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Ada652

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feel so alone....?
« on: December 26, 2009, 08:52:50 pm »
What do you do when you feel so alone?

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« Reply #1 on: December 26, 2009, 10:03:26 pm »
Find something to do.  It depends, I do a lot of stuff alone, but I don't feel lonely when I do them.  For me I sometimes feel lonely when I'm with other people.  If you're feeling alone don't be because you're never really, if you're feeling lonely do something to keep yourself busy, maybe a part-time job or a place you can volunteer at to meet people that will make you feel like your making a difference in someone else's life as well as your own.

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« Reply #2 on: December 26, 2009, 10:16:11 pm »
Yes Alot But I try my best to deal with it. Force myself to get out even if it's just to the corner store,that volunteer idea is something I have been thinking about doing plus it is probably rewarding and that's going to make you feel good. I would check into it also. The hospital are always looking for volunteers. If you don't have a pet maybe consider getting one. Come here to talk online take surveys not only here different places but this is the best I have found so far. And their are other things you can do to feel not so alone, But sometimes no matter what you do to feel not alone you get that feeling aways. take care :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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« Reply #3 on: December 27, 2009, 07:31:33 am »
Man what I wouldn't do to feel alone..... :(

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« Reply #4 on: December 27, 2009, 08:08:27 am »
I've been alone most of my life.  Doesnt bother me.  Even when I was married, I was alone....

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« Reply #5 on: December 27, 2009, 08:59:12 am »
Do you feel alone because you don't feel included or don't "fit in" ? Or are you lonely because there is no one to interact with ? If the first, volunteering is great. So many people need you. Even a pet can help. A dog or cat will always need you and want attention. If you are lonely because there truly is no one around, try the many social networks online, facebook etc. or get out of the house if you can. Take a class or pick up a new hobby.

Finally, if it's holiday blues, it will pass. Spring is just around the corner.

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« Reply #6 on: December 27, 2009, 09:57:44 am »
I think the holidays are really awful for people that are alone. I don't have that problem (thankfully) but I would think that trying to surround yourself with people you care about and trying to keep yourself busy would help.

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« Reply #7 on: December 27, 2009, 10:57:33 am »
i like to listen to music and i write a poem

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« Reply #8 on: December 27, 2009, 11:24:19 am »
I can always entertain myself by reading books, researching online, listening to music, etc. when I am alone. I used to draw when I was bored, but not anymore. I just got too lazy to sketch anything. I never feel alone-alone. ;D Being alone is actually a relaxing feeling for me without the everyday chaos.  :)
I see that you have started a couple of interesting topics. What do you actually do when you feel alone?  ;)

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Re: feel so alone....?
« Reply #9 on: December 27, 2009, 12:24:16 pm »
Man what I wouldn't do to feel alone..... :(

HA I completely agree on some days.
To feel blissfully alone with nobody to worry about but yourself.

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« Reply #10 on: December 27, 2009, 02:12:16 pm »
I'm always alone. Well, until my roommate returns from Nebraska. Most All of my other friends are in other states or countries, so I spend most of my time on IRC or other chat rooms. Basically, I'm just your typical nerd with no real social life. :awesome:

But seriously, what do I do? I listen to music, write, work on some of my projects...I am going to try and get out more often, though. Probably when I get a job again, and maybe start school.
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« Reply #11 on: December 27, 2009, 02:14:30 pm »
sometimes, sometimes not,,

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« Reply #12 on: December 27, 2009, 03:09:15 pm »
Not that I can think of.  I stay home and have 6 kids from 11 to 3 so alone really isn't an option right now. Hope to feel it someday, but not holding my breath. 

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« Reply #13 on: December 27, 2009, 03:58:56 pm »
WHEN IM ALONE...I WATCH T.V...WHEN IM BORED AND ALONE...I WATCH T.V N EAT....WHEN IM ALONE BORED, AND DEPRESSED I WATCH T.V. EAT, AND CRY...LOL.
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Re: feel so alone....?
« Reply #14 on: December 28, 2009, 12:22:23 am »
I would go for a walk...I also would get a pet!!  :)

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