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Off-Topic / Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« on: April 06, 2013, 07:43:36 pm »Message ID: 717314
Hi all,

Haven't posted on here In what seems like ages. So much has happened since my last post. The worst possible thing that could of ever happened took place about a week ago.. I lost custody of my daughter. My entire family have turned their backs on me. They lied to CPS and now my daughter may end up In foster care. I haven't seen her since she was taken. Been trying to keep myself busy so I don't think about It too much because when I do think about It all I end up doing Is cry. This post Isn't going to be very long. A bit down at the moment and I haven't slept yet so I may go curl up In bed.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

Hey geeesh that is horrible I am so sorry you are going through that. You are right that is one of the worse things that can happen to a mother. How can family be the one that hurts you so much and are they not thinking of your baby?? I am sorry hope you can fix things soon. Is there any chance of your baby coming back to you?
Sadly no. I was Informed earlier she'll be going to foster care.

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Off-Topic / Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« on: April 06, 2013, 03:48:30 am »Message ID: 716897
Hi all,

Haven't posted on here In what seems like ages. So much has happened since my last post. The worst possible thing that could of ever happened took place about a week ago.. I lost custody of my daughter. My entire family have turned their backs on me. They lied to CPS and now my daughter may end up In foster care. I haven't seen her since she was taken. Been trying to keep myself busy so I don't think about It too much because when I do think about It all I end up doing Is cry. This post Isn't going to be very long. A bit down at the moment and I haven't slept yet so I may go curl up In bed.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

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Off-Topic / Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« on: January 22, 2013, 05:43:28 pm »Message ID: 676013
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with so much.  That's just awful about ex not helping your little one - I hope they get him and hold him accountable for helping with her expenses.

That's a real shame and disappointing that your family has turned their back on you - that should never happen like that.  For the sake of your daughter, they should be helping to make sure she's taken care of.  (By the way, our family is dealing with a similar thing - because of our dtr-in-law and her mom, our son has nothing to do with our/his whole family.  Plus they have a newborn daughter, and he never told us - I had to see it on Facebook.)

You sound wise about the friend is is jealous of you speaking with other men.  You don't need that on you, with everything else on you.

I sure hope you can start getting some rest - you need it.  Have you ever heard of WIC?  Here is the link - they help women with children up to age 5 with food and supplements.  I have a friend who gets help from them for her 2 year old.  She's in a similar type situation, too, except the ex hurts her and Defax helped to get her a separate place away from him, plus she has a Restraining Order against him.  But WIC has been a very big help for her and her little one.  Let me know if it's something that can help you:

http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/

Hugs!
Yeah I'm hoping with me taking the stuff Into my child support worker that he'll get served soon. As for the WIC, I was getting It but missed an appointment so I've got to go back In and get It set up again. My mom has been helping but she's not 100% reliable though and sometimes makes up excuses on why she won't come over. Going to be a short post, need to make munchkin something to eat. Hope you're doing well, Hugs back!
I hope you can get the WIC going again.  Possibly food stamps, too?  Anything that can help you and your daughter is well worth it during your rough time.  Keep that pretty chin up and hang in there.  I'm thinking of you.
My worker messed up and cut my food stamps and K-Tap and my daughter's medical card. I'm going to try and re-sign back up for food stamps and hopefully get them back.

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Off-Topic / Re: Who is you favorite 80's Rock Band
« on: January 22, 2013, 01:47:14 pm »Message ID: 675920
I Think  Motley Crue  tops My list For  Bands in The 80's.  I Still Hear  their Songs And Still Crank It Up. :wave:
me too  :heart: Motley Crue!

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Off-Topic / Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« on: January 22, 2013, 01:46:10 pm »Message ID: 675919
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with so much.  That's just awful about ex not helping your little one - I hope they get him and hold him accountable for helping with her expenses.

That's a real shame and disappointing that your family has turned their back on you - that should never happen like that.  For the sake of your daughter, they should be helping to make sure she's taken care of.  (By the way, our family is dealing with a similar thing - because of our dtr-in-law and her mom, our son has nothing to do with our/his whole family.  Plus they have a newborn daughter, and he never told us - I had to see it on Facebook.)

You sound wise about the friend is is jealous of you speaking with other men.  You don't need that on you, with everything else on you.

I sure hope you can start getting some rest - you need it.  Have you ever heard of WIC?  Here is the link - they help women with children up to age 5 with food and supplements.  I have a friend who gets help from them for her 2 year old.  She's in a similar type situation, too, except the ex hurts her and Defax helped to get her a separate place away from him, plus she has a Restraining Order against him.  But WIC has been a very big help for her and her little one.  Let me know if it's something that can help you:

http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/

Hugs!
Yeah I'm hoping with me taking the stuff Into my child support worker that he'll get served soon. As for the WIC, I was getting It but missed an appointment so I've got to go back In and get It set up again. My mom has been helping but she's not 100% reliable though and sometimes makes up excuses on why she won't come over. Going to be a short post, need to make munchkin something to eat. Hope you're doing well, Hugs back!

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Off-Topic / Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« on: January 20, 2013, 07:14:12 pm »Message ID: 675115
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

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Off-Topic / Re: fibromyalgia
« on: January 07, 2013, 06:46:18 pm »Message ID: 668516
I also have fibromyalgia as well as bulging In my spine. Due to only having a medical card I cannot seem to get help from any doctor. I get the run around or am sent to a specialist who does not accept my medical card. I'm trying to take care of a special needs 3 year old but It's tough. My doctor gave me 600 MG Gabapentin but they don't work. It's a challenge to even get out of bed In the morning.

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Off-Topic / Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« on: January 07, 2013, 05:02:36 pm »Message ID: 668480
Hi all,


Been a while since I posted and a lot has happened since then. Took my daughter to the doctor and found out she has RSV. Trying to get her better since her doctor will NOT admit her to the hospital due to her only having a medical card, yeah my town is so crappy... add to that her father was called the day i found out about the RSV and he didn't even care nor has even came to see her. I'm struggling just to keep it together on very little sleep, 3 hours if i'm lucky. every day i wake up and want to cry. i'm at a loss on what to do anymore. it's hard to understand how a father can just turn his back on his daughter. he has no plans to ever see her again.


My health is also getting worse. i did a google search and discovered going a long period of time with what little sleep i get can have really horrible consequences ( internal organs can stop working ). so stressed about that and not really eating much either. i'm a complete wreck and sadly nobody in my own family seem to care. i'm 100% on my own..... going to cut this short, can't hardly see to type.

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Off-Topic / Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« on: December 22, 2012, 01:44:39 pm »Message ID: 660383
Hey all,


Man It's been a long time since I've posted. I just recently got Internet back. A lot has happened since I last posted. I am now a single mom ( daughter's father abandoned her ).  It's been a few weeks since my ex has seen his daughter. He doesn't pay child support ( I met with someone about It and he hasn't even been served yet ) so I lost net/cable. My daughter also started preschool early ( she's 3 ) and back In August found out mentally she's only a year old and may be that way forever. Took her to see a specialist who thinks because she was born so early her brain may not have developed fully. She has a neurologist appointment In April so hoping I can find out something then. Going to cut this short. Have not slept yet and I am exhausted.

It's so nice to see you again!  I'm sorry to hear about your daughter's father abandoning her - I hope they can catch up with him and make him pay child support - you need that help.

I hope and pray your daughter will not have to be like that forever.  I do hope you will be able to her the help she will need, and hopefully many of these helps will be covered for any special needs that she may need.

I'm glad you have your internet back.  Hope you catch up with your rest - take care of yourself, too.  {{{Hugs}}}

I'm just going to take him to court. Let him explain to a judge why he's doing her the way he Is. So far she's okay and Is doing great In school. Therapy Is even going well.

Going to cut this short, got a sick kid here at the moment. Hope you're doing well and I'll check back on here later. Merry Christmas {{ Hugs }}

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Off-Topic / Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« on: December 16, 2012, 03:02:48 am »Message ID: 657492
Hey all,


Man It's been a long time since I've posted. I just recently got Internet back. A lot has happened since I last posted. I am now a single mom ( daughter's father abandoned her ).  It's been a few weeks since my ex has seen his daughter. He doesn't pay child support ( I met with someone about It and he hasn't even been served yet ) so I lost net/cable. My daughter also started preschool early ( she's 3 ) and back In August found out mentally she's only a year old and may be that way forever. Took her to see a specialist who thinks because she was born so early her brain may not have developed fully. She has a neurologist appointment In April so hoping I can find out something then. Going to cut this short. Have not slept yet and I am exhausted.

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Payments / Re: Got approved today
« on: March 20, 2012, 08:14:13 am »Message ID: 507865
I got approved today too. Made $50.66 which Is being used towards a night out.

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Off-Topic / Re: How old was your mother when you were born?
« on: March 09, 2012, 12:13:58 pm »Message ID: 502771
My mom was 16 when I was born and my dad was 20. I waited until I was 29 ( celebrated my 30th birthday while pregnant ) to have my only child.

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Off-Topic / Re: Like FC but............................
« on: March 09, 2012, 12:10:40 pm »Message ID: 502770
I really like FC but i'm starting to get boried with it, it the same old thing the offers are getting had to get paid for. Or you have to buy something to get paid. We just need something different to do on here to get paid. Maybe I or someone could think of something different to do soit want be so hard to get paid.

That Is the reason I am also doing surveys on Inbox Dollars. If I've done all I can on here I can just go there and It's a nice change sometimes. There are lots to do on here that Inbox does not do. It's great having 2 places I can make extra money on.

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Suggestions / Re: What is Wrong with Some "Parents?"
« on: March 09, 2012, 12:08:54 pm »Message ID: 502768
It's hard to understand how people can be like that. You agree one minute to take In a child who Is abandoned then decide oh we don't want him now... In my personal opinion, some females as well as males should be born without the ability to have children. I myself have a 2 year old and sure I got pregnant at a weird time ( My boyfriend and I had not been together long when we found out we were expecting ) BUT I could never give my daughter up.


I admit, when I first got pregnant I was happy yes but also scared because as someone said, babies do not come with an Instruction manual. Yes, It's a hard job and some are cut out for It while others should just be slapped senseless for having a child they do not Intend on raising. This Is one of the biggest problems In this messed up world. Too many females have kids then decide they don't want them. It would tear me up Inside knowing someone else was raising my child.

Now on another note, lets say a teenager gets pregnant and has no support at all. I could then understand adoption. I've got a few friends who had a baby at a young age but they decided they had made an adult decision so they needed to take care of their baby themselves. Another big Issue Is drugs. You see It everyday, a woman addicted to drugs has a baby then abandons him/her. I really wish this world were better. I hate that my daughter Is going to grow up In such a messed up world.

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Off-Topic / Re: New Barbie Doll Has Tattoos
« on: February 26, 2012, 03:47:32 pm »Message ID: 496021
I never met a woman that was made MORE beautiful by a tattoo. :dontknow:
I don't have any Tattoos myself BUT I believe It's everyone's choice to do whatever they want. If a female decides to get a Tattoo then go for It. In my opinion having a Tattoo does NOT make a female less attractive.

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