abortion. Each of the aforementioned is a reason. Whether a woman feels ready or not to give birth/raise a child or whether they are facing complications with a pregnancy is still a valid reason for that woman. You/him/her/they/we may not like the reasoning but who is anyone else to decide (despite beliefs and feelings)?

Either way, IMO these are decisions that are thoroughly thought out and not merely whimsical.

If this wasn't posted for me to see, thanks for sharing regardless.




@nickylanena, it was originally posted to counter another member who attacked JediJohnnie's earlier post about roughly 95% of abortions being performed for the sake of convenience and that member's baseless claim that Johnnie was spouting fake made up statistics.  When Johnnie was proven correct with verified sourced statistics, she devolved into lower and more baseless arguments until finally hitting rock bottom with: men have no right to any opinions.

You are correct that each category is a legitimate reason given - valid or not - they are the reasons truthfully given and thought out by the person facing the abortion. The point though - is that the vast majority of these categories boils down to convenience rather than health.  The main shouting points are always: Health of the mother!!! and Rape & Incest!!!  Yet statistics show that these make up such a small number of the overall abortions.

Hi UGetPaid,

I was asking linderlizzie if she had reposted this for me. I do agree that they are the main points people bring up (maybe even more so when justifying late-term abortions). But I wanted to point out to her, like you also mentioned, that each of the aforementioned is a reason.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 17, 2019, 08:06:45 am

Hi UGetPaid,

I was asking linderlizzie if she had reposted this for me. I do agree that they are the main points people bring up (maybe even more so when justifying late-term abortions). But I wanted to point out to her, like you also mentioned, that each of the aforementioned is a reason.



They are reasons certainly. And in all fairness and honesty, there are crossovers among these listed reasons and other individual specific circumstances that cannot be known in a general poll like this. Everything doesn't fit into a neat and tidy little box. But generally speaking I think this sheds significant light on the disparity between health risks to the mother versus convenience of termination.


It's not an easy topic to address and strongly held opinions are not going to change. I have yet to hear a compelling argument for allowing full access, no questions asked abortions - and I can frankly say that I don't believe there is an argument out there that would satisfy me.  But I will gladly listen if anyone wants the challenge of changing my mind or of expressing an opposing position, which I was willing to do with paints.  (Still am willing to listen if she will concede that I have a right to my own opinion).


But it is difficult to have a productive discussion about it if one side fails to acknowledge the other side's right to an opinion or refuses to address specific points made which argue against their own opinion.


Many people on many topics - religion, politics, etc. have opinions that differ from mine. I think that they are wrong and I will point that out when the topic is one I am especially passionate about - like this one. My opinion that they are wrong has ZERO impact on my belief that they have a right to have and voice their opposing opinion.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 17, 2019, 04:56:39 pm
Okay - well I didn't expect to change your mind anyway, but hopefully gave you something to think about.

As a woman who has gone through 2 life-threatening pregnancies and several miscarriages,  I have thought it through extensively.  Up close and personal.

 
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 17, 2019, 07:07:03 pm

None of the statistics equal "convenience."


EVERY of the statistics I referenced in my earlier explanation of this post equals "convenience"

In your opinion. 
Since you will never be faced with making that choice, your opinion doesn't matter.

Facts are NOT opinion. UGetPaid gave you the stats (Thanks, BTW. I knew them, but didn't know where to find them for reference.) You can't call stats 'opinion' to suit your argument.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 17, 2019, 07:09:44 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 17, 2019, 07:14:52 pm

None of the statistics equal "convenience."


EVERY of the statistics I referenced in my earlier explanation of this post equals "convenience"

In your opinion. 
Since you will never be faced with making that choice, your opinion doesn't matter.


 ::) :'(
The eye roll is for your faulty logic and unwillingness to have a rational discussion about a topic when someone presents a legitimate response to your faulty logic - I've already given a rational response to your "statistics are made up" argument. Your response is that I am not entitled to an opinion because I am a man.  That is the most BS asinine argument out there and I have lost quite a bit of respect for you for making it.  There are many women who share and would echo my opinion verbatim. In your mind, do they have a right to the same opinions I profess because at least they are women who might be faced with an unexpected pregnancy? Why or why not?


The teary eyes are for all of the children (not inanimate lifeless tissue) who will die as a result of entitlement thinking such as yours.


Inadequate finances to raise a child = it will cost too much to have/raise this child - making it inconvenient for me. Having $ is more important than the life I have created, which will suck away all of my fun money. Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Not ready for responsibility = raising a child is too big of a responsibility - it would be inconvenient for me to end my selfish me first lifestyle and be a nurturing mom to this life I have created. I'm not ready to do that, so I will kill the unborn child instead. Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Woman's life would be changed too much = having and raising this child will impact my daily schedule and where my focus and energy are directed. It will change my world from top top bottom. I don't want to change my life, so I will instead end the life of that child which would otherwise change it. Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Problems with relationship; unmarried = My boyfriend is going to hate/leave me if I have a baby and he is forced to man up and pay child support; or I cannot do this alone as a single mother. Since I am not married and my baby's father is a worthless piece of crap, I will kill the life we have created to avoid the struggles that come from single motherhood.  Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Too young; not mature enough = I am not old enough or experienced enough to raise a child myself. I might actually have to grow up and take responsibility for my actions. It would be much easier if I just kill this life I've created instead. Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Children are grown; woman has all she wants = I thought I was completely done with dirty diapers, potty training, school programs, sassy teenagers, etc. It's my turn to be the center of my universe again. This baby I've created is going to ruin that plan.  Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

Unborn child has possible health problems = I don't want a child that isn't perfect or is more difficult to take care of than a 'normal' child without special needs or one that might die anyway. Instead of the unconditional love that I will get from a sick or special needs child, my focus is on the pain or embarrassment that I will suffer as a result of this imperfect child and I should kill it now rather than wait to see what blessings he or she might bring into my life.  Abortion = Convenience Objective truth... not my opinion.

The last two categories: Woman has health problems and Pregnancy caused by rape, incest I am not going to classify as convenience arguments - although depending on the specific circumstances they still could be.

I have known women who have been in each one of these possible situations and have chosen the inconvenience of having a baby over the convenience of killing a baby. I have also known women who have been on the other side and had to make a really difficult and heart wrenching decision to terminate a pregnancy. I have compassion and love for those women (and their deceased babies) and the truly awful decisions they faced. To anyone in this forum who has been in that horrible position, you have my sympathy and support, even if you feel like I am lashing out at you. It is my belief that you can be forgiven for that decision just like any other sin can be forgiven... but that doesn't make the next convenience killing of an unborn child right or okay.

I stand by my earlier point. The vast majority of abortions are performed for convenience sake. My male gender or @paints strong opposing viewpoint does not change that fact.

Women and young girls are both burdened and blessed with the responsibility of being the child-bearers. It absolutely sucks when they are scared and alone in facing that situation and the young men who have a hand in the life creation should also have something at stake. Thankfully, in many circumstances, the fathers do step up and take responsibility. Sadly, in many other cases - they show their true colors and skate away free.
This does not change the fact that a young innocent beautiful little boy or girl is just beginning to start a life journey and deserves a chance to make something special happen on that journey.

When the start of that little one's big journey is seen as nothing more than an inconvenience to mom it makes me cry inside. :'(

This is the best post on the topic I've ever seen. Thank You.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 17, 2019, 07:25:57 pm
Okay - well I didn't expect to change your mind anyway, but hopefully gave you something to think about.

As a woman who has gone through 2 life-threatening pregnancies and several miscarriages,  I have thought it through extensively.  Up close and personal.
Hi Paints.First off i am sorry you had those experiences.

Drs are NOT always right.We all have seen they can be wrong and i have seen a few malpractices in our family over the yrs.

May i ask were the 2 pregnancies aborted?

In Gods eyes if a woman is told she must choose between her and the child the matter lies with your decision.This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.Ones conscience would come into play as well.

I know Jesus said the greatest love one can have for someone is to give their life.I am sure if faced with that many may find it difficult and i guess thats why we get 2nd opinions eh?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 18, 2019, 03:07:17 am

In Gods eyes if a woman is told she must choose between her and the child the matter lies with your decision.This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.Ones conscience would come into play as well.



When a mother's life is legitimately at stake, it is not an abortion out of convenience - which was never anyone's argument in this thread that I saw.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 18, 2019, 05:54:29 am

In Gods eyes if a woman is told she must choose between her and the child the matter lies with your decision.This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.Ones conscience would come into play as well.



When a mother's life is legitimately at stake, it is not an abortion out of convenience - which was never anyone's argument in this thread that I saw.
You misunderstood me.Convenience as in let me worry about it later,i can always have an abortion.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 18, 2019, 10:14:51 am
You misunderstood me.Convenience as in let me worry about it later,i can always have an abortion.


I think I see where I misread your comment
This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.

I thought you were saying something different.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 18, 2019, 11:09:34 am
You misunderstood me.Convenience as in let me worry about it later,i can always have an abortion.


I think I see where I misread your comment
This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.

I thought you were saying something different.
No prob keeping me honest U......even when i proof read posts LaLa land sometimes is round the corner.

I tried to explain Drs may say its either you or the baby.And i backed it with its entirely up to mom to decide.And i said Drs arent always right.2nd opinion maybe needed.Maybe a life and death situation does exist.

But convenience is another thing.The desire of the flesh caused this to happen and they werent worried about it to start.2 different cases.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 18, 2019, 12:17:02 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 
When the life that you can see-the woman-matters less to you than the potential life you can't, your opinion counts for less than nothing.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 18, 2019, 12:27:23 pm
Okay - well I didn't expect to change your mind anyway, but hopefully gave you something to think about.

As a woman who has gone through 2 life-threatening pregnancies and several miscarriages,  I have thought it through extensively.  Up close and personal.
Hi Paints.First off i am sorry you had those experiences.

Drs are NOT always right.We all have seen they can be wrong and i have seen a few malpractices in our family over the yrs.

May i ask were the 2 pregnancies aborted?

In Gods eyes if a woman is told she must choose between her and the child the matter lies with your decision.This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.Ones conscience would come into play as well.

I know Jesus said the greatest love one can have for someone is to give their life.I am sure if faced with that many may find it difficult and i guess thats why we get 2nd opinions eh?

Neither were aborted, though the choice was always there if it became necessary.  I thank God that my doctor saw me as a whole human being rather than a walking incubator. 

God gave women the responsibility of bearing children.  He doesn't require us to die in order to do so.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 18, 2019, 12:41:56 pm
Okay - well I didn't expect to change your mind anyway, but hopefully gave you something to think about.

As a woman who has gone through 2 life-threatening pregnancies and several miscarriages,  I have thought it through extensively.  Up close and personal.
Hi Paints.First off i am sorry you had those experiences.

Drs are NOT always right.We all have seen they can be wrong and i have seen a few malpractices in our family over the yrs.

May i ask were the 2 pregnancies aborted?

In Gods eyes if a woman is told she must choose between her and the child the matter lies with your decision.This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.Ones conscience would come into play as well.

I know Jesus said the greatest love one can have for someone is to give their life.I am sure if faced with that many may find it difficult and i guess thats why we get 2nd opinions eh?

Neither were aborted, though the choice was always there if it became necessary.  I thank God that my doctor saw me as a whole human being rather than a walking incubator. 

God gave women the responsibility of bearing children.  He doesn't require us to die in order to do so.
I am glad it worked out that way.

Im sticking to my guns how God views it and as i explained to UG.I am glad you had a good Dr.There are 2 human lives involved here <as long as twins arent involved>....Life is precious in Gods eyes period for ALL.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 18, 2019, 01:45:23 pm

When the life that you can see-the woman-matters less to you than the potential life you can't, your opinion counts for less than nothing.





Neither were aborted, though the choice was always there if it became necessary.  I thank God that my doctor saw me as a whole human being rather than a walking incubator. 

God gave women the responsibility of bearing children.  He doesn't require us to die in order to do so.



For what it's worth (and at the risk of getting your ire up again - which is not my intention), just to be clear - a mother's health being at risk is a much different issue than when pregnancy causes a financial crisis or having a baby will disrupt the mother's lifestyle or impose too big of a responsibility.


I know that your quotes above were directed at other thread comments not directly to me and I understand that I have no right to an opinion, but did you not get that point from my prior posts?  If so, I apparently need to do a better job of expressing myself.


The point I am trying to make here is that both lives matter. The mother's life does not matter any less and in many cases matters more - but when we are only talking about the mother's inconvenience then that DOES matter less than the baby's life.


In cases where there is no threat to the woman's health, the baby's life should be protected. In situations where the mother's health is at risk - medical treatment should be given to save the mother. If that can be done while saving the child also - that should be considered. (This is not a doctor's forced incubation, but counseling and options and informed consent). If termination of the pregnancy is the only way to save the mother I see nothing wrong with that choice.


You are absolutely 100% correct when you say that God doesn't require women to die in order to bear children.  I have no qualms about giving full agreement with that statement. In some cases that does unfortunately happen. But the flip side of your statement is also true.  God also doesn't require or intend that innocent babies die in order for their mothers to live a more comfortable and less stressed life which the inconvenient pregnancy would bring about as a result if brought to term. I don't suppose I could get your agreement on that opinion?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 20, 2019, 12:12:07 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

 
When the life that you can see-the woman-matters less to you than the potential life you can't, your opinion counts for less than nothing.

Are you being purposely obtuse? We've been talking about Abortion ON DEMAND. Not when the woman's life is at stake.

A human life is still at stake either way, but don't act like we haven't been clearly defining terms here.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 20, 2019, 12:14:21 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 20, 2019, 08:40:26 pm

When the life that you can see-the woman-matters less to you than the potential life you can't, your opinion counts for less than nothing.





Neither were aborted, though the choice was always there if it became necessary.  I thank God that my doctor saw me as a whole human being rather than a walking incubator. 

God gave women the responsibility of bearing children.  He doesn't require us to die in order to do so.



For what it's worth (and at the risk of getting your ire up again - which is not my intention), just to be clear - a mother's health being at risk is a much different issue than when pregnancy causes a financial crisis or having a baby will disrupt the mother's lifestyle or impose too big of a responsibility.


I know that your quotes above were directed at other thread comments not directly to me and I understand that I have no right to an opinion, but did you not get that point from my prior posts?  If so, I apparently need to do a better job of expressing myself.


The point I am trying to make here is that both lives matter. The mother's life does not matter any less and in many cases matters more - but when we are only talking about the mother's inconvenience then that DOES matter less than the baby's life.


In cases where there is no threat to the woman's health, the baby's life should be protected. In situations where the mother's health is at risk - medical treatment should be given to save the mother. If that can be done while saving the child also - that should be considered. (This is not a doctor's forced incubation, but counseling and options and informed consent). If termination of the pregnancy is the only way to save the mother I see nothing wrong with that choice.


You are absolutely 100% correct when you say that God doesn't require women to die in order to bear children.  I have no qualms about giving full agreement with that statement. In some cases that does unfortunately happen. But the flip side of your statement is also true.  God also doesn't require or intend that innocent babies die in order for their mothers to live a more comfortable and less stressed life which the inconvenient pregnancy would bring about as a result if brought to term. I don't suppose I could get your agreement on that opinion?

What you call "inconvenient pregnancy" can mean life or death. 
Last winter, a homeless woman and her newborn baby froze to death on a park bench. 
Should she not have been able to abort, before both lives were lost?

If the woman has no value, how much do we really care about her unborn child?


Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 20, 2019, 08:45:53 pm
Okay - well I didn't expect to change your mind anyway, but hopefully gave you something to think about.

As a woman who has gone through 2 life-threatening pregnancies and several miscarriages,  I have thought it through extensively.  Up close and personal.
Hi Paints.First off i am sorry you had those experiences.

Drs are NOT always right.We all have seen they can be wrong and i have seen a few malpractices in our family over the yrs.

May i ask were the 2 pregnancies aborted?

In Gods eyes if a woman is told she must choose between her and the child the matter lies with your decision.This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.Ones conscience would come into play as well.

I know Jesus said the greatest love one can have for someone is to give their life.I am sure if faced with that many may find it difficult and i guess thats why we get 2nd opinions eh?

Neither were aborted, though the choice was always there if it became necessary.  I thank God that my doctor saw me as a whole human being rather than a walking incubator. 

God gave women the responsibility of bearing children.  He doesn't require us to die in order to do so.
I am glad it worked out that way.

Im sticking to my guns how God views it and as i explained to UG.I am glad you had a good Dr.There are 2 human lives involved here <as long as twins arent involved>....Life is precious in Gods eyes period for ALL.

There is one human life and one potential life involved.  The woman is life.  Take care of her.  The contents of her uterus is not your concern. 
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 20, 2019, 08:49:16 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

 
When the life that you can see-the woman-matters less to you than the potential life you can't, your opinion counts for less than nothing.

Are you being purposely obtuse? We've been talking about Abortion ON DEMAND. Not when the woman's life is at stake.

A human life is still at stake either way, but don't act like we haven't been clearly defining terms here.

On demand, without apology.  You don't know my life.  I am responsible to God for my choices.  Not to you, or anyone else.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 20, 2019, 09:01:56 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.

After the last slaves were freed, women were still property. 
The patriarchal church has tried to keep it that way. 






Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 20, 2019, 09:40:28 pm
Paints i know we live in a world of injustice and the rich get richer and the poor get poorer......but maybe the mom had a family or could have gotten help so they didnt freeze to death.Dont say if she aborted the baby her life would have been better.

Injustice will always continue in this satanic men run world.Jesus was the son of God and got executed unfairly.

Its NOT only woman.......its blacks,muslims,animals....need i go on?

To add a lttle humor maybe i shoulda added Republicans and Democrats also.



Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 21, 2019, 12:53:18 pm


You are absolutely 100% correct when you say that God doesn't require women to die in order to bear children.  I have no qualms about giving full agreement with that statement. In some cases that does unfortunately happen. But the flip side of your statement is also true.  God also doesn't require or intend that innocent babies die in order for their mothers to live a more comfortable and less stressed life which the inconvenient pregnancy would bring about as a result if brought to term. I don't suppose I could get your agreement on that opinion?

What you call "inconvenient pregnancy" can mean life or death. 
Last winter, a homeless woman and her newborn baby froze to death on a park bench. 
Should she not have been able to abort, before both lives were lost?

If the woman has no value, how much do we really care about her unborn child?


But you keep changing the parameters of the argument to suit your agenda and in the process make faulty assumptions of what I do or do not care about. I'm not able to justify my position to someone who keeps moving the goalposts.


With sincerity and unpatronizingly - may God bless you and your children, paints. I do not concede the argument to you, but I am not going to respond to your comment above which does not correlate in any way to what I said or the position I have consistently voiced.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 21, 2019, 07:07:38 pm


You are absolutely 100% correct when you say that God doesn't require women to die in order to bear children.  I have no qualms about giving full agreement with that statement. In some cases that does unfortunately happen. But the flip side of your statement is also true.  God also doesn't require or intend that innocent babies die in order for their mothers to live a more comfortable and less stressed life which the inconvenient pregnancy would bring about as a result if brought to term. I don't suppose I could get your agreement on that opinion?

What you call "inconvenient pregnancy" can mean life or death. 
Last winter, a homeless woman and her newborn baby froze to death on a park bench. 
Should she not have been able to abort, before both lives were lost?

If the woman has no value, how much do we really care about her unborn child?


But you keep changing the parameters of the argument to suit your agenda and in the process make faulty assumptions of what I do or do not care about. I'm not able to justify my position to someone who keeps moving the goalposts.


With sincerity and unpatronizingly - may God bless you and your children, paints. I do not concede the argument to you, but I am not going to respond to your comment above which does not correlate in any way to what I said or the position I have consistently voiced.

The only agenda I have is to support women in the choices they make for their own lives. 
Every child has the right to be wanted, loved and cared for. 
Support the woman.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 22, 2019, 06:44:29 am

Every child has the right to be wanted, loved and cared for. 



But not the right to live...   :'(

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on July 22, 2019, 08:37:55 am
I just want to thank Jedijohnnie and UGetPaid for taking so much heat in this debate while remaining so gentlemanly and responding so logically to all arguments, baseless ones and otherwise.  :notworthy:
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 23, 2019, 01:43:47 am

Every child has the right to be wanted, loved and cared for. 



But not the right to live...   :'(



The "right to life" was part of an admonition given to midwives by a pope.
That same pope that was so concerned about unborn fetuses covered up decades of child molestation by pedophile priests.
Condoned the breaking of women's pelvic bones instead of c-sections, because the "woman should have more children."
Condoned the forced abortion of the fetuses of nuns, who had been raped by priests. 

Forgive me if I think my moral compass is at least as finely honed.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 23, 2019, 05:35:58 am
You are forgiven.   ;)
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 23, 2019, 07:51:48 am
The "right to life" was part of an admonition given to midwives by a pope.
That same pope that was so concerned about unborn fetuses covered up decades of child molestation by pedophile priests.
Condoned the breaking of women's pelvic bones instead of c-sections, because the "woman should have more children."
Condoned the forced abortion of the fetuses of nuns, who had been raped by priests. 

1st Corinth 5:13  SUM   PIC   XRF   DEV   STU
Verse  (Click for Chapter)
New International Version
God will judge those outside. "Expel the wicked person from among you."


RE the pope and other priests.....guess it didnt happen eh?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on July 24, 2019, 11:10:44 am
You are forgiven.   ;)

Thank you.  :D
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 25, 2019, 11:32:25 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.

After the last slaves were freed, women were still property. 
The patriarchal church has tried to keep it that way. 








Seems to me you've got an ax to grind with the Catholic Church. As someone who is not Catholic, this means nothing to me or my argument. My point is that you're not seeing the unborn as a person any more than slave owners saw their slaves as anything more than cattle.

And like slave owners, pro-abortioners don't want the problem of granting their victims humanity for the sake of convenience.

Just like it was easier to see slaves as less then human. Who wants the hassle of actually dealing with hiring workers to be paid and expect fair treatment and conditions? What an inconvenience, Right?

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 25, 2019, 11:34:01 pm
Okay - well I didn't expect to change your mind anyway, but hopefully gave you something to think about.

As a woman who has gone through 2 life-threatening pregnancies and several miscarriages,  I have thought it through extensively.  Up close and personal.
Hi Paints.First off i am sorry you had those experiences.

Drs are NOT always right.We all have seen they can be wrong and i have seen a few malpractices in our family over the yrs.

May i ask were the 2 pregnancies aborted?

In Gods eyes if a woman is told she must choose between her and the child the matter lies with your decision.This isnt a matter of convenience as others have argued here.Ones conscience would come into play as well.

I know Jesus said the greatest love one can have for someone is to give their life.I am sure if faced with that many may find it difficult and i guess thats why we get 2nd opinions eh?

Neither were aborted, though the choice was always there if it became necessary.  I thank God that my doctor saw me as a whole human being rather than a walking incubator. 

God gave women the responsibility of bearing children.  He doesn't require us to die in order to do so.
I am glad it worked out that way.

Im sticking to my guns how God views it and as i explained to UG.I am glad you had a good Dr.There are 2 human lives involved here <as long as twins arent involved>....Life is precious in Gods eyes period for ALL.

There is one human life and one potential life involved.  The woman is life.  Take care of her.  The contents of her uterus is not your concern. 

I just want to thank Jedijohnnie and UGetPaid for taking so much heat in this debate while remaining so gentlemanly and responding so logically to all arguments, baseless ones and otherwise.  :notworthy:

Thank you so much. I try.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on July 25, 2019, 11:37:14 pm


You are absolutely 100% correct when you say that God doesn't require women to die in order to bear children.  I have no qualms about giving full agreement with that statement. In some cases that does unfortunately happen. But the flip side of your statement is also true.  God also doesn't require or intend that innocent babies die in order for their mothers to live a more comfortable and less stressed life which the inconvenient pregnancy would bring about as a result if brought to term. I don't suppose I could get your agreement on that opinion?

What you call "inconvenient pregnancy" can mean life or death. 
Last winter, a homeless woman and her newborn baby froze to death on a park bench. 
Should she not have been able to abort, before both lives were lost?

If the woman has no value, how much do we really care about her unborn child?


But you keep changing the parameters of the argument to suit your agenda and in the process make faulty assumptions of what I do or do not care about. I'm not able to justify my position to someone who keeps moving the goalposts.


With sincerity and unpatronizingly - may God bless you and your children, paints. I do not concede the argument to you, but I am not going to respond to your comment above which does not correlate in any way to what I said or the position I have consistently voiced.

The only agenda I have is to support women in the choices they make for their own lives. 
Every child has the right to be wanted, loved and cared for. 
Support the woman.

How can they be any of those things when they're not allowed LIFE?

That's the galling thing. Thinking we can choose who has the right to live and die. It's disgusting. The 'unwanted, unloved & uncared for' are still deserving of life and nobody but God has the right to take it from them.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: king4cash on July 28, 2019, 08:03:57 pm
Abortion should be considerd a crime....
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Work2hard on July 31, 2019, 07:39:50 pm
Pro-choice
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: clickers on July 31, 2019, 07:58:36 pm
Exodus 20:13 King James Version of the Holy Bible: Thou shalt not kill.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Legslangevan on July 31, 2019, 09:23:26 pm
Exodus 20:13 King James Version of the Holy Bible: Thou shalt not kill.
Amen
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on August 17, 2019, 10:52:39 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.

After the last slaves were freed, women were still property. 
The patriarchal church has tried to keep it that way. 








Seems to me you've got an ax to grind with the Catholic Church. As someone who is not Catholic, this means nothing to me or my argument. My point is that you're not seeing the unborn as a person any more than slave owners saw their slaves as anything more than cattle.

And like slave owners, pro-abortioners don't want the problem of granting their victims humanity for the sake of convenience.

Just like it was easier to see slaves as less then human. Who wants the hassle of actually dealing with hiring workers to be paid and expect fair treatment and conditions? What an inconvenience, Right?



Ever hear of fruit of the poisonous tree? What do you think the Protestant denominations were protesting?

There are misogynists in every denomination.  Pedophiles and rapists too. 

Your analogy doesn't work, because the slave owner didn't carry the slave in their body.  By forcing women to carry to term, when it is not in her best interest, because of your beliefs, you count women as breeders.  Like cattle.  Or womb-slaves. 

Women own their bodies. 

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on August 18, 2019, 09:13:54 am
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.

After the last slaves were freed, women were still property. 
The patriarchal church has tried to keep it that way. 








Seems to me you've got an ax to grind with the Catholic Church. As someone who is not Catholic, this means nothing to me or my argument. My point is that you're not seeing the unborn as a person any more than slave owners saw their slaves as anything more than cattle.

And like slave owners, pro-abortioners don't want the problem of granting their victims humanity for the sake of convenience.

Just like it was easier to see slaves as less then human. Who wants the hassle of actually dealing with hiring workers to be paid and expect fair treatment and conditions? What an inconvenience, Right?



Ever hear of fruit of the poisonous tree? What do you think the Protestant denominations were protesting?

There are misogynists in every denomination.  Pedophiles and rapists too. 

Your analogy doesn't work, because the slave owner didn't carry the slave in their body.  By forcing women to carry to term, when it is not in her best interest, because of your beliefs, you count women as breeders.  Like cattle.  Or womb-slaves. 

Women own their bodies. 



The analogy serves, because it's a human rights issue.

Women own their bodies, not the right to kill another body inside them. That's a capitol offence.

This conversation is fruitless, because -try as some of us might- you still can't bring yourself to acknowledge there are situations where a life is being slaughtered from sheer convenience.  Bringing up 5,000 years of the patriarchy is not gonna change the fact that -today- billions of lives are snuffed out in the womb- for no reason other than convenience. That's not acceptable in a civilized society. People need to be responsible for their actions.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on August 18, 2019, 09:14:22 am
Abortion should be considerd a crime....

To God, it is.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: ericmyladisnow39 on August 18, 2019, 07:22:02 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.

After the last slaves were freed, women were still property. 
The patriarchal church has tried to keep it that way. 








Seems to me you've got an ax to grind with the Catholic Church. As someone who is not Catholic, this means nothing to me or my argument. My point is that you're not seeing the unborn as a person any more than slave owners saw their slaves as anything more than cattle.

And like slave owners, pro-abortioners don't want the problem of granting their victims humanity for the sake of convenience.

Just like it was easier to see slaves as less then human. Who wants the hassle of actually dealing with hiring workers to be paid and expect fair treatment and conditions? What an inconvenience, Right?



Ever hear of fruit of the poisonous tree? What do you think the Protestant denominations were protesting?

There are misogynists in every denomination.  Pedophiles and rapists too. 

Your analogy doesn't work, because the slave owner didn't carry the slave in their body.  By forcing women to carry to term, when it is not in her best interest, because of your beliefs, you count women as breeders.  Like cattle.  Or womb-slaves. 

Women own their bodies.
Paints,you say woman own their bodies.What about gays,drunkards and drug addicts?Clearly those 3 are sins against God.What makes abortion any different?

Not looking to debate with you,but God is out of the picture with you and HE views abortion as murder.

If you view the situation to be more important from a womans perspective rather then Gods.....i will accept how you feel and thats that.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: vp44 on August 31, 2019, 07:38:00 am
Pro abortion. No body business but the woman, man and the doctor. Plain and simple you think abortion is bad then don't have one.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Kimdud22 on September 08, 2019, 07:57:43 am
Pro choice. It should be a women's decision what she does with her own body. Coming from one who has been there herself due to personal reasons. Think about how it would be in someone else's shoes? Do I think someone should keep having them due to irresponsibility? Absolutely not.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on September 09, 2019, 12:38:23 pm
Do I think someone should keep having them due to irresponsibility? Absolutely not.


Which is exactly why it should not be a blanket statement left solely up to the individual woman's "choice"
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on September 09, 2019, 12:42:03 pm
Another very interesting (and deeply saddening) take on this topic is reported here (https://www.themix.net/2019/09/prageru-petition-save-eagles-abortion/).
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: 1imaginarygirl on September 09, 2019, 04:33:17 pm
Pro abortion.

Whoa! So you think ALL pregnancies should be terminated!?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Hammond25 on September 09, 2019, 06:54:34 pm
I dont agree with abortion  its a sin
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on September 10, 2019, 03:20:31 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.

After the last slaves were freed, women were still property. 
The patriarchal church has tried to keep it that way. 








Seems to me you've got an ax to grind with the Catholic Church. As someone who is not Catholic, this means nothing to me or my argument. My point is that you're not seeing the unborn as a person any more than slave owners saw their slaves as anything more than cattle.

And like slave owners, pro-abortioners don't want the problem of granting their victims humanity for the sake of convenience.

Just like it was easier to see slaves as less then human. Who wants the hassle of actually dealing with hiring workers to be paid and expect fair treatment and conditions? What an inconvenience, Right?



Ever hear of fruit of the poisonous tree? What do you think the Protestant denominations were protesting?

There are misogynists in every denomination.  Pedophiles and rapists too. 

Your analogy doesn't work, because the slave owner didn't carry the slave in their body.  By forcing women to carry to term, when it is not in her best interest, because of your beliefs, you count women as breeders.  Like cattle.  Or womb-slaves. 

Women own their bodies.
Paints,you say woman own their bodies.What about gays,drunkards and drug addicts?Clearly those 3 are sins against God.What makes abortion any different?

Not looking to debate with you,but God is out of the picture with you and HE views abortion as murder.

If you view the situation to be more important from a womans perspective rather then Gods.....i will accept how you feel and thats that.

It's always interesting when people tell others what God thinks. 

My point is God is available to me,  and I can ask him.   Jesus opened a straight line to God.  For women, too.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on September 11, 2019, 12:35:35 pm
Jesus opened a straight line to God.  For women, too.
And for murdered children.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on September 11, 2019, 01:04:47 pm
Paints,very true Jesus is the mediator to say the prayer in to God.

But it would be unwise to ask him to permit abortion.Maybe you should ask him to help you understand it is NOT supported by him.

And yes i use the bible to support what i write here and i am not getting in to man wrote the bible yaddy yaddy.Thats another discussion.

BTW....God inspired man to write the book what HE wanted in it.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on September 14, 2019, 05:41:34 pm
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.

After the last slaves were freed, women were still property. 
The patriarchal church has tried to keep it that way. 








Seems to me you've got an ax to grind with the Catholic Church. As someone who is not Catholic, this means nothing to me or my argument. My point is that you're not seeing the unborn as a person any more than slave owners saw their slaves as anything more than cattle.

And like slave owners, pro-abortioners don't want the problem of granting their victims humanity for the sake of convenience.

Just like it was easier to see slaves as less then human. Who wants the hassle of actually dealing with hiring workers to be paid and expect fair treatment and conditions? What an inconvenience, Right?



Ever hear of fruit of the poisonous tree? What do you think the Protestant denominations were protesting?

There are misogynists in every denomination.  Pedophiles and rapists too. 

Your analogy doesn't work, because the slave owner didn't carry the slave in their body.  By forcing women to carry to term, when it is not in her best interest, because of your beliefs, you count women as breeders.  Like cattle.  Or womb-slaves. 

Women own their bodies. 



Just thought I'd mention that the fruit of the tree was not 'poisonous'. That is, if you're referring to the tree in the midst of the Garden of Eden that Adam and Eve sampled.

Or is it "Fruit of the poisonous tree is a legal metaphor in the United States used to describe evidence that is obtained illegally. The logic of the terminology is that if the source of the evidence or evidence itself is tainted, then anything gained from it is tainted as well."
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on September 14, 2019, 06:26:36 pm
The tree in Eden is referred to tree of knowledge of good and bad.

God warned them NOT to eat from it or they would die.A&E were not deprived of anything.By obedience they would show their love and accept Jehovah as their rightful ruler.

Satan a rebellious angel used a serpent as a ventriliquist uses a dummy and deceived Eve to make it sound like God was holding something better back from them and they wouldnt die and have their own choice of whats good and bad.Eve was deceived and talked Adam in to disobeying.After the sin Eve blamed the serpent and Adam blamed Eve.Then they realized they were naked and God pronounced judgement on all 3.If you know how to use a bible you can read the accounts in Genesis.

That doomed them and the human race.Pronouncing sentence to the serpent God said there would be a seed to break up the devils sin.That seed was Jesus who gave his perfect sinless life to balance the scales of justice with Adams sin.

God has let the last 6000 yrs of satanic manmade independent rulership apart from his it doesnt work.History shows that.Thats why God didnt kill the rebels immediately.Satan and man have had their chance to govern.It doesnt work.

A&E had the prospect of living forever in a paradise earth but blew it.But jehovah knew some of the human race would obey and love him and his original purpose will be fulfilled.He allowed them to have offspring.Adam died a little over 900 yrs of age.Within God day which is 1000 of our yrs.

Our lives depend on what side we are on.God gave mankind the bible,his prophets and of course Jesus.He didnt leave mankind in the dark.Sadly much of mankind has preferred that.

Satans selfish desire to also be a god worked on many where he was served.But in the end Jehovah proved the devil a liar that NOT all would serve him.It took a heavy price because of what many went thru,especially Jesus.But their faith saw the reward and God will justly reward them for their love of him.

AS Jesus said in Math 12:30 Whoever is not on my side is against me,and whoever does not gather with me scatters.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: paints on October 01, 2019, 11:59:17 am
The faulty logic comes in when any person other than the woman who is pregnant insists that she must stay pregnant.
Not your body, not your business.

Again, you don't seem to be getting the point that slaughtering an unborn life over convenience is what we're talking about. It's not a personal choice to allow murder, because that body is in the womb. It's still a life being taken. 

If the uterus is not in YOUR body, you have NO say.
 



So basically, by your logic Slavery wasn't a human rights issue either.

"Those slaves are not in YOUR plantation, you have no say."

It sounds pretty much like what you're saying to me.

After the last slaves were freed, women were still property. 
The patriarchal church has tried to keep it that way. 








Seems to me you've got an ax to grind with the Catholic Church. As someone who is not Catholic, this means nothing to me or my argument. My point is that you're not seeing the unborn as a person any more than slave owners saw their slaves as anything more than cattle.

And like slave owners, pro-abortioners don't want the problem of granting their victims humanity for the sake of convenience.

Just like it was easier to see slaves as less then human. Who wants the hassle of actually dealing with hiring workers to be paid and expect fair treatment and conditions? What an inconvenience, Right?



Ever hear of fruit of the poisonous tree? What do you think the Protestant denominations were protesting?

There are misogynists in every denomination.  Pedophiles and rapists too. 

Your analogy doesn't work, because the slave owner didn't carry the slave in their body.  By forcing women to carry to term, when it is not in her best interest, because of your beliefs, you count women as breeders.  Like cattle.  Or womb-slaves. 

Women own their bodies. 



Just thought I'd mention that the fruit of the tree was not 'poisonous'. That is, if you're referring to the tree in the midst of the Garden of Eden that Adam and Eve sampled.

Or is it "Fruit of the poisonous tree is a legal metaphor in the United States used to describe evidence that is obtained illegally. The logic of the terminology is that if the source of the evidence or evidence itself is tainted, then anything gained from it is tainted as well."


Matthew 7:18.   
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on October 01, 2019, 06:43:03 pm
English
Tree of the knowledge of good and bad
A tree in the garden of Eden that God used as a symbol of his right to set the standards for mankind as to what is “good” and what is “bad.”​—Ge 2:9, 17.

After creating A&E and putting them in Eden with the prospect of turning the earth into paradise,did Jehovah have a right to rule and decide what was good and bad for man?Of course he did.But he didnt force them either and warned them of consequence.We know the end result.But his original purpose will be fulfilled thru what Jesus did.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: stevensm4 on October 04, 2019, 01:13:10 pm
Abortion shouldn't be banned when considering the extreme case of a rape victim getting pregnant because other cases just show a lack of responsibility.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on October 04, 2019, 02:00:33 pm
Abortion shouldn't be banned when considering the extreme case of a rape victim getting pregnant because other cases just show a lack of responsibility.
Suppose you were the product of a rape victim?Would you have liked to be aborted?

Listen i understand.A woman saying i cant have that monsters baby.If you ever have to rely on God that would be a great time to do so.Plus you can always put the child up for adoption.

We live in a godless world.Someday it wont be that way.Its not a bad idea to show the Creator if we are worthy of living in a world governed by him.The majority dont seem to think so as the world attests to.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: vp44 on October 05, 2019, 08:33:46 am
I will say this a million and more times. It is no one business what a woman does with her body but the woman, man of child and doctor. Not your sin if that is the case and you have no right to interfere in another person choice. Bible thumpers need to worry more about their own life. The bible is rewritten who knows what GOD said and when it was said. Lies of the WHITE man.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on October 05, 2019, 09:48:35 am
I will say this a million and more times. It is no one business what a woman does with her body but the woman, man of child and doctor. Not your sin if that is the case and you have no right to interfere in another person choice. Bible thumpers need to worry more about their own life. The bible is rewritten who knows what GOD said and when it was said. Lies of the WHITE man.
Well you can say it another million times.You arent going to change how Jehovah feels about it and its only HIS decision that will count.

In your last breath im sure you might change your mind and say,"God help me."
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: vp44 on October 05, 2019, 11:09:50 am
I will say this a million and more times. It is no one business what a woman does with her body but the woman, man of child and doctor. Not your sin if that is the case and you have no right to interfere in another person choice. Bible thumpers need to worry more about their own life. The bible is rewritten who knows what GOD said and when it was said. Lies of the WHITE man.
Well you can say it another million times.You arent going to change how Jehovah feels about it and its only HIS decision that will count.

In your last breath im sure you might change your mind and say,"God help me."
In my last breath I will say God bless all.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on October 07, 2019, 05:57:10 pm
I will say this a million and more times. It is no one business what a woman does with her body but the woman, man of child and doctor. Not your sin if that is the case and you have no right to interfere in another person choice. Bible thumpers need to worry more about their own life. The bible is rewritten who knows what GOD said and when it was said. Lies of the WHITE man.
Well you can say it another million times.You arent going to change how Jehovah feels about it and its only HIS decision that will count.

In your last breath im sure you might change your mind and say,"God help me."
In my last breath I will say God bless all.
So you have NO use for the bible.What god will u be asking to bless us all in your last breath.

Just a reminder,Satan is referred also as a god,like Venus,Neptune and others carved out of wood and concrete that are lifeless materials.

1 more thing.....if you have no use for bible u must have another pipeline to a god or Jesus i am assuming.

Do yourself a favor and ur child......let them decide if they might feel the bible is truth.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on December 08, 2019, 12:49:38 pm
Can't bring back any of the dead babies, but is it a bad idea to revive a controversial dead topic in the forum - just to see if any new users react to it?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on December 08, 2019, 01:31:45 pm
Can't bring back any of the dead babies, but is it a bad idea to revive a controversial dead topic in the forum - just to see if any new users react to it?
Obviously i am not a newbie,but i never mind commenting how i feel.

RE Gods view bringing back babies dying in womb.......

https://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/2009285

Please dont drink anything Uget while reading my posts.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on December 08, 2019, 01:39:53 pm
Can't bring back any of the dead babies, but is it a bad idea to revive a controversial dead topic in the forum - just to see if any new users react to it?

Sure; why not? It's not a bad idea; just an idea.

Unfortunately or fortunately, it probably won't change anyone's mind.


Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on December 08, 2019, 05:14:08 pm

Please dont drink anything Uget while reading my posts.


LOL, I will try to remember that in the future!
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on December 10, 2019, 09:50:48 am
I will say this a million and more times. It is no one business what a woman does with her body but the woman, man of child and doctor. Not your sin if that is the case and you have no right to interfere in another person choice. Bible thumpers need to worry more about their own life. The bible is rewritten who knows what GOD said and when it was said. Lies of the WHITE man.

With all due respect, a woman should be responsible for her own body, but her unborn child is not her body. It is a separate entity that is entitled to survive just the same as the mother. The baby has the same right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness as the woman who conceived the baby. Saying a woman is entitled to do whatever she wishes with her body is a cop-out and a baseless argument. Have you ever asked any woman who's terminated the life of her baby what consequences she had to endure, both physical and mental?

It should never be a right of one person to end the life of another. That is defined as murder.

If we all looked out  only for ourselves all the time, the world would be a very sad and lonely place indeed. Love is defined as putting others before ourselves. Do you love anyone besides yourself?  :heart:

I'm sorry that you don't believe that the Bible is the word of God. It's only been substantiated for thousands of years by thousands of people. That's proof enough for most scholars and believers. Look it up.

I am mostly curious about your comment of "Lies of the White man." Can you explain? Are you a person of color? An American Indian?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on December 10, 2019, 11:34:29 am
"Lies of the white man?"

The bible says,Eve was the mother of everyone living,and thru one man sinning caused the growing old and dying of mankind.

The bible being around for 1000s of yrs and translated into 1000s of languages shows its divinity.

Its also a history book and has shown its divinity by predicting future events,such as Jerusalem destruction in 70 CE as 1 example and there are many more,including King Herods inquiring to his men on the birth of the Messiah and they answered him from researching the bible from book of Micah in OT. the truth being born in Bethlehem.The bible even revealed the sadness that prevailed after Herod murdered all the 2 yr olds in Bethlehem after the astrologers never returned back to him to tell him where Jesus was.They were warned by an angel not to return to him cos Herods intent was to kill Jesus and the angel also told Joseph and Mary to go to Egypt till Herod died.Math 2

It also tells us the TRUE Gods name is Jehovah and Jesus is his begotten son and king of Gods kingdom in heaven and on earth forever and will soon put an end to Satanic and manmade rule.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: bshee58 on December 10, 2019, 12:30:00 pm
I don't believe in having to get rid of an unborn child, they have a right to be born, don't end a life before it has a chance to live. Children don't ask to be brought into this world, but once you find out that you are, give him or her life, your parents gave you life.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on December 11, 2019, 10:45:01 am
Did anyone else hear the story about J.K. Dobbins as told by FOX sports announcer Gus Johnson?  (Gus was roundly and unfairly criticized on social media for it afterward).


Dobbins is the star running back for the Ohio State Buckeyes and he had a monster game against rival Michigan in early December. At one point late in the game Dobbins score one of his several touchdowns on the day and Gus said:


"J.K. Dobbins' mom Mya became pregnant when she was 18 years old. She went to the doctor because she was thinking about aborting the baby, but changed her mind. That baby turned out to be that young man, J.K. Dobbins - who she calls her miracle baby."


Being a Buckeye fan, I was fortunate enough to hear this story firsthand during the live broadcast of the game. What a proud and poignant moment that story was! Afterward, many pro-abortion people said Gus crossed the line in telling that story - disclosing personal details about JK and his mom, etc.


My reaction to that criticism = if it was "too personal" or somehow otherwise inappropriate, the story wouldn't have first been shared with Gus in the first place. Kudos to Gus for getting this out there. Kudos to Mya for having the courage to fully contemplate her decision before making the choice that she couldn't take back. And shame (or whatever word you can come up with which is the opposite of 'kudos') on anyone who vilifies either of them for publicly sharing this detail.


Not every baby who survives his or her mother's initial decision to get an abortion is going to turn into an all-pro athlete or someone with a significant impact on society, but who knows how many of these truly inspirational people who otherwise would have been a bright light we have sadly lost never to have known or realized their real-world impacts?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on December 11, 2019, 10:51:58 am
Did anyone else hear the story about J.K. Dobbins as told by FOX sports announcer Gus Johnson?  (Gus was roundly and unfairly criticized on social media for it afterward).


Dobbins is the star running back for the Ohio State Buckeyes and he had a monster game against rival Michigan in early December. At one point late in the game Dobbins score one of his several touchdowns on the day and Gus said:


"J.K. Dobbins' mom Mya became pregnant when she was 18 years old. She went to the doctor because she was thinking about aborting the baby, but changed her mind. That baby turned out to be that young man, J.K. Dobbins - who she calls her miracle baby."


Being a Buckeye fan, I was fortunate enough to hear this story firsthand during the live broadcast of the game. What a proud and poignant moment that story was! Afterward, many pro-abortion people said Gus crossed the line in telling that story - disclosing personal details about JK and his mom, etc.


My reaction to that criticism = if it was "too personal" or somehow otherwise inappropriate, the story wouldn't have first been shared with Gus in the first place. Kudos to Gus for getting this out there. Kudos to Mya for having the courage to fully contemplate her decision before making the choice that she couldn't take back. And shame (or whatever word you can come up with which is the opposite of 'kudos') on anyone who vilifies either of them for publicly sharing this detail.


Not every baby who survives his or her mother's initial decision to get an abortion is going to turn into an all-pro athlete or someone with a significant impact on society, but who knows how many of these truly inspirational people who otherwise would have been a bright light we have sadly lost never to have known or realized their real-world impacts?
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Thanks for this post. How many great people have we lost knowing since the advent of Roe v. Wade. It's mind boggling.

I also heard the comment by this guy early on and how everyone bashed it. Do people really prefer hearing garbage rather than good news? What a sad commentary on this world.  :'(

"Put a little love in your heart and the world will be a better place."  :rainbow:
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Drutts0643 on December 11, 2019, 05:20:58 pm
You can go to hero to zero fast in this world.EX-Judas was 1 of Jesus disciples and after he betrayed him Jesus said it would have been better if he wasnt born.

While a success story of a possible aborted child is good to hear,the bottom line is God views EVERY life sacred....just like there is NO partiallity with worship that is acceptable to him by ANY of us.

We need to ponder if celebrations for example started out with Gods enemy <Satan>or other types of worship we can see why he would say,"quit touching what is unclean in his eyes".

Would u support something from 1 of your enemies?Of course not.Of course im sure ignorance or being blinded is forgiven by God.Lets just see he sees the heart of us all and he will be the judge.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on December 12, 2019, 10:53:38 am
I also heard the comment by this guy early on and how everyone bashed it. Do people really prefer hearing garbage rather than good news? What a sad commentary on this world.  :'(


In this instance, I don't think the pro-murder faction considers this incident to be 'good news.' Since it clearly cuts against their argument in favor of murder, it is most definitely not good news to them. Their programmable directive = "We must silence any reasonable and logical conclusions which chip holes in our position. Gus Johnson must be dealt with in a harsh manner. Our target recruits are robots and must not be permitted to think on their own..."
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: king4cash on December 25, 2019, 07:30:33 pm
Every child that is concieved diserve a chance at life
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on June 19, 2020, 09:34:06 am
I'm pro abortion.  For all these people who are going to force a woman to keep a baby she doesn't want or can't take care of why don't you adopt those kids.

There are plenty of people that are looking to adopt. That is a poor excuse to kill someone. I don't believe it's about forcing a woman to keep a baby she doesn't want. No one should have the power to end an innocent life, especially if you are the reason that the child exists.

If you don't want children at all, then you should think twice before you do the act that produces offspring. There are many birth control options if you are determined not to procreate.

There are right-to-life groups who will help mothers with financial and emotional aid who wish to keep their babies.

Having a baby is not the end of the world; it's a new beginning.  :rainbow:
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: sfreeman8 on June 19, 2020, 11:20:06 am
There has been a lot in the news about this subject. Some are pro-life and some are pro-choice. I'm pro-choice. Most may not agree but I would like to get other opinions.

I used to be okay with a woman making the choice UNTIL I saw a site that explains from beginning to birth the life of a fetus. Since murder consists of someone dying that was previously alive, this should include babies in the womb. A baby has a heartbeat at 12 weeks old. So after that, shouldn't that be considered murder? 

I believe a woman who is raped or her health would be in jeopardy should be allowed to have an abortion. There are a few other reasons to allow abortions, but i'm not okay with everyone being able to have one. Why do I say that? Because since Roe v. Wade, thousands of women believe it's a form of contraception. They have unprotected sex, get pregnant, have an abortion, and start all over again. It's dangerous for the women, death to another being, and I just don't think it should be allowed. Plus allowing abortion up to the date of birth and then severing it's spine at the brain stem. Is that right? No, it's murder. Or selling body parts? Is that right? No.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Donnamarg323 on June 19, 2020, 03:57:12 pm
There has been a lot in the news about this subject. Some are pro-life and some are pro-choice. I'm pro-choice. Most may not agree but I would like to get other opinions.

I used to be okay with a woman making the choice UNTIL I saw a site that explains from beginning to birth the life of a fetus. Since murder consists of someone dying that was previously alive, this should include babies in the womb. A baby has a heartbeat at 12 weeks old. So after that, shouldn't that be considered murder? 

I believe a woman who is raped or her health would be in jeopardy should be allowed to have an abortion. There are a few other reasons to allow abortions, but i'm not okay with everyone being able to have one. Why do I say that? Because since Roe v. Wade, thousands of women believe it's a form of contraception. They have unprotected sex, get pregnant, have an abortion, and start all over again. It's dangerous for the women, death to another being, and I just don't think it should be allowed. Plus allowing abortion up to the date of birth and then severing it's spine at the brain stem. Is that right? No, it's murder. Or selling body parts? Is that right? No.
And the MOST important reason is its murder in Gods eyes.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Donnamarg323 on June 25, 2020, 04:13:05 pm
"Lies of the white man?"

The bible says,Eve was the mother of everyone living,and thru one man sinning caused the growing old and dying of mankind.

The bible being around for 1000s of yrs and translated into 1000s of languages shows its divinity.

Its also a history book and has shown its divinity by predicting future events,such as Jerusalem destruction in 70 CE as 1 example and there are many more,including King Herods inquiring to his men on the birth of the Messiah and they answered him from researching the bible from book of Micah in OT. the truth being born in Bethlehem.The bible even revealed the sadness that prevailed after Herod murdered all the 2 yr olds in Bethlehem after the astrologers never returned back to him to tell him where Jesus was.They were warned by an angel not to return to him cos Herods intent was to kill Jesus and the angel also told Joseph and Mary to go to Egypt till Herod died.Math 2

It also tells us the TRUE Gods name is Jehovah and Jesus is his begotten son and king of Gods kingdom in heaven and on earth forever and will soon put an end to Satanic and manmade rule.
GREAT post Drutts to those ignorant RE bible.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: heypeg on June 25, 2020, 05:20:53 pm
I would never have an abortion but I don't think I have the right to impose my beliefs on someone else.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: king4cash on June 27, 2020, 08:21:16 pm

Life is what is important, abortion is a sin in the eyes of the maker...
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: JediJohnnie on June 29, 2020, 04:19:33 pm
I would never have an abortion but I don't think I have the right to impose my beliefs on someone else.

If abortion is murdering a human life- is that not worth imposing your beliefs on someone else?
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: stevensm4 on June 30, 2020, 07:41:23 am
If we're going to be technical about it, it's not murder if its legal.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Donnamarg323 on June 30, 2020, 07:54:52 am
If we're going to be technical about it, it's not murder if its legal.
Math 15:9 9 It is in vain that they keep worshipping me, for they teach commands of men as doctrines.

Jesus speaking.

When mans laws compromised Gods,Peter said ,"we must obey God as ruler."
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on June 30, 2020, 01:28:09 pm
If we're going to be technical about it, it's not murder if its legal.
Untrue
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: stevensm4 on July 08, 2020, 06:59:06 am
Murder is illegal, abortion isn't but if you want to disregard the legal aspect of it, go right ahead.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Donnamarg323 on July 08, 2020, 07:24:17 am
Murder is illegal, abortion isn't but if you want to disregard the legal aspect of it, go right ahead.
How many innocent people  have been convicted of a crime in mans legal system?

Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 08, 2020, 07:34:00 am
Murder is illegal, abortion isn't but if you want to disregard the legal aspect of it, go right ahead.


I'm gonna go with Donnamarg323 here. Not all of man's laws are the final authority on right and wrong, but if you want to disregard the moral aspect of it, go right ahead.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Donnamarg323 on July 08, 2020, 07:44:03 am
Murder is illegal, abortion isn't but if you want to disregard the legal aspect of it, go right ahead.


I'm gonna go with Donnamarg323 here. Not all of man's laws are the final authority on right and wrong, but if you want to disregard the moral aspect of it, go right ahead.
TY UG.

Jeremiah 10:23

I realize it looks as tho Steven could care less what God has to say on the matter.But as we always say,others read this too and may wanna know what God thinks...and HE says its murder in his word.
King James Version
23 O Lord, I know that the way of man is not in himself: it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps.

Psalm 139:16 16 Your eyes even saw me as an embryo;

All its parts were written in your book

Regarding the days when they were formed,

Before any of them existed.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Mizzkizz7 on July 08, 2020, 12:49:39 pm

Life is what is important, abortion is a sin in the eyes of the maker...

Have you ever thought about the children who grow up and murder their parents? So many stories about that in this world and people are uptight about abortion rights.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 08, 2020, 01:05:42 pm
Have you ever thought about the children who grow up and murder their parents? So many stories about that in this world and people are uptight about abortion rights.


MILLIONS (and I mean millions) more parents murder their unborn children than do children grow up to murder their parents. BOTH circumstances are tragic. It does not have to be one or the other as the sole source of tragedy.


Just because something (a parent murdered by their child) is reported in the news DOES NOT make it more relevant that the daily tens of thousands of abortions that are NOT reported, but are also "stories about that in this world" as you so put it.


EDIT to include source information on my statistics taken from https://www.worldometers.info/abortions/ (https://www.worldometers.info/abortions/):


According to WHO, every year in the world there are an estimated 40-50 million abortions. This corresponds to approximately 125,000 abortions per day.
In the USA, where nearly half of pregnancies are unintended and four in 10 of these are terminated by abortion [1] , there are over 3,000 abortions per day. Twenty-two percent of all pregnancies in the USA (excluding miscarriages) end in abortion. References and useful links:


Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Donnamarg323 on July 08, 2020, 01:34:50 pm
I dont even like putting an animal to sleep......even if its a humane thing to do.

<sob> with abortions.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: linderlizzie on July 08, 2020, 03:43:27 pm
Have you ever thought about the children who grow up and murder their parents? So many stories about that in this world and people are uptight about abortion rights.

MILLIONS (and I mean millions) more parents murder their unborn children than do children grow up to murder their parents. BOTH circumstances are tragic. It does not have to be one or the other as the sole source of tragedy.


Just because something (a parent murdered by their child) is reported in the news DOES NOT make it more relevant that the daily tens of thousands of abortions that are NOT reported, but are also "stories about that in this world" as you so put it.


EDIT to include source information on my statistics taken from https://www.worldometers.info/abortions/ (https://www.worldometers.info/abortions/):


According to WHO, every year in the world there are an estimated 40-50 million abortions. This corresponds to approximately 125,000 abortions per day.
In the USA, where nearly half of pregnancies are unintended and four in 10 of these are terminated by abortion [1] , there are over 3,000 abortions per day. Twenty-two percent of all pregnancies in the USA (excluding miscarriages) end in abortion. References and useful links:


  • Abortion (Wikipedia) (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion)
  • World Health Organization (WHO)  (http://www.who.int/)- Statistics by the World Health Organization
  • [1] Finer LB and Henshaw SK, Disparities in rates of unintended pregnancy in the United States, 1994 and 2001, Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, 2006, 38(2):90–96.
  • [2] Jones RK et al., Abortion in the United States: incidence and access to services, 2005, Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, 2008, 40(1):6–16

You get an "A" on this post. Looks like you really did your research. You were more than likely an excellent student in school; at least on research papers.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: sipingyu on July 11, 2020, 10:02:01 am
I am pro choice too.
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: stevensm4 on July 13, 2020, 08:00:36 pm
To call abortion murder wouldn't be a strict application of the term. A more broad word to use would be homicide (the act of a human being killing another).
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: UGetPaid on July 14, 2020, 03:49:11 am
Homicide can also mean an accidental killing or a self defense killing. Abortion is rarely ever anything but intentional and premeditated. I believe murder is the more direct and appropriate term here. We can disagree and I fully respect your right to do so.
 :peace:
Title: Re: Abortion Ban
Post by: Donnamarg323 on July 14, 2020, 01:35:45 pm


The Bible’s answer
The Bible does not use the word “abortion” in the sense of an induced expulsion of a human fetus. However, many Bible verses provide God’s view of human life, including that of an unborn child.

Life is a gift from God. (Genesis 9:6; Psalm 36:9) He considers all life to be precious, including the life of a child in the womb. So if someone intentionally kills an unborn child, that amounts to murder.

God’s Law to the Israelites stated: “If men should struggle with each other and they hurt a pregnant woman and she gives birth prematurely but no fatality results, the offender must pay the damages imposed on him by the husband of the woman; and he must pay it through the judges. But if a fatality does occur, then you must give life for life.”—Exodus 21:22, 23. *