« on: September 25, 2013, 12:29:47 pm »Message ID: 797758
I'm sorry. What a mess. Are you sure he really wants them?
I had a friend years ago who's ex paid child support but had no contact for the first 4 years of her daughter's life. Suddenly he wanted to get involved and see her; have her come visit (they lived in different states). Turned out he was getting married and wanted to be relieved of child support. Mom was happy to terminate his rights and support so she didn't have to send her 4 year old off to a total stranger 1000 miles away.
Just the threat of a lawyer might be enough to scare him off.