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« on: March 23, 2010, 10:29:20 am »Message ID: 153143
Sometimes people just don't know how to deal with their parents because things have always been that way in their family. It is good that your husband albeit late showed that he has some limits. Your husband and you should go to a good counselor and discuss your boundaries. And it may not be that your husband has no respect for you concerning his mother, he apparently does not like confrontation.
There also seems to be some drinking problems that need to be addressed. That always complicates things. Also I wouldn't be surprised if Mommy has managed to drive off other women that he may have some real insecurities there. Don't give him an ultimatum if you can't honestly give him another chance. Its hard but remember your husband is responsible for his actions not for his mothers. You have to be honest and let him know what you expect him to do in these circumstances...most men blow it with us because they don't know how we want them to handle things. If you love him give him another chance. Best with a counselor because there is a lot of water under the bridge. Good luck.