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Off-Topic / Re: Having a stroke and cheating spouse.

« on: December 20, 2011, 09:13:15 am »Message ID: 463414

What does he say about the situation?     Love is very funny at times   You sound like you have a good   But, when he gets well, will he divorce ? What is your angle?   What do you want?

He is not happy about any of this. When he first found out that she was cheating he told her if she would come back at that point he would forgive her as long as it did not happen again. She said she could not promise it would not happen again and refused to come home. My concern is that now that he is out of her reach, she is stringing him along to keep his interest so she will have a safe guard when she needs it as she has done before. I am tired of seeing him hurt because of this child. She has tried to split our friendship up before he got sick. Right now what I want is irrelevant. He and I have been best friends for about 25 years. I want him to get better and to be happy. I have been told many times that I am going beyond friendship but neither of us have family close enough to help and I do not mind doing so. I just do not like how it was done.

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Off-Topic / Re: New Year

« on: December 20, 2011, 09:00:40 am »Message ID: 463405

I usually do not do New Years resolutions or challenges. I usually disappoint myself. This past year though I have surprised myself at how strong I can be and how well I have done with coming to love myself. I was not planning on losing weight this year but I have lost about 80 pounds since the past Christmas which is a milestone for me and I plan for next year to lose another 50 pounds. That is my goal and challenge. I also plan to continue on the track of becoming who and what I want to be irregardless of the obstacles that are in my path.

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Off-Topic / Having a stroke and cheating spouse.

« on: December 20, 2011, 08:54:55 am »Message ID: 463396

Not sure how I wanted to title this. The short of the story is my best friend had 2 anuerysims which caused a major stroke at the end of September. We nearly lost him that night. They had to cut half of his skull off to remove a baseball size blood clot. His wife stayed with him non stop the first week in the hospital. As the weeks went by the less she was with him until the last week he was in there she was not there at all. He was only there for a month. I had to quit my job to take care of him because he needs some one there 24/7 until he can get his skull replaced. When he came home she only came around once a week for a few hours and hardly talked to him at all. Found out for sure Thanksgiving she had been cheating on him for at least a month. Sad thing is she just got out of jail back in June and he stood by her and supported her the year and a half she was in there.

Once her family found out what was going on they moved us in with them so I could get a job and some one would be with him while I was out. Now she tries to talk to him every day. Only thing is she is always wanting something from him. I know he is hurting because of all if this, but I can not understand how you can say you love some one and will never leave or hurt them but as soon as things get bad you take off on the first gravy train that accepts you.

Any thoughts on this?

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Off-Topic / Re: what time to you usally go to bed and wake up

« on: December 20, 2011, 08:42:58 am »Message ID: 463388

I am also an Insomniac. I go to sleep any where from midnight to 2 am. I wake up at least twice for about 30 minutes each then am up no later than 6 or 7 am.

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Off-Topic / Re: When should I cash out?

« on: December 20, 2011, 08:40:15 am »Message ID: 463386

I just watch my account and when my cash is about to expire than i cash out, works pretty well for me.

Thank you, where does it say cash out about to expire?...

When you go to your account page it will list all the offers you are getting credited for. Beside each offer it will tell you when it was credited. Once it gets close to the 6 month period in red beside the offer it will tell you how much time you have left before you lose the credit.

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Off-Topic / Re: dumb questions

« on: December 13, 2011, 10:45:56 am »Message ID: 460609

my questions....what is the purpose of the quote button, and why would we need it? Its very confusing to tell heads or tails about whos saying what to who!
                     why are some subjects locked? are they to old, or inappropriate,
                     what makes someone a full member, how long will I be a "newbie"
                     sometimes I want to reply, but cant find the reply button!
                     If you need 30 posts to get the bonus, why do they only ask for 3 message ID#?

I realize theres a chance that these questions will make me look like a moron, but what the heck. I suppose I could go look up the rules myself, but I know there are those of you who realy like answering stupid questions from stupid people! so humor me here , please! (all in good fun) Thanks....
                     
                     
         

I have and answer for a couple of you questions. There is a reply button toward the top of the post you are viewing. You need 30 posts in a month. From those 30 you pick out three  informative to send it for the credit. I don't know how long your a 'newbie'. I think I still am to and I have been her more than 3 months.

I am going to answer a few sfister did not answer.  Subjects get locked for many reasons. They are older post or duplicate post or there was a controversy that needed to stop. As far as Ranking up on the forum it is based off of how much you post. So sfister you are a full member in your status hun    the quote button is if you are wanting to just respond to a certain persons post you can quote them so they know it is for them. And no they do not make you look like a moron. It is always good to ask questions.

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Off-Topic / Re: how many times a day do you eat

« on: December 13, 2011, 09:24:33 am »Message ID: 460570

It depends on my mood and what I am doing that day. I try to eat atleast one full meal a small meal and a couple of healthy snacks every day.

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Off-Topic / Re: How important is your parent's opinion?

« on: December 13, 2011, 09:22:54 am »Message ID: 460569

I have always done things so other people will be happy even if it means I wont be including my parents, but I have finally got to a point of where my own happiness means more. I still value what my parents think of me, but if they can not be happy for me and proud of what I have accomplished then that is their fault. Even though I live states away from them they still want to try and control me. The thing is I am finally happy and love myself and being where I am has done that for me.

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Off-Topic / Re: HEY ALL

« on: December 13, 2011, 09:18:37 am »Message ID: 460567

Try and spend an hour or two every day to FC here doing the surveys and dailies and the forum. Dont give up when a survey turns you down just keep at it. Before you know it you will have money coming in.

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Off-Topic / Re: What is your middle name?

« on: December 13, 2011, 09:12:43 am »Message ID: 460564

My middle name is Diana which is my mother's middle name and I plan on passing it to my daughter if I ever have one.

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Support / Re: should i cash out yet?

« on: August 15, 2011, 03:42:44 pm »Message ID: 402379

Hey this is my first time cashing out . should i wait untill the end of this month to cashout or should i do it now? i have $25.75 i did have like $26 but one of my offers got declined when i tried to cashout a week ago.

It actually depends. If I have offers that are going to expire I usually try and go ahead and cash out right before they do.

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Offers / Re: Games

« on: August 15, 2011, 03:40:40 pm »Message ID: 402378

How did you manage to get credit for all of them? I can't get credit for none of them because I never seem to be able to reach the minimum required score to receive credit.

There are quite a few of us on here that are gamers, or are just too persistent to give it up lol.

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Off-Topic / Re: Smallest coin you will pick up on the street? penny, nickel, quarter?

« on: August 15, 2011, 08:53:06 am »Message ID: 402183

I pick up any change that I see. In one day all I did was pick up pennies on my 6 hour walk and wound up with fifteen cents. So they add up.

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Support / Re: Survey and offers no credit given

« on: August 15, 2011, 08:50:18 am »Message ID: 402179

Yea I know all that and have not had a problem before with the stuff crediting. I also do not do the downloads unless I know and trust the site I am getting them from. I know the site the games are on and have used it before. They credited me for one of the games I played just not the others. This is also the first time a survey has not credited to my account. It credited the next time I took it though. Put in a ticket and was told it takes up to 7 days to credit sometimes. I was just curious cause I played all the games with in a few days of each other. Thank you for responding Swogden.

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Payments / Re: Do you have a job?

« on: August 15, 2011, 08:42:34 am »Message ID: 402175

Had to make an appointment to fill out an app at one place they wound up going ahead and doing the first interview. The girl was so impressed that instead of rescheduling me to come back for the second interview she had the owner join us in her office and get it out of the way. I start tomorrow lol