^_^ I'm here I'm here! Sorry for some reason...still not sure why though...I've been quite busy. Still not sure why though. The weeks just rush by really quick and I'm like "oh it's over?"
I've been riding around with my husband's friend he hung out with while he was in high school helping her run errands. I just started hanging out with her about 3 weeks ago. In this 3 week period she has asked us to borrow money twice. It's not just ten dollars or 20. The first time it was $120 then the second was $100. If I had tons of money sure I would give it to her. But she knows that I'm on unemployment (which has been cut off till now) and looking for a job, and that my husband works his *bleep* off most of the week. I don't wear anything flashy and we live in the same area she does. Actually we live in the apartments right behind her. So I don't know why she would think we have that kind of money.Other then her laps in judgment as to who to ask money for, I like her.
I've also been spending time with my husbands closer friends. They're a little weird and dorky but not so bad. They're these 3 brothers he's known since high school. I feel bad because one of them likes hanging out with this girl and spending his whole check on her (or so that's what his brother's have said to me.) and she still hasn't as his youngest brother said it and for lack of a better term "put out." Lol I'm not saying that women should give up sex just because a guy buys something for her. But I found out that he has been doing this even before I met my husband. Still not saying she should "put out" or anything. But I've been with my husband for about six years now. So that's six years (or more) of him spending money on her and her not even acknowledging him as anything more then an atm. He pays for him and her to ride the bus so that he can take her to work then he rides it back by himself, sometimes he goes back on the bus to pick her up from work. This would be totally cute if she wasn't using him.
Other then that they're all pretty hopeless when it comes to girls. Their mother messed them up. She had them use lemons as deodorant. LEMONS! They sleep in their street clothes then get right back up and keep wearing the same thing. I went to their house one day to help them with their internet, then the next day my husband and I went back to visit them and they were wearing the exact same clothes...ALL 3 OF THEM! Not just one ALL! The oldest one will try talking to a girl but the conversation always ends up with him talking about karate. The youngest one wears a dirty baseball hat everywhere. But he has the best chance of any of them as I see it. I don't know what to tell them. My thought was that if they had a girlfriend they would become cleaner and stuff. But it won't work if they can't get a girlfriend. It's a vicious cycle of bad hygiene.
So that's all I've been doing. I hope you all are well!!! I'll try to be on more. I tire of going outside already.
I got a sunburn. I had covered my whole face and neck and any bit of skin that showed through but I totally missed a part of my skin that was exposed. It was a small bit that was near the neck opening of my shirt and the tank top I had under it. So it's like a weird triangle. No more of that!
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