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Off-Topic / Re: Missed you

« on: January 31, 2022, 06:27:28 pm »Message ID: 1367165

Thank you for your advice.  He has started going to anger management.  In counseling I guess I have to take some responsibility.  We both worked to build his company, and when I got pregnant with our first he insisted I stop work.  He worked 2 sometimes 3 jobs to support us and start a business.  I didn’t return to work until our youngest was out of high school, and he didn’t want me to work, but I was bored so I returned.  All of our life he never questioned how much I spent, what I bought, or did we need it.  Then the pandemic came.  In the beginning his work was zero, but I was still working, although I don’t make anywhere what he did, but I was able to support us, and keep paying the bills, but we had to pull some out of savings.   Finally, this year he’s back to working full time, his crew has returned, and the office staff is back.  So I went shopping, first time in 3 years.  I came home and for the first time he asked how much it cost and when I told him, he yelled if I was freaking nuts and take it back.  I refused and yelled I can buy what I want, it’s my money!  He screamed your fxxxxxg money, I thought everything was our money.  The yelling when on and I yelled if it wasn’t for me we would have lost everything, you contributed nothing for 3 years  Then it happened.

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Off-Topic / Missed you

« on: January 22, 2022, 06:49:20 am »Message ID: 1366887

I haven’t been here or any surveys in a few months.  Please don’t judge me for what I’m going to say, but I consider some of you friends and sometimes you have to get things off your chest.  I’ve been married 30 years, we have had our ups and downs like everyone.  We lived in a basement apartment in the beginning, and we worked hard and saved so my husband could start his own construction business (which he has).  No matter how bad or long or loud our fights were there was never any physical until a few months ago.  That was the first time he ever put his hands on me.  After it was over, he apologized over and over.  Swears it will never happen again.  I have never been afraid of him before (I am 5’2” and weigh about 120, he is 6’1” and is muscular due to his work and about 200 ). I now fear him, he could kill me, not saying he would, but I have this fear.  We are going to counseling and trying to work this out.  He has recently moved back into our home, but sleeps in another room, as I lock the bedroom door, even when he said ‘I swear I won’t hurt you again, but locking the door of a house I built seems silly’, that was said as a joke, I know that.  Do I love him, yes. Do I trust him, somewhat.  So that’s my story, sorry it’s so long. 

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Off-Topic / Re: Happy Peperoni Pizza Day

« on: September 20, 2021, 12:31:49 pm »Message ID: 1362489

I love most pizzas!

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Off-Topic / Re: Wildfires-Aluminum Wrap Saves Homes

« on: September 20, 2021, 03:59:56 am »Message ID: 1362475

I just saw on tv last night that’s what they are doing for the trees in California.

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Off-Topic / Re: Survey Monkey's new Name

« on: September 19, 2021, 04:10:02 am »Message ID: 1362432

Sorry but I think that’s a stupid name.  Why change it?

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Support / Re: Forum bonuses expiring?

« on: September 17, 2021, 06:46:15 pm »Message ID: 1362396

I think the $3 bonus is a thing of  the past. 

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Support / Re: Question

« on: September 17, 2021, 06:44:13 pm »Message ID: 1362395

As long as you don’t live in the same household it’s ok.

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Off-Topic / Re: Closed for good

« on: September 17, 2021, 05:33:18 am »Message ID: 1362368

Wanamakers

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Off-Topic / Re: Back after 5 years

« on: September 16, 2021, 03:47:33 pm »Message ID: 1362348

Thank you everyone it feels good to be back. I haven't earned a penny but I am going to keep posting and reading the forum because it's my favorite part about the fusion cash.

Unfortunately it does not pay anymore (at least not this year so far).

Sad, but very true!

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Off-Topic / Re: What's for dinner?

« on: September 16, 2021, 12:52:02 pm »Message ID: 1362343

Today we are having meatloaf, mashed potatoes, salad, asparagus, rolls, and chocolate cake.

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Off-Topic / Re: Thoughts on dating apps

« on: September 16, 2021, 08:05:27 am »Message ID: 1362332

I have a coworker who found her husband on match.com.  I would probably use it, but would be very careful.  Only meeting in public places until I got to know him and trust him.  It’s a shame but you have to be so careful now.

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Off-Topic / Re: Hoagie vs Sandwich

« on: September 16, 2021, 08:02:20 am »Message ID: 1362331

My all time favorite is an 8 inch Philly Cheese from Jersey Mile's with nothing but grilled Beef and melted Cheese

Unfortunately there are no Jersey Mike Hoagies near me, but I heard they are delicious

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Off-Topic / Re: getting ready for fall

« on: September 13, 2021, 04:06:30 am »Message ID: 1362242

Same as we grilled all summer.

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Off-Topic / Re: Is it stealing if

« on: September 13, 2021, 04:05:34 am »Message ID: 1362241

Yeah, I have to agree, it is stealing.

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Off-Topic / Michael Bublé

« on: September 11, 2021, 07:12:43 pm »Message ID: 1362187

Last night I had a girl’s night out.  Three of my friends and I went to a concert with Michael Buble.  It was ok, he sang mostly old songs ( from the 50’s).  For the price we paid for tickets we were disappointed in the concert.  But it was good to spend the night with my friends, went out to a bar, had a few drinks and a lot of laughs.